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I swear, you amaze me. How, with all your posturing, can you still be an amateur in getting things done, is beyond me. https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/46.gif

If you want to draw people attention to something, you gotta make lively, colorful, interesting. . . Helloooooo! Marketing 101, anybody??!!

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Include a picture to make it more visual

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You get it now?

Honestly this has got to stop, I can’t continue to pick up after you.

And you are right, men should take care of their family!

TONDO:
if u are married please take cure of your familly as well as you can take cure of yourself,

Tondo

CARE not CURE

CARE = Watchful, Mindful

CURE = Heal, Make better.

Hate to say it but Poster is the prettiest of 'em all. . . She definitely gots my vote.

Good Luck

KarmaMod:
Watching CNN

Apparently after shaking his hand, Bush turned and used hand sanitizer

Fox Headline reads

First Bush-Obama Meeting: Hard Feelings and Hand Sanitizer

This is too much. . . I mean if he was a germaphobe, it is understandable.

spikedcylinder:
They are not married. She's 19 she said he's in his early 20's, prolly 21 or 22. Please do the math.

I am a mummy's girl and I cannot even imagine any man making this kind of request, I will show him the road.

Shebi it's just Mummy's girl with you, me I am a FAMILY's girl! You know how us abokis do it now! I make sure any guy who is having ideas know this upfront. I don't want a situation where he goes ". . . errr. . . na wa oh, you and your family sef"

I also encourage he spends time with his family, as a marra of fact, if there is a way we can MESH the two families together, where no one knows who is who. . . BETTER FOR ME!!!!! Takes away the whole burden of me and you, you and me. . . all the time forever and ever. Yikes! I don't think I can live like that. I swear I will die or strangle someone.

Not to take away from the seriousness of the topic but has any one seen the music video for Brad Paisely's "I'm gonna Miss her"? Hilarious take on this situation  

And Yes, I am a HUGE country Music fan and I am not ashamed of it.  

As much as it PAINS me to do, I gotta say this. . . This isn't  Traditional thing. It's just men in general!

*Morenike:
rotflmao https://smileyjungle.com/smilies/laughing9.gif
You're not serious o. . . . . . yet such men still exist sha

I mean it, you will be surprised how these guys think.

Haven't you heard the  "Hellooooooo! It was just sex with her, not LOVEmaking like it is you. Duh!!" excuse?

Compartments baby! https://www.routertech.org/images/smiles/009.gif

izeek:
whats so diff in trying to relate with his friends and family now?
this are the same people u would be sharing his time with and u find it hard to adapt to them?
what would u request for eventually when u are married. outright ban on his mum and no visiting irghts for his friends?
women are so fucking diff.
get a life. in nigeria u would marry both him and his family so brace up .

See warramean? Instead of finding a way for the man to do the meshing of his  girlfriend, family and friends together, they expect the woman to look at all the relationships in her man's life and try to see where you can fit herself in. . . .AND she must do it without making waves or rocking the boat.

I tire!!!

michelin89:
Mine wasn't an ultimatum as I never asked him to stop his mum from visiting him. All I wanted was a space of my own. If he couldn't say no to this mum, then fine. I wouldn't bother myself to pay him a visit because I had had enough confrontations to last me until the marriage introduction.

I had always been nice to his friends and had no problem inviting them over as I was pretty much pleased to prepare something for them in case they show up. But he never looked at this but just at the fact that I was trying to deprive him of his sweet mother. He has proved to be selfish a lot of times but then I also designed a limit which he just trespassed.

I had also thought of doing something like that but it sounded to infantile to me. Must he be shot to understand that a gun shot can kill? I take it for granted that once he thinks of getting married he is also matured enough to understand these simple things.

LOL! I can’t believe there aren’t many guys responding to this topic. Wait scratch that, it is actually not a surprising because they are prolly looking at this going “I don’t get. What is the problem here again?“ and this is  because of their view of relationships.  They think being in a relationship with you is enough to proof that they love you. So everything else is like. . . Huh

Girl - Why don’t we go out more?
Guy - What for? I love you
Girl - We need more time alone together
Guy - Why? You know I love you now.
Girl - You missed my birthday!
Guy - Yeah, but you know I love you.
Girl - You slept with her!
Guy - Yeah but it’s YOU I love!

LMAO! Is not that they do it on purpose, they are just better at compartmentalizing things than we are. We let all aspects of our life mesh seamlessly but theythey can’t. That’s why you hear “I don’t get it. What’s that got to do with this?” https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/106.gif

You asking him to spend more time with you, especially time when his more is usually around, is automatically asking him to choose. No matter how nice and sweet and oh so lovely you say it, this is what he hears “Nag, nag, nag. . . You better chose between me and your mother/ Friends. Bring ME into the place reserved for MUMMY/FRIENDS" and he's thinking. . . Why? You ain't mummy/friends!

They are strange creatures that way. . .   

Oh no! Michelin you never ask a guy to choose between you and anyone or anything else because they will always choose anyone and anything else. Honestly, ask a guy to choose between you and jumping in a lake of fire and make it sound like an ultimatum and he would be jumping into that lake of fire with a smile on his face, saying “Hmmm, that feels so darn good!“ It’s the nature of the beast to try to prove their manhood. https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/29.gif

I don't ask him to put himself in my shoes. . . that's too abstract for guys. What I do instead is PUT HIM THERE MYSELF -  tit for tat, I know some (guys) will find it this appalling but whatever. Anyway, I stop making him think our being together is important to me. . . This is what they feed own, the idea that you think without them your life is meaningless. Go do your own thing, hang with you friends, read a book, watch TV. . . Anything. If he truly loves you, he will miss you and soon he’ll be the one making the effort to make your time together QUALITY TIME.

And if he doesn't. . . well you are better off ain't ya? Who wants to be with a guy who can't make time for her?

LOL! You almost hear go "Eww"

Come into my Den. . . said the spider to the fly

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LMOA! Look at Bush's hands. . .

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buh bye

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In the OVAL OFFICE!!!! Just beautiful!!!

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Smile Ladies

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Obama - I would like to discuss the foreign policies we have in place with our neighbors. The Global market is such that it is imperative that we. . . .

Bush - Huh??!

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Say Cheese
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Air Kisses

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Greeting

Obama - Mr President
Bush - Mr President Elect
Obama -  First Lady
Laura Bush - Mr. President Elect
Bush - Mrs. First lady Elect
Michelle Obama - Mr. President
Laura Bush - Mrs. First Lady Elect
Michelle Obama - Mrs. First Lady

Whew!

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KarmaMod:
I don't trust that air hostess, she should be frisked

Rotflmao!!! She looks like she's about to give him a shove!!

Meeting the Bushes (When is Laura Bush due?)

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Arriving at the White House (wonder what he was feeling. . . prolly thinking "Some day soon, this is all gonna be mine )

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Arriving in Washington

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Get out!!! Oh my God, that's what I thought. . . . but he is way cuter than Willy Nilly

chilin' with the Homies (not being racist or anything so relax yourselves)

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