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Avoid reporting your partner to anyone,even your closest friend.

I'm kind of wary about this particular point. it would have made more sense to me if you'd actually clarify the certain kinds of behavior that shouldn't be reported to a friend. i say this cause of many cases of domestic violence. and many of this victims (mostly women) often avoid telling their loved ones or close friends what goes on behind close doors in their marriage and more often than none they end up paying the price with their lives because of something that could have been easily prevented if a loved one or close friend knew about it.

Ice Angel:
this question is in 2 parts:
A. As a couple expiriencing delayed conception; would you consider adoption whilst waiting to concieve or would you rather not think about at all as an option?

yes i would. if i later conceive i would still love my adopted child as my biological one.

B. As a couple with kids of your own but with enough love and stability to give to yet another child; would you consider adoption or is it just not an African thing to adopt?

yes i would. and i don't really care whether it is an African adaptation or not. i still would. i believe every children needs love and I'm willing to love them 'cause i love children to bits.

adoption is a always a good thing and it doesn't really matter whether you have your own biological child or not. if you can adopt and help a child in need of love and a home.

sorry but i dnt think this the 3 most important thing you must know before marriage.

your reason #2 is not absolute. you shouldn't base it entirely on her past abortions. the only thing they can do is for both of them to go for a Fertility test to mark out any unforeseen problem. 'cause remember the man can also have Fertility problems.

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=61264.msg3984979#msg3984979 date=1244256360]a boy and he better be healthy [/quote]sorri, u cnt have it both ways

it is either u want a healthy baby regardless of gender or u want a boy with a spina fida

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=61264.msg3984929#msg3984929 date=1244255450]wetin bi that? na boy we dey get first ooo [/quote]do you want a boy with spina fida first or a girl with a healthy bone first

oya choose

maybe you could try posting in the travel section maybe you could get some help there.

U Iz welcome

maybe cuz some of 'em guys lie a lot, so it is really hard for 'em girls to differentiate between the liars and truth tellers so they might as well go with the liars that sounds better to their ears

i see no correlation between being literate/illiterate and respect. there are totally two different things.

an illiterate woman can still be disrespect towards her husband and vice versa with the literate woman.

i want a healthy baby. be it boy or girl.

Gabry:
Phewww. Thanks Cause some peeps emailed me and complain saying that I shouldnt change my ID name.
I wonder why sef.


Yes ooo. I have been really busy with work and also with events. How your side?

they're prolly use to ur old name. it is has come to be ur trademark so changing it maybe to them means being a whole new different person. new identity maybe.

but it's cool they will prolly get use to this one with time. so just chille

my side dey fine oo. no wahala yet

Gabry:
Life has been soooo busy ooo. . . Goodness. . . Its like Ive been travelling here and there and now I think I forggoten which country Im born at. LOL


How bout you. Sissy, are u a pure Nigerian? Just curious

i dey fine oo

i'm quarter English, quarter Nigeria and quarter Malaysia

your man is very naive thats prolly why he thinks you are a pervert.

i will handle her . revenge Revenge is better served cold ~ _{according to ebony}

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=271905.msg3978772#msg3978772 date=1244149367]in the name of loff forgive na i promise to give u plenty of allowances [/quote]how many tymes do i have to forgive b4 u stop

which allowances

i dnt need ur stingy allowance, i think i can handle maself n ma needs

FL Gators:
Your ID reminds me of that stupid Nollywood movie. . . "Mama G, G for General.General in London bla bla".

No wonder

isnt she the person as landwin?

@ post

i hate any form of body art. though it wouldn't deter me from befriending or be in a relationship with someone who has it, beforehand.

Gabry:
For conviniency and also for easy pronunciation of other folks. And also Im not getting younger and I have a short term memory loss so I think in 1 month time, I wont be bale to remember my ID name "gabrywyl" so its for the best sis.

getting old i dont think so. memory loss iz for much older folks jare

you're still young jor

how u dey sef?

Gabry:
LOL Sissy. U are so funny oooo. . . .     

Actually I have been begging Seun to change my name because many people find it hard pronouncing it. I wanted to change it to Gabby but there happen to be Nairalanders with that name so finally Seun have decided to change it to Gabry. Its still my original name just that my Sur name and Chinko name is gone.

U dont like it? 

na, i think it is actually cool me likey

btw, where have u been since

hope all is well, anywaxz welcome back

FL Gators:
I know I know, but what can we do?
It's like not taking the child back to preschool just because he's scared of the other kids.

[s]And you want more daddy and mommy time, right? [/s]

I know, like you said the only path to it is by setting the boundaries. and letting them understand that mom and dad sometimes needs together time alone .
however,  i know that some parents go out of their way to even have a bed for the kids in their own room, dont think i can go that far oo

mohawkchic:
~I let him crawl in as often as he wants . . .am of the school of thought i wont  have him at that age twice. . . . besides they grow up so fast these days i'll be lucky to have him want to cuddle in the next couple of years!

~He loves his own room,its decorated just the way he likes it,so him coming over to ours has nothing to do w/ mosters/or something about our room he likes better than his . . that boy just loves cuddles!He doesnt mind whose room he's in as long as there a body to cuddle up to!Sometimes when i tuck him in on his own bed,i'll have to wait till he dozes off before climbing out. . .as soon as he feels me twitching he wakes up/cuddle closer His big ole Care Bear has lot its appeal years ago!

~The advice given by FL Gators is bang on tho . . .persitent in taking the child back to their room works,if you have to do it 10x so be it. . also Encourage & Involve the child to make their room exciting enuff for them to want to sleep in there ie the child helps you re-decorate their room w/ posters/fav character curtains/beddings etc

lol @ waiting till he dozes off. i can imagine .

yea, i think that encouraging her to like her rooms is a good idea. at least it will keep the big monster at bay

shoulda posted this in the education section where the appropriate posters will see it and ans ur question.

Gabry:
Yes oo its me gabrywyl. Wetin happen

something happen oo

cuz ma lost twin name is gabrywl not gabry

did u do baptism/or confirmation that u changed ur name

Gabry:
Huh? What do you mean?

how come u shorten ur name.

did u bribe seun

anywaxs welcome

philip0906:
c as fear catch all of them!i think say na wetin una like,MUSCULAR MEN

6pack men not iron men jare

just painful looking at those pics

i guess that was what "marriage " was meant to be. but those words dont ring bell today. afterall we all have one life to live so why live it out with someone who isnt worth it, all in the name of marriage?

pink ~ please dont leave me

true talk. just that somethings i'd feel a little guilty abt it.

Question:

How often would you allow your child to be sleeping with you in your room? for a example, he/she barges into the room in the night, singing "mommy i'm scared" you allow him/her a pass for that day. and he/she constantly does this. would you set a limit or just be there unconditionally for him/her?
knowing that one day he/she might barge in while you and partner are hots for each other.