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@ Topic.

. . . . na wa oooo. . . women and their different shades of challenges.

[b]The decisions isn't just on him, if we don't agree or come to a term than he can't do it[/b]The type of man i have, listens to me, my opinion is what matters, and Vice-versa
lol @cooking his food 1st, it doesn't work that way with us

Common sense should tell her to serve some drink to the visitors, and he can do the same

What you listed is not bad, but it the tone he uses that determines whether it submissive or not

What if a compromise is not reached?. . . .does that mean the decision should be left undecided?

The funny thing is that when the "left behinds" realise that they are almost "left behind" they now start to do what they should have done in the first place in desperation. Most of them now end up with low-life guys. Start cleaning up pews in churches and keep disturbing their pastors . . . . .shior!

Heheh what attitude, because I stood up to you, you should be lucky it was e-slap and not real one

In my book, submissive means slavery
Submissive doesn't mean respect
African men are bunch of control freaks
Do you really think white women want to settle down with your black men, they are just doing it for the sex

Standing up to me is no problem pal. . . as a marra of fact, I like it.

I have learnt to give more meaning to the dictionary meanings of words. . . don't you know that "goodbye" could mean hope to see you larra and at this same time it could mean "rest in peace"?

Was i expecting you to agree with me - No
Maybe its a gross misconception or not, this sh.it happens anyways. u know it  n i know it
Black men too also date white women beacuse they don't have to give, infact they would be the be one receiving.

When it comes to that. . . black women are more gullible than the whites.

Why is that when black woman doesnt accpet the non-sense that white women gladly accept from black men then she has an attitude and not submissive.
I mean wassup with that

Tope, what kind of "non-sense" does white women accept that black women accept?. . . . .I think the question should be " Why would a white woman accept "non-sense" and a black woman would not?". . . .the answer is simple pal. . . that same attitude we are talking about

Can someone e-slap him for me
What kind of nonsense are you yawning, I hate that word **submissive***, are African women slaves, you better wake up and start smelling the coffee, things are changing and the women are taking over  
No woman i repeat, no woman should ever bow for her husband.

This is a typical attitude I was refering to . . . Can you all imagine me saying what I said to Troooe?. . . with her reaction, it proves she will just aim to slap me straight! This kind of attitude will always scare a man signing a life time contract with african women with such attitude.

Being submissive doesn't mean anyone is stupid. It just goes a long way to show how aware a person is about where he or she finds herself. One could be submissive and still call the shots. Untill african women learn to be submmisive and at the same time learn to control her man in a loving way. . . . .guess they may keep loosing their men to the white ladies.

I have never dated a white woman. . . but I think I understand why black guys tends to prefer white women to their black counterparts.

I believe the problem has something to do with the attitude black women exhibits. Now when I say black women, I mean both african black women and african-american women. The funny thing is that, even african women that haven't stepped out of the shores of Africa (most especially Nigerian women) imitats this unspeakable bitchy attitude.

This attitude "pisses" off a normal african man who believes that a woman should be accommodating and a bit respectfull to the man. So when a black man encounters a black woman that has got attitude. . . .the dissappointment doubles and kind of gets unpardonable.

Now white women could be pardoned because black men understands that their race is quite different. Black women should learn to be more african women when it comes to relationship. . . they should be more accommodating, submissive and not immitate the negative attitudes of the environment they find themselves.

Like I always say, a woman drives a relationship. . . most of them just don't know how to drive yet.

@ Moyo.

Please help me ask Osisi where she get hair for her body

I know what he said! He could just be turned on by a tongue hair. . . .that's kinda rare you know?

Mo sure pe to ba fi han. . . .omo like e

Omo, otutu yi ti poju. . . .o da binpe ma lo wa nkan se si oro ara mi ooo

@ Moyo

Iwo naa , ah famala ko be . . .instead ti o ye ko wa bi ma se pa otutu laleyi, o ni ki nlo kunle

Well, A40 ti so pe oun like irun. . . lol. . . berra show him your tongue

@ A40

Moyo has hairs on her tongue, hope u dont mind?

Ika buruku. . . .arugbo oloju rogodo

Most you say that

Smurf ti lo ka iwe e. . . .u gbudo pass so mo. To ba dubule pelu mi lasiko yi, gbogbo opolo e ma salo ni

Mi o le dubule nikan lale yi. . . .otutu ti poju ni Jerse y

Ki lo se e ti igbagbo e kuru to eleyi?. . . .Se bi emi ni mo nso fun e. . . .nkan ti mo moni

I have been in this game no be today shey you know. . . .ok ki lo de to quote e ?

@ Moyo. . .

Sori, nse lo wo enu segbe. Emi mo ti okunrin ba like arugbo. . . trust me

@ Smurf.

Na wa for you ooo
Sea advertido, adivine que comenzamos a enhebrar en un bebé de parte delicado. La conjetura va a pensar más en usted. Asegúrese que usted reconoce el correo cuando usted lo consigue  

@ Moyo Arugbo

Bobo to ran oju yen da bi npe o feran e gan lopolopo

@ Smurf mi atata

Los Whaooo , bebé le parece son la duda que continúa en su corazón. No puedo presentar mi cuadro aquí pero puedo seguro enviar el que a su correo. No soy una persona de cuadros aunque , el último que tomé fuera hace aproximadamente dos meses. ¿Quiere usted que yo lo envíe a su correo?

You av not told me how your day has been without Silly.

@ Moyo.

Se iwo ti ri iya arugbo ti ko like fine boy ri ni?

Na Tope dey seduce pass. . . .thank God say I don dey hooked. . . she for don catch me

@ Smurf mi atata. . . with that kiss. . u bet my day can't be berra . . .how has urs been without Silly?
   Más de aquellos besos podrían tomarme durante algunas horas más aunque.

come n do wt?

silly. . . hmmn. . . silly. . . sillya$$,

mikin se egebe eh o. . . lo so ara re o

@ Moyo.

Se o ti darugbo ni?. . . ta lo so fun e pe arugbo o kin seduce eyan?

Smurf mi atata. . . . se otu ti nri Moyo . . .o tun ti try lati seduce mi oooo . Alright baby, just make the straight As . . .so that Silly Jnr will know that mummy has got both brains and beauty.

@ Moyo. . .oloju come and do

Smurf mi atata. . . . nothing dey happen now. . .she was just trying to seduce me with her hairy tongue, so I gat to let her know that my atata must know about my offers

I dey vex with you sha ooo

i no like hair at all . . . talkless of hair on a tongue like yours

I fit shave am with my eyes closed sha . . . but I go tell Smurf first.

See ur tongue . . . . . e be like say e get hair sef!

Where y see that ?, u g

Hmmmm what?

I will always tell the truth no marra what!. . . .most especially to a girl, if she like make she leave me. It's berra than her finding out larra on and u get boxed to a corner.

@ Topic.

I will just tell her I need to work on myself some more because I know she deserves berra than I am presently and it will be selfish to tie her up without making sure am a berra person for her

Nobody is doing what his pops did years back. . . .it will be foolhardy for anyone to actually do that.

Some women are just stubborn and self- willed to the point that they wouldnt even know when one is on their side.

For a woman to have a peacefull relationship, she must learn to take control subtly, else another woman who has learnt her trade will just beat her to the game.

No marra how bad a guy is, he will always end up with someone. . . duh

God bless you Sista. . . .

Another important thing I have found out is that some women can't learn to take control subtly, it is important they learn how to control, but not rigidly that will make the man feel oppressed or being monitored.

Please don't get me wrong, a man should do what h has to do as a man, but a woman should learn how to control her man subtly.

Cuturally, we know the man is the head of the family. But sincerely, and am talking from a man's point of view now. . . women are the most important personality in making a man-woman relationship work. Men just wanna be the man and to be seen as a man, it is left for the women to make it work. Women are gifted when it comes to bringing the best out of something esspecially a man.

Why do y'all think that men listen to their mum intently?
Why do we always see a successfull man quite loyal and respectful of his wife?

I might not be explaining this the best I should. . . . .but a woman's attitude, to a large extent is responsible for how far her relationship will go. Most especially during courtship.

Reading all these, I feel compelled to make this contribution: No matter how bad or good a relationship is, it's always the woman's responsibility. I believe strongly that a relationship is just like a motor vehicle and , the woman is always at the driver's seat. It's just unfortunate that most of them are bad drivers when it comes to relationship vehicles. . . .they always end up blaming the "passenger" (man) that they are suppose to drive home.

Sé que todos ustedes vas a morder mi cabeza ahora para decir que la verdad , sólo toma las cosas con calma y considera mi mamá

I really wanna know what Otondo meant by" the hairy of a dog". . . guys, you know it could be a knew diss

Otondo, please what does that phrase mean?. . . . please tell me and I promise you a gurl that wouldn't "comfuse" u man