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Politics / US Navy Rescues128 African Migrants From Mali, Nigeria, Senegal In Rough Seas by SherlockHolmes1(m): 3:33am On Oct 18, 2013
ROME (AFP) – A US warship has rescued 128 African migrants from an inflatable raft that was threatening to capsize in rough seas in the Mediterranean after a request from Malta, officials said Thursday.
The USS San Antonio, which is equipped with an amphibious transport dock that can help in rescue operations, was scrambled on Wednesday after a Maltese military aircraft spotted the dinghy.
“We successfully transferred 128 men between the ages of 20 and 30 from an inflatable raft on the San Antonio,” a US Navy official in Italy told AFP.

“The raft was being rocked by winds and seas and we had expected that overnight the seas would increase. If they were to be left out to sea they would probably be in the water right now,” he said.
“We provided food, water, medical attention and temporary shelter.”
The Maltese military said the migrants were mostly Gambian even though they had earlier said they were from Somalia. They were later transferred onto two patrol boats and taken to Malta.
The others were from Burkina Faso, Guinea, Guinea-Bissau, Mali, Nigeria, Senegal and Sierra Leone.
Malta said they were rescued around 75 nautical miles southwest of the Mediterranean island state.
Italy this week launched a stepped-up navy patrol operation in the Mediterranean to scare off people smugglers and put pressure on Europe for further assistance amid a growing influx of refugees.
More than 400 asylum seekers have drowned this month in two tragedies in the Mediterranean.
The Italian coast guard meanwhile released video footage of the arrival in Sicily on Wednesday of a Liberian-flagged cargo ship that rescued 93 African migrants — the latest in over 32,000 who have arrived on Italy and Malta so far this year.
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Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 11:18pm On Oct 13, 2013
Waspy: Three things don't change...Change itsef, a lady like Op's girl, and lastly, a lady like Op"s girl.
Dude, you never start d journey and you already feeling the heat..IMHO, you are in for a long thing


grin grin grin


uniqueval:


Son, you not ready for marriage if this is your reason for being indecisive with this girl. You never jam babe wey dey scatter house or break bottle wen she vex. You can't get a 10/10 in your quest for a perfect partner. #BeWise

I guess am not... grin grin
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:52am On Oct 13, 2013
ok...update!


barely a 10days after we had a little misunderstanding, she said we should just be friends that we are better as friends... She is seeing someone else and i believe she was seeing him while we were still dating....hmmn...Trust no gal. She said the person wants to marry her and that she will soon join him to go visit his parents... ALL in ALL her plans of being married unfailingly early next year must come to pass... Now i think i have some pity for her...May God not make her fall into the wrong hands out of being desperate to get married.... And na very fine babe!
Politics / Re: Public Relations Head Of Security Agencies In Nigeria: Who Is Your Best Pick? by SherlockHolmes1(m): 6:57pm On Oct 09, 2013
Your review on the civil defence cracked me up....nutty babe grin grin grin
Politics / Re: APO KILLINGS : Thoughts Of A Nigerian by SherlockHolmes1(m): 10:39pm On Sep 23, 2013
hmmn...thinking is hard work o... but u have a point though... what surprised me more was the fact that Police said they wanna investigate the DSS... laughable. its like a blind man trying to lead a one eyed man...

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Politics / Re: Farida's Letter Begging Obasanjo To Influence Her Reappointment Exposed! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 9:40am On Sep 17, 2013
na me post the thread...but i have a question: Is this letter really authentic?
Politics / Farida's Letter Begging Obasanjo To Influence Her Reappointment Exposed! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 9:39am On Sep 17, 2013
Three days ago, Nigerians were regaled with a threat by former Economics and Financial Crimes Commission Chairman, Farida's Waziri to expose former President Obasanjo after he revealed that she was tainted by corruption. Africa had painted herself in glowing colors and not only insulted Obasanjo, but highlighted her sterling anti corruption qualities. However, contrary to her vituperations against the former President, it has since been revealed that Farida begged Obasanjo to "compel" President Goodluck Jonathan to reappoint her for a second term.

The letter also showed that Farida Waziri tried to induce Obasanjo to support her second term bud by reminding him that she was going after his political enemy, former Ogun State Governor, Otunba Gbenga Daniel.

NaijaPundit brings you the letter below.

http://www.naijapundit.com/news/photonews-farida-s-letter-begging-obasanjo-to-influence-her-reappointment-exposed

Romance / Re: BB Wahala With My Girlfriend..does She Really LOVE ME. by SherlockHolmes1(m): 12:51pm On Sep 12, 2013
Do u intend marrying her?
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:06pm On Sep 07, 2013
lupey: I think the only thing that can change her is experience. If you are complaining abt this same attitude,I'm sure her ex's saw it too(that's if this same attitude didn't cause the end of those relatnshps),and I'm sure if u broke up with her 2day her bf's to be wld see this very same trait.

Taking in2 cognisance that men crave respect,its not far-fetched that u want 2 be respected and its our duty as women 2 give it 2 u. A lady like her would only change through personal efforts. She would have 2 recognise it as her weakness and decide 2 change. When she loses a good no of good guys js causa a stinky attitude,no1 would teach her 2 change

Issalright
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 5:42pm On Sep 07, 2013
Teenzy: Since u've realized u cant cope wit her attitude n she aint ready 2 change,u really nid 2 b wif smeone who'll respect ur feelings cos it might get worse after marriage....If u cnt cope wit her u've gat 2 port Asap!!


Thats my fear...''the getting worse after marriage part'' I thot i could just tolerate it but as long as we keep communicating it might not be something i can tolerate the ''worse'' of .... cos i would be very unhappy regardless of the love i have for her,
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 4:47pm On Sep 07, 2013
Uyi Iredia: ^^^Have you told her this ? You should, since it appears you've tried the indirect means.

Countless times...it had even brought problems between us and so on cos at a point she complained that i complain too much and i should love her just the way she is but i really do want to get married to her, i CANT... If you read all my response, u would understand better.
Romance / Re: Let's Solve The "Husband Scarcity" Syndrome. by SherlockHolmes1(m): 4:37pm On Sep 07, 2013
The issue why most of them are single especially between 20 and 30 yrs is this: Most nigerian ladies dont know how to talk to men and by the time they realize their offensive trait and decide to change,they are already above 30... I might be biased with my observation cos i am in a similar pot about jumping out but i have seen it repeatedly with even women i am not intimate with. I would rather be single than get married to a woman that i have to run out of the house for cos she talks arrogantly.

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Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 4:27pm On Sep 07, 2013
alutacontinua: I might be wrong but you pass across as you might be the one with the issue. Maybe you read meanings into little inconsequential things in the name of 'she must respect me'. Try and look inside, the problem might be with you. If her friends are not complaining and her siblings, if she has a boss who is fine with her, you might be the issue.

However, if you cannot live with her (irrespective of whoever has the problem), you have to let her go, if both of you are not ready to work on it!


When we spoke about why her last relationship fell apart, she said the guy complained that she does not respect him and that he does not do things that make her to respect him...i thot maybe she did not luv the guy enough or the guy was outrightly doing sumtin wrong or sumtin... I came into the picture and decided to treat her right but the arrogance just keeps seeping out...
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:51am On Sep 07, 2013
Kikiani: it is better for a man to live without a roof over his head than live with a scorpion tongued woman.

The book of Proverbs has something similar to this...Thanks!

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Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 7:40am On Sep 07, 2013
uj_sizzle: Never marry a woman who doesn't/can't/won't respect you.

I'll advise you tell her why u're breaking up with her if u decide to. It's only fair she knows her attitude is her real problem so she realises how serious this is.


I appreciate this coming from a lady...
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 7:39am On Sep 07, 2013
ITbomb: I wonder how long you two have been together .
In a very long term marriage after the initial love, passion etc has been done with, it is respect and a commitment to be together that keeps couple together .
Do not ever enter marriage just on the premise of LOVE


Thank you Sir....true talk
Romance / Re: Ladies Would You Let Your Wedding Go On With This?? (picture) by SherlockHolmes1(m): 4:38am On Sep 07, 2013
With the desperation among women these days to get married... they could even trek miles to the venue...they no send you.

Read this thread you will know what am talking about: https://www.nairaland.com/1428871/nigerian-ladies-worry-over-scarcity

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Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 4:36am On Sep 07, 2013
Rhemar: I believe she can still change though it's a very bad trait dat can't b overlooked. But does she really sees it d way u c it too b'cos there are pple who possess some negative traits as these who are uncomfortable wt it; if she shows any willingness 2 change then she can probably do bt if otherwise u can then give up on her.

She thinks she can change sometimes and other times she believe its just her and i that i complain too much and then sometimes she does not even know she is doing it...until i draw her attention to it and some times she does it intentionally cos she has said it once that she knows what she is doing so right now i dont even know what to believe anylonger ....I am as confused about it as you might be right now..
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 10:38pm On Sep 06, 2013
owolabifunke14: You can change her if you apply common sense

Teach me please... cos sumtimes common sense aint that common u know
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 10:28pm On Sep 06, 2013
maxwello.yg:

My friend, do you really need God to appear in your dreams and tell you to let go of that disrespectful kid?


grin grin grin nice one...Thanks! grin
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 9:05pm On Sep 06, 2013
sanb: This is an issue of disrespect…..a few things you need to be aware of are; never marry someone cos of pity and never marry someone and expect them to change; cos you can’t change anyone unless the change comes from them..I'll give you 3 options;

1)Accept her the way she is;
2)Stay with her and continue to advice her to change….(there’ll be drama involved); and
3)Walk away now if you can’t cope with her character

The choice is yours….but note that if you can’t see a solution to this problem now in relation to how she relates/talks to you; then be rest assured that it’ll get worse after marriage; cos her feet would've been firmly placed on the ground….

Remember, life’s too short to be sad in your relationship/marital life…..cos marriage is not a bed of roses….my 2 cent and all the best…..


You too much... I love your well articulated response!
Romance / Re: I Can't Fall In Love Again, Pls Help by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:46pm On Sep 06, 2013
Give urself time bro...
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:38pm On Sep 06, 2013
idnoble135: A gentle man will never raise his hand against a lady.

I will never do that, i have not said or implied such.
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:37pm On Sep 06, 2013
And the funny thing is...she is insisting that she wants to get married between now and next year unfailingly... I told her i was not ready till 2015( and i said this cos i wanted to really observe her attitude to see if she is capable of changing) and she decided to break up with me...with reasons that i dont know what i want. I called her back and explained to her that let us watch how our compactibility improves btw now and december,if all thing go well, i will visit her parents next year. She agreed and we got on the saddle again and barely two weeks after our new resolution, last night was another round of careless talk... Its getting tiring...i hate giving up on sumtin but in this case, i hav to let go.
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:26pm On Sep 06, 2013
intbizoil: My brother how old is she, you have to assert your authority as a man unless she would take you for granted. You have to draw on what you expect from her so that she would think twice whenever she wants to cross it. Talking from a whole lot of experience

We have gotten to that point where i drew a line, she apologised and said she wuld work on it...two weeks later we are back to square one...its really crazy.


idnoble135: If she talks anyhow to you and even her sister, most likely she will one day do it to your mom and your family.
I wont tell you to leave her. Why would i?
If you can put up with her, marry her. If you cant, let her go. IMO, this are your options. Its your choice.

That is my fear....i have a feeling she would one day do that to my family and i dont want to imagine how that will go.

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Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:18pm On Sep 06, 2013
I also observed that she sometimes relate with her elder sister too in such careless disregard and i once asked the elder sister if her younger sister respects her...she said yes cos obviously, she wont talk bad about her sis... I have a feeling that if i end up marrying her, i will end up running far from her when the shi.t hits the fan especially coupled wit the pressures that come with marriage.
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:12pm On Sep 06, 2013
idnoble135: Talk to her about it.
Especially when she is calm and cheerful.
A great man once said about relationships; "There are some things that people get angry about in relationships that their partner does not even know annoy them."

hmmn...I have talked countless times and she see it like i complain about her and that i dont love her for who she is and that i am looking for a perfect person... So i got tired of talking abt it even wen she is cheerful cos it wuld seeem like raising dust and she becomes defensive. I thought i could just ignore it and focus on her good sides but its hard to ignore it when u are being talked to in manners that suggest rudeness...repeatedly.
Politics / Nigeria To Deploy Soldiers For Peace-Keeping In Liberia- Army by SherlockHolmes1(m): 8:02pm On Sep 06, 2013
The Army recently withdrew several soldiers from foreign operations because of domestic duties.
The Nigerian Army will deploy 700 soldiers for Peace Support Operation in Liberia, a military official has said.
The Commandant, Nigeria Army Peacekeeping Centre, Major General Salihu Uba, said this on Friday in Kaduna.
Mr. Uba said that the personnel, drawn from the 22 Battalion, would serve for six months. He said this at the end of the pre-deployment training conducted for the soldiers at the centre in Jaji, Kaduna State. He commended them for their professionalism, and urged them to be good ambassadors of Nigeria.
The commandant assured that the centre would continue to expand its facilities “to provide first class training to troops and participants”.
“The vision of the Nigerian Army peacekeeping centre is to deliver realistic training to potential peacekeepers for the multidimensional challenges of contemporary peace support operations,” he stated.
Mr. Uba added that the centre had been discharging its role creditably, which earned it a certificate of recognition from the United Nations, as Centre of Excellence.
The General Officer Commanding 2 Division, Major General Ahmad Jibrin, charged the soldiers to be focused, professional and efficient in discharging their mandate.
Mr. Jibrin, represented by Brigadier General Johnson Oladende, warned them against involvement in drug trafficking and disrespecting the culture of their host country.
He assured that the army would continue to live up to expectations in safeguarding world peace.
The Nigerian Army recently withdrew several hundreds of soldiers in peace keeping operations in foreign countries so as to have more personnel to fight the Boko Haram insurgency in Northern Nigeria and the increased crude oil theft in the Niger Delta.

http://premiumtimesng.com/news/144259-nigerian-deploy-700-soldiers-peace-keeping-operations-liberia-army.html
Romance / Re: Seven Complicated Facts About Ladies by SherlockHolmes1(m): 7:47pm On Sep 06, 2013
Confusion incorporated... Sometimes i really wonder if they truly know what they want...cos their mouth say something and they do something else... Sometimes i feel we are wasting our time trying to understand women cos it seem like an impossible feat...
Romance / Re: I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 7:40pm On Sep 06, 2013
A friend told me that that is how women are but i refuse to believe that....yes nobody is perfect but common....arhhh
Romance / I Love Her But I Cant Deal With The Way She Talks! by SherlockHolmes1(m): 7:38pm On Sep 06, 2013
I love this fine young lady but whenever she is not in a romantic mood, the way she talks really hurts me cos she finds it hard to address a man with respect when she talks...she talks like she is talking to her fellow girlfriend or something and sometimes she does it intentionally...
I had hopes of getting married to this lady but i am having second thots cos in Marriage, love is not enough... You need to be able to live with that person you luv for a long time... If u ask me why i luv her, i dont have any specific reason to be honest with you.

I was hoping she would change with time cos i hav been talking to her about it but after a while, she relapses back to her default mode... I have given up all hopes of getting married to her though its hard but i cant get into sumtin that i eventually regret in the long run...

If you gat any tips the way forward pls let me know cos we are still ''dating''. I have given up several times but found myself giving it another try.

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Politics / Jonathan’s 2nd Term ’ll Ensure Stability — Edeoga by SherlockHolmes1(m): 4:40am On Sep 04, 2013
One-time spokesman of the House of Representatives and currently Special Assistant to President Goodluck Jonathan on National Assembly Matters, Hon. Chijioke Edeoga weekend spoke with selected journalists on various national issues. Excerpts:
Some people like Orji Uzor Kalu claim President Goodluck Jonathan will truncate the chances of the Igbo presidency if he contests in 2015. Do you agree?
They are entitled to their opinions so far they fall within the ambit of the law. Orji Kalu and people who share his views can also test their popularity.
Orji Kalu can speak for himself or any platform of his, but not on behalf of Igbo people neither can I speak for the rest of the Igbo people. The Igbo are wise enough to cast their votes where they feel they are best protected.
I sincerely believe that if Jonathan declares an interest to contest for the presidency in 2015, a majority of the Igbo will vote for him based on his scorecard in office and for the sake of continuity. It is also in the strategic interest of Nigeria that Jonathan seeks second term.
How strategic is it?
A convention of rotational presidency is emerging. From 1999, for instance, it started with the South-West, where Olusegun Obasanjo did two tenures. It rotated to the North-West. Unfortunately Musa Yar’Adua died in office. The power automatically by law devolved to Jonathan.
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Chijioke Edeoga
Chijioke Edeoga
He completed the tenure and ran on his own and won. The important thing that has happened is that the presidency moved from the South-West to the North-West and then to the South-South.
Rotational presidency is a necessary Nigerian invention to address Nigeria’s differences. It seeks to build a homogenous national entity. If the contest is left for numerical strength as it is claimed, it might not have gone to the South-West.
Obasanjo would not have qualified because he did not even win in his ward as the PDP constitution stipulates. These are sacrifices that we have to make for the national unity. When Yar’adua died, the rotation went to the South-South which is in tandem with the rotational principle.
When Jonathan serves his second term, it will go to any other zone where it has not gone at least in the current democratic dispensation. It can go to the South-East or the North-East. If rotational presidency is adopted, the acrimony that goes with the contest will be eliminated.
Rotational presidency will also address the issue of some people who feel that they are entitled to some political offices in this country. There are also some people who feel alienated from Nigeria because they feel there is a particular limit they can aspire in the Nigerian polity. Rotational presidency will create a conducive atmosphere where every Nigerian can aspire to become president.
You are a lawyer. Can’t rotational presidency be enshrined in the Nigerian constitution?
It is an evolving convention. A convention is also a legal precept. A convention practised overtime becomes not really a law in terms of written, but acceptable by everybody.
Law-making has various stages. If something happens overtime and it is not resisted, it becomes a convention. There are people in this country, mainly from the North-West and the South-West, who want to truncate the emergence of this convention.
The position of the South-West in this matter is understandable but not excusable. The South-West, under Obasanjo, had its turn of eight years. The South-West governors, under the platform of the Alliance for Democracy, created an enabling environment for Obasanjo to complete his second term.
If the rotation endures, it will return to the South-West when other zones had done theirs. There are elements in the South-West who will not allow this scenario to play out. They were the same people who relinquished their gubernatorial positions for Obasanjo.
Today they have evolved from the Action Congress of Nigeria to the All Progressives Congress. They now agitate that the presidency is up for grabs.
They are the same persons who are putting pressures on Rivers state governor Chibuike Amaechi to do unto Jonathan what they refused to do unto Obasanjo.
That is the duplicity in Nigeria’s political situation. But if they help in truncating it, it will create a situation of fluidity. The most important thing for them is that the system has been truncated, then other factors will come into it.
Even the attack of religious politics that the APC levelled against Jonathan is something that is in ACN or the APC as it is now called. The APC is now trying to zone the position of the vice president to either the South-South or the South-East.
Recall also that the days when the Igbo aligned with the North and accepted the position of vice president, the South-West media kept attacking the Igbo as taking the crumbs from the northern table.
Remembering our history
But now it is the same South-West that plans to zone to the South-East or South-West the same position which they derided the Igbo. We must remember our history.
What is your take in the recent deportation of the Igbo by the Lagos state government?
I have a lot of soft spot for Tunde Fashola, so I don’t want to make negative comments about him, more so with some restraints he has shown in this matter. It is evident that he has realised that he has erred.
There is nothing in his history that indicates that he is headed in that direction, so people are entitled to their mistakes once in a while. It is not a reason why we should create loopholes for rabble-rousers to begin to build mountains out of a molehill.
It is not only in the South-West that the Igbo have become migrants, they have become migrants all over the world because the home environment is no longer in consonance with their entrepreneurial abilities and drives.
Where are the cashew industries, Niger Gas, Golden Guinea, Premier Breweries and a host of them? They have been destroyed. Our leaders have failed to move things to the next level.
However, some of them, like Sullivan Chime of Enugu state, are doing well in the provision of infrastructure. We have to build on that. We must thank Jonathan for creating an international airport in the South-East. It will boost the economy once again. The Igbo’s movement outside home is a result of home not being conducive for self-actualisation.
Conducive for self actualisation
Even the entrepreneurs who now throw their resources towards political contests should redirect them. It is not only in Lagos, the Igbo are also being hounded in the North. Where is the home to run to? It is the dilemma of the Igbo people in Nigeria. The South-East region has buried the industries that Azikiwe and Okpara created.
What is your reaction to the declaration of Governor Sullivan Chime that an Nsukka man will succeed him as governor of Enugu State?
There is also in Enugu State an emerging convention about rotation of the gubernatorial position. It started from Chimaroke Nnamani who did two terms for the Enugu-East senatorial district and then Sullivan Chime, who is currently the incumbent, and about to round off his two terms in office. He is from the Enugu-West senatorial zone.
The next place that it has not gone to is Enugu-North. It is also in tandem with what I am saying that we should follow this emerging convention. Things evolve. Personally the Nsukka cultural zone is being short-changed because it constitutes over 50% of the population of the state. Nsukka should be the one to give because they have the numerical strength to determine where the pendulum of the state should swing. It was done in the early 90s during the Babaginda transition.

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