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SarutobiEky:
you're gorgeous. Happy birthday.. many many more happy years in addy.

Thank you, dear

BrotherCork:
helo.am new on Nairaland & I tink I love u so gimme yor nomba please coz I did not ask any babe for nomba meaning am a gentlemen.u dig?

You this thief

Pumpumprince aka pumpumking aka MrCork aka TheCork aka Congo4ka and a host of other monikers when will you stop this your foolishness

NothingDoMe:
Happy birthday!

Thank you

Zonefree:
Endeavour to use triple protection, please.

Hahaha hehehe

Very funny.

HolyMan12:
Siofra come ooooooh!

I Just want to fvck you.

You uploaded your picture. If that is really you, you will do for a nice fvck

Stop this sexual harassment before I report you to the mods

Infact I've changed my mind.


Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique rule two.

fairwilliams:
Happy bday to u... Location 4d party n0w that you're in ur early 30s... Drp ya aza 4a token frm me.. L0ng life

Thank you

No party o! This year, na to siddon for house think about my life

Sorry, but I can't drop my aza here but thank you.

Magnoliaa:
Chocolate la hot .
Happy birthday, Love ❤ ❤ .

Jesus!!! Why am I seeing this now.

From a whole Magnoliaa.

Thank you soooo much, dear♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Axis313:
Happy birthday stubborn girl.
Wishes you more of it on this mother Earth.

Thank you very much

Fira09:
Anyway Happy Birthday.

More prosperity to your feminism.

"Womanist is to feminist as purple is to lavender".

AMEN for the bolded and thank you

Asceleb16:
Happy birthday siofra

Thank you.

Blunttruth:
Happy birthday . Time flies, try to achieve what you want to achieve, don't procrastinate. Remember to do it legitimately. Always leave an impact on people who meet you.

Why are you kind to me today?

Rayban25:
Na wa oo...and man still never marry you ...tick tock...

Whatever

I begin to question reality.

RingRoadMafia:
You are beautiful, that's why I want you to upload more. You could take them down in about an hour or so.

Birthday Blessings

Something is wrong with you. Weyrey.

Candidlady:
What do you wanna do with her picture
What sorta comment is this


Happy birthday siofra

Thank you, candidlady♥️

RingRoadMafia:
No pictures? What type of birthday celebration is this one?

I actually uploaded my real photo today

Kollins11:
I wish you more dicks to your kpekus
I wish you a more lubricants to your kpekus
I wish you strength to ride more dicks.
Happy birthday siofra

Eejit!

I'm 30 already

Time passes so fast.

More photos.

He's kinda cute.

Meet prophet Malluc M Elias.

A redpiller who's miserable and lonely will come here and try to threaten nairaland women with spinsterhood and Shiloh. Wonders shall never end

Younger and middle-aged men are the loneliest they’ve ever been in generations, and it’s probably going to get worse.

This is not my typical rosy view of relationships but a reality nonetheless. Over the last 30 years, men have become a larger portion of that growing group of long-term single people. And while you don’t actually need to be in a relationship to be happy, men typically are happier and healthier when partnered.

Here are three broad trends in the relationship landscape that suggest heterosexual men are in for a rough road ahead:

Dating Apps.
Whether you’re just starting to date or you’re recently divorced and dating again, dating apps are a huge driver of new romantic connections in the United States. The only problem is that upwards of 62% of users are men and many women are overwhelmed with how many options they have. Competition in online dating is fierce, and lucky in-person chance encounters with dreamy partners are rarer than ever.

Relationship Standards.
With so many options, it’s not surprising that women are increasingly selective. I do a live TikTok show (@abetterloveproject) and speak with hundreds of audience members every week; I hear recurring dating themes from women between the ages of 25 and 45: They prefer men who are emotionally available, good communicators, and share similar values.

Skills Deficits.
For men, this means a relationship skills gap that, if not addressed, will likely lead to fewer dating opportunities, less patience for poor communication skills, and longer periods of being single. The problem for men is that emotional connection is the lifeblood of healthy, long-term love. Emotional connection requires all the skills that families are still not consistently teaching their young boys.While there’s probably no chance of stemming the rising tide of unintentional single men, there is still good news.

The algorithms are becoming increasingly more complex on dating apps and other online platforms. One benefit is that great matches are on the rise. Hinge, one dating app, found through beta trials that 90% of users rated their first date positively, with 72% indicating wanting a second date.

How can men reap the benefit of the algorithms? Level up your mental health game. That means getting into some individual therapy to address your skills gap. It means valuing your own internal world and respecting your ideas enough to communicate them effectively. It means seeing intimacy, romance, and emotional connection as worthy of your time and effort.

Ultimately, we have an opportunity to revolutionize romantic relationships and establish new healthy norms starting with a first date. It’s likely that some of these romances will be transformative and healing, disrupting generational trauma, and establishing a fresh culture of admiration and validation.Men have a key role in this transformation but only if they go all-in. It’s going to take that kind of commitment to themselves, to their own mental health, to the kind of love they want to generate in this world. Will we step up?

Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men%3famp

I wonder if this applies to romantic relationships in Nigeria too because as for me, I'm not settling for any ashy, emotionally immature guy like these redpillers.

rickleye:
Nope plus this is only happening with a few women.
Most of them don’t know what Feminist ideas are :

Some husband or men, those 45 and younger still want their wives to cook, clean,
manage the house and have a career (work) or business ( harder to do) like it’s still the 80’s. While they have side chicks and party with the boys. And these women have come to a realization that why can he have fun and I can’t.

Women are wising up. They aren't settling for less anymore and it gladens my heart.

Cypress042:
This is outrageous.

How can a man chose to simp upto this extent ? maybe the wife is dead or divorced

You won't do this little things for your kids, you won't bond with them, you call it "simping" then when they grow up and are distant, you start blaming your innocent wife for turning their minds against you.

Meanwhile I don't see anything special in what he's doing. This is what a parent should do for their kids. You're not a super dad or anything. It's just basic parenting. Stop applauding him

Except he is someone who cleans up after himself, I don't see anything wrong with what she did.

Most men are like that, they claim they cook or like cooking but they don't do the real hardwork i.e cleaning after cooking.

I don't blame the girl at all, I'm sure she works too, she's just doing what men have done for centuries.

TMTR:
NL feminists are the dumbest set of feminists I have ever seen

Just because someone has a set of ideologies different from yours doesn't make them dumb.

Grow tf up. You sound like a pathetic child already.

Men are very wicked and useless. Trust them at your risk!

Devilish and evil gender, stabbing a helpless young woman.

BigCowH0rn:
Now now girl, stop lying.
I still remember you thread on front page this year.

Then you didn't understand it.

BigCowH0rn:
Lol, girl

You still looking for a tall, handsome soldier to marry?
I became close friends with one a month ago

A lieutenant from Imo state. He is just 27 though and fair not dark..

I was never looking for a "tall, handsome, soldier" to marry