tundebasic:
Let's connect. You can reach out to me via WhatsApp (check the number in my signature) or via email. You can check your email for my connect request from Nairaland.

Haaa! Tunde ke

NEUDUDE:


Well prove me wrong tell me you are 23 and wouldn't mind a broke guy

Lol.. I'm more than 23, I'm not broke so I can't go for a broke guy.
No be mouth, broke guy no go fit reason my matter sef

IbrahimSkiba:




My dear you shouldn't feel sad because you are experiencing such. It's happens to most good looking women. It's either left for you to accept those men who comes your way or not.

I am talking by experience. That's why I zeroed my mind off anything concerning relationship for now until further notice.


I pray grants your beautiful hearts desire

Thanks Sis

toujurs:
You are ugly then, you don't look attractive. Just forget about having a man and focus on a business to start. You can will the proceeds to your siblings.

I'm beautiful and I know it..
My beauty is such that I'm easily noticed, if you like, don't believe it, that's your own business..

If not that I opened this account just for this, I would have mentioned people here that know me offline

NEUDUDE:


Leave all this story. You are now looking to settle with rich, decent, innocent guy with mansion and cars after enjoying the bad and randy ones lol. Unfortunately you cannot eat your cake and have it. Your age will bust this case wide open

Subconciously your energy is atuned to the bad guys youve always been fvcking thats why you keep meeting them lol. Respectfully we cannot teach you how to pretend

Wow! I love the way you write like you're so sure of what you're talking about..
Na wa o

toujurs:
This one have reached mid thirties, after like 2 abortions.

She is now looking for the weak men, to retire her over stretched coochie on.

Men without standard, are who fall victims to these nonsense.

Hian! Abortion loun loun when I'm yet to even have sex.
Wo, I don't even have energy to argue with you. Your thoughts are your own intellectual property jare.

Jflex07:
Oh, I get now. I hope you find your heart desire soon. Wishing you all the best.

Thank you

Jflex07:
The guys you say approach you,is it that not one of them can be given a chance? You just judge them from afar without getting to know them? Or is it the first impression thingy?

Is not first impression thing o, me that even enjoy the feeling of being in a relationship, is just that I don't want proper sex until marriage. Just my personal decision but it seems rare to find guys that want same..

One even told me to get pregnant before we can go any further in the relationship, this is someone I really like o and he probably knew it but I just let him go because I don't want any form of mental stress

Kobicove:


If you tend to attract only irresponsible type of guys then it could have something to do with the neighbourhood were you live or the places you prefer to hang out...consider moving to a more decent area and changing your circle of friends

Hmmmm.. Which neighborhood should I relocate to like this?

Hermanie:


Women, you know there's absolutely nothing wrong in making the first move.

Truth is most of the guys that go around approaching women are the randy type. Trust me a guy that is very comfortable approaching women especially in public places is most likely approaching multiple women.

You're expecting one "responsibile" guy to see you and fall in love with you. You want him to approach only you. Forgetting there are millions of decently dressed and seemingly responsible women just like you too.

Let's practicalise it. Let's say I'm a responsible guy, maybe an introvert that normally don't flirt around. Now tell me, what is special about you that I've not seen in 50 other women that would make you approach you.

My advice. If you see a cool guy you like. Try to find out if he's single, and ask him out for launch

You most likely won't do this though. Just know that the honest truth is 90% of men that actively chase women are not chasing only one woman.

I might be able to flirt a little around a guy I like but to outrightly ask him out I can't o..

Oh Chandler! So sad.. Started watching friends few days ago, presently in season 3 and this news is no longer making it so interesting for me

CandyOps:
I think you're perfectly fine except you're religious or superstitious and want to link this to something other the the obvious -- which is the fact that 'bad boys' are usually more mouthed and tend to have the balls to make an approach when they see what they want.

It's the same with a guy like me, i had to kiss a lotta frogs to find my princess. Now guess what...? My princess just called me this morning and she broke a happy/sad new to me about her visa to CA been approved.

And she'll be leaving for Canada by month end.

I feel my heart drop when she said that. I took a few seconds to process the info and I immediately shut down the waves of mixed emotions that hit me.

Soon enough, I'll have to go back to kissing the damned fugly frogs again. It's an annoying process sieving through the dating pool to find the single perfect match 😢

Damn! No wonder she didn't let me in fully.
**heavy sigh 😔

Lol..
I'm neither religious nor superstitious. I just started getting worried about it lately anyway..
As for your relationship, you can do the long distance thing and maybe later you go join her there. Abi you wan comot your mind just like that ni.
Not allowing you in fully might just be a personal decision for her, not necessarily because she doesn't want to be with you for long. I personally do not consent to anything beyond heavy petting, it's a decision I made long before I even started dating

SmartThief:
How you can use 5k as a student for a week.

1 painter of garri 1300
3 packs of spaghetti 1800
4 cups beans of 600
2 satchets of tomatoes 200
2 Satchets of groundnut oil 300
2 cups of sugar 400
Groundnut 300

Total= N4900

A mixture of 2 cup of beans and spaghetti should last two days for you. use the garri, groundnut and sugar to be subsidising o

austerity measures!

Where you see paint rubber of garri for ₦1300 and 4 cups of sugar ₦400?

fineboynl:
Once you step out from your house. The money will fly like a wind.

Despite the economy. I still believe 5k if well manage properly can go for a week.

Buy meat 1000,
egusi 500,
Obgono 500 and okro 300.
Smoke fish 600.
Use balance buy Garri, Oil, crayfish, ugu leaf. some days you go just buy fufu 200.
Make too much Garri nor blind your eye.

Cut the meat Very little that can go for a week.

Cook Two soup, egusi and draw soup.

Mix the ogbono and okro together.

Borrow money to buy 2kg wheat if you can,

You will need to skip meal like 101 Or 011 even 001.

It will carry you for one week if it's just only you.

Then again other factor need to come in. If you have freezer. Gas, light bills. 5k is no longer money again oh. Hustle hard.

This your advice funny die

Hideaki:
You attract what you're


If you're a bookish nerd or a nightclub goer , you'll attract somewhat the same


Look at your life , find meaning in your life before finding man

Get a job or hobby if you don't have one

Read books especially romantic ones

Spend time doing that, Spend time doing what you love

Dress well and decent , You don't have to unclad to be sexy

I've female friends that are dressed to the core and nothing's showing but they still look dazzling

Man shouldn't be the goal until you're well equipped with necessary capacities and facilities.

I'm neither a nerd nor a nightclub goer, not like I see it as something bad though.
I have a job and in my free time I read good books and watch movies.
As I mentioned earlier, I dress decently at least 95% of the time.

Reminderz:
you said you dress decently, you don't expose your endowments, and you don't give the off the "she's just for fvcks vibes"? if so then, it might be something to do with your personality or character... believe me, when you respect yourself, men will also respect you...

It can't possibly be my character or personality, that I'm sure of 100%. People I get close to with time often tell me I look spoilt and give bad girl vibes. Whenever I ask how, they always start with my physique and the way I look not like I even have an hour glass shape o. I just tire jare

blacksam01:


do u work...?

looking for a wife...only condition is dt sh must b working nd be a gentle well behave lady who calms down nd forgivs after being angry...simple...if u are such person just pm me

Lol..
"Who calms down and forgives after being angry", this is not even a problem but for you to put it forward means you would often get her angry and you expect to be forgiven at all times. Am I right?

Being single at my age and for my kind of person is mind boggling.
I don't know why I meet the kind of guys I meet o, bad guys tend to gravitate towards me especially the randy ones. Most times, I'm well dressed and I respect myself a lot so I don't understand why I'm not meeting the kind of people I desire.
Am I doing something wrong or I'm just suffering from what I know nothing about?

I want to get married o or at least have a serious relationship going on by the end of this year
Advice needed on how to achieve this, thank you all for your anticipated contributions

[quote author=chiefolododo post=126540001][/quote]A scary face, making me dizzy sef

Another colour of pill..
Orishirishi