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I have a friend who is in an open relationship with a fiftyish Lebanese man.
She also has a boyfriend who is within her age range.

Some days ago, her sugar daddy wanted to make things exclusive but she refused and he found out she has a younger boyfriend and even got hold of the guy's Facebook username.

Now he's saying she should breakup with her Nigerian boyfriend or he introduces himself to him as her boyfriend.

When I was with them yesterday I also noticed he was acting very possessive. For example someone called her and he wanted to know everything about the person.

I would have preferred she goes with the Lebanese because he treats her very well, he buys stuff for her anytime she goes to visit and he even acts like her personal bolt driver and he's also nice to me.

But she loves her boyfriend more, if he doesn't call her in a day, it's as if she should die, so breaking up with her boyfriend is out of question.

So, what do you think she should do? Because even if she ends things with her sugar daddy, he will still contact her boyfriend. That's what he said

Lol

My male friends do it, when I'm walking beside the curb they will try to stop me but I don't let them stop me.

I walk beside the curb because I want to.

I don't care.
I don't even keep messages. I'm constantly deleting.

bukolaademi001:
Sorry to quote you about this, but is the channel 198 o
back yet? Cos there's no channel 198 on my decoder

I don't think it has appeared yet. I've been searching for it too.

A shabby man is an alpha man

Whose fav is this again?



Failed thing!

Where are all the people saying Laycon would be big outside the house

This year's BBN better be good

Easybuyphones:
sometimes when my friends hug my babe in my presence, i dey cower. the way dem take dey squeeze person for this country no be small

Ikr

Nigerian guys should reduce the way they squeeze ladies when hugging.

That's not feminism.

Don't be stupid!

budaatum:
You see market?

This is blood ritual o

MITCHELL96:
Then, Go about hugging the Ghanains na

This topic is just irrelevant right now. Try and rest B$

Did you just call me bitch?

Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique rule 2.

Bankloader:
Ain't you fed up of your hatred towards men

How is this post man hating now

If you want your breasts to live long, avoid the hug of Nigerian men if not they will hug you till your chest is flat.

I've hugged a Ghanaian guy and his hug was very brief and gentle. Why can't Nigerian guys hug this way They always want to crush your breasts, hold your waist and if you allow them, squeeze your yansh as if you're their long lost wife.

This is bordering on sexual harassment and I've stopped hugging Nigerian men because of this (I rarely hug, but the few ones I try to hug, I will stop hugging them)

Please stop it, it's very sinful and inappropriate.

Tems is an amazing woman!

Astounding! prodigious! incredible! These words are not even enough to qualify Tems and what she has done in the Nigerian music industry.

Tems is a whole movement, a divine energy, a force of inspiration.

I love how she is able to breakout and do extremely well in the Nigerian music industry without being sexualized in this day and age. She has done what I thought was difficult. She gives me and other girls hope that you can be yourself and still make it big in the Nigerian entertainment scene.

First female Nigerian artist to win a BET award for best international music act na easy thing? But she did it!

Her plangent, alté sounds keep me floating in that happy place between nostalgia for the future and euphoric daydreams.

I love you, Tems. Keep being you! You rock!

Jeon:
Bennysam


You this PIG..

You told me that I was jobless the other day. But I thank God I never asked you for 5 Naira neither sell vagina before I can carter from myself..


So I advice you to use the time in looking for my troubles in gym... So that you can slim down the fat consuming your short neck.. With that your dull appearance like a lost goat.

Jesus!
Jeon! What kind of wicked vawulence is this?

McOluOmo:
Akamu and Custard na mate?










Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

Your self-esteem is so low.

PrinceofAgoAre:
1st of, green card is at stake.

2.. I bet she's bankrolling d journey.. Can a Nigerian woman do that..

According to the story, she isn't.

Man is a coon.

Totilopussylick:
E get where him go touch you and you'll beg for more

Not me.

I'm not moved when guys touch me.

Moh247:



You flatter yourself too damn much

For this Nigeria wey kpekus plenty left right and center


.

Why do Nigerian men still rape women constantly when there's free kpekus everywhere

Vinnie2000:
Wat is carrying you to a Guy's house in d first place?

Free food or Zeeworld

He has been disturbing me too much to visit him for a long time now.

I'm tired

I'm not taking chances with these Nigerian men, no matter how long we've known each other.

Pic 1: pepper spray

Pic 2: pen knife

Pic 3: I padlock my tough jean trousers.

They can be very evil.

Trust them at your risk.

Fira09:
It's because of their bad behavior..... not all though.

Lies

So the white woman in the story above, did she have a good behavior?

Would that otondo tolerate her if she were black?

Is it low self-esteem?

Is it colonial mentality?

And Nigerian women why do you keep putting up with shit from Nigerian men? Is it because of the way you were brought up?
Is it money?

In December 2018, a friend and I toured Cross River. We visited Tinapa, Wildlife Reserve Botateng, Afi Drill Ranch and Obudu Cattle Ranch.

At the Drill Ranch, we met two couples. Both interracial.
One Nigerian man and his white UK girlfriend. One white American man and his Kenyan girlfriend.

The Nigerian guy met the UK lady when she got into Nigeria 2 weeks earlier. She came in via a ship that docked in Lagos instead of flying because she's an environmentalist. So while the guy's Ogas and colleagues were booking and checking her in, the guy struck a convo with her and she asked him to come with her on her one month tour of Nigeria.
Just like that.
He agreed, dropped everything and followed her.
By the way, she's 23.

The American guy was working with the American embassy in Nairobi, Kenya where he met his girlfriend. A tall, dark-skinned Kenyan beauty. The killings started in Kenya and you know American government don't play. They evacuated him and transferred him to Abuja. He however still kept dating his girlfriend and flew her out to Nigeria to be with him that Christmas.

Every night for three days, all us, including the director of the ranch who is a white man from Netherlands would come out to discuss. The ranch has no cellular phone network or electricity. It was done on purpose in order cut off communication with the outside world. You have no other option but to mingle with fellow guests.

I observed the two interracial couples. It was interesting seeing the Nigerian man actually be subservient to a white woman. He cooked, was nice, did the activities the girl suggested and was generally submissive like you would expect a woman to be. That was a thoroughly THOROUGHLY submissive man.

The white lady wasn't bitchy. If anything, she was really nice. But she exuded this confidence that she didn't have to ask him to do stuff for him to know he should. She knew that to this man, she was a god.

This man treated this woman like a god not because she was a woman. Even she has observed first-hand the way Nigerian men treat their women. We even had a conversation about it.

Not because she was beautiful - she wasn't conventionally pretty. She had no "assets" men screamed about. She refused to shave her armpits or wear deodorant cos she's an environmentalist, had green stains on her teeth and wore no make-up.
She was thin and plain-looking. I posted a picture I took with them that 2018, she wasn't a pretty woman. No shades, just fact.

Not because she was the one funding the trip - women fund their men's lifestyle all the time yet are treated like slaves.

It was because she was white.

Simple.

She knew it, he knew it, we all knew it.
She exuded the confidence of a one-eyed man in the land of the blind.

She was not ashamed of how they met. If anything, she volunteered the information to anyone who asked. Because she knew she would not be called a slut for fucking a stranger she met that day or asking same stranger to follow her on a one month tour afterwhich they'll part ways.

She knew it was a fling. That once she leaves for Guinea the next 2 weeks, it would be over. If anything, it was the guy that kept on making remarks about coming to visit her in London.

It was quite interesting to watch.

On the other hand, the white guy and his Kenyan girlfriend were a sight to behold. He was in his 30s, good looking, comfortable, flew her in from Kenya to visit, provided for her according to the girl, yet completely adored her.
He was all over her. She would be talking and he'd pull her in for a kiss. Didn't let her do jack. Not even carry her soap dish when they went to bath.

They were supposed to go hiking after we did. We came back exhausted and I said it was stressful and I couldn't finish the hike.
The Kenyan lady quipped that since I couldn't finish, how would she now fare?
He instantly cancelled the hike. Excuse he gave was, he was too lazy to go, taking the fall for it.

It was so interesting to see the Nigerian man fight his patriarchal tendencies and be submissive to his white, 23 year old girlfriend. Note that apart from sponsoring the trip, she wasn't giving him money. Matter of fact she was living off the allowance of her parents so had limited funds. Yet the power dynamic was in her favour.

We are not talking about equality here. He was not her equal. He submitted. And the girl didn't have to ask him. She did nothing but be white to have him all submissive and shit.

Before us, he'd try to maintain the "I'm still the man" illusion and try to form macho. But we knew it was a charade.

Meanwhile, before us, the white guy had no problem licking the ground his Kenyan beauty walked on even though he provided for her.

We had a discussion about equality. The Kenyan lady was very outspoken about equality and still maintained that it doesn't stop her man from showering her with gifts. Her man just grinned and drew her in for kisses mid sentence.

The UK lady said the same thing. Her Nigerian man shifted uncomfortably. I waited for him to say "we are Africans and nyenyenye". But he went with the flow and soon the conservation drifted to police brutality.

See ehn, when they say gender equality with African men is unattainable, they lie. It is attainable if the woman is white. African men understand equality seamlessly when the woman is white. They don't even mind being the inferior partner or the "wife" as long the woman is white. They just don't want to be equal with African women.

Also, African women are not the problem. African men say they treat black women poorly because black women are damaged goods, stubborn, unlovable and make you pay bride price and nyenyenye. Yet white men date these same women, love them, lick the dust off their feet and worship them.

Have you seen African men with white women? She could be old, poor, ugly, living in a trailer, jobless, and a Nigerian man would worship her.
But expect his Nigerian girlfriend to wake up by 5 to start cooking meals to serve him and also bring finances to the table.

Yes, they h8te women. But they h8te black women even more. Misogynoir.
Which is crazy cos their mothers are black.

I saw this on Facebook.
https://www.facebook.com/100014026064234/posts/pfbid0EKkisY5DNASvvzfrAfmndT47pWUAqfXnRgWDmfSmA6DKcfk2TVLQGSm2bJ6pFnFhl/?app=fbl

formerUKSF:
Your attention seeking deficiency has made you the opposite of your dp.

Can you take a look at your dp and see a reasonable young girl.

But the words you say here are so vile and controversial

How do you know that's me?

silvoclaira:
Hey Wrong attention seeking makes you dependent on validation and outside energy.

There is something like Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is a mental health condition marked by unstable emotions, a distorted self-image and an overwhelming desire to be noticed. People with HPD often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.

LMAO!!

The way you guys go about diagnosing people you don't know is funny.

Asceleb16:
Nobody really cares... Why will i bag an unnecessary hatred in my precious heart.. No be juju be that?

Thank you for not hating me