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youthsanambra: you are missing man ,join the youth movement and vote the youth choice

missing what? You sound so vague. What does Ifeanyi Ubah have to offer? The guy that wants to sponsor 'youth' to World Cup, and the guy who wants to give free transportation?

I pity Anambra people!

As for you, how much were you paid for the advert?

No wonder you said that I'm missing.

I hear. Who is Ifeanyi Ubah? What has he achieved? Not degrees o! Real life achievement.

Next time don't type with capital letters. It means you are shouting.

With this attitude of yours, I can guess who he is.

And we still spend our money to go there on pilgrimage every year. I smh for clueless African leaders.

If you can't watch the video, it's the Isrealis asking Africans to 'get out' of their country. whether you are legal or illegal cos they want to maintain their Jewish state. They held protest on the streets demanding it.

Very soon other countries will ask is to leave. African don't worry continue migrating abroad, you will be asked to go back to your country just wait and see.

UK is doing that stylishly, the EU too.

I think it is better to say 19 non ________ governors.

Hehe.. A mad place where people worship money while leaving on filth. I went the last year and I was sick when I got home. Look at the pictures above.

Dr.

segzi cres: Lol. I think you need to loosen up a bit. Even if your gonna say no sex b4 marriage be fun. If ur not giving him sex substitute it by being crazy fun! You always hv to give something else that will blind him from sex.

guy you can't say that, not all men

busolaJ: I'm not desperate neither am I a loser, I'm not here to look for a boyfriend I just really need to vent some of my frustrations and share my feelings without being judged hence why I to opened an account.

I live in London,I'm 23, educated with a good job and I've never had a boyfriend,I'm not picky when it comes to men, realistically I'm not that bad looking I rate myself a 7/10 and most people describe me as sweet and easy going.Its not that I don't get Male attention but its always from the wrong type of guys, I assume that all the guys that approach me just want to smash which in most cases I'm right .

I don't believe in sex before marriage, am I being unrealistic with myself?, I don't go clubbing and party all the time so its not that I always surround myself with the wrong kind of guys. my close friends tell me everyday that its not possible to find a guy that will wait till marriage before sex but I don't want to settle for any old school guy at my church just because of my belief . BTW I'm not looking down on 'church guys' but I'm wondering Is it possible to come across young Christians who are considered 'new generation' and have same thinking and upbringing as I do.

please I need some advise and encouragement. Is this normal or am I being too hard on myself?.

I've tried so much to focus on myself and my relationship with God and making Busola (Me) a better person but I'm just really tired and fed up of waiting on Mr right

I feel you

Homguy: what principles?how?

I can't really say, but I'm a principled man.

Homguy: This is wot happens wen a guy acts overly nice 2 his girlfrnd. Calling n gifting her excessively makes 4 a borin relatnshp.
Move on dude,she got som1 else. N in ur next relatnshp try nt to be too nice find a balance btw bin nice nd gettin her to prove herself.

I think it was not about being nice to her, cos naturally I'm a nice person and I'm nice to everyone I meet but i think it was more of my principles.

Sarah a: @sirhot well said

thanks you can send me a mail if need be. Friday.thomas@yahoo.com

Guy dont get carry away, you are just an option for now, when the person she likes shows then you are history. I'm not being pessimistic

^^^ I can't wait to testify too when I meet that girl that will appreciate me, care and love me. Good girls are rare these days very rare and when they see a good guy, they know, but the bad ones will always be blind.

[quote author=2s£xy]What kind of update?[/quote]people had issues, so just wanted to know whether there is any update. For me, she hasn't still called.

[quote author=nadia_SA]Nigeria 0 vs SA 2[/quote]hehe... A mere wish

Guys any update?

Nomski0:

hehe... of course. Naija girls don't like smart guys

[quote author=~Bluetooth]Ibos are really confuse . They want to live in Lagos on the guise of One Nigeria but won't give freedom to other ethnic groups in their own domain , they want to produce the president of Nigeria and turn Nigeria into an ibo country, Ojuku wanted to free Iboland but instead changed his mind and was heading towards Lagos. If I may ask, to do what exactly ?

Massob wants a Republic of Biafra while Nl ibos want one Nigeria so others won't have to look at them like rebels. No one needs an oracle to tell them that Ibos are really confused ![/quote]Confused indeed!!

[quote author=Capt. JH Miller]^^
Don't plan on being one, never will by the grace of the Almighty. I just want to work on myself, be the best I can be. Girls are no longer the priority.[/quote]Good! That's the spirit.

[quote author=Capt. JH Miller]Wow! Seing this thread makes me realize I am not alone.

I have had this girl for close to three years, suddenly she started acting weird. I gave her time, stayed away for two weeks when I came back she just carry that one for head, I always felt she was looking for a reason to quit, I just handed it over to her.
Tried calling she doesn't pick, doesn't reply my text. I am deverstated, someone you imagined spending your whole life with just like that they are no more, no explanation, nothing.
I have been trying for a week to get her to talk to me, even went to her house she used style to get rid of me.
Made the decision to let her go today, its going to be hard but if I get through this I'll be stronger than ever.
Now I know why gys end up being players.[/quote]guy, there's no point being a player, you may destroy yourself in the process, by contacting a disease, God forbid. Build your personality, build your confidence, let the confidence exude as you walk. After few months I bet the girl won't be able to come close to you.

If that girl sees me today, she won't be able to say hi, cos the confidence that will exude from me will make her stutter

nora544: Searchfor a new girlfriend she shows her realy face no.

You should be happy because some woman show there realy face when they are married.

It is better now you leave her until it is to late.

I know a guy who has to sell his house that is wife can make her PhD in an other country, he cannot speak to his parents about his wife because they force him to marry this woman and she is herself calling godfearing.

whould you want to step iin the shoes of this guy.

yeah... I'm happy because she has shown who she is now. I must say that we were not of the same class although I'm not trying to brag but I still went out with her. I guess she must met someone else who she felt is good too.

I happy now cos my next girl has to be really classic I know what I mean by that in terms if attitude and character.

Sarah a: My brother Pastor is involve,but the situation of things regarding his Health is my major concern.Don't want to end up in a regretable Marriage.Only God can understand my fears.

you need to mature in the gospel to discern whatever the pastor is saying. Like I said there are many, many false pastor these days even the very prominent ones. What kind of health issues could that be? If he is honest enough to tell you before marriage, you have found a honest man because there are some that will hide it till after marriage.

Think well before you decide, don't spiritualise anything, don't let anyone tell you he saw a vision, they are all fake.

Jesus did not die for Christians to be rich but he died so that His blood can wash us of our sins. The most important thing is living a holy and righteous life.

After all, Lazarus die poor and went to Heaven while the rich man went to hell. This is not to say Christians must be poor, but Christianity is NOT a license to riches. In the early church, people sold their lands and the money was brought to the church to be shared amongst the poor people in their midst.

Prosperity pastors are wolves in sheep clothing, BEWARE!

Sarah a: Between God and Man I knew i have tried my best ,but the circumstance around it,made me to conclude,b4 it will be too late.Let me make it clear ,I have nvr cheated on him and He had nvr hurt me in any way.Just all about Spiritual aspect.

did you sit him down and discuss or you just woke up and walk out? What kind of spiritual issues could that be?

I hope one false pastor has not lied to you, because many of them abound these days and they are tearing homes and families apart. Beware of false prophets!

oweniwe: ^^ Parents ! That's one of my mistakes too. . . I'm from delta north while my babe is from nnewi, anambra state. You should all know there's little difference between Igbo and Anioma/Ukwuani culture. .

Wen i told my dad about her, at first, he was all smiles. . . Then he asked where she's from and i said Nnewi . . Na so smile disappear from his face. . He started grumbling "i don't like Igbo" . . .

Why don't you like Igbo? They offend you?

"I don't just like igbo. . She's just ur friend. . . Bla bla bla"

The mistake i made was that. . My babe asked me wat my dad's response was. . And me. . Being a honest guy who doesn't know how to lie. . I told her the truth and that she shouldn't worry. . That's how parents do at first. . She said ok. . I shouldn't have told her. . Gals hate to hear d truth.

Some parents need a good long lecture to detribalize their brains . . . I get angry wen i think about it

Guy at least you told her the truth. But guess what? She will start withdrawing from you little by little.

[quote author=al-qaeda]well done bros. am in a similar situation but we're not separated but things are hanging by a thread. trying my best to keep it alive but it doesnt look like it will stand. her parents r putting pressure on her.[/quote]wahala dey hehe... This one hard. Since the parents are involved you have little or no chance. You can only succeed if she really loves you, else bros begin pack your bags. All the best!

Why use capital letters Obadiah Use sentence case next time. You are shouting on us.

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striker9: Try to forget her,she will call you when you wouldn't expect it.Women can be unpredictable,cause when they set there mind to do something,they don't care about the consequences.She's still probably enjoying the company of the other guy,this will only make you stronger emotionally, and will make you to be cautious of getting your emotions in check.

yea... I know she will call back one of these days to ask why I've not been calling hehe... Small things tickle their fancy. My emotions are already strong and I'm happy with my self.

doncaster: just landed at the airport now, trolley is free, no taut, a/c everywhere even outside, car pack computerised, train to vi free, eko ONI baje

Hey wake up! It was a dream.

oweniwe: This thread was opened on July 29th? That's exactly around the same time my babe left me without giving any hint or reason. I didn't offend her in any. Maybe i told her too much about my family (i'v got messed up background) or maybe its coz i'm a broke job seeker. . . I don't know. I'v told her if there's anything she doesn't like about me, she should tell me so i can work to improve it.

At first, it was i'm busy. . . Sleep carried me. . . No credit to come online. . . Network is bad. . .

And then on the day she's to go on leave from work, she just blacked out. . Wouldn't pick call, reply text, and even abandoned her acc coz of me (dat made me feel real bad)

And imagine 3 days earlier, she told me repeatedly that she love me. . .

haha.. yea, I understand how you feel too. Your girlfriend has even come back to look for you, mine has not called since then, not even a text. I'm so so surprised that she could have such a mind to do that, and is not as if there was a problem between us. These women can be unpredictable at times.

Bro carry on with your life, these ladies are just looking for someone to pass time with. You tried to be open with her and since she did not take you as you are, fine.

[quote author=2sexy.us]Bros, u don see Cape Verde ladies? Their beauty na die... Just goto the sexuality section and look for the thread. I swear you will wanna go there.[/quote]haha... O boy dem fine. Zim babes fine too-o. It's said that one cannot do one thing and get a particular result and still continues to do it. Sorry Nigerian girls, I need to try something different