₦airaland Forum

Yo! Ibb i feel you and i agree with u
I was just trying to point out to women that the fact that a guy is willing to wait does not automatically make him good. So if you like a guy you don't have to give him ALL at once. Let him know and he'll treat you with the respect you deserve. If you front too much any self-respecting guy who 's looking for a REAL relationship will find another chic who's ready to reciprocate.
And i ain't hi on no weed dude!

ruky_ivy:
thanks alheri all i have to say is that we should advise this thing called black, whatever to close this thread. Nairalanders am really sorry for using insultive words here but i think that boy went too far.

Its so sad to see that many people are shallow minded! Ruky is also very rude. Your first post was soo offensive that it was deleted yet you insisted on posting an apology to nairalanders while insulting blacknight the more. If I was seun i'd ban you from this forum.

The dude wants a disabled chic! It's his choice! I don't see where the problem is at! If i can choose slim, fat, tall or short why can't i choose disabled if that's my thing!

bluenubian:
i don't think i want to impose my beliefs int other people, but i think he was saying that he was born gay and if he believes in God then that means God made him gay. me i believe u can be born gay, science have said it has some thing to do with your hormones and chromosomes and an imbalance can generate a third sex(hermaphrodites). but really everyone is made different and the extent to ones gayness ( if thats a word), depends on how screwed up u became in the birth process

I happen to be a biochemist and i know that virtually all your personality traits can be linked to a gene or the other. If i happen to be agressive, it won't stop my uncontrollable temper from being wrong will it? Lets call a spade a spade. The ability to trace the roots of a pattern of behaviour  does not justify the behaviour.

Shannon:
I have a problem with the fact that people keep saying that this boy was blaming his "gayness" on God. I don't think most people see it as laying BLAME on God. I think they are doing what the rest of us do, which is attributing their creation in general to God. Honestly, how many people who have commented actually know someone who is gay? And do you know the consequences of trying to keep that hidden from the rest of the world?

I have done extensive research on the consequences of those men/women who attempt to lead a heterosexual lifestyle while still having homosexual feelings. In the majority of cases the homosexuals who attempt to lead a straight lifestyle and even get married and/or have children have numerous issues. Those include abusive behaviors towards the spouse/children and alcohol/drug abuse. Asking a homosexual to ignore their feelings like it's some kind of bad habit is the same as asking a heterosexual to ignore their feelings and live a homosexual lifestyle.

And please, as a Christian I'm asking you, stop taking Leviticus out of context. If you must condemn the sins listed in Leviticus then I would suggest that you list all of the sins, that includes eating any sort of pork product, and ladies have you looked at the list of rules about how to deal with menstruation? If you're not reading the whole book and following every rule explicitly I really don't feel you have the right to throw that one small portion in someone's face. It seems to me that homosexuality is harped on because it makes people uncomfortable. It's listed in Leviticus, I don't contend that it's not listed as a sin, but I do protest the fact that you think that people choose this lifestyle. Do you know how difficult it is to live as a homosexual, even in someplace as "liberal" as the US?

Please read your bible in full before making arbritary statements ok? The new testament explains very clearly excactly how Christ amended the laws of the old testament. Nobody (at least i don't) grudges the homosexuals a right to live but i do take offence when they want to attend MY church and tell me to my face that MY God made them the way they are when He explicitly tells me in His book that He does not condone such a thing.

spikey,spikey _{shakes his head again}

t4cash:
Yawn. Why is it that once someone says to them "I don't believe in the Bible" some Christians become deflated and can't carry forward their argument?

BTW There is no such thing as a "christian God". God with a capital G, implies monotheism. Correctly, you shouls say a "Christian concept of God".

My guy,
I can only argue using the bible as text with sm1 who accepts the bible.
In the case of which you don't, then that particular line of reasoning falls apart, ok?
The only option left for me is to appeal to some authority we both recognise to  attempt toproove my case, in this case logic.
And then by the way, this is a moral issue, Logic is so limited when it comes to morals.
i'm just curious, I wonder how atheists i.e people who don't believe in the existence of ANY kind of God (god) explain the concept of morals. How can there be good/evil if there is nobody up there to decide that this is good;this is evil
I wonder if i'm making any sense to anyone out there?

Spikey,spikey, _{shakes his head}

spikedcylinder:
t4cash,i agree with you.If u had explained it like that earlier,
Simmy,am sure with your rigid views you also believe that men are superior to women?

No I dont. Ok?
It's so sad that when most people are faced with hard fact they turn around and accuse the presenter of the fact of being rigid. I'm not the one being rigid. The truth is rigid!! Ever heard the saying "the truth is bitter?"Mayb i should hav phrased my earlier statement thus:
Then from common sense it is obvious that the man and woman complement each other. The penis and vagina were made for each other. Happy now,spikey?
My apologies to all other feminists in the house

know what it is i'd realy like to do

Spikey
If you don't believe in the bible then there is no basis 4 a discussion because obviously we believe in different Gods. or at the best we believe different things about the same God. I can only attemp to prove to you tht God condems homosexuality throught he bible whch i believe to be his irrefutable word.
Then from common sense, the woman is obviously the complement of the man. All animals exhibit heterosexuality, the penis was made for the vagina, isn't that obvious?
If homosexuality is ok, then how about bestiality? How would you like it if i decide to make love to my bitch (yes, female dog) at home and try to pass it off as normal.Hmmmm?

I wonder why women think only serious guys are ready to wait. I'm the kind of guy who'll do whatever it takes to get what he wants. If i want you, i'll wait till you're ready and still f, k you and dump you if that was ny original plan! So why not give in to me now so that i can dump you now instead of postponing the inevitable

Well if it's a punishment then God has changed his mind because a cure (which will be widely available in the next few years) has been found by British biochemists. _{I hav e this on good authority}

To spikey and all gay lovers
Hope u read the posts  by lioness and choice a. It's preety simple isn't it?
And pls none of the Jesus came to free us from the law crap. I think an averagly intelligent person should b able to see thru tht kind of reasoning
TO ALL GAY PEOPLE:
Please do not try and justify your bad habits! Homosexuality is simply disgusting. WE all have our bad habits, and we don't go around trying to justify them just because we cant stop.

You can be gay if you want to be gay, its alrite!, Just dont claim God made you that way.He didnt.
@lioness
i think spikey is mad at u bc u compared gays to a serialkiller. As long as a gay person has sex with another consenting gay person then no harm is done, but in the case of a serialkiller ther's obviously a crime involved. Ther's no crime in being gay, it's just a stinking, disgusting,revoltingly derpaved and unbelievably horrible habit and thts alright. you can b gay as long as u dont come near me with ur gayness, or near my family or i might just bash ur hd in (just kidding)

Pre-marital sex is wrong by Christian standards. So if you're a Xtian cohabiting with your future partner is not advisable. However, if youre not concerned about xtian principles (or that of any other religion for that matter) there really isn't any big deal. Many times couples just want to spend as much time 2gether as possible. And what better way to do that than living 2gether?

How can jay-z hav an edge on nas? AAAAAAAAH!
blasphemy! Nas 4eva!

I thought i was the only person who loved the song o! ive jammed it so much it has driven my family crazy and they cant stand it!

Here are some facts for everyone to consider
1) NO style of music in itself is bad, even gospel music has to be presented in genres i.e Pop, R@b,hiphop blablablayadayadayada
2) Even though SOME, or many of this artistes are satan worshippers (bonethugs n harmony for example) not All of them are
3) Indie Arie being a worshipper of nature or whatever does not reflect in her music. i.e She does not ask or suggest to me to do anything wrong or unscriptural in her music; so her religious beliefs are really none of my business.
4) Even though there is a lot of negative messages present in today's music it cannot be contested that most of it is purely for publicity reasons and not out of some evil,diabolical intent
5)Gospel singers should learn to package their music in a way that will be appealing to most people
I ;isten to ANYTHING! as long as it sounds nice,
As long as it is not too x-rated in its content in any way
As long as it is not too extreme in its lyrical content in any way
And as for listening to a song from the end to the start?, I wonder why anyone would do such a thing also

;DAt last a guy has taken the time to write this all down
Finally, the guys side of the story.(I must admit, its pretty good.) We always hear the rules from the female side.

Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! Please note these are all numbered 1 ON PURPOSE!

1. Men ARE not mind readers.
1. Saturday sports. Its like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be,
1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. Thats what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem. See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 days.
1. If you wont dress like the Spice girls, dont expect us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think youre fat, you probably are, Dont ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done, not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials,
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say nothing,then we will act like nothings wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you dont want an answer to, expect an answer you dont want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear Is fine.Really!!!
1. Dont ask us what were thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as premiership , sex or starwars
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!

All women should take note, these are the NEW RULES guiding ALL man-woman relationships
What do YOU think?

;DThanks, i did write that, nice rhymes too
Isnt money every underground artistes problem?

I mean, invest, financially
But you'll have to prove you have what it takes to suceed in the business and that you've got some talent