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Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by Goldienana(f): 10:06am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Lol u r funny. Who love epp got me laughing. I pray God do wonders. Dandeson1: |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by shollyblingzy: 10:06am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Ezinwa120: |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by Dandeson1(m): 10:07am On Jun 14, 2016 |
austinomiles:hehehehehehehe yes o my guy, virgin dey sweet with egusi soup. Laff wan kill me |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by ifeyomade14: 10:08am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Ezinwa120:I am having a similar experience with my house help,the symptoms and that result sounds like inflammation of the kidney,a kind of infection and it can be treated. and it is not expensive to treat.take her to a qualified doctor for treatment or better still,take her to a government hospital to reduce the cost of treatment. be fast about the treatment,the earlier the better. my fear now is that of your family, I pray you would be able to pass their hurdles, because it is not easy marrying someone the family is against. they won't stand by u in times of challenges.yet it is better to marry someone u love because marriage has a lot of challenges on its own,so that you can stick together through thick and thin. best of luck brother. |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by shollyblingzy: 10:08am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Try think about these questions and give answer where necessary Are you sure you can carry the burden you are about to bring upon yourself? Are u really sure that is not because she is a virgin, this love grip you like this? would you have loved her like this if she is a non-virgin? will the love be the same in the marriage after the virginity have been lost at the wedding night? will you still love her, cherish her and care for her when the crisis comes up in the marriage? have you prayed and get convinced about it that she is your "Eve" created by God for you, cos if she is not your wife, you might end up regreting your decision in the marriage. will you brag over her later that if not becos of you that married her, no one would have married her in her predicament? Have you sat down with your mum to hear her reason for not settling down with her? All these I would want you to sit down, think well and digest well, then am sure the decision you would go for would drop in your heart Please note that if she is truly your destined wife, no challenge would be too much for both of you to handle together, cos God would always make a way where there seems to be no way for His children he directed 1 Like |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by charlsecy(m): 10:10am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Ezinwa120:If I was a woman with such conditions, I might not let a man who I love marry me. |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by Amhappy(f): 10:12am On Jun 14, 2016 |
That she had a breast lump in the past doesn't mean she has cancer,some other non cancerous growth causes lump. If the kidney issue is discovered early just like u did I think it can be managed. All the best. |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by odedeleisaac: 10:16am On Jun 14, 2016 |
She can be your friend but not your wife untill her kidney problem is solved by you or someone else. Just immaging you want to marry a sick wife and expect a healthy family? You are about to sacrifies your precious life and your parent will live to regret the day you were born. 1 Like |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by Akemim(m): 10:25am On Jun 14, 2016 |
What your mother sees sitting... Even though u climb MTN mask u cannot see... My opinion ... Marrying someone that has an health issue is gonna be very challenging and considering that she is so young.... Will You be able to carry on for the rest of her life... If u marry her now, you might not even enjoy the marriage due to her health issues.... So think with your head |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by inzaghi1(m): 10:33am On Jun 14, 2016 |
You need strong prayers and cash for a transplant |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by mountainvolcano: 10:53am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Please go ahead and marry her if you really love her. The only thing that binds two people from different background together is love. Kidney problem is has cure depending on the specific case and the severity. My younger sister had kidney issue we took her to University of Ibadan Teaching Hospital, after 19days she got her healing. Nine months thereafter she went back and she was declared free from the disease. Try and mobilize her parents to take her there b4 it gets severe. Just get ready with about N200k and above Wish you goodluck and pray to God (Jehovah) for healing too. |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by sinceraconcept(m): 10:58am On Jun 14, 2016 |
Ezinwa120:marry her before you donate your kidney to her bro,also you have to give it a very deep thought |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by stevups(m): 11:38am On Jun 14, 2016 |
It is actually not a big deal. But crack a serious joke with her, by telling her that you lost a testis during your infant period, and see her reaction. Tell her why you had maintained silence since. You even said she is a virgin. So, it means nothing has happened between you. |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by calcal: 11:53am On Jun 14, 2016 |
no problem, just donate one of yours for her! |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by greatface(m): 12:10pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
6 months is two early to judge. be sure you are not infatuated. |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by kuchikau: 12:13pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Aniwhyte:.... YES. First of all, her type of Kidney problem must be acertained. How long she has been with this problem must be acknowledged. Her pedigree is of importance. Operation may be the last resort. |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by kuchikau: 12:15pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by junta007(f): 1:38pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by DedeNkem: 2:09pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Ezinwa120: Your mother is doing exactly what any mother who loves her son would do. She doesn't want you to marry unhealthy woman you just met few months ago. It's very understandable and I believe your girlfriend's mother would do the same if you were the sick one. Your mother doesn't want you to suffer and spend the rest of your life taking care of someone's sickness you could avoid by choosing from millions of healthy women around you. Kidney problem is not a mai mai problem. It's a serious problem that can kill her any time if she's not well taken care medically. It will cost you a lot money, depression and maybe a broken heart if she dies (I wish her well). You met her just few months ago and you're now talking about love and marriage already. Pipe down a little bit! If she had told you about her health status, I know you won't have marriage in mind. She and her family hide it from you. Don't marry her because of her virginity. Virginity doesn't guarantee anything in marriage! Don't marry her out of sympathy! Marry her only if you really love her and you're sure you know what you're getting yourself into. It will tough for both you. You may be required to donate one of your kidneys to help keep her alive as her husband. If she was already your wife before becoming sick, then it would a different situation. But in your present situation, you met her just few months ago and she's NOT your wife. You can walk away now! For the fact you're here seeking for advice, shows you're having a second thought about marrying her. You can walk away now while you can. You may help her financially (if you can afford it) as a friend but move on with your life. There're many healthy single women everywhere you can choose from and love. I'm a married man. My wife and I courted for few years, we fell in love and married. True love takes time to grow, not a few months thing. She was very healthy the first day I met her, and still very healthy today. If anything happens to her now, I would do anything humanly possible to keep her alive, I won't quit on her because I didn't marry a sick woman in the first place. I've no issues with sick people, I sympathize with them and may help in any way, but I won't intentionally marry a seriously sick woman. It's too much baggage. People marry to be happy. Be wise! 1 Like |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by ifitumiojo(f): 3:01pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
U. What do u think and want? |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by IDEJIMBA1(m): 3:44pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
That girl may not survive. Help her but remove marriage from your plans until the weather looks bright again. |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by kingjonez: 1:11pm On Jun 16, 2016 |
1. Remove marriage from your mind for now and help her get all possible solutions to her health issues first. 2. She's 21 and you've only known her for 6months. How sure are you that her feelings for you won't change in a couple of years ?? 3. It's not advisable to disregard a parent's opinion in choosing a future spouse. It might turn out well in the end, but most often than not...it doesn't. 4. If her kidney issue turns out to be serious, you have to think long and hard about committing yourself. Caring for an unhealthy loved one can be very stressful mentally and physically with long lasting effects. |
Re: My Virgin Girlfriend Has Kidney Issue, I Love Her For Marriage, Should I Go On? by Raina80(f): 2:07pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
You are walking into this with your eyes open. You have done your research so to speak the matter is yours to decide. No one asks for ill health. As long as you are sure that this is not an issue that you will bring up later in your marriage then do what your heart tells you. You could easily have ill health yourself if the tables were turned. What would you expect from the woman in your life? |
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