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Plankton2017:
Good day all,

My wife to be's character has been terrible since we did our trad. Now I dont know if I should halt my wedding plans slated for this Saturday.

Her and her family are very domineering and rude. She shouts at me at the top of her voice and does not respect me. I have done Trad and Court wedding. what can I do for God's sake

Trade and court..?

You don enter , my guy.

Fourwinds:
well said

There are unmistakable signs that show that a marriage has broken down irreparably. Failure to dissolve the marriage at that stage is the reason for sorry stories.
If couples continue, foolishly, to preserve what is clearly lost, complications are bound to occur. It is a lie from the pit of hell to say that God is against the dissolution of marriages among a carnal generation. He prefers otherwise, yes. God has laid down rules for permanent separation of couples.

If however you hypocritically decide to be deceiving the world that you have a marriage when you have none, you will both surely and dearly pay for the folly- sometimes with your lives!

Also, as long as you successfully deceive yourself and others that you have a marriage, the BONDS of marriage are BINDING on you. There is therefore no legal, moral or reasonable grounds for FOOOLS to be justifying waywardness and infidelity in a subsisting marriage.

BiggyB242:
If you want to get married, get married to a professional; doctor, lecturer/teachers & engineer, ladies in these professions are self-discipline to an extent at least higher when compared to other disciplines like the social sciences, bankers, marketers and those at corporate offices and also these self-employed women e.g boutique owner(esp those dealing with men's wears), beer parlor owner, these businesses expose them to all categories of men and with time they can be influence. There are some business one could engage in that could limit all these. I might not be 100 per cent right but is just my own view of seeing things.

That's the reason I'm working hard I can be financially stable so I could be bold to say this is what I want and not compromising.

My guy, country don rotten pass that o. Many in your " clean list", na dem de hammer pass. Only that they operate behind closed cupboards , full of skeletons.

XKZ:
The woman is polyandrous in nature. The man should just accept the second husband.

Nay, you are simply a natural "confusionist"

smithsydny:
I can't blame the woman either..

For all those justifying evil for WHATEVER reason, the LAW of equal measure is coming for. You are the next "stories that touch". Say Amen!

There are unmistakable signs that show that a marriage has broken down irreparably. Failure to dissolve the marriage at that stage is the reason for sorry stories.
If couples continue, foolishly, to preserve what is clearly lost, complications are bound to occur. It is a lie from the pit of hell to say that God is against the dissolution of marriages among a carnal generation. He prefers otherwise, yes. God has laid down rules for permanent separation of couples.

If however you hypocritically decide to be deceiving the world that you have a marriage when you have none, you will both surely and dearly pay for the folly- sometimes with your lives!

Also, as long as you successfully deceive yourself and others that you have a marriage, the BONDS of marriage are BINDING on you. There is therefore no legal, moral or reasonable grounds for FOOOLS to be justifying waywardness and infidelity in a subsisting marriage.

KweenAngela:
What a shame.

Her name is supposed to be changed to Sadness

Your right hand full of better things....continue

Isn't it curious that snakes would frequent such clean and well paved surroundings?

So very sad.

Party Tins!

martineverest:
her life,her choice....i cant condemn her



watch how hypocritical nigerians condemn her actions and say 'TOUCH NOT' when their pastors are involved

Fare ye well Mr All-right-and-well!

They term every of their physical deviation from nature as an issue of civil rights yet these hypocrites would rightly stop at nothing to preserve the environment in its natural form. They cannot see that they have drifted into fallacy.

They call call their sexual mutations as natural cravings yet the evil syndrome is unknown and unimaginable to all their ancestors and countless generations before them. They have been blinded to their perdition.

They term every of their physical deviation from nature as an issue of civil rights yet these hypocrites would rightly stop at nothing to preserve the environment in its natural form. They cannot see that they have drifted into fallacy.

They call call their sexual mutations as natural cravings yet the evil syndrome is unknown and unimaginable to all their ancestors and countless generations before them. They have been blinded to their perdition.

akaahs:
Hmmm, d guy die in active service

Disservice you meant to say....disservice to his fellowman and disservice to God and humanity.

Murder can never be justified under any circumstance outside self defence for survival. The killer will undoubtedly pay dearly for his dastardly crime. It is unfortunate that he could not muster inner strength to wade off the evil wind from an evil wife. The innocent children will most likely bear untold hardship on account of two misguided parents.

This is clearly not a case to justify one party over the other.

dollytino4real:
no one knew what she is goin thru in the marriage is only the adultery dat is echoing

Are you thinking with your anus?

One thing you will clearly observe among the KANU brigades is that they have all willingly mortgaged their natural sense of scrutiny. They've pledged to say "goodbye" to common sense in order to be loyal to this man. In so doing, they have become a national embarrassment and laughingstock.

KANU is a con man who cleverly hijacked a popular course to fulfill a voodoo agenda. He is a generational Pretender who seems destined to pilot hapless multitudes to another doom.

malc619:
He went to visit the man who mystically locked the brains of iPod zombies to oil the padlock.

Ipob slaves, it is well with una..

You said it all!

Highest tributes to the Nigeria Army. KUDOS!!!

However I can't help but wonder whether the NA has availed itself of global scientific and technological intelligence in the prosecution of this war against BH bastards. Keep wondering how whole barracks can ever be taken unwares by enemy forces! Keep wondering what about existing modern high tech equipment which when deployed can monitor and report minute enemy details within astonishing radii. Keep wondering what happened to sophisticated drones and crafts which survey territories in light and thick darkness with staggering precision. Is this war beyond our means? Must we continue deploying and expending precious human resources in conventional warfare when technology offers us smarter alternatives I just wonder o

The East must divorce the Struggle from KANU. KANU is misguiding the Struggle. The earlier the East settles this, the better. KANU is too short for that tall dream. He is using a borrowed shoe many times over his size. When you send a kid to take delivery of explosives, you are in for a long thing!

At the best, KANU should be one of the foot soldiers for the legitimate campaign. He obviously displays a gross deficit in the Sagacity, the intellectual depth, the mien, composure, comportment and political dexterity required for such a Titanic struggle. Talk of a toddler stranding in for a valiant man' s job! Is the East so deficient of Men

It is to God's Glory that Buhari is coming back strong, hale and hearty.

Trecixnine:
You just made me laugh; watch your back bro!

Nothing to watch back about mehn. Those are natural , NORMAL women and wives for you - just as God made them. Not the t0t0 etching ones posing as slay queens today who have been rendered ABNORMAL by excessive promiscuity before marriage

What most girls are subjected to before marriage cannot permit them to have stable marriages. The multiple sexual bashings from society before marriage has made them lose the vital natural sexual comportment. Marriage does not automatically reinstate this vital loss.

greggng:
That's why is good to ve registered gun. Just kill both of them and feed them to ur dogs. I know some will call me the devil but I don't take such shit.

My man, never make that mistake. You ruin two idiots and also ruin your good self - what a calamity to those you leave behind!

DoorMasters:
Eh. No problem

Really ?

NgcoboP:
Ok. Now she will be poverty stricken.

Not to mention the shame and stigma of a failed marriage.

Are you for real?
Please pluck the logs in your own eyes first before assisting to remove common specks in your neighbour's eye.

Must people marry Because every marriage is a marathon and not a sprint, every couple is bound to encounter fierce trial of marital commitment at one point or the other. No exemptions! If any man or lady cannot uphold the high vows of marriage , please , no need to enter.

FortuneTeller:
This is always the response of a broke man. They have nothing but anger and rage-Completely useless to the working world. Avoid them at all costs.

Your outburst depicts greater destitution and desperation.
I wish you the good life of a baby mama - you could never rise beyond that!

FortuneTeller:
^^^^Lazy man located

Come to me dearie, let me give you the discipline of your lifetime.

As today's lousy fuccked up women have decided that sex by all means is their right and are contesting equality with male counterparts, they should be fully prepared for the dire consequences.

Thanks to our mothers of old - the real women who preserved the sanctity and sanity of motherhood. Today, girls think with their sex organs first before the brains God gave them.

FortuneTeller:
Lazy in bed and lazy in work? Seriously the man is useless.

SAMPLE 2

kaycshine:
And so what if she already has someone shining her long what about that, wouldn't a man do d same if he was in her shoes . Men bn judging and condemning woman since time immemorial

Typical sample.

It is better for many men today to manage their lives outside marriage. But how many of them will listen. The girls out there have been badly disoriented and discomfited by sex to the extent of spelling misery to would be husbands. It is not for nothing that smarter guys have resorted to baby mama alternative. The society stinks!

A striker scores goals four times and a WOMAN still proclaims him lazy! This is definitely a stinky slut of a woman.

Younger men beware, don't be deceived into a relationship with a shameless furker - you may well be paving your way to a miserable future. I pity today's men - because 80% of girls today have had their brains furked out of proper alignment ( just observe 99% of NL girls)