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MadamVanessa:



Oh poor Siofra

I have limited knowledge regarding things like this. Hopefully, our nairaland men will come to your rescue.

thank you. i've figured it out.


who needs men

Zonefree:
Chioma is Davido's Third baby mama. How did she used and dumped him?


Your chioma is a very good example of why we say most Nigerian girls are senseless.

How can chioma expect loyalty from someone like Davido? A man with several baby mamas before he met you

She got deceived by Assurance and the title Chef chi. Typical of a Nigerian girl. Fish brain!

You people think Chioma is Annie Idibia that will swallow all the nonsense 2baba is throwing at her and still be begging for his love.
She wasn't deceived, she played her cards very well.

Una never see anything. I wish more women will be like Chioma.

Zonefree:
Wetin I wan use her nonexisting nyash achieve

Are you asking me

Zonefree:
On behalf of Nairaland men, we reject to help Siofra.

Be there following MadamVanessa in the nyash like fly. You think she will show you her nyash

Mtchew.

Zonefree:
On behalf of Nairaland men, we reject to help Siofra.

Please get out of this thread!!

I don't need your help.

PlayMaker14:
This is the major reason why Nigeria and some parts of Africa is still backward today... We tend to debate, discuss give attention and solutions to other people's challenges instead of focusing on our challenges.


Go ask those men who doesn't give STD's for answers, because we STD's giver are busy looking for more STD's to give out.

Mtchewwweeeeewwww. Don't you see the threads where I debate Africa's problem

What did I even expect from a close minded olodo?

What is wrong with being curious

I've never seen a Nigerian who is interested in communism before, so get out if you have nothing to say.

It's connected and there's internet access but I can't browse.

I tried troubleshooting and the result is that it's having problem with the automatic proxy server. Please what does this mean?

Whatever works for them.
It's for people who are interested.

Americans don't like communism and I'm curious. They constantly speak against communist nations like China, North Korea etc

Is the hate for communism because of the horrors that took place in the Soviet Union under communism in the 20th century or purely economic reasons?

Hmm.

Nicoswit:
Be mindful of what you wish your sons just to form feminist on a faceless forum

I watched a video where a guy was a househusband and he was fulfilled and happy with it. His wife works and provides for him while he does the house chores. People insulted him in the comments but of course he didn't care.

You people cannot handle half of the shit you dish out to women. I'm just happy more women in Nigeria are embracing feminism.

Makween:
This is actually wrong,let’s call a spade a spade. I’m a woman and i won’t side a woman when she’s wrong. If she was actually feeling headache, she should have rested instead of watching movie which aggravates headache and she saying she doesn’t wanna eat and when the food was ready, she stood up to eat is nonsense.

But the woman works doesn't she? What will happen if they split house chores equally? He should not help her when he feels like. He should be equally involved in the house chores.

LasgidyPort:
Doing that quota is what a lot of people find difficult to do.

Nigerians behave so badly and then want leadership to automatically provide a civil and sane society for them out of the blues.

Nigerians cannot wait in line for anything. They by themselves over the years corrupted the public services by their hasty attitude to get things done ahead of others by any means possible.

The so called decadence happening in Nigeria was caused by Nigerians themselves not people from Pluto.

Apple's come from apples.

The so called leadership, myopic people are trying to lay the blame on are also from the people.

95% of Naija people are morally defective is the simple reason we have been getting bad leadership. The rest talking from the back have just not been availed the opportunity to dip their hands in the cookie jar, some of them are worse!

The British developed Britain
Americans developed America.
The Japanese developed Japan.

The Chinese 're currently developing their country and taking millions of their people out of poverty.

Nigerians, the ball is in your court to also develop your country.

You're right. We lack self-discipline. We should try improving ourselves first before we blame our leaders.

Readability:
I know it's really hard for Nigerians to love their country because of the way things are going, and the not caring attitude of our leaders. But the inferiority complex is too much, Reflect7 has mentioned so many reasons as to the development of other countries that are way ahead of us, but many of us just decide to believe that being white means being superior which is not so.

I would have called you lot white supremacist but you're not even white, heck you're a black man like me. As much as I don't agree to his words on government action towards diversification, but the guy has said nothing but the truth. Many people don't even know Africa's history and how we got to this level, all they just want to see is miracle. Most SouthAsian countries are still developing economies like ours but they love their country and are good compatriots, India, Bangladesh, Myanmar, Indonesia, Vietnam et al. Other countries in Africa that are as bad as ours still believe in their country, DR Congo is a good example. Let's stop the hatred of our fathers land and our skin color, it won't do us any good neither will it make things better.

We need to change the way we reason in this country, if we all lose hope in the country and believe it's not going to get better, honestly it won't. But we can all keep doing our quota to making this country a better place, discourage voting apathy, and if you want to travel abroad that's also good you can use the money earned to establish businesses back home.

True.


The poverty in many Asian countries was shocking to me when I found out. Even in a country like China. When I watched their documentaries I realized their country is far from perfect.

But they don't go online blaming their government and their fellow citizens. They try to improve their situation relentlessly. It's always inspiring when I watch young innovative Chinese on TV.

Reflect7:
By at least THREE of the criteria hIghlighted in the 4 bolded, the USA itself is a failed state.

The US murder rate is over 50,000 per annum, equivalent to 50 Boko Harams operating all at once. 7 in 10 adults bear arms, meaning their FG does not have ''the monopoly on the legitimate use of physical force''.

Many parts of rural America are no-go areas for racial minorities, so the US govt has a ''loss of control of territory''.

And 80% of nations on Earth are developing countries, with varying degrees of ''inability to provide public services'', so if Nigeria is 'failed' on account of inadequate provision of public services, then so are 80% of countries on Earth.

The problem with most of you is that you don't travel to anywhere else on Earth except that tiny strata, that 20% of the world called the developed west, because of your colonial brainwashing that it is the only place worth a visit.

So to you, they have come to represent ''the world'', against which you judge yourselves. It is why you consider yourselves ''failed'', because the west is all you know.

But IF you traveled the REAL world, where most countries on Earth are located, you would quickly realise that Nigeria is not unique in the developmental challenges it faces. Y'all might even get to lose your national and inferiority complex.

It's just like the movie Snow Piercer about capitalism. 80% of the world suffers so that the remaining 20% is enriched.

Reflect7:
Because they were chosen by the rich, developed west as a capitalist trading outpost and transport interchange, and an important bulwark against Soviet communist encroachment, together with the other 4 or 5 Asian 'tiger economies'. These nations, after WW2, received massive technology transfer, huge financial grants and favourable loans of all kinds from Europe and the USA, to serve as capitalist bulwarks against rampaging communism in the Pacific following Soviet successes in the war and subsequent communist expansionism.

It's a bit similar to what the west has been doing in Ukraine. Pumping them with money and technology transfer to serve as a counter to Russia.

This is why Singapore is an island of prosperity in a sea of developing countries worse than many African states, such as Cambodia, Nepal, Myanmar, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, India, Pakistan etc etc. THAT is how Singapore would have been without the ARTIFICIAL western involvement.

What you should ask is why 80% of the world comprises developing nations like Nigeria, and the reason is historical, and is tied largely to western brigandage of the Earth, from which most countries are still trying to recover.

SCHOOL THEM, BROTHER!!!

Mtchew!

yinkaOdutuyo:
Ok ma. If so be it. May all your children be the ones to be cooking for their wives.

Nothing wrong with that. Especially if they are househusbands and as long as their wives don't degrade them but treat them as their equal.

I watched a video where a guy was a househusband and he was fulfilled and happy with it. His wife works and provides for him while he does the house chores. People insulted him in the comments but of course he didn't care.

You people cannot handle half of the shit you dish out to women.

Gamesmart:
That is low, so you should be able to remember them.

What did you pay as the bill on both occasions?

3k for the first one

6k for the second.

I don't even have many male friends. Only one is my friend. The second was invited by a mutual friend of ours.

You're very wrong.

You're the one supposed to be cooking for your wife sef.

Modified;

Why are you people attacking me like this

I'm very sure his wife gets up in the morning to go to work just like him and as such they should split the house chores equally. Instead of doing as if he's doing his wife a favor by cooking for her.

Gamesmart:
How many men have you invited out in your lifetime?

Just two. I do it for fun, not to woo them and get into their pants like Nigerian men do.

pacespot:
It is not usual for women to do that in this part of the world, men always take the lead. Which leaves me wondering: are you a Nigerian or living in any part of the country?

My friends and I do it sometimes. Especially when we want to have fun and chill. Like last year's valentine that's what we did.
We know Nigerian boys are broke and we understand.


Yes, I'm a Nigerian.

pacespot:
Have you ever invited a man to an outing and paid the bills yourself?

Yes. Any problem?

The problem of Nigerians is complex. It's not that easy to figure out.


But one thing I know is that Nigerians may claim to be the most hardworking and moral people (they pretend to be moral sef) on Earth but if they lack self-discipline (which I think they do) it's nothing. Look at countries like Germany and Japan. One thing you notice is how much they value and promote self-discipline in their culture. Not just Germany and Japan, many European countries and China too. Even some Americans.


Nigerians don't even have a culture that celebrates genius and creativity.

My dear, the problems of this country is plenty but if we are willing to be sincere to ourselves and ready to put in the effort then I think we can do it.

He asked me to borrow him 100 naira.


Please I don't date men who borrow 100 naira.

So, who's ahead of Elon Musk in this life?

incandescentena:
Evil women everywhere. I don't need to hear from both sides

Idiotic, olodo, evil men everywhere. I don't need to hear from both sides too.

It's mostly white people that are condemning Will Smith's slap. I wonder why. If it's a white man, I wonder if they'd be condemning him the same way.

No one even cares about Nigeria sef.

HilcomTech:
What will you be getting in return while you are slaving away.

Only broke men will call it slaving

Magnoliaa:
Naija men. A clownish silly set, ngl!

The same set of guys fighting for men not paying bills are the same people that'll brand a woman that runs her shxt with money as unsubmissive, masculine, rude, proud, disrespectful, highly opinionated and whatnot.

Issokay Isoright... Just thank you all for the entertainment you're providing me tonight. I'm just here to read comments and nothing more. Hahaha!

Very confused set of people. Their head is in their anus. They cannot reason well.