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Family / Re: I Need Your Opinions on my marriage by shollyblingzy: 5:02pm On Nov 11, 2016 |
whaooo, cant believe i have jotted out two and half pages of notes from this forum, really helpful alot, really learnt alot from pros and cons of this topic, would use it for serious financial discussion when the need arise... seriously, have learnt alot, and would do the OP good if she can pick up some good points out of here, leaving out the bad ones, like divorce, cos the marriage is just too young for this, and please try to erase that option from your mind, and stop saying it, cos you eventually become what you think and say about.... keep the advises rolling in, while i keep on taking solid notes... Op, please drop the ego that you are capable of being independent, it could pose fear on your husband, please this is marriage , is an eye opener, now you can really see and know who your husband is truly, and try submit to him as well, men doesnt like any woman to brag on them even when she has millions in her account, thats men for you ooo, so try submission, and see how it works out.. i also have a long term savings I have at the moment, but plans to start my marriage expenses on my monthly income from the month i get married, while my hard earned savings as a single lady, i would discuss with my husband and set it apart for project, not for food at all # my opinion |
Family / Re: To Cool An Angry Husband Takes No Stress, Just - Bamisepeters' Blog by shollyblingzy: 3:02pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
some men still dont get tame with these ooo, jst lets pry to have a good one with a simple heart, you would enjoy the relationship with those simple ones, but regret it if you end up with the hard guys.. good luck ladies 15 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Will I Be Born If My Dad Had Married Another Woman? by shollyblingzy: 2:58pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
we should always maximize the opportunity given to us by God to be on this planet earth, dont ever allow God regret to have given that opportunity with the life style we living, is never too late to live a purposeful life |
Family / Re: Will I Be Born If My Dad Had Married Another Woman? by shollyblingzy: 2:53pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
bukatyne: exactly, there is high tendency is not us, if our parents had done it a second after, despite d fact is still on d same day |
Family / Re: My Story With My Best Friend Now Ex Gf by shollyblingzy: 10:31am On Nov 08, 2016 |
@OP, you have a good heart to pray for your ex gf that jilted you , not marrying her means you both are not for each other, your own destined spouse you would find soon by God's grace, just keep praying to God.....if truly you are the cool guy you claimed, a cooler lady would find u soon |
Events / Re: Your Questions On Wedding Planning Answered! by shollyblingzy: 10:40am On Oct 31, 2016 |
Ddforce: you didnt tell us which event is coming first, is it churcg bfor trad or the other way round, is possible u do the two event on same day based on time management you allocate for the first event, so as to run into the time of the other events, |
Events / Re: Pre-Wedding Photo Session Of Yours Truly. by shollyblingzy: 12:32pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
Op, is it that your wife actually gave birth to twins as it has been prophesied to you earlier ? |
Events / Re: 2017 Brides, Get In Here! by shollyblingzy: 10:36am On Oct 10, 2016 |
SteLette: congratulations dear, happy planning , but are you sure you would able to get an Anglican church that would be willing to join you during that period of march, as it would fall within the lenten period, and as far as I know, no anglican church wed any couple during lenten period, #jst my opinion |
Events / Re: 2017 Brides, Get In Here! by shollyblingzy: 10:33am On Oct 10, 2016 |
youngest85: whats the beef all about? instead of u to rejoice with those that is that time to be celebrated, so that your can as well can come, you are there beefing her...smh |
Events / Re: Your Questions On Wedding Planning Answered! by shollyblingzy: 4:12pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Francesokpala: ohhh, now i see reason why they are requesting for t.fare, cos they believed that you have the resources. if it had been the case that you asked them to pay for their dresses and they complained to you that they do not have, that is understandable, but becos you opted to take the cost of their dresses upon your self, their thought is that you are capable as well for the tfare, thats where the mistake came from. well, as far as I am concerned, with the way things are now that you have already bought their materials and about to sew, i would advise that you send the tfare to them. but assuming you have not bought their material now, it would have been a different case, then i would have advised you use chief bride maid alone and ignore the rest. jst send the tfare to them, to allow you concentrate on other things for the wedding. but some friends no get sympathy at all oooo, welll can't say anything now, maybe they dont have a source of income, but if they are actually earning, that one wey dey dey do no good at all na, they should be a burden bearer and not burden imposers. you dey try ooo, for bearing the whole cost of the dress upon yourself, I dont think i can do such anyway , very annoying, from close friends for that matter, whaooo, thats wield to me sha, may God continue to help you and us all Amen 1 Like |
Events / Re: Your Questions On Wedding Planning Answered! by shollyblingzy: 2:35pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Francesokpala: are you the one buying and sewing the dresses on your own account , or they are paying for it?, but i still do not understand why they should put the cost of tfare on you, good friends assists financially and never adds to the financial pressure of a bride, or maybe they believe you are making the whole money over there in abuja |
Health / Re: How To Get Rid Of Black Dots On Your Face by shollyblingzy: 10:39am On Sep 29, 2016 |
@ op, thanks for this info, 1 Like |
Family / Re: The Desperation To Get Married by shollyblingzy: 2:07pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey: @bolded, this is applicable to both male and female, when one has passed thru a certain age, you would be forced to manage those pple you seeing, a stitch in time saves nine, enjoy the season and use the opportunity to pich who you want to settle than with |
Family / Re: The Desperation To Get Married by shollyblingzy: 2:04pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
[quote author=proddey post=49552274] How old are you bro? I used to feel the same way to when I was much younger. I also always believed that with men, getting married is not a problem. It gets to an age that you're no longer meeting people. Not that you wouldn't meet some people, but you simply want to marry right, not just marry anyone that's available. [/quote @bolded, this is applicable to both male and female, when one has passed thru a certain age, you would be forced to manage those pple you seeing, a stitch in time saves nine, 1 Like 2 Shares |
Events / Re: The Wedding Store (T|W|S) – Creating Timeless & Elegant Invitations For 23 Years by shollyblingzy: 5:01pm On Aug 16, 2016 |
@ OP, where is your shop address, more details pls 1 Like |
Events / Re: Rules And Regulations On My Wedding Day by shollyblingzy: 1:07pm On Aug 11, 2016 |
@ OP, you just wanna give yourself unnecessary headache, with all these your wedding rules and regulation..., life is too short for all these, rewrite your rules and repost |
Events / Re: Your Questions On Wedding Planning Answered! by shollyblingzy: 9:33am On Aug 10, 2016 |
whats happening here...pls where are all the event planners? 1 Like |
Education / Re: 2016/2017 Obafemi Awolowo University Aspirant by shollyblingzy: 9:26am On Jul 15, 2016 |
please has anyone been able to access the portal now for the Post ume screening, as it would ending today, please urgent reply, thanks, cos my bro is yet to do his, any one in the house who has successfully applied? |
Events / Re: Photos: Check Out Another Plus Size Woman And Her Man by shollyblingzy: 4:29pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
could this really be called LOVEEEE, #justasking# |
Events / Re: Take Advanatge Of This Wedding/events Photography Promo! by shollyblingzy: 11:33am On Jul 01, 2016 |
donicasso: what are your packages , lets know what makes a promo |
Events / Re: Different Color Combos For Your Wedding Inspiration (lots Of Pictures) by shollyblingzy: 4:58pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
OP, more inspired wedding picture na |
Events / Re: The Bride Who Pushed Her Husband Away At The Altar Is All Smiles In Another Pic by shollyblingzy: 11:25am On Jun 21, 2016 |
maybe his real wedding suit got stained, who knows, cos looking at his best man, he wore an accurate sized suit, so we shouldn't judge the groom's dressing, when we so not actually know what happened to his suit, only him can tell |
Family / Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by shollyblingzy: 2:05pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
As per how much is ideal? I do not think there is any ideal amt for stipend, give what you can afford as a good husband and leave the rest to be augmented. Give the amount that would not affect you financially. Be wise about this decision, cos as woman, money no dey do us oo, even when you decide to give 1m per month, e no go still reach us , and if you give us small amount, we go still fit manage am, no matter what, though talking abt good women here, no be all woman fit help you manage oo 6 Likes |
Family / Re: How Much Is Ideal To Be Giving One's Wife As Monthly Stipend? by shollyblingzy: 1:48pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
. Whaooo, this is really shocking to hear, how can a wife be behaving like that , when she is not a girlfriend that is ready to help lavish a man's money without considering the future with you. She is your wife for crying out, she should even be the one to encourag you to save money and even be part of the great move to save towards the future. , just like now that you are paying huge amount for rent, you both should be thinking towrds contributing together to get your land and start building, instead of helping to spend your husband's money to the last. Like you said, you both are newly married, so the earlier you both start pulling your resources together , now that the money is flowing in , the better, cos money get wings oo, and can decide to fly to another direction the next moment, so I would plead with you to sit your wife down and see how you both can so something meaningful with the much money by tying the money into great project, Am a lady, and would not help waste my husby's money for no reason, God help me, or maybe she intends helping you to save the money she would be collecting from you, who knows?, cos we women could be funny atimes, It is well bro, but if after much tlk and pleading with her to see reasons with you, but she still refuses, then you should sit and look for how you can save money for the family without her knowing...#jst my opinion 20 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by shollyblingzy: 4:59pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
wu pre-marital sex don epp, abi na food?, so what is the freak about it, what i would say is that ladies should get wiser, cos sex tells more on them than the guys, the guys would always bounce back after the whole thing, without any trace, but leaving the ladies to always face the consequences, like unwanted pregnancy.... kudos to guys who are in support of no sex before marriage, though not easy, but it really worth it it is easier that both parties are like-minded, i.e both parties are of the belief that no sex policy, so that there would be any pressure on the other person to me there is no excuse to go for pre-marital sex , nothing is easy in life, do your body have control over you, while not subject your body under your control instead God help us all Amen , but the truth have to be tol 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Happy Birthday To My Birthday Mates by shollyblingzy: 12:05pm On Jun 15, 2016 |
whaoo, good to know that I have so many birthday mates on nairaland.... We are special people, may God bring forth the specialty in us very soon in Jesus name, Lets celebrate cos we deserve it.....Hip Hip Hip.. Hurrayyyy to us all 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by shollyblingzy: 10:08am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Try think about these questions and give answer where necessary Are you sure you can carry the burden you are about to bring upon yourself? Are u really sure that is not because she is a virgin, this love grip you like this? would you have loved her like this if she is a non-virgin? will the love be the same in the marriage after the virginity have been lost at the wedding night? will you still love her, cherish her and care for her when the crisis comes up in the marriage? have you prayed and get convinced about it that she is your "Eve" created by God for you, cos if she is not your wife, you might end up regreting your decision in the marriage. will you brag over her later that if not becos of you that married her, no one would have married her in her predicament? Have you sat down with your mum to hear her reason for not settling down with her? All these I would want you to sit down, think well and digest well, then am sure the decision you would go for would drop in your heart Please note that if she is truly your destined wife, no challenge would be too much for both of you to handle together, cos God would always make a way where there seems to be no way for His children he directed 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by shollyblingzy: 10:06am On Jun 14, 2016 |
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Events / Re: Your Questions On Wedding Planning Answered! by shollyblingzy: 3:38pm On Jun 13, 2016 |
Nimi22: e no go funny at all, after paying for the stuff and at the end, disappointment dey, that one be say yawa don gas be that, may God save us from those kind of vendors, that more reason why we need to support our vendors with prayers, so that they can do our jobs successfully 1 Like |
Events / Re: Your Questions On Wedding Planning Answered! by shollyblingzy: 4:19pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
Nimi22: whaooo, that one no funny at all ooo, the need for the cake wasnt met then, that one na big mistake ,i must say, well cake or no cake the wife don dey her hubby house, #lobatan |
Family / Re: ...... by shollyblingzy: 4:16pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
go to God when you want a life partner, we dont pick using our human ability, with God , we can fail in marriage, but achieve a successful marital bliss |
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