DailyNews:

Forgive simaya pls, its for ur own good and happiness, not only for him.

Thank God no one knows u, just be thankful and only u know yourself, so if there is any comment on this thread that u wish u can add to ur knowledge, do and discard the rest so u can be happy here.

It is so bad that when we Nigerians come online, we forget ethics. We just wish and desire to hurt others. We carry on grudges, hatred and pains around. Carmelion, pls never carry a grudge becos it destroys things and can drawback personal success in life, which I pray not.

In summary, don't fight bad words or insults with insults, I did it and it backfired on me, so avoid it to keep ur username clean and cherished like it is now becos once u start fighting Simaya or any other person that tries to ridicule or call u names, u will see that all these people cheering u- go go go carmy! Will all desert u, turn against u and even go behind to exchange PMs with their rapports, saying bad things against u.

Just avoid all insults pls, focus on the good things u are doing, the wise n real people appreciate ur efforts, and of course, we all have a bad past in one way or d other, so dnt regret any personal xprence u shared here cos it has made u a star, a hero and a role model. stay blessed and more wisdom to your knowledge.

Winneygirl:

If I was involved, U will not get dat car back 4 two weeks!! By dat 2 weeks, U will not even have tires, not to talk of having tires to pump.

Disregarding traffic laws?? Humility?

Dat humility is wat will even make me remove those tires and give 2 someone who needs them.

Don't let me catch U ooo!!!!

simayanki4real: Hello dolls & gents!!!

@carmdoll & others: My apologies still continue...
But in the mean time THE ORIGINAL MESSAGE (REPLY TO DONCOLLO) HAS BEEN MODIFIED.

Please all those who commented or quoted it should try to modify their also!

Have a great morning & wonderful weekend!

simayanki4real: Hello dolls & gents!!!

@carmdoll & others: My apologies still continue...
But in the mean time THE ORIGINAL MESSAGE (REPLY TO DONCOLLO) HAS BEEN MODIFIED.

Please all those who commented or quoted it should try to modify their also!

Have a great morning & wonderful weekend!

DailyNews: awww! So beautiful of u @Simaya...I don't just know y I cherish humble people a lot, and believe me, they are the best for friendship, Simaya, u just won a hero medal from me....and if this was in real life, would have given u some

Stay blessed, and u can testify to this that u now feel so free, happy and loved, or is it a lie I doubt. In fact, u are d best so far...and I can bet my ten naira that u so much cherish carmelion, we guys are sometimes like that, portraying our likeness for a female in a wrong way now she knows better...


@ivy, u are more than hilarious....lol

nbright my man, why d quote no word lovely people, wishing u all a lovely happy weekend

Ivynwa:

@Simayanki
You are lucky that the person I was match making you off to is taken or your sweet posts would have garnered you a sweet Iyawo for real.
Hey! by the way are you tall enough for Maya2pretty? Check yourself, check yourself
You can dash into a pharmacy shop and have them check your height and everything Maya2pretty likes in her man and you report to the thread for my judgement. I'm the new match maker in town. Gotcha! I no fit laugh-o-o

Ivynwa: Right now my match making eyes thinks that Madrista has his eyes on Carmy doll and Chike seems to have his eyes there too. Let them tanda there dey do Inyanga, the minute a very wise man enters this thread to sweep Carmy off her feet. Na dat time you go see real tears run down this thread.

I saw a lady declaring her love for Dailynews already in another thread and he was blushing like the sweet gent he is. Whew! who is the lucky lady that will get blessed with Dailynews? I don't want to be that lucky one sha because even though he will make a sweet spouse his ideologies will not allow a free spirited lady like me enter club go enjoy my blasting music, lol.
Hey, nobody should get mad at me-o-o. I am only advertising my new business, the match maker just opened shop. Pay up if you need my services. Just kidding there!

DailyNews: Above everything, I want to advice everyone reading this to strive daily to practice these:

- honesty
- openness
- friendliness
- humility
- forgiveness
- patience
- tolerance
- respect

And lastly, strive to LOVE people no matter how u feel about them. I am using this medium to ask u people to join me in saying a big THANK YOU to God for His several grace, blessings and unmerited favours in my life, even today, God showed me that He is God, join me in thanking Him, and pls forgive my going off point a bit, just overjoyed

DailyNews: let me start with openness. Do u know that some of our problems in life can only be solved when we are open enough to share it with people in a very honest way

Example, a friend told me abt his sister who had been waiting for a husband till she was 35yrs n was already given up if not for her pastor who always encourage her. She wasn't ashamed according to my frnd in tellin ppl she know n meet that she is still single, open n hopeful, n to cut d story short, she got her ever loving hubby via a recommendation from someone she told abt her single status, n ryt now, they live in asokoro 1...I saw their family pic, so enviable.

Again, a guy I knew got his present job by being open to ppl...n guess where d lead came from? A married lady he met on facebook n told he was still job-hunting, n the lady knew a perm sec n that was hw he got hired with NHIS recently. Some ppl wud prefer to lie, pretend n do this n that, y? Does it cost to be open missb? To me, it doesn't no matter d negative aspects.

Patience, its a very vital trait for survival. Without it, u may not have a happy n fulfilled life, pls strive to be patient always, despite the challenges n pains, I knw, but pray n make frnds with ppl who dnt only criticize ur mistakes.

Humility is a virtue...it can take u to a place u never wished or dreamed in life.

Believe me, since d last 2 weeks, I had been breaking traffic laws here, entering d wrong lane to evade traffic, going one-way unknowingly, etc n believe me, this week alone, LASTMA and traffic police have arrested me four times including today, and even took my car (a branded car to say) to their HQs and u won't believe that in all these, I spent no dime, only today that I spent money to pump my tyre they deflated when we entered their headquaters.

What saved me? Humility...a long story. Imagine Nigerian para-military and force rejecting money I gave them as a thank u after they released me, thrice, not once o.

One came to me and gave me a hug that he is sorry for deflating my tyre, that I am a good man, y? Cos I was so humble from d beginning.

I have lots of scenarios to cite on humility, so dear, wear humility like a clothe n watch out from now

nzubeokafor: Please I see that this post is for single ladies and I am single guy that is searching for a girl friend around lagos please if you are intresting flash me 08033248746. My pin 33181b68

Winneygirl:

i thought we have Bouncers on this thread??

Bouncers....Bouncers....Where are the Bouncers??

carmelion:

I see you are not done with me yet right?First,you succeded in making me go back to the mirror,to know if I look frustrated,oh yes you did.

Then you now made to also understand why some ladies here on Nairaland keeps telling me that I have guts.I mean now I know why ladies shy away from opening such topic.It is either they are not interested or they can't stand the insults that will come with it.

Meawhile did you say,'unkind words'?.*SMH*.

No man,those were not words,they are KNIVES!,You cut me through the heart.I was soooo weak,but a lot of people here,and a lot of things kept me going.

I will still repeat it,a man can never understand a woman 100%.You noticed missblanche crying,the way other ladies reached out to me,did you read Smartie gurl's comment?.I wish I can show you my inbox,so that you will understand what I am talking about.

So imagine,what the main victim did.Only a woman,and a few guys would understand the depth of those knife cuts you gave me.

Now you say,you are sorry?


pheeew!










Well what do you want me to say?No?,So that everybody here would say that am wicked.

I am very emotional,oldest members of the thread,can attest to that.Every thing I have said here on this thread,is very real.I rather keep my mouth shut,than write lies.What will I gain?

So for the interest of this thread,I will accept your apology but when I truly forgive you from the bottom of my heart,even a blind man will know.


Naturally,I sulk a lot,so it will take me a little time but trust me, things would be fine.

Please modify that post,it is heartbreaking.Write something else there(a joke,a poem,a response to a topic previously discussed),you know, just be creative.I think someone,quoted you ,please tell him to modify his, too.I will change mine too.Let us pretend it never happened and please don't do it again.

Moreover ,don't say that to a lady outside,it is murderous.

I want to blame all this on misunderstanding,please let's try to comprehend before responding.

We all must not agree but If you disagree with a particular point raised by someone ,do that peacefully.

Goodmorning

nbright: @dailynews, I did comment maybe someone or something stylishly hid it... Here is it again.

Forgiveness is a sin... I am not Jesus Christ
that I should be giving out scarce
resources (forgiveness) freely... I believe
that if I'm offended and I forgive, it will
give others more reason to offend me
knowing that I will still forgive them again
and again... I so much believe in the
Mosaic law of an eye for an eye...

2buff: Then how will God forgive you if you can't forgive others?

simayanki4real: Hello dolls and gents, how‘s your morning going? I have got a question for this family specifically for the ladies, please feel free to comment. In light of the happenings to the single ladies of this thread: heartbreaks, disappointments, beat-ups, embarrassments…I am forced to as this question.

ARE WE DESTINED TO BE FACED WITH SUCH CIRCUMSTANCES? If yes, why? If no, then why?

The reason for the question arises so as to give HOPE. Lots of ladies today have accepted their situation today as destiny or the will of God. I have an ideology about this but let the house speak first.

alutacontinua: Back to the issue on hand, the truth is that when I also saw simayanki's apology, didn't just wanna comment so I don't look lyk a devil but dose words compared to what he wrote back then, i don't think it works dt way. I'm glad carmydoll said her mind, sum oda pple wld just av said ok even when dey're not ok. I didn't read this thread from the beginning, so, i don't know wot has transpired or gone down here but one thing i would like to know if it's not too much to ask is why you said dose words Looking at the few pages before that comment, i still don't understand why he wrote it. It was lyk he had carried a grudge for too long and he couldn't wait to pour the words out! Probably saying why you did it might help carmydoll in the forgiveness process.

carmelion: Experience they say is the best teacher.I want to share with you dolls one the not so sweet experience I had while I was dating a particular guy.My dear Sisters,beware of guys who will tell you that they love but they already have a fiancee who is known by the family members.they brainwash you and tell that it is you they love(this happens after you hace opened your legs for them,why not before?)

They spoil you with money,love and so on you fall helplessly in love.And at the end of the day,they walk down the aisle with the they supposedly didn't love,while leaving you heartbroken .

Hey dolls,it happened to me and believe me I don't want anyone of you to feel what I felt.I was down,i felt suicidal.I believe that a lady out there is ignorantly believing another play boy out there.

Please my dear sister,wake up today and run.If its you he truly loves,he wouldn't have a fiancee who is not you,Well am over it now but I don't want any other person to innocently fall for such people.You deserve the best!

simayanki4real:

i guess i wasn’t in my right frame of mind when i shot those.

Ivynwa: Right now my match making eyes thinks that Madrista has his eyes on Carmy doll and Chike seems to have his eyes there too. Let them tanda there dey do Inyanga, the minute a very wise man enters this thread to sweep Carmy off her feet. Na dat time you go see real tears run down this thread.

I saw a lady declaring her love for Dailynews already in another thread and he was blushing like the sweet gent he is. Whew! who is the lucky lady that will get blessed with Dailynews? I don't want to be that lucky one sha because even though he will make a sweet spouse his ideologies will not allow a free spirited lady like me enter club go enjoy my blasting music, lol.
Hey, nobody should get mad at me-o-o. I am only advertising my new business, the match maker just opened shop. Pay up if you need my services. Just kidding there!

madridsta007:

But we must respect that carmydoll has her hands full.

190-the-clown:
whats going on here

190-the-clown:
whats going on here

nbright: This is weired... Same thing happened in my prescence in school on thursday... This one was between a girl and her bf, you need to see the way she treats the guy... It happened in our faculty... Whenever the boy friend tries to help her out with anything she will just shout at the guy to stop, she sends the guy to go and photocopy some documents for her "baby go and photocopy these ones for me", the olodo go run go.. It's not as if the girl is that pretty or tall... (maybe she's a wildcat on a bed).... (or she's the money bag in the relationship).. I was so embarrased/angry that I had to stop helping her before I said something to her that will make her to order her "baby" to deal with me.... Most girls are just too arrogant.. @ carmy, u said mayb I've had my heart broken before by a girl.. I want to use his opportunity to tell you that I have NEVER EVER been in a relationship before.... But that doesn't mean that I am a green horn when it comes to some matters of the heart...

190-the-clown:
whats going on here