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Family / Re: Ignore @ Your Own Peril. by SisiEko1(f): 6:01pm On Jun 12, 2013
Is my name Temi? Yeah I saw it on a blog and thought to post so ppl can read her story and educate themselves.
jennykadry: @sisi eko

Long time no see, ba wo ni? Se o wa kpa?
@ Mo wa ok!!
Family / Ignore @ Your Own Peril. by SisiEko1(f): 5:10pm On Jun 12, 2013
Came across this story and thought to share.

My name is Temi. I have a huge issue. I have been married for two years now. I dated my husband for 6years.

Now this should be a warning to folks out there planning on getting married...don't ignore the warning signs. Walk away from any relationship that brings u more pain than joy. It's not worth it.
I made that mistake and I am paying the price.

I ignored it all,stayed n went on to marry him....not hoping he would change but deceiving myself that I would cope (foolishness). Today I am dealing with infidelity,emotional abuse, extreme control, bitterness and a confused life.


What is my issue today.? He keeps threatening to leave with our kid. In the past one month he has said it countless times. Sometimes jokingly and sometimes in the heat of our quarrels. It has made me think a lot and its extremely disturbing. He makes statements like you would go out and come back to an empty house. Threatens to throw me out. This is actually a new development...I know there is way more to it but I am just so tired.

I am just so sad and Shame would never allow me discuss this with my family or friends because they all warned me not marry him but I was so in foolishness. I wrote this mail to alert ladies. Please do not ignore the warning signs.
Music/Radio / Re: D'banj - Dont Tell Me Nonsense (Video) by SisiEko1(f): 4:56pm On Jun 12, 2013
What a silly song. Smh
Family / Re: I Mistakenly Impregnanted My Wife's Sis And Cousin... by SisiEko1(f): 12:15am On Jul 02, 2012
When he says mistakenly it sounds like he tripped n fell inside them undecided
Men sha..... Sad sad sad
Romance / Re: Chics N Silly Things by SisiEko1(f): 11:40pm On Jan 29, 2012
WebSurfer:

Am sure that same chick is still very much happy with her life, why are you so interested, anybody can decide a way of living his or her own life, am sure D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥Y might have a strong bond between them eithier intimately or not but surrounded with circumstances, she might not be ready for marriage, let that be her pain, not urs, its normal to her, even if abnormal no you, so shut your mouth and mind your business

If u totally believe in minding your own business, why did u leave a comment?, mshew,
Romance / Re: Chics N Silly Things by SisiEko1(f): 7:20pm On Jan 29, 2012
chelseabmw:

@@@@poster
I know the truth. . . .i know that the chic is You grin


Chai! I'm too much of a Shapiro! To be in this situation.
sweetcocoa:

Poster you don't even know what their arrangement is and you are here whining on her behalf. I know a lady who's dating a married man,their agreement is that she would be there as his mistress,he is allowed to do whatever he wants,all he has to do is take care of her needs. She has a house bought in her name,2 cars,a biz and other things,courtesy of the man and she's happy with her life. Try finding out what the ish is with whoever you wrote about before yapping about it.

I wish he was all of this to her. She is my friend so i know 4 a fact that he is non of all that to her. Apart from the once in a while one thousand pounds nothing else comes out.
MRbrownJAY:

i am sorry to say that this lady is the SMART ONE in this story.
she knows her guy is not to be trusted (even when married), she knows he cheated with her while married (and could do it again), she therefore knows that marrying him will only end in divorce so she prefers to fukc him and be the gal in the background. obviously, she aint one of these "desperate to marry" ladies that are all around.

she obviously loves this man but knows that she will never have him for herself, so she just enjoys the ride while it lasts.


Yeah maybe she's in love with the wrong person, but being smart, ahahah I refuse to agree with that cos she is clearly living an empty life.
Romance / Re: Chics N Silly Things by SisiEko1(f): 2:26pm On Jan 29, 2012
chimuchi:

thank god u are a chik too. but u dont know if their relationship had terms and conditions from d onset. go and sit down!  shocked

Thank God I dnt have friends like u. Wat a loser. Just imagine ur crappy reply. What bullshit terms and conditions, is that a normal life? The man is living his life while she is fooling herself.
pendo89:

lol@terms and conditions but who knows.

but honestly she didn't contribute to the breakup cz he didnt end up with her.Hes just a womaniser while she's a catalysing agent.strange the roles people play cz, when will she settle in her own home with her own man?


It's obvious she didn't end his marriage, it's so obvious she is not a factor in his life but he is in hers. Wat a silly triangle.
Romance / Chics N Silly Things by SisiEko1(f): 2:16pm On Jan 29, 2012
A chic started dating a guy while he was married, she dated him for two years into his marriage ,  In little or no time, ,he got separated from his wife, the separation lasted for about 4 years and then they got a divorce, my dear chic still  dated this guy steady all through this. Two years later my guy got married to someone else, my dear chic is still dating him, she even helped him arrange stuff for his wedding. lipsrsealed
Dear Nairalanders  Do u honestly think she is normal?
As i type, she is still hanging in there.
Celebrities / Re: Abisola Abiola-ajimobi Weds Kolapo Kola-daisi by SisiEko1(f): 12:36am On Dec 09, 2010
Dis Guy:

Hair brush for the groom?


Nice Wedding wink
Thought I was d only one that noticed he needed to brush his hair!
Celebrities / Re: Pictures From Shan George's Album Launch. by SisiEko1(f): 11:47pm On Nov 24, 2010
Shan is from Cross River
So sad that her kids re gonna see all this, just so sad.
Saw her at a burial recently n I was appalled by her conduct, I really do feel sorry 4 her kids.
This is a serious show of SHAME
Family / Re: Can U Make A Decision Based On Dreams? by SisiEko1(f): 10:38pm On Sep 14, 2010
sophy09:

I will advise you to tell your cousin to fast and pray about it. God is not a wicked God. Most times it can be anxiety because she is getting married. She should ask God to show her if that is really her husband. Most times God talks to us but we have blinded our eyes and close our ears from Him.
Twice she actually prayed with that line. Lord show me if he is truly my husband n she had 2 nasty dreams respectively.
Family / Re: Can U Make A Decision Based On Dreams? by SisiEko1(f): 3:23pm On Sep 14, 2010
jennykadry:

What sort of dreams?
Strange and traumatising: eg: Death,Beating,flashes of sadness,
Family / Can U Make A Decision Based On Dreams? by SisiEko1(f): 3:08pm On Sep 14, 2010
My cousin is getting married in 3mths but for the past 4months she has been having repeated strange and traumatising dreams about her fiance. They have dated for 6years, its been a good relationship but now marriage is here n she has been having these strange dreams about him.
So now the question is , Can u base ur whole life on dreams?
Forum Games / Re: My Current Mood In One Word: by SisiEko1(f): 8:46pm On May 27, 2010
HAPPY grin
Family / Re: Funny Things Parents' Do That Makes You Chuckle! by SisiEko1(f): 9:55pm On Apr 04, 2010
This thread just made my evening! grin
still laughing real hard at : The good morning africa cup, now that is really funny.
Dont remember any funny thing my mum used to do, all i remember is the cane she loved to swing on us!
My dad is too serious , remember we had a family meeting once when i was like 16 n we were all asked to speak up n speak your mind! cant remember which of my sisters said something like why doesnt daddy play around n joke around with us, guess his response, i'm not a JESTER! So u see, lol
Ok, maybe this is funny, they call a family meeting n ask us to speak up , come up with suggestions and its always useless cos they still end up doing whatever they wanna do anyways
!
Politics / Re: Taxi Cab Driver Rams Into Plane In Airport by SisiEko1(f): 8:01pm On Apr 01, 2010
That dude isnt  a  terrorist. He is just a regular cab guy that who was taking out his frustration on arik, Arik flies everywhere , which means no more passengers out of Akwa ibom for him     grin
SICK DUDE
Business / Re: Nigeria's Top 50 Richest Billionaires by SisiEko1(f): 11:53am On Mar 28, 2010
Does this list put food on anyone's table? WHO CARES?

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Romance / Re: How Men Change !!! by SisiEko1(f): 3:39pm On Mar 12, 2010
LMAO, just too funny. grin
Family / U Should Marry An Ugly Woman To Be Happy. by SisiEko1(f): 7:16pm On Feb 28, 2010
Jimmy Soul says:

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he marries her then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart

But if you make an ugly woman your wife
you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ugly woman cooks meals on time
And she'll always give you peace of mind. grin

Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch grin


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qh9ZZgDqzAg
Romance / Re: In Just A Word, Describe Your Ex. by SisiEko1(f): 1:11pm On Feb 26, 2010
Rolling on the floor with laughter, the replies to this post are hilarious! grin
my Ex
: Lunatic
Romance / Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by SisiEko1(f): 9:05pm On Feb 25, 2010
She is obviously his Nigerian wife, u can get me to investigate him back here in nigeria grin, send  a go ahead email to kemijadesimi@yahoo.com.
Some men re just full of **it   
angry
Family / Re: Sleeping With Another Man's Wife. Good or bad? by SisiEko1(f): 11:09am On Feb 21, 2010
@ Poster: hmmmmmmm, shocked
Romance / Re: Trust Vs Love by SisiEko1(f): 6:18pm On Feb 20, 2010
ugbesbee:

Brother marries sister


It could be described as a taboo for siblings to marry one another, but Anthonia and Victor in desperate bid to secure UK visa decided to be known and addressed as husband and wife. On the fateful day, January 28, 2008, Anthonia dressed in a flowing white gown, marched to the Ojo marriage registry with Victor to be joined as husband and wife. This was done in a bid to convince the British High Commission to grant them a visiting visa since they can never meet the criteria needed to secure such visa.

With the aid of a naval officer, (Kayode Olaniyan) they were able to secure forged documents, which portrayed them as highly placed individuals in Nigeria. The expectation was that the forged document would guarantee them a visiting visa, and they applied to spend two weeks in UK.

To further convince the BHC, they went along with their wedding photograph, especially where they were cementing their ‘marriage’ with a kiss. Bubble however bust on February 16 when the British High Commission that was not aware the ‘couple’ is related by blood discovered that the bank statement presented was slightly altered. They alerted the police at the Special Fraud Unit, Ikoyi who in turn dispatched an officer to stand by for any possible arrest.

Unknown to them that their game was up, the BHC invited the ‘couple’ for a final interview, where they would be issued a visa. They were careful to ensure that they appeared in uniformed attire so that the difference would not be spotted. Passersby commended their choice of spouse as they looked alike. In the visa section, holding each other closely they stepped into the interview room. The man meant to interview them enquired if they had a swell time on Sunday being Valentine. They were still waiting for their Visa to be issued when the police arrested them for forgery. They were arrested alongside the visa racketeer, Kayode Olaniyan who is alleged to have forged the entire document used for the act.

The PRO SFU, CSP Akan, explained that when Victor discovered that the game was up, he shouted that the man (Kayode) who gave them the document was waiting outside to collect the balance as soon as they collect their approved visa. Unknown to Kayode, the game was up; he was arrested where he was waiting for the balance as soon as the deal clicks. In the course of interrogation, ready to vomit all the illegal things, they have done, Victor confessed that Anthonia was not his wife but his blood sister.

Victor told Saturday Sun that he was tired of struggling to survive in Nigeria that was why he quickly grabbed the opportunity when Kayode promised to assist them to travel out. “He gave us instances of people who he had travelled as ‘couple’. He requested that we should pay N900,000 for the deal but we ended up paying N180,000 with the promise to pay up as soon as the visa is granted.

“He promised that it was easier for couple to be granted visa so we quickly bought the idea to pose as couple. Part of the criteria was to get married, he arranged and we paid at the Ojo marriage registry. He also got some document which shows that I am a marine engineer, working in a company where I am paid more N300,000 monthly. I am an OND student of Lagos State Polytechnic where I am studying Banking and Finance.

I am not a marine engineer and do not have an account in WEMA Bank. I have never attended Federal College of Fisheries and Marine Technology, Victoria Island. My real names are Ayeye Victor Adejobi. My younger sister who posed as my wife is Antonia Ayeye. Nebelisa is not my father’s name at all. Kayode gave us the surname ‘Nebelisa’ and instructed that we should obtain the passport. He took us to Ado Ekiti where we obtained the passport in the name of ‘Nebelisa’.”

When asked how he felt, kissing his sister, Victor said: “ It was disgusting but then I had no choice. I felt very bad knowing that it is an abomination, but because we wanted results, we had to comply. Take a look at the picture it will show that I was not comfortable with what I was doing.” Anthonia saw herself as an actress that was why she was very comfortable when it was time to kiss the bride.

On why she decided to embark on such mission, Anthonia explained that she did it to better her life and would not hesitate do whatever it took to get to the promised land. “I am a stylist and my office is located at Onobotubon Street, off Asho Street, Benin. Victor is my blood brother from the same father and mother. We were introduced to Kayode by a family friend who claimed that he has assisted a lot of people to secure UK visa.”

She explained that: “one of the ways to perfect the plan was to marry my brother, Victor. I saw that as a mere act, since I know that I am not married to my brother in real life. As agreed he took us to the marriage registry at Ojo, Lagos, to get married. At the end we were issued a marriage certificate. To perfect the business, he said we are to pay N900,000, but we managed to drop N180,000 as part payment. I am single and still searching ”

Their rip-off games man, Olaniyan, was not satisfied with his pay in the Navy and he chose to go into visa racketeering to add to his monthly salary. With his experience in the Navy, he was able to reproduce documents used to facilitate his clients’ visa requests, which depict the applicants as having military background.

Kayode who lives at No. 42 Olajumoke Street, Ikotun, Lagos, claimed that he joined the Nigerian Navy in 2005, and still works in the Navy. He explained that he knew his clients “through a family friend of mine, Tunde who told me that they were desperate to travel out of the country. I was the one who arranged for the forged marine documents and marine certificate of competency.

I brought the sample and it was reproduced just like the original document. I then hired the services of a good forger, Isaac, who brought the bank statement, sales receipt and the other documents that were presented. I asked them to pay, N900,000 to process the document which they agreed to but I only collected N180,000 based on the agreement that I would receive the balance at the end of the business. I would have collected the remaining sum today if the visa was issued.”

To the amazement of the British High Commission, Victor presented a document showing that he is working at the Durba Shipping (DNL). He also furnished the Commission with an internal memo approving 30 days annual leave, payment slip indicating a monthly salary of N310,000, letter of employment showing that he was employed as 2nd Engineer with effect from May 12, 2003 and a letter of introduction from the company. Victor further gave the Commission a certificate of Federal College of Fisheries and Marine Technology, Victoria Island Lagos.

Anthonia, the hair stylist on her part appeared before the interview panel claiming that she is CEO/Chairman of the Emmanuel Sidah Ventures. She presented an introduction letter of herself as the owner of the company. Also in her custody was a document from the Corporate Affairs Commission showing when the business was registered. This document was a certificate to authenticate the registration of the business.


ON MY THREAD, R U OK
Culture / Re: Nigerian Ladies Are Beautiful! (pictures) by SisiEko1(f): 5:03pm On Feb 17, 2010
Yes Nigerian ladies are beautiful, aint i beautiful too, . grin grin grin grin grin grin

Events / Re: Is It Good To Borrow Money For Your Wedding? by SisiEko1(f): 2:01pm On Feb 17, 2010
I wonder what kinda wife that chic is gonna make, u want ur husband to be an ONI GBESE! all for other people to come n eat,drink, and most of them would give u cheap ass gifts n they re off to their own lives.
Terrible woman.
How about having a wedding according to ur pocket
?
Family / Re: Guys, If U Discovered One Of Ur Kids Is Illegitimate, Wud U Forgive Ur Wife? by SisiEko1(f): 1:05pm On Feb 16, 2010
This a non issue to me, the marraige would surely be over once this comes out in the open.
What kind of explanation is the woman going to provide 4 her actions? she was raped twice by the same man or different men?
Romance / Re: Trust Vs Love by SisiEko1(f): 3:47pm On Feb 15, 2010
@ALL THOSE WHO HELPED ME PUT MAMA GEE IN HER PLACE, THANKS ALOT, OSHE! LOL
AND THANKS FOR ALL THE COMMENTS ON THE THREAD
.

@DENONY: I'VE BEEN AROUND, HOWDY?
Romance / Re: Trust Vs Love by SisiEko1(f): 11:18am On Feb 12, 2010
mama-gee:

Poster. . .

What kind of dumb thread did you create? undecided
I think you need to know the meaning of love before you created this nonsense
Oya, Define Love. undecided
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come on, it aint dumb,
Romance / Trust Vs Love by SisiEko1(f): 10:47pm On Feb 11, 2010
Can u possibly marry someone you dont Trust but yet you Love? undecided
You dont trust the person to do right by you but yet you love them.
A huge question that has been on my mind
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Politics / Re: Yemen Arrests 154 Nigerian, Sudanese Infiltrators by SisiEko1(f): 10:23pm On Feb 11, 2010
o ma se oh! X 2 grin
Romance / Re: I Am Going To Have A Nervous Breakdown by SisiEko1(f): 4:33pm On Feb 10, 2010
spikedcylinder:

Queen of all that is pure and holy, pray tell, I suppose you've never done any below perfect in your entire life. undecided undecided undecided
Abeg, this  is way out of line, i've done a couple of silly things in my life time but this kind thing, mba! shameful stuff, if she was my sister i would slap her into tomorrow! crappy behaviour for a chic who knows her worth.
Psycho behaviour!

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