saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.

A brief rundown about myself.

I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.

Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.

I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.

Now my pain..

I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.

I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.

I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.

Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.

Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.

P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.

Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?

I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.

I am open to questions. Any at all. Hmmm it quite commendable to see such persons of your calibre moving mountainim so humble to meet you I will like to take this time out to meet you physical I'm a diploma holder un able to finish my degree due to financial issues I had to save and use the little I have to start business I'm single and ready to mingle should u find my comment worth liking u can contact me by checking my signature for my digits looking forward to hearing from you (Oscar )

AFONJAPIG:

something unbelievable happened before my very eyes last night, I dey in front of my house with one of my Neighbour last night having a night gist , that should be around 10:38pm , we noticed a strange movement , we decided to check what's the noise all about, behold a young guy in his mid 30s was making love to a mad woman, we were astonished but we maintained our cool to see it to the end, as we were watching them this guy was busy knacking the mad woman and she was moving her waist in response that the thing dey sweet her as well, a watchman that work in our street saw us standing there for long , he flashed his torchlight to us and asked who are there , we Respond Oga stone Relax we live here, by then he came closer and saw what we were busy watching, he's an Advance man in mid 60s , he wanted to shout but my neighbour told him to relax that the guy should finish first then we will give him charges, that he will settle us, by then the guy have already felt our presence and start dressing up, we walked closer to them, the watchman started vibrating, Oga See, what you did is not good , this is raping case, we will raise alarm bla bla bla bla, the supposed mad woman fired back to us in defense , don't you people fvck, don't you enjoy it , tell me you don't have $ex etc, she defended their actions oooo ,by then the man asked us what do you guys want, we didn't respond, he pressed a button in a key he was holding , Lexus 350 SUV that parked beside beep light and the back Boot opened, he went to the boot and brought 2 bundles of 1000k mint totalled about 200k he shoves the money in my hand and said guys Oya next time nah, he entered his car and drove off with high speed... The watchman refused to take part in the sharing of the money, my neighbor too dey fear he said make I keep the money by tomorrow morning we go decide what to do, I walked up to him this morning he said I should keep it his mind rejected the money, am planing to throw the money away Please advise me ...
Pls don't throw the money away help people with the money so that it will not affect you like me now I need just 20000 to balance my wife hospital bills pls 3025665067 first bank thanks

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GROUNDCHALEBOY:
I DON KNOW WHY AM FEELING THIS WAY BUT IT SEEMS,AM GETTING TIRED ALREADY WITH LIFE,WHAT I BITTER WORLD ,I HOPE GOD HEAL MY HEART BECAUSE AM LOSING IT.

GlisteningLace:
serious relationship wanted for marriage. 30 to 38. i'm a single Nigerian lady living in the U.K. i've never been married, i've no kids.

akinade28:
Since you are hurt and wish to quit the relationship, be a man and break up with her, except you are ready to subject yourself to a lifetime of unhappiness. Such a marriage willbe miserable for the two of you. Don't let her manipulate you with virginity.
Or maybe you are not telling the whole story and you are looking for a flimsy excuse to end the relationship and still satisfy your conscience.

OiOi:
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Let me sow a seed of MIKANO generator into your life

GlisteningLace:
serious relationship wanted for marriage. 30 to 38. i'm a single Nigerian lady living in the U.K. i've never been married, i've no kids. please, serious inquiries only. thank you.

yomi961:
this is what apc has reduced Nigeria and indeed Nigerians too.
deliberately make you poor then share garri and kulikuli for you during election to buy your votes

meanwhile
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You must show your pvc Ooo
Good bless atiku
Good bless the good people of Nigeria
Vote pdp vote peace of mind

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Keep kwayet, it's by age.

The problem of Nigeria is too complex.
Sowore is a another problem to himself, he is too arrogant and not ready to bow for anyone, he claimed he doesn't need anybody to endorse him so he can take all the glory alone if elected in his dream

He is just an empty noise maker who lacks what it takes to lead this nation.
He should have tested his popularity by contesting for either Rep or senator and see what different thing he would do among them.

folahann:
I'll rather go with Durotoye than this arrogant and rude dude.

NwaAmaikpe:




This lady here, is the one mistake Peter has made in all of his life.
A mistake that will come back to haunt him if he doesn't retrace his steps.

The worst thing any son can do to his mom is to flout her dying wish.

You must reap what you sow.
These kids will grow up not to respect Peter. They'd
scorn him and make him weep. They'd only take instructions from their mom Lola.
Then he will know the pain his mom feels in her grave.

It's not a curse, it is just karma.

shekini1000:
It is always painful for me