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RomanceRe: 12 Wrong Reasons To Get Married by simtosul(op): 8:44am On Jun 18, 2015
channelz:
Nice points. For most people, the question that would follow would be:

"What then is the reason to get married?"

Lol.
cos God says is not good for a man to be alone nd dats y he created woman to be our help meet
RomanceRe: 12 Wrong Reasons To Get Married by simtosul(op): 8:41am On Jun 18, 2015
juicee1:
@no.5

If your biology clock is ticking, it's best you rush to get married or remain single all your life. No one wants to marry a lady who has hit menopause.


How To Be An Attractive Guy
hmmm with God all things are possible
RomanceRe: 12 Wrong Reasons To Get Married by simtosul(op): 8:39am On Jun 18, 2015
donholy28:
Men are blessed...at 40 years we still be young boys...but ladies 30 years una don enter final year
u r funny bro
RomanceRe: 12 Wrong Reasons To Get Married by simtosul(op): 8:39am On Jun 18, 2015
ice25:
as ugly as it may sound, it's a men's world. the biological clock is soo mean on women


many things I wanna achieve before marriage, but I look at the clock... nawaooo is damn fast!!!
#fact#
RomanceRe: 12 Wrong Reasons To Get Married by simtosul(op): 8:37am On Jun 18, 2015
GeneralQuamdeen:
OP, this thread is copied and pasted, but dont worry, your secret is safe with me.
lol bro not nobody was born as an author
RomanceRe: 12 Wrong Reasons To Get Married by simtosul(op): 8:36am On Jun 18, 2015
demmy0325:
Marriage is a sweet tin.. But..




For the faithful couples.. undecided..




Cnt wait to get married.. cool
abi
RomanceRe: 12 Wrong Reasons To Get Married by simtosul(op): 8:07am On Jun 18, 2015
6. You Are Bored: You should also not get married simply because you have nothing else going on in your life. Do not just assume that marriage would provide you all the companionship you need simply because you are uncomfortable with your own company. Focus on your personal growth, find a hobby, start a business, grow your career, and when the time is right, you would meet your true partner.

7. To Get Over An Ex: Did you just hear that your
ex has gotten married? Did you just go through a
terrible break-up and you think jumping into a
lifetime commitment will heal your broken heart?
Well, this is really wrong. When you do eventually
get over the ex (and you will) all you would be
left with is a partner you do not love and the
feeling of total regret.

8. Pregnancy: Just because you are pregnant, or
she is pregnant for you is not enough reason to
commit to forever. This might sound like a good solution at first but in the marriage, you would notice your partner is simply a mother/father to the child and not a wife/husband to you since the child is the only foundation of your relationship.

9. You Have Been Dating Forever: So you have
been together for years and years and tying the
knots seems like the perfect solution. Sometimes,
it isn’t. When it is time to decide marriage, take another look at your relationship and consider how it willchange if you make it official and bring children
into it. Be as honest as possible with yourself and your partner. Do not just start planning a wedding
because you think that is the next step.

10. All Your Friends Are Doing It: As humans, we
cannot help but compare ourselves to our mates
as we progress. We worry about making sure we
are where we think we are supposed to be because all our friends are already there. But marriage is a completely personal decision. Just because everyone around you seem to be jumping in does not mean you should just close your eyes, pick someone and jump in too. Take your time and make sure you, and you alone feel you are ready for the step before taking it.

11. Your Families Get Along: You might have started dating someone because he/she is a family friend or because your families get along perfectly, but this is no reason to make vows to be loyal and faithful to him/her forever. Make sure you are doing it because you both feel ready, in love, and connected with each other.

12. You Think It Is The Next Step: You just completed your education, or you just got that big
promotion at work. You just bought your first home or you just hit a particular age. Whatever your reason, do not get married just because you think it is the next thing to do. Marriage should not be on some to-do list that you have. A lot of individuals have married without being prepared emotionally, mentally, spiritually, psychologically and materially and as a result, marriage vows are not kept and thereby a collapse of the union.
Romance12 Wrong Reasons To Get Married by simtosul(op): 7:56am On Jun 18, 2015
Being married is certainly not a life step that should be taken lightly. But often times, people do it for all the wrong reasons and it ends up leading to a bitter marriage or even divorce. These reasons below are the worst reasons to settle down.

1. You Are Afraid To Lose Him/Her: Using fear as a reason to get married is completely wrong. If you are that unsure of your relationship, then being apart is simply a better bet.

2. Friends And Family Pressure: You will always
have family members or friends that put pressure
on you to to settle down because they think it is
time. You need to realize that these people would not be in the marriage with you and they certainly
would not directly feel the consequences of a
broken marriage. Only take this step because you
think it is time.

3. You Are Getting Older: Yes, yes, the infamous
biological clock is ticking away and reminding you
that you are running out of time. But, you should know that once you are in a bad marriage, you would be so much worse off and wished you had waited for the right person as opposed to settling for the wrong person because you think time was running out.

4. You Feel You Owe Him/Her: Did he pay your way through school? Did she hang in there through your strip club days and your cheating ways? Getting married because you feel you owe your partner a debt is also a terrible idea. Get married because you absolutely and completely want to and you would feel much more satisfied with your choice.

5. For Material Security: This does not just refer to women who settle down with rich men just because they do not want to worry about money. These days, some men actually choose to go for women from rich homes/background, perhaps due to promises of wealth from the woman’s parents or the feeling that the woman can solve any
money-related problems that come up. Such marriage would not work out because one
person will no doubt feel used and might decide
to act out or be disrespectful.
RomanceRe: Why Ladies Really Pierce Their Tongues by simtosul: 3:39am On Jun 17, 2015
If u see any girl that pierced her tongue she is a lesbian take it or leave it
PhonesRe: Pls Help, My Glo BIS Subscription Edge And H+ Not Displaying In Blackberry.net? by simtosul(op): 2:29am On Feb 11, 2015
tanks @ James and quinnboy is working now after I inserted it into my friends bb am really grateful. one luv bro
PhonesRe: Pls Help, My Glo BIS Subscription Edge And H+ Not Displaying In Blackberry.net? by simtosul(op): 12:56am On Feb 11, 2015
quinnboy:
Change the imei to another one coz the imei u used is not working.
tanks I av generated anoda imei but stil d same tin after. I was using d setting perfectly before nd dat was last month ending I don't know wat happen dat it just stopped. Any oda help pls
PhonesPls Help, My Glo BIS Subscription Edge And H+ Not Displaying In Blackberry.net? by simtosul(op): 12:17am On Feb 11, 2015
Gud day @all pls help, my Glo BIS subscription Edge and H+ not displaying in blackberry.net APN again setting? Wen I put it on gloflat and glosecure its shows the Edge nd H+ but if I select my default to blackberry.net its doesn't show Gprs sign at all. Tanks 4 ur response
PhonesRe: Pls Help My Infinix X800 Not Powering Up After Successful Rooted? by simtosul(op): 6:20pm On Jan 22, 2015
[quote author= post=30028532]ok. we're probably looking at a drained battery. you have two options
remove then boost battery using external charger
keep charging till it shows a charging sign[/quote]tanks @hobatek I av done wat u said nd its working perfectly nd am working Even using the glo bis is so fast on it nd am posting dis message wit d fone. tanks once more you really helped me alot
PhonesRe: Pls Help My Infinix X800 Not Powering Up After Successful Rooted? by simtosul(op): 8:59am On Jan 22, 2015
[quote author= post=30018487]is your battery removable?[/quote]no its not removable
PhonesRe: Pls Help My Infinix X800 Not Powering Up After Successful Rooted? by simtosul(op): 3:58am On Jan 22, 2015
[quote author= post=30006736]dont panic. need you to narrate exactly what happened between just before rooting to when it shutdown. details please[/quote]Thank you. I was having 15% of battery life left before I rooted it with Vroot software on my laptop. After I connected it to my laptop and I use debug mode and successfully got rooted message from the Vroot the phone then I sent Mobile uncle tool app to the phone through bluetooth and when I was about installing it, it shows that my space is full and I shud delete some files. Just about when I wanted to unistall some app to have free space it just hanged and the touch screen function is not active then I switched it off and when I tried to on it back it refuse to on but my battery was still very hot at the back of the case which makes me think maybe its still working. But after I left it to cool down I tried to on it back but all to avail. Pls help what and what should I do? Thanks
PhonesRe: Pls Help My Infinix X800 Not Powering Up After Successful Rooted? by simtosul(op): 8:30pm On Jan 21, 2015
any help pls?
PhonesRe: Pls Help My Infinix X800 Not Powering Up After Successful Rooted? by simtosul(op): 5:34pm On Jan 21, 2015
Wittylens:
Phone Bricked!
pls wat can I do to recover it back?
PhonesPls Help My Infinix X800 Not Powering Up After Successful Rooted? by simtosul(op): 4:51pm On Jan 21, 2015
Gud day at all, pls I need urgent reply I don't know why my phone infinix x800 shutdown and refuse to power up again up til now after I have successfully rooted my phone with vroot software on my laptop. pls what should I do to make it again?
RomanceRe: If U Can Do Dis Ur Relationship Will Last by simtosul(op): 2:27pm On Nov 04, 2014
guente02:
When im ready for marriage ill start learning all those.
START IT FROM NW
RomanceRe: If U Can Do Dis Ur Relationship Will Last by simtosul(op): 7:33am On Nov 03, 2014
agrovick:
bros, u cannot understand
hmmm
RomanceRe: If U Can Do Dis Ur Relationship Will Last by simtosul(op): 9:39am On Nov 02, 2014
agrovick:
well every time I go to bed I dream I'm churning out songs like Flo Rida. well, they'v got this appeal to make a man stay glued forever
to make a man stay glued forever like seriously?
RomanceRe: If U Can Do Dis Ur Relationship Will Last by simtosul(op): 10:43pm On Nov 01, 2014
tanks @all that I av contributed to dis post so far
RomanceIf U Can Do Dis Ur Relationship Will Last by simtosul(op): 8:37pm On Nov 01, 2014
Perfect relationships r nt made up of perfect people. They r made up of compromises, adjustments, unconditional luv, constant forgiveness, tolerance nd understanding all d time. U wil av to go tru ur share of fights, out of the blue arguments nd weird situations. U av 2b ready to make compromises nd adjustments. U av to b willing to embrace each other's imperfections. U also needs to be emotionally strong nd willing to continue to grow in luv everyday wit ur partner
RomanceHow True Is Dis In A Relationship? by simtosul(op): 1:49pm On Oct 12, 2014
If u treat dem as a priority in ur life they will toy wit ur feelings, if u make dem optional in ur life they will respect u but, if u luv dem d way they wanted 2b loved, they wil b urs 4 eva. Am I right?
RomanceRe: Pls Advice Me On What To Buy For Her by simtosul(op): 9:22pm On Oct 07, 2014
Thanks @ all for your contribution I really apprecuate it
RomanceRe: Pls Advice Me On What To Buy For Her by simtosul(op): 11:22am On Oct 07, 2014
Charles4075:
Op just get her a chrome bullet like this
lol
RomanceRe: Pls Advice Me On What To Buy For Her by simtosul(op): 9:19am On Oct 07, 2014
MisterLongman:
Buy something neutral for her. Neutral in the sense that if her boyfriend discovered that you are the buyer, he won't feel offended
tanks but something natural like?
RomanceRe: Pls Advice Me On What To Buy For Her by simtosul(op): 8:38am On Oct 07, 2014
veegirl:
Commenters d OP said 'couple thing'. Meanin dey'll both av d same thing. She coulda bought it though and given u 1 of it since its ha idea. Well, dats not d issue. Oga OP i tink u shud buy identical (thinking....)
will get back 2 u wen i remember. cheesy
tanks am waitin for d outcome of ur thinkin

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