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Crime / Re: Lady Burnt To Death By A Jealous Lover In Bayelsa, Friends Mourn (Photos) by sirdumle: 12:10pm On Nov 03, 2020
Pierocash:
Who died, Wilberforce or Elvina, who is the girlfrnd?the story is confusing
I'm confused as well

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Romance / Some Brutal Truths About Relationship by sirdumle: 6:24pm On Oct 28, 2020
1. Most people are in a relationship that they don’t belong in, that they’re not happy in, and should not stay in, but stay anyway for the sake of telling other people they have a relationship.

2. Most people are attracted to someone else over their partner.

3.Most people get married or get into a relationship for all the wrong reasons, then wonder why they are not fulfilled.

4. Men have to constantly lie to women because women ask their men questions that require them to lie, or die. “Does she look pretty?” “Does she have a better body than me?” “Do you like her breasts?”
Men actually lie about other women to keep the peace, thinking that they will just keep the peace, but not realizing that lying makes it worse.
She does look better than you to him, he just can’t admit it.

5. Men and women fantasize about someone else during sex. (not all, but some do)
If he could find a way to get away with banging that girl, he would do it.
If your mother, sister, cousin, friend, or co-worker has a hot body, he’s going to find a way to check her out.

6. Women are the sneakiest, most ingenious cheaters you’ve ever seen.

7. You will most likely not ever have a relationship with a “10”, and even if you could you probably wouldn’t stay.
>>>> You guys are staying together because you can’t find a better situation.

8.That paranoia your partner shows over keeping you to themselves will NEVER go away, but be flattered because there is something highly valuable they see in you.

9. Some men love looking at other women’s bodies when they go ANYWHERE , but don’t want other men checking out his girl.

10. Most people will never experience TRUE love and TRUE passion Over the course of their lives, 95% of men and women WILL be used by some asshole and have their hearts shattered into pieces.

11. No one teaches you anything about relationships growing up, and you have to spend 30+ years figuring this shit out on your own.
If you hadn’t caught him/her in the act, they would have finished the deed and kept cheating.
I probably could keep going, but I’ll end it here. I hope you got some value out of my post. I love all the other answers I’ve seen in here.

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Romance / What Is Wrong With Our Society Today? by sirdumle: 2:55am On Oct 27, 2020
What is wrong with our society today?

1. Every second person on earth is trying to be someone else rather than being their authentic self.

2. We are becoming more and more lonely day by day inspite of being virtually connected through social medias.

3. Everyone is trying to outshine each other or brag about their accomplishments in one way or another.

4. People still have this belief that being shy and introverted means being dunderhead who will end up being a failure in life.

5. People still call names to mentally retarded people or ones those who are dealing with depression and anxiety in life.

6. The world is changing rapidly but some people mindset isn't.

7. Homophobia and Xenophobia still exists in the society.

8. We are still judged by our ethnicity, color, accent, gender, religion etc in the society.
9. Women are still being raped and the society still blame the victim rather than blaming the rapist.

10. Those who are the most wealthiest still exercise the most power in the society.
Romance / What Are The12 Habits That Destroy Your Focus And Productivity? by sirdumle: 12:03pm On Oct 25, 2020
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Romance / Some Helpful Lessons In Life by sirdumle: 9:41am On Oct 25, 2020
1. Learned how to live in the present without feeling anxious what the future holds.

2. Stopped having unrealistic expectations.

3. Became extremely picky and selective about sharing the most important resource of life I have - time.
4. Cultivated self-control and patience.

5. Became as self-reliant as possible.

6. Learned to become unaffected by emotions. Especially the harmful ones, such as anger, contempt, and fear.

7. Realized that not everything needs to be pleasurable in life. Sometimes you just have to deal with unpleasant things if you want to achieve your goals and move forward.

8 Mastered the art of feeling indifferent towards the things you have no control over, such as how others perceive you, who likes or dislikes you, what they say about you etc.

9. Learned that the more easily provoked you are, the more easily you can be controlled by others.

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Romance / How Do You Know If Someone Is Serious About Their Feelings For You? by sirdumle: 3:23am On Oct 25, 2020
How do you know if someone is serious about their feelings for you?
They will introduce you to their family.
They will let you speak to them on the phone.
And most importantly, they will not keep you a secret.
Because when we like a thing, we can’t wait to introduce it to others.

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Romance / What Are The Most Common Life Mistakes Young People Make? by sirdumle: 9:10am On Oct 24, 2020
1. *Many young people have too high expectations of human nature and love.* They always tend to have unrealistic expectations, so it's easy for them to get hurt.

2. *Many young people think too much, but do too little.*
We should take care of the things in front of us. Especially in work, we must find ways to make ourselves outstanding. We don’t have to compare ourselves with others, but we can compare today with yesterday.
After starting to work, there are many things no one tells us specific answers, so we need to observe the changes around us, learn what we are not good at and improve.

3. *Many young people are too eager for success.*
What they only value ​​is the result, while the process is ignored. But without the right process, how can people get good results?

4. *Many young people are too rash about lifelong choices.*
When choosing a school, a major, the first job, a partner, some young people are too reckless. Most of them rely on feelings, and they didn’t do any detailed research or consulted experienced people when choosing. In this way, making the wrong choice is a high-probability event. For most of things in life, once you choose wrong, you can hardly go back.

5. *Many young people are easily influenced by some seemingly right opinions.*

6. *Many young people neglect themselves too much.*
When being bullied, they say nothing. When their own interests are violated, they do not strive for it. When there are something they don't want to do, they do not refuse. Young people should learn how to fight for themselves

7. *Some young people tend to "rationalize" their laziness.*
Subconsciously, they are too optimistic, and always feel that "life will gradually get better" and "I haven't started to work hard", while their planning of life is always lagging behind.

8. *Many young people do not see their future responsibilities , do not cherish time , and do not understand that time is their greatest capital.
They think that their life is still long, there is plenty of time, many things are not in a hurry to do, and they have the opportunity later to work hard to accomplish some things eventually. Thus, they waste a lot of time. But In fact, as time flies by, the cost of testing and making mistakes will become higher and higher.

9. *Some young people always consider many things from their own perspective* , never from the perspective of the industry/organization/leader/trend. They cares too much about themselves, enlarges their feelings, and ignores the facts itself.

10. Many young people are unwilling to compliment others.

Source: quora.com
Romance / Re: Post cancelled by sirdumle: 2:10pm On Sep 26, 2020
What do you like doing mo
Politics / Re: Edo 2020 Governorship Election Updates, Results And Live Monitoring by sirdumle: 11:09pm On Sep 19, 2020
ghettokid1:
Local boy is becoming confident..
You can't be serious
Crime / Re: Man Arrested For Killing His 2 Children And His Aged Mother In Anambra (Graphic) by sirdumle: 6:37pm On Sep 18, 2020
Arambra and bad news are five and six
Romance / Re: Post cancelled by sirdumle: 4:23pm On Sep 18, 2020
@OP what's the disability?[/quote]
it is ocular albinism, I have normal skin color, eye but my eyes are affected, they move involuntary which denied me normal sight
Romance / Re: please guys, How Much Is Needed To Start Up A Mini Fast Food Restaurant? by sirdumle: 4:12pm On Sep 18, 2020
Boblone:

bro, please the 100k is it for everything?
Dpsychologist:
100k will start something
Boblone:

bro, please the 100k is it for everything?
ok
Romance / Post cancelled by sirdumle: 4:05pm On Sep 18, 2020
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Romance / null by sirdumle: 12:21am On Sep 08, 2020
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Crime / Re: Father Buries His Own Day Old Baby Alive In Jigawa by sirdumle: 8:54pm On Feb 13, 2019
I buried the baby with the intention to remove her the following day in order to look for where she would be nursed.
I did not burry the baby with an intent to kill her.

Can you imagine?

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