₦airaland Forum

Jim99:
Just goes to show that men are the best at everything.

Even the best cooks are men.

Feminists would be gnashing their teeth bcuz of this.

Trans women invading women spaces and dominating. Now they'll know what it feels like when they invade men spaces.

Justbehave:
Rubbish. Go and marry.

Bluntguy:
You are that your cousin. Whether you marry for love or for money remains your business.

I have a cousin. Her dad is my uncle and they are VERY POOR. Too poor my Parents helped pay some of the children's school fees at some points. (The number of people's children my parents trained ehn, uncountable. And I've decided NOT to follow in that trend. Make person wey born train.)

So, this my cousin is a few years older than I am. About 10 years ago, after she finished University and NYSC, she had a good number of suitors.

One was a successful business man, another was a University lecturer (son of a family friend), another one lives in the UK, all these three are the ones we know, all graduates.
I had a friend who used to live in the UK, but now lives in Canada. He wanted a wife with some specific physical features, and my cousin fit everything he wanted. I matched them, and my cousin stopped picking calls after a few weeks. I had to match him with another childhood friend and they got married about 8 years ago.

So, my cousin rejected every eligible bachelor that came for her.

She told us she has a boyfriend and they are both head over heels in love with each other. This her boyfriend is educated to secondary school level, he is so poor, even my poor cousin who was earning N30,000 per month as a secondary school teacher was feeding him.
I mean, MY cousin was poor, earning N30k per month. So, imagine the level of poverty of this her boyfriend, if this my poor cousin was the one feeding him.

Her father talked.
Her mother talked.
We all talked.

But she said they are in love. And that her boyfriend has potentials and working on some things.

They got married in 2015, currently have 3 children.

THEY ARE STILL POOR.

She still begs me for money.

Now... this is the moral of my story.
Many people will NOT like this moral, but I'll say it anyway.

A POOR PERSON HAS NO BUSINESS MARRYING FOR LOVE.

Love does NOT pay bills.

"Marrying for love" is a luxury only the rich and middle class can afford.

YES! I recommend you love who you marry, but love should NOT be your only criteria.

I do NOT come from a poor home. I come from a middle class Nigerian family. Still, I had a standard below which I was never going to go.

Your father is poor,
You are poor, teaching in secondary school and earning N30K. You leave men who are doing well, and decided to stick with and mingle with a poor man... in marriage.

In this life, WISDOM IS PROFITABLE TO DIRECT! And you need to be strategic in life.

My advice is especially to girls...
Dear ladies (from poor homes),
AVOID POOR MEN!
Dem nor use poverty curse you.

If they call you a gold digger, SO BE IT!

People marry for different reasons.
- Some for children within wedlock...
- Some for abroad papers...
- Some for money...
- Some to escape from poverty.

They are ALL SELFISH REASONS!

If your reason for marriage is to escape from poverty, DO IT!

And, yes! Money is NOT mutually exclusive to good behavior.
They say it's better to cry on a Ferrari than in a mud house.
But then, you don't have to cry at all. You can eat ice cream and enjoy in that your Ferrari.

Bleep POTENTIALS!

For every 10 men with potentials, only about 1 finally made it big.

Of all my uncle's that married poor and all my aunties that married poor men, ONLY ONE of them eventually became a multimillionaire. The rest are still poor till THIS MOMENT!

When I say poor girls should avoid poor men, I'm not saying he must be as rich as Dangote. I'm saying he should at least be able to afford a 2-bedroom apartment, afford good food, a small car, and decent standard of living... FOR A START.

You can't be from a poor home, poor yourself, and you go and start dating and marrying someone you will be feeding. You will suffer in this life ehn, you go hear whinn!

They will tell you that your father is not rich, your mother is not rich, but you are looking for a rich man.

Well, you did NOT choose your father, and you did NOT choose your mother. But you are going to choose your husband or wife.
That's the major difference.

Same advise to men too. But, as always, my focus is on women.

Some poor men and boys will cry on this post with different lines, and some will say I'm deceiving girls and telling them to be gold diggers. Some will ask how much my husband has. I NOR CARE!

Well, I'm from a middle class family, and so is my husband.

I can afford a decent standard of living, and so can my husband.
I married my level.

But, if I were from a poor home, better believe I'd have DUG GOLD for real. I fear poverty.

The fear of lifetime abject poverty is the beginning of wisdom.

God bless you all.

- Nkechi Bianze

Kaiair:
Come on shut up! Rotten pussy subhuman

Datboredberri:
No wonder he's so foolish... A yoruba muslim... I wonder who's behind that account...

Moh247:
Lol, funny thing, women in my life ain't cheap.. my mother is an established retired career woman, sister is a British trained lawyer and my girlfriend is from a 3rd generation wealth

So really stop eating people's Shawarma and ice cream and expected to be treated with value

An hungry person has zero worth or value.

A dirty rumpled $100 bill has more worth than the clean mint ₦100 note, so try to create value in yourself without others money and they would respect you

RedpillAnalyst:
Feminity over feminism.

Don't plan a life with feminist, only plan a night. Everything they touch gets ruined in the long run.

Men love good feminine women.

Hacks4dummies:
But you go about with a stinking pussy. True or false?

bmdmix11:
her pussy stinks why else

posty56:
is always men at the receiving end , nobody is talking about how young girls of today ,wants to roll
role with men twice their age

Zonefree:
I'd rather deactivate than to report anyone. That's cowardice.

Besides, most of the Mods here are feminists and SIMPs. To report a female here is meaningless.

Alfabest07:
i am not for anybody, but you said they were drowning in poverty

Zonefree:
Please unfollow me immediately.

Zonefree:
You don't expect me to start digging posts searching for where you insulted yourself.

I got no beef with anyone including you. I insult no one, rather, I say things without minding who suffers it. That's me.

Breast is part of the body, why do you feel offended when I mentioned your left breast? Will you be offended if I mention your eyes or nose?

I got a lengthy ban cos of you and I wouldn't want you to mention or tag me if you're not ready to take what you dish. Thank you

Zonefree:
You and your fellow girls here are in the habit of calling my family members out here on many occasions but you don't see me report or call the Mods on anyone. I prefer to use the ignore button if I feel attacked unnecessarily.

So, to swear with your left breast is now an insult ? Breast that is not even big.

Don't mention or quote me if you can't take half of what your dish, please.

Zonefree:
That was how you called the mods the other time I mentioned you in one harmless post.

You're always in the habit of using cuss words on me which I overlook most times. But, you will rush to call the mods when you're in the receiving end. You're a snake! Try to avoid me please.

Zonefree:
This is my problem with you. You'll tag and call people names, when they return same to you, you'll rush and call the Mods.

Don't you ever quote or mention me again in your life!

Zonefree:
This is my problem with you. You'll tag and call people names, when they return same to you, you'll rush and call the Mods.

Don't you ever quote or mention me again in your life!

jantavanta:
Even the founding fathers of the USA were Black People. Let me introduce Colonel George Washington, described as tall and dark complexioned.

His description is different from the images supposedly of him.