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I am 26 years old. I simply got into sex out of ignorance like millions of young people today. My addiction placed me as the highest abortionist in the world at age of 26 and now, I have a sad story to tell. Until I found myself in a total mess, I never really had any Idea what premarital sex was all about. I never knew it was so useless and killing. Before I got into it, I use to think it was some fun and I dreamt of it more often than not. I wished with all my heart to have a boyfriend whom we would explore it together, little did I know that I was being nasty to myself. Because of things I see on TV and magazine, I thought having sex was so much fun, I fantasized about it each time I felt lonely. Only if I had known that everything I see in movies and soap operas were just acting and make belief; only if I had known that there is nothing in sex after all, the only thing in it is self destruction; I think my life wouldn’t be this miserable. It’s a pity i really had to learn the hard way and I really wish I had never been born, I wish I had not come out into this deceitful world where nobody cares about young people, all the so called adults do is how they would play on the intelligence of young people in a bid to exploit and use them to satisfy their insatiable sexual passion. I really feel bad about this wicked world. My plight started when I was sixteen, then I was still a virgin and in secondary school, I was ignorant of many things but because I see it every day on the TV and internet. More so, a couple of so called Anti AIDS people visited us in school a couple of times for lectures, but all they did was introduce sex to us even more because they really had nothing but condoms to show. Fine, they told us about AIDS, but at the same time, they also told us about condoms, they never really said anything real about sex, they said we could contact AIDS not through sex, but unprotected sex, which means there was nothing wrong with sex as long as you could use condoms, but all of that I now know very well are lies, and I wonder why men and women would enjoy telling teenagers deadly lies like that. Even though I can’t blame those people totally for my plight because they weren’t really the ones that said I should go into sex, I still never forgive them for encouraging me and other young people like me into sex with their preaching of protected sex or condom. Even though I wanted to see what sex was really like and I fantasized about it, some were within me, I was still very scared of what may happen to me afterwards if l tried it, and it was that fear that actually kept me away from it until I was sixteen. By the time I was sixteen, my fantasy had gotten enough boost to express itself with reliance to said to myself one day, “free yourself baby girl, there is nothing terrible in sex, can’t you see everyone is doing it, by the way, you can always use condoms nothing will happen”. So, I finally decided to let go of my fears and embrace in totality my silly fantasies, and that was how I took the very first step into this miserable life of illicit sex. I had absolutely no idea of what I was going into. I finally agreed to date this guy who had been disturbing me for more than a year, his name was Andrew. Andrew was five years older than me. Both of us began enjoying sex, - we did it every seconds, every minute; - I became addicted that I do not love doing it with condom anymore. Within the period, I had 14 abortions for Andrew, and not only that, I cheated on him in several occasions, I felt doing it with other guys will give me better sensation but all were the same. My school teacher got me and at the end of the day I had 6 abortions for him. And worst among was my sexual affairs with my close relations, which resulted to 5 abortions. Then I felt I was at the top of the world. I will never forgive my friends who introduced me into partying and sleeping with old men with potbelly and rough skin only in the name of sex. Right now, all those men have gone, and then shadow of my past sexual life still follows me around. All this pills and tablets I took are now telling on my blood stream. At times I felt like committing suicide each time I remember what the doctor told me, “Tessy, I am sorry, your womb is automatically damaged on account of the several abortion you had”, “I’m sorry, you will never conceive again in your life, but just thank God, you don’t have HIV or AIDS”. I therefore, advise every young girl reading this piece today, to over look every fantasy towards sex. Sex is good but it has time. And that is in marriage. Keep yourself away from men. Make friends with those who mean good for your future. |
simplebussy: We just lost a dog that we are all fond of and my sis is so bitter about it. I am also in a foul mood @ work too. We have had dt dog for 6yrs. It was painful cos the dog was crushed to death by our car when we were going out. I have been pushing back tears all morning. Pls share your experience if you have any.take heart man,we lost our dog named bruno in 2009 due to old age(13yr)...... |
The leadership of the Arewa Conasultative Forum (ACF) last night met with President Goodluck Jonathan over increasing attacks by suspected members of Boko Haram sect in the North. Briefing State House Correspondents after the meeting, Presidential Spokesman, Reuben Abati, said leaders of the ACF have assured the president of their support in the fight against the sect. He said ACF told Jonathan that the forum has taken steps toward resolving the issue by setting up a committee which will make its report available to government on completion of its assignment. Also speaking, ACF Chairman, General Jeremiah Useni, said the forum is in support of the proposed dialogue with the sect. He said, “even when you are fighting with somebody you have to sit down one day to talk.” On the recent comments credited to the Congress for Progressive Change (CPC) presidential candidate, Gen. Muhammadu Buhari, over 2015 election, Useni said, “I don’t think there is any war going on. If you say anything and I disagree with you does not mean we are fighting, we are not fighting anybody.” Abati said Jonathan assured the northern leaders of government’s readiness to collaborate with the forum. Other members of the forum at the meeting include former Inspector General of Police, Ibrahim Coomasie, former Katsina State governors Saidu Barda and Brig. Lawrence Onoja, among others. |
BREAKING NEWS: Bomb blast in Roumoukoro Area of Port- Harcourt City.............MORE DETAILS SOON! |
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"Uncle that your bastard friend you referred me to for a job asked me to sleep with him, if I must get the job!"complained Vivian. "You are rather the biggest fool,...lazy idiot her uncle replied. You expect me to clap for you and go fight my friend for asking you for just a short time on your waist in return for 350k monthly salary job, a car for ur official upkeep? How many jobs has your hopeless, useless lazy boyfriend given you even after sleeping with you over a thousand times & over d years?" replied uncle Alex. A test case of morality & reality.Who do you support in this case? Uncle Alex or Vivian? 44 minutes ago · Like · Remove |
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I love d harmattan(AUTUM) season cos its cool,raining(SPRING) season makes the enviroment looks irritating and dirty and it affects schedules,while d heat(SUMMER) season is damn frustrating(it favours mosquitoes) want to hear nairalanders opinions? wel i stay at Kaduna |
The explosion took place this morning,the church is located south of Kaduna,number of casualties unknown...... |
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lots people told me dat he prophecied dat boko haram will varnish in the month of march,i want to hear from NAIRALANDERS? |
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