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carmelion: @All,just incase you re wondering,what's popping,we had a small get together,yester evening.We were celebrating the return of SimayankiBaba(according to Ichidodo(the only teddy bearin the house).

So when you come in,grab a glass of wine and join the party!,mingle and gist alllllll you want.No one will stop you.Invite your friends too,RSVP(rice and stew very plenty)lol.

I want to officially announce to you guys that I have totally forgiven him.I mean with families like you,who has time to sulk?*blushing*

Below is Simyanki and I

See you guys later,am off to church

=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))

Thanks@ carmydoll, u'r a swt hrt #bear hugs#
Thanks@house!

carmelion: @dailynews& Winneygirl,good to see you again,welcome back

@luta doll,apart from your speech about dailynews,you spoke my mind 100%,but we can't keep going front and back.Am really not happy with all this happenings ,cos new members might just get confused and bored when they get to this potholes.Its unfair to them.So I have chosen to forgive,I can't wait to get past all this.

@Nzube,dailynews is right,women are not wired to call a man because he said he is looking for a wife.I mean what do you want her to say when she calls?"Helo,my name is carmelion,I saw a Vacancy announcement for a wife,so I deceided to submit my CV?or what?

Please don't get me wrong,but I feel you should just calm,down,read through comments and choose whom you feel you can relate with.Then send her a PM.Goodluck,

At Ivynwa,you are are my dearest darling now.You won my heart when you wrote to Mukina.I will send you a pm later,let's discuss about launching this your matchmaking agency/shop .

@Simayanki,it's ok.I noticed you have modifed your post.Thanks you did a good job.I guess I should now try to modify it in my head,cos it keeps playing back like an Audio CD plate.I will modify mine later,so that we can bury the hatchet completely.Welcome Back.Mind a handshake?

@nbright.*smh*You never cease to amaze me..

@carmydoll.......=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))

No handshakes.....i believe a you have won a hug.

alutacontinua: Back to the issue on hand, the truth is that when I also saw simayanki's apology, didn't just wanna comment so I don't look lyk a devil but dose words compared to what he wrote back then, i don't think it works dt way. I'm glad carmydoll said her mind, sum oda pple wld just av said ok even when dey're not ok. I didn't read this thread from the beginning, so, i don't know wot has transpired or gone down here but one thing i would like to know if it's not too much to ask is why you said dose words Looking at the few pages before that comment, i still don't understand why he wrote it. It was lyk he had carried a grudge for too long and he couldn't wait to pour the words out! Probably saying why you did it might help carmydoll in the forgiveness process.

@alutacontinua... you just mights read minds but then again, i think sleeping dogs should be left to lie. Except perhaps its more than necessary!

Hello dolls and gents, how‘s your morning going? I have got a question for this family specifically for the ladies, please feel free to comment. In light of the happenings to the single ladies of this thread: heartbreaks, disappointments, beat-ups, embarrassments…I am forced to as this question.

ARE WE DESTINED TO BE FACED WITH SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES? If yes, why? If no, then why?

The reason for the question arises so as to give HOPE. Lots of ladies today have accepted their situation today as destiny or the will of God. I have an ideology about this but let the house speak first.

carmelion: I see you are not done with me yet right?First,you succeded in making me go back to the mirror,to know if I look frustrated,oh yes you did.

Then you now made to also understand why some ladies here on Nairaland keeps telling me that I have guts.I mean now I know why ladies shy away from opening such topic.It is either they are not interested or they can't stand the insults that will come with it.

Meawhile did you say,'unkind words'?.*SMH*.

No man,those were not words,they are KNIVES!,You cut me through the heart.I was soooo weak,but a lot of people here,and a lot of things kept me going.

I will still repeat it,a man can never understand a woman 100%.You noticed missblanche crying,the way other ladies reached out to me,did you read Smartie gurl's comment?.I wish I can show you my inbox,so that you will understand what I am talking about.

So imagine,what the main victim did.Only a woman,and a few guys would understand the depth of those knife cuts you gave me.

Now you say,you are sorry?


pheeew!










Well what do you want me to say?No?,So that everybody here would say that am wicked.

I am very emotional,oldest members of the thread,can attest to that.Every thing I have said here on this thread,is very real.I rather keep my mouth shut,than write lies.What will I gain?

So for the interest of this thread,I will accept your apology but when I truly forgive you from the bottom of my heart,even a blind man will know.


Naturally,I sulk a lot,so it will take me a little time but trust me, things would be fine.

Please modify that post,it is heartbreaking.Write something else there(a joke,a poem,a response to a topic previously discussed),you know, just be creative.I think someone,quoted you ,please tell him to modify his, too.I will change mine too.Let us pretend it never happened and please don't do it again.

Moreover ,don't say that to a lady outside,it is murderous.

I want to blame all this on misunderstanding,please let's try to comprehend before responding.

We all must not agree but If you disagree with a particular point raised by someone ,do that peacefully.

Goodmorning

Hello carmydoll, i wouldn’t actually say that i was ‘on-to-you’, but i can say its good to look at the mirror once in a while though i don’t think a person of your intellectual capacity can be downtrodden for too long. It may not be a lie saying that you’ve got guts, starting such a thread takes more than a great mind... also takes quite some guts. I am sorry, i know those words were bullets, i guess i wasn’t in my right frame of mind when i shot those. I am thankful to the dolls and gents in the house who constantly follow and uphold the thread irrespective of their busy schedules.

Somehow we are alike, as injuries don’t heal magically...i don’t expect your magical forgiveness. I just hope that in time, i might have proved how sorry i am.

@missblanche: i am indeed sorry, perhaps i cannot grasp the fullness of your situation, however “...no condition is pertinent to man surely He will make a way of escape”.

Ivynwa: @Simayanki
You are lucky that the person I was match making you off to is taken or your sweet posts would have garnered you a sweet Iyawo for real.
Hey! by the way are you tall enough for Maya2pretty? Check yourself, check yourself
You can dash into a pharmacy shop and have them check your height and everything Maya2pretty likes in her man and you report to the thread for my judgement. I'm the new match maker in town. Gotcha! I no fit laugh-o-o

=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=)) @ivynwa
You are really a comedian. Thanks for the match-making, but it hasn't worked for me in the past so i don't know what to say about that.

I dont really do well when put into a list per-say, or in a test condition. Not so tall but am in love with myself (not petite either ...lol)

DailyNews: awww! So beautiful of u @Simaya...I don't just know y I cherish humble people a lot, and believe me, they are the best for friendship, Simaya, u just won a hero medal from me....and if this was in real life, would have given u some

Stay blessed, and u can testify to this that u now feel so free, happy and loved, or is it a lie I doubt. In fact, u are d best so far...and I can bet my ten naira that u so much cherish carmelion, we guys are sometimes like that, portraying our likeness for a female in a wrong way now she knows better...


@ivy, u are more than hilarious....lol

nbright my man, why d quote no word lovely people, wishing u all a lovely happy weekend

Tnx @ dailynews: i really do feel free & am actually laughing @ ivynwa's post.

Perhaps i have a certain likeness for carmydoll, she is a realist, straight forward... & matured!

Hello dolls & gents!!!

@carmdoll & others: My apologies still continue...
But in the mean time THE ORIGINAL MESSAGE (REPLY TO DONCOLLO) HAS BEEN MODIFIED.

Please all those who commented or quoted it should try to modify their also!

Have a great morning & wonderful weekend!

Hello dolls & gents!

I think i had to be off to cool off...i was really paranoid about somethings. I missed this e-family.

@carmdoll: i am sorry for unkind words i said, i take it back & offer my apology...please be kind enough to accept!

@all d dolls & gents: i apologise to you too.

@femo:
Pls house my interview is next week my quest is should i pay my visa fee in naira bekos am paying for 3 family hop embassy collect naira?

@femo: you have two options:

1) Go with naira equivalent of $330 for 3people at a rate of N170 (because their exchange rate is high)
i.e. 3 x 330 x 170 = N168,300.00 if there is any change, you will be given back.

2) Buy dollars from a reliable source, printed not later than 2001.

doctorp76: please pray for me oh my interview is on next Tuesday!!!!

Broda, ur visa has been approved, go & excel in your interview.

026IX: House am happy oo!!!! Just received my 2NL for May 3rd appointment....for me , wife and daughter.......my heart dey dey beat ooo!!!!!! After so long a waitin time...CN15xxx

Congrats bro....! You can proceed making preparations.

sina_adegoke: Hi folks. I just collected my Visa and package today. I plan to leave in a month's time. So to u guys that have already left, what should I be expecting? What are job prospects like over there for professionals like us?

Congrats bro! Where are you headed & when??

Contact me on 07031589548.
ASAP!

nkkystel: VISA GRANTED ooooo..... Join me and praise this GOD. Full gist coming soon. (Zionking)

Congrats 2u both of u!

afobat2000: HELLO HOUSE MY FAMILY VISA WAS APROVED JUST NOW HELP ME PRAISE LORD

Congrats 2u bro! God is good!

nero xp: I wana tank u all for de get-well wishes,I really appreciate ur concerns,love nd support being shown to me.last 2 days has been a hell to me eva since I collected my Visa on monday...I hav been on drip intravenously since,nd I jst got a bit strenghth dis evenin.Its well already in JESUS Name,Amen...

Sorry bro...By His stripes you are healed in Jesus name!!! Amen!

emebeteaderashn: hi good ppl of the house am reporting live from Texas love u all.....

Congrats bro! Would holla @ you when i enter in April.

Doncolio: Do u do lady things? If your answer is no. Let the ladies be. Profer advice if you can but don't trivialize their pains by acting like u know it all. Ladies know how best to give a fellow lady advice coz dey all look from the same side of the mirror(I.e they knw where the shoe hurts).
If you really understood what carmelion is saying, you wouldn't have replied with such a comment.
But like I said, if you wanted to counsel the ladies, do so without acting like you know them more than themselves. Or open a new thread for them. No offence intended.

@ doncolio: 'What women want' is an article i am working on, & trust me its not much (in terms of measurement).

@carmelion: Well, i would like to thank you for the good work you incessantly & tirelessly continue to do here, i know its touching lives. However, in my very little experience & vast knowledge of women (i cannot say i know all because i don't), there are feelings that are both understandable by dolls & gents alike. You may think the gents don't understand but we do, we just behave like we don't (avoidance).

Ladies in the house, there exists beyond the extremities of the universe and comprehension of the greatest minds, the divinity & solemnity of LOVE & MARRIAGE! The only way to achieve you heart's desire is to be yourself. Listen to peoples experiences but make your decisions prayerfully....Don't let the fear of making certain mistakes in life, lure you into making one... BE WISE! Take care pals.

ichidodo: sorry taking this long bro. Some dude scratched my vehicle and am hoppin mad rite now. Well, its about this lady,she is very attractive,friendly and i like her. The problem is am not the only one who wants her, but the edge i have got is that am around her most of the week days and we talk sometimes. I feel uncomfortable competing for a woman's attention,but i d'like to make an exception and i need ure help. Tanx bro.

Well bro...

I have to congratulate you firstly for having a lady other people want to get also but it is a grave challenge. First question you need to ask is DOES SHE LIKE ME ENOUGH...? This question is the most important question, which decides how much of the pressure she can contend for you. As always you have to pay an equal price (according to Newton's Third law of Motion).

I can imagine she is pretty, confident, financially average & social which is a good-bad combination. However you need to stand out in some very important ways:

1) Be friendly to her. Ensure you talk & play a lot. Try to leave her with laughs not pain.

2) Try not to CHOKE HER WITH LOVE. She is a very 'needed' woman, as she is in her 'prime'. So let her be, try to curtail your jealousy in regards to her friendship with other guys, give her space to actually evaluate what & who is better in her life. Always let her know you want the best for her EVEN IF ITS NOT YOU! Therefore you are obliged to TRUST her no matter what.

3) Every woman needs two kinds of relationship: the private & public one. Ensure you explore both sides of the relationship but going out together..dates, occasions, visiting families and so on.

4) Always buy her gifts once in a while (refrain from buying expensive gifts as it tends to shift concentration from CARE to MATERIALITY, causing her to look forward to the next expensive gift but if you must let it be a surprise & not too often). You don't want to let out the impression that you're buying her love.

5) Try to share in her physical, mental, social, spiritual & psycological wellbeing and growth. LISTEN to her & don't rush into conclusions. Ask her opinions about trivial issues in your life irrespective of what it is.

6) Finally, you must TEST HER! The greatest steels even after being smelted in the hottest of furnaces must be tested with fire & water to prove its hardness. So you must use a measurable standard to test her loyalty & love for you but in doing this set a test that YOU are sure you can pass.

Am open to CRITICISMS & CONTRIBUTIONS!

carmelion: I don't expect you to understand(you re a man).Meanwhile go and read,Miss blanche's complaints,also find out the meaning of petite.

You are funny...but i understand enough to know a lot about you ladies. I can even tell the kind of lady you are from your comments. But this won't get personal...

@miss blanche: look your best but be moderate about everything but most of all be mindful of places where you would get such unwanted attention. Be confident about yourself, don't be perturbed about people's perception of you & am sure there's a space in someone's heart big enough just for you to fill.

carmelion: Hey dolls,how are you doing today?.Hi to the new members,welcome to the thread

@Miss blanche and other petite dolls in the house.I mean those who look toooo young for their age(small body).Some times it gets so annoying ,cos it attracts younger guys.It hurts you know,especially when you don't have much time,biologically.

So I uploaded some pictures as regards the kind of hairstyles you should avoid.

Avoid the hairstyles in pictures 1 & 2.Pulling your hair back,brings out your face very well,and makes you look younger.Those women(alicia keys and one other actress ,(I can't remember her name)are actually in their thirties but that hairstyle made them look 20+.So imagine how you will look if you have a young face,wearing that hairstlyle

So let's go for hairstyles in pictures 3 &
4.It makes you look matured.I know the weather is hot but letting your hair down boosts your age.

I know you don't like makeup,but ging with a natural face makes you look younger too.wear some makeup but please keep it calm.I hope this helps.I will also upload some pictures on styles of clothes you should avoid.Good evening.

This is real funny@carmdoll...

If i am correct your advice is ladies should delibrately look old to avoid young attention?? How ludicrious.

Godhelpmeooo: for me-1.waec cert 2.npc cert 3.police cert 4.medica cert 5.mariage cert n albulm 6.3 pasport foto 7.apointmnt leter. for my wife-1.npc cert 2.medica cert 3.police cert 4.3 pasport foto for my son-same as my wife excludin police cert.hpe am gud 2 go

If your highest qualification is WAEC, you are good to go.
Also try to go with introduction letter from your place of work, not really apointment letter. House pls, over to you!

loconzo00: Being to Eleke Crescent today with a family of five.
WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE !!!!!!
WHAT A WONDERFUL FORUM OF WONDERFUL NAIRALANDERS !!!!!


GREAT............. NAIRALAND FORUMITES !!!!!!!
GREEEEEE....AT NAIRALAND FORUMITES !!!!!!!!!
GREATEST OF THE GREATEST , OF THE GREATEST, OF THE GREATEST NAIRALNAD FORUMITTES
!!!!!!!

CONGRATUL-OBIA.... Awaitin full gist!!!

laura da brat: greetings guys.just had my interview today with my wife and i want everybody to help me thank God.
we went to the embassy at 7.00am.joint the gueue.
we saw so many pple there and was a little bit scared because we r young.paid the normal fees in local currency,did fingerprint and waited for our numb to pop up.
at abt 11.30am our number poped up and behold it was a white lady.i am sure she must be at her late 30s or so.then we started.
co:good morning
me:gud morning
co:i can c u r in e university,what yr?
me:final yr
co;how old r u;
me:bla bla:
co:what happened that u married so young?
me:i explained,
co;where do u live?
me:responded.showed her tenancy agreement
co:how do u sustain ur self.
me:showed her our letter from work and told her what we do.work part time
co:checked our marriage documents and proof of marriage.but she did not ask anything concerning the pics.
co:who is ur host;
me:my sis
co:since ur medical is not ready,come back on 20th with the medical result and she gave me a pink paper which says medicals report for both lacking.
guys that was it.for cameroonians pls if u ve ur interview next month,beta go n do ur medicals now n wait cos those docs r very unreliable.
Also,today at the embassy,the first three singles that where interviewed b4 us where given the pink slip because of lack of medicals so pls try n do ur medicals b4 time.Also there was this couples that looked at me as i removed my fat album from my bag n they were supprised n they said it was not needed n i told him that only if he knew what he was about to experience he will not say dt.
Thanks guys,without you guys,i wldnt ve gone this far concidering all the mistakes i made,thanks guys,no matter what u will be in my heart.gentiger,idriez,temmy,yempe guys owna toomuch.

Congrats to you & your family!

ojisalara: Good Evening every member in the house, I give thanks to almighty God and all the members of this house who have been of tremendous help to me, you guys are the bomb expecially to @gunners, @amcool who gave me a call after my interviews today, @gentiger @chirpywest who is current on this way to LA, @widelink and everyone
my interviews was schedule for 10 am today but I had to leave where I stayed around 5:30am and got to the embassy some minutes pass 6am, I bought a chair for 100 Naira and waited patiently for 9:30am when I joined the queue for 10am appointment, went inside the embassy , asked about how to make payment, took some time to do that but was finally called to make the payment after 30minutes then I proceeded to the front row so I can be able to listen to some of the interviews and it was interesting but the more I listen, the more my confidence grow that I'm certainly getting my VISA today.. there was only three windows open for immigrant today..window 13,14,15, I also noticed that window 14 was a calmness among them today, He even gave a guy a VISA with only two questions CO: are you Mr. bla Bla, the guy said yes, CO: asked him what course he did in the University Guy: electrical electronics at Nasarawa State polytechnic : CO; told the guy congrats and was like praying that I should be interview by him but on a second thought I was ready for anyone they bring and was praying inside me that the Lord should give me the CO that will grant me my VISA ..to cut the story .my interview goes this way
Me:Good Morning
Co:how are you doing
Me: I'm doing great and wonderful
CO: Are u Mr. bla Bla Bla
ME: Yes I am
CO: congrats for winning the Visa lottery
Me: Thanks
ME:took Finger prints
CO: do you swear to tell the truth during your interviews today
ME: absolutely I do
CO:told me to pick the phone so our conversation won't be public and was smiling
ME; I did
CO: I see you are from Enugu and was looking at my document
ME: Yes and I realize he was looking at my degree Cert
CO: what did you do after Service
ME: told him I was at home for some months before I got a job
CO: how long have you been working
ME:told him since December 2010
CO: I see you are an Engineer
ME: yes, I work with bla bla company at Port-harcourt
CO: your work in the platform?
ME:yes at the platform and on land rigs
CO: what you project topic
ME: PLC's
CO: said wow PLC's , you can do that
ME: said yes and continue to explain my project to him, what PLC was all about
Co: was busy typing and brought two white sheet, circle one one and told me to excuse him for a minute
Me: ok
Co: that the interviews was a success and ask me to pick up my VISA as from Monday in the circle address and told me I should read instructions on how to pay for Green Card before I travel to State

Note; they were denials today but I realized that most of them were not inform and some very annoying cases where someone can't express himself, couldn't even get one question the CO ask, kept on asking the CO, what did you say ..it was annoying because he blocked a space for some people

Congrats bro! We are MARCHing forward o! One more week to go

bukatyne: I really don't think so...
I agree some women are selfish or lack the knowledge of such
You need to see the tone of some marriages. They are all lovey dovey during courtship and after they say 'I do', the whole thing changes.
I know someone who would not dare eating in the same place with her hubby; some hubbies have special cups, special plates etc and so many others. Some men even consider it rude for their wives to play with them.

I know this is opposite what we hear all our lives but...

A man controls the tone of his relationship/marriage. A man finds a woman and decides unconsciously how they relate. If he shows her love, she mltiples it and shows him same. If he likes to pamper her and he is open about his needs, she will pamper him too.

A lot of relationships change halfway and the woman being to cowers because unconsciously and consciously the man has sown some seeds in their relationship.


However, I believe we have learnt a lot from your post.

Thanks.

Thanks @ bukatyne...

This is the reason for such a thread i guess. My father always say: 'A cutlass can never have one side'. As we iron the ladies side, somehow we iron the gents side too.

I will always say EMPHATICALLY that 'a woman controls the tone of her relationship UNLESS she allows the man to do so!'. In the first few months of meeting a man, he worships the lady...would do almost anything to please her. Has anyone asked why it stops?? It stopped because the lady has LET HER GUARD DOWN. A woman who exerts much pride & self esteem in herself will be treated as such, on the contrary when you present yourself labelled with a 'tag' so easily bought...you should know the rest.

On the otherhand, not all guys relate on the same slate; while one enjoys eating together, the other might have something he likes doing in unionism. Also lots of guys fear that their friendship will be abused (as lots of ladies have done in the past) or taken for granted. As each one of you ladies hold friendships with your friends where respect is the only rule & is reciprocal, so guys want to be treated even if you are friends. If you can prove that RESPECT remains the only border line in your friendship, you will have opened another door in your relationship.

Finally, it has been said that 'WOMEN ARE BETTER MANAGERS THAN MEN' & i concur. Men are the CEOs/MDs entrusting their business of relationship/friendship to the women to care & watch over. Ofcourse each business has its rules (doesn't mean it can be bent). It is the optimum goal of the lady to manage her relationship so as to yield optimum profit: we all know that when it yields profit, the man takes the credit & when it doesn't the woman takes the blame! So see relationship as an investment and with you (beauriful dolls) as managers, manage your relationship to yield profits... But in doing this your man has to be a REASONABLE person (in the sane assumption that NOT all men are reasonable). If your man is an unreasonable or unbendable person, please find your way out!

ichidodo: I'd give an arm,a head and a leg for that kind of buddy. lol. Can you help me wit a lady problem?

However i can, i will try. Please share...

ichidodo: The day i will get a woman that will not squeeze face but enjoy one round of PES or FIFA with me that wil b when hell freezes over. I think you have touched a sensitive nerve as far as NIGERIAN SINGLE LADIES are concerned. Its not all about quantity but quality.

Yea bro! It could be fun when your love is also your best buddy...

bukatyne: +1,000,000 Likes!
4,5,6 and 7 are pearls. We really lack in that aspect. Dolls, we need to cultivate and improve those qualities.

Men should also let go of pride and tell us they crave our touch, caresses, kisses, gifts and words of encouragement. Society projects men to be emotionless beings so don't blame us when we don't pamper you.

When men are ungrateful and don't say thank you for the little pampering we do (it's my 'right'), it doesn't encourage/motivate us to do more or improve ourselves. There is no pride in love.

'Ask, and it shall be given unto you...'

'A grateful person will get more while an ungrateful person is like a thief...'

Should I give a standing or sitting ovation?

@bukatyne...

A sitting ovasion would do. You are right with all you have said, but i was writing a note to the dolls because they invariably control the tone of the relationship! Turn the right buttons and the man's light comes on...

ichidodo: Fantastic.Simayankibaba

Tnx @ichidodo...
D ladies want a thread, let's give them a thread!

Hello dolls & gents: Good morning to you, i hope you had a great night.

Let me start by letting all the ladies in the room know that MAKING A MISTAKE in terms of relationship is NOT a mistake, LIVING IN A MISTAKE is the mistake. We all make mistakes everyday & sometimes we tend to make up by covering our mistakes with FRESH mistakes, & before long we seem to live an ENTIRE mistake. From my point of view, here are some mistakes ladies make:

1) Ladies take APPEARANCE too much to heart. Even in the bible: God told Samuel that 'I look not at the countenance but at the heart' & there is a saying that 'all that glitters in not gold'. If you are a lady & you care so much about appearance: how he looks, what he drives, what he has, what he can do for you financially, how you want to boast to your friends about him... Then you are living a MISTAKE!

2) Some ladies think its not necessary to be close to the family of their man. While there are dicy opinions about this, it is a MISTAKE. Do not be the show girl or 'work-man' to the family, but do not be the enemy either. It is ept to be a friendly face or voice at times in the family: so a word or two can be said on your behalf when the need arises.

3) Most ladies fail in sharing a personal FRIENDSHIP with their man. While your man occupies a headship position in your relationship, deep down lies a boy who wants to be played with, talked to, talked with & advised. Relying on sexual or spiritual relationship only is a MISTAKE! Enjoy moments together: seeing a movie, watching football, wrestling, play games together (ludo, video or Pc games, cards games, board games), go out together(visit family & friends), take funny pictures together!

4) Ladies are often selfish in ROMANTIC or SEXUAL relationships, this is a GREAT MISTAKE! The notion of: this is the only way i like it, this is just what i want, am tired today, having pains tommorrow... No o! It won't last. Have discussions on what excites you both, & practice how to achieve it. Make plans to abstain from sex together for a particular time & in a loving manner. Never forget to touch you man everyday no matter what: a hug, a kiss, hold his hand, pat his back, comb his hair, lace his shoe, knot hid die, touch his shirt, hold his waist.... But let him leave the house with a touch from you.

5) Ladies often forget the positive impacts of words. MISTAKE! Adore your man, with positive words: Your majesty, His royal highness, my king, my world, my boo... It shall be well with you, you will be favoured today...
They often remember words only when its time to swear & curse. Not good!

6) Ladies often prefer HAPPINESS to JOY! MISTAKE o! Happiness is situational & conditional as a result of the environment but joy is a state of mind. Ladies rate guys by their environmental surroundings: job, cars, house, dressing... Guys are know to have built their personal houses from a one-room apartment. Don't make this mistake!

7) The last but not the least, ladies think they have a hold on their man, MISTAKE, MISTAKE, MISTAKE!!! Even married women don't have a hold on their husbands except he is a dog. Impressions of you (positive or negative) will remain like footprints on concrete of time. The proud ones will never admit it to you, but some where in their heart...dey adore you! Don't think your good deeds fall into the ground, for even '...our Father who is in Heaven knows good gifts to give to you...' Men like to be left alone, but with little leash...talk but not all the time, but when there's a time to act don't fail to do so!

Wishing you a rather BLISSFUL week!