₦airaland Forum

Chrismentor3:
This is serious, but divorce its never the best option after so many years, I suggest he should stop bringing out money for the family upkeep so that the woman will understand what it means to live in poverty, I'm sure after one month she would be crying to God to bless the husband.

He is the one paying all d bills, d wife is not working.... school fees, feeding, the wives upkeep e.t.c. occasionally he will even assist her siblings financially. I am really finding it difficult to make him change his mind.

Prophets, pastors, Church leaders I will need your help on this one.

My elder brother has been married to his wife about 14yrs now, the marriage is blessed with 3 boys.
His wife is not the kind of woman a lot of men will pray for but no one is perfect. My bro tells me things about his marriage that he won't even disclose to our parents, I am very close to him and he always seeks my opinion.

His wife is a devoted Christian... she attends almost all d church programs and never misses Church service every sunday.

They had a program in d Church and she invited the husband. My brother went to the program and the Pastor called him out and told him that God wants to bless him financially more than he will ever imagine but there is a voice crying to God not to bless him.

The pastor called the wife out and told her that she is the d one telling God not to bless her husband cos she thinks a lot of money in his hands will make him to misbehave and d wife said yes.

The pastor now asked my brother to promise that if God bless him with this huge amount of money will you promise not to misbehave and he said yes... the pastor now asked his wife to reverse the prayer she has been praying against her husband right there inside the Church so that God can bless him and she did.

Since that day my brother became restless, he couldn't believe that the woman under his roof is d one praying against his progress. He told me that he wants to divorce her so that he can be free from her negative prayers.

I don't really know what to tell him.

I won't believe this unless I test it myself.

The Catholics should come and explain

why is the man Mr X still in police custody?

Ifakiland:
Why wuld u take a family Frnd to a hotel?
Why wuld u take a gal who isn't sure ure gonna fork to a hotel?
Why wuld u jump to removing her pants?
What happened btw the pant removal and her changing her mind?
Why were u kissing her too much after the pant was off?
Why didn't u convince her to stay when she got mad?
Why did u waste money?

Not as if we went there without her consent, read my post again Sire.

Sahaboi:
don't invite her again until she make d move n if she cum around...just b watchn her till she make other attempt.

Thanks but I am done with her for good. I don't know what her motives are and I won't stick around to find out.

Sahaboi:
u can't repair d generator set buh u can afford to book hotel..u nid serious deliverance

no time to fix the gen bro.

myke92:
Mehn, people are always quick to believe "cooked up" stories... Nairaland sha.

what will be my gain to waste my precious time to "cook up" stories here? everything you read happened to me.

ConcernedNL:
Either she is not normal or she set u up, she wants to be able to give her uncle a good reason why you are not a good guy so they can free her to go for someone else she likes. Either way ur a lucky person .

my conclusion is dat she is sick, u are right.

Divay22:
It's insane to play on a Monday morning
She just wants you to beg her, so you won't see her as cheap..
Let us know when the marriage day is coming up, we'll send delegates

I am not marrying again, thank you ma.

Divay22:
Lol
Hate you? For what na..
I thought you'll be considering getting married to her

now it's confirmed that you hate me.
How can u tell me to marry a girl who is mentally not sound.
if na play stop am.

dairykidd:
She's a lunatic. u lucky say she no bite your ear ...better run as far away as ur legs would take u

I agree no sane person will behave d way she did.

SlayerTheKing:
She get spirit husband bro. Na that shit they make her do like that.

I think so too bro.

HerXLNC:
OP I salute your courage.... Best way to get back at her... Don't ever demand for sex.... She ll beg you for it ....hoe forming cheap stunt

Thanks, but I don't want to have anything to do with her again.

Divay22:
Just be careful around her

You still telling me to be around her?
Is dat how much u g
hate me.

Chommieblaq:


Old trick some foolish girls use. She want make you use the heat of the passion (you must have been turned on na), beg and tell her "no that's not what I want from you, I'm for real, in fact I want to marry you". It's believed that men can don promise anything when they are aroused.



You sef get mind o, judging from what you wrote, if I'm a guy I will be scared of sleeping with her, because it seems the whole family is desperate for her to get married. I will see it as a way of trapping me.

it won't work on me cos I am not sex starved, I was not desperate to lay her. she initiated d whole thing. Whatever was her plans failed terribly cos she will never see me again in this life and d next.

blacq2009:
But why am I thinking the Op's story is twisted?

twisted how?
that's exactly what happened

hanassholesolo:
Wait for the "she only took her cloths off because of the heat, you didn't have to take advantage of her" Crew to come and real with you. Lol

I didn't take advantage of her na. she was the one dat undressed herself remain only pant.

make una help me judge this mata abeg.

I met this girl 3 days ago through her uncle who is close to me. He told me that he will like me to be close to her as the family wants her to settle down soon. I started laughing when he said that but he said he was serious I should give d girl a trial.

I later met with her parents that same day, we went out for some drinks together with her uncle, she chop full roasted catfish, dilute am with juice.

she keeps telling me how she likes d way i dress, how handsome i am,how neat I was, how good I smell, I also complimented her.

It got late and she wanted to spend d night in my place but I objected and told her that it will be better she sleeps in her uncles place, since she can't go home that late.
She thanked me for making her day, that it has been long she had such a nice time and I dropped them off.

Fast forward today, she called and I went to see her in her mother's shop, we had some drinks,she chop full vegetable chicken, we talked and d rest.

She told me she was not happy I didn't allow her spend d night in my place d last time we met and I told her not to worry that we will spend d night 2gether she agreed.

I took her to an expensive cool hotel, cos Power supply in my area not reliable my gen also decides to misbehave.
When we got to the room she immediately undressed and lay on d bed, we kissed passionately, for long and all, she even allowed me to remove her pant which was d only thing I removed oo, she was d one dat undressed herself oo, then suddenly she stood up, started saying that i should stop she was going home, she only followed me here to make me happy, she never expected what I wanted to do from me, that I can go and look for another girl that will sleep with me in d room since I have d money, that is what desperate men like me do, that because I have money I think I can have my way with her?

I became confused, I told her not to worry cos I won't touch her again if its a problem she should just sleep and go home in d morning. She refused and started insulting me that she rather sleep outside than to sleep with an animal like me and left the room n it was already late. I later learnt she called a cab to come and pick her.

I've never seen this kind of witchcraft my entire life.

ojeshola:
Hi guys

Pls can any help me with the price of front SAM for C240 4matic 2006 model and where to get them.. Thanks

why are u in a hurry to change ur SAM? what is/are d issues u are having with d car?
have u diagnosed it with a star SDS?
what are d codes reported?

most times throwing parts to ur car won't solve any problem, you will end up wasting money.

There's a seed that looks like ugba

everything is possible in this country.
Lord have mercy.

This is a case of giving a dog a bad name to hang it, why did they suddenly realized dat d agreement with NPA was illegal after so many years?

disgusting

fear women

happens only in d zoo

Most Nigerians are not only gullible but also greedy, this is why 419ers are still in business.

But the biggest scam of all time was the packaging of Mohammadu Buhari by APC, Nigerians didn't ask questions.

too risky

The world is leaving us behind because we choose an archaic uninspiring brain dead vegetable as President.... I am ashamed to be called a Nigerian these days.

wow! dats my 1st love there very rugged n reliable.
I regret selling mine