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Till today i asked my self what possessed that fool to come to my house without knowing what kind of trouble

Mamaput, it sounds like he just didn't believe you ha a husband and you were just playing hard to get. Also at the same time in his mind, he probably felt you should be happy he was that attracted to you and that soon you would realize that and give in to him.

They can be very polite and very social.
As long as everyone sticks to their own side.

Whats wrong with this? I never had a problem with this way of thinking.

Sista when we say we cannot stand them dose not mean we hate them to die. They don't bother us and we don't bother them.

I don't hate white people to die either, I just don't care to be bothered with them and I wish they would leave black people to their own affairs and just butt out of black folks business. I don't see how a people who have obvious problems could be dictating to other people who have their own problems. Yes, I talk about them in the racist boards because the racist boards are for that. Just like many people on this board are saying critical things about Indians which can be interpreted as racist.

And apart from this and maybe very few other topics we do not talk about them.
We are not obsessed .

If obsessed is going to the racist boards to debate on racist issues concerning black and white, call me obsessed. I don't care.

We do not wage war against them. And we do not stamp them out as the root of all evil.
Besides sometimes critic is not racist or hate.

How about highly critical, is that racist or hate? Are you saying there are degrees because critical is critical.

If you ask me if am a racist when it comes to them , i will try to talk my way out of it .
Unless am comfronted with a yes or no answer

That's so funny Mamaput, I like your honesty I always have.


@Topic

This is so interesting that this topic exist at a time where I saw my first C/A with an Indian at the grocery store just yesterday. They were buying food and the first thing I thought was, is she making curry chicken for dinner or Jellof rice, after all she was picking tomatoes. LOL

She was a very nice looking woman and he was not ugly but he wasn't bad looking at all and they actually looked kind of good together. He was a light brown Indian not a really dark one, she was darker than he was. She was picking all of the food out while he pushed the basket and followed behind her. They didn't look like they were embarrassed in public and really, I am not kidding, they kind of looked good together. That sister had a shape on her. I kept saying to my self, "heh doesn't know how to handle all of that" .LOL

I'm terrible, kill me

I tried my best not to keep looking at them because I didn't want them to feel uncomfortable but I sure as hell kept thinking, how did they meet? In Africa or India? Or here in America? I just hope she does not get bad treatment from his family but from the looks of it, they were both dressed nicely and they looked to be happy. Maybe he is not an Indian who cares about the darkness of the skin because she was a lot darker than him.

Maybe Ibo and Yuroba mixed, LOL

@Donzman

Rastafarians are a delusional bunch anyway, no harm meant.

The delusional part comes from smoking to much weed.

Well, doesn't Bob Marley have an album "Natty Dreads"?, I've heard lots of Don Carlos and he constantly refers to his Natty Dreads.

"natty dreads" is not the same as "dred locs"

@Donzman

@Sista

I already cut my hair, thanks for the advice.

I know you cut it of by now, just telling you anyway, maybe you can pass the advice on.

It's the white peoples fault that black people think that sort of hair is "demon possession

From what I was told it was the British who gave Locs the name (dred locks). It is said they used to always say that they dread seeing those Rasta's. Something like that I believe.

Any way, Rasta's do not like it when people refer to their hair as dred locks. They don't like it at all.

Sista, you look like a Yoruba woman.

I have been told that many times. I am going to post a picture one day of my grandmother, she really looks Yoruba.

What exactly does Yoruba look like Donzman? Do Yuroba have a facial signature?

@Donzman

Where I come from, dreads are seen as a sign of possession or something and they cut it off A.S.A.P.

Your just jealous. I don't know who was twisting your hair but I am a master twister. I am the family hairdresser. My family comes to me to hook them up with all the hair do's, chemically treated hair and natural. I specialize in natural hair styles.

If yo want your hair to twist tightly like that in my picture, twist immediately after you wash it. The hair is more springy and snap back when it is wet. Make sure you put some type of oil on the hair and in the scalp before you twist or while you are twisting as you go. If some parts of the hair dries before you finish it, have a water bottle handy to wet the hair again.

@Donzman

Where I come from, dreads are seen as a sign of possession or something and they cut it off A.S.A.P.

Posession? LOL

@Hotangel


Some people have agreed that keeping the hair natural is actually easier. With chemically relaxed hair, the hair becomes damaged more easily and if you want your hair to stay as healthy as possible and look good, you must touch the new growth up and you must clip the ends, if you don't, you will have a very mad perm. After that, if you don't know how to do most of those things yourself, you will paying a lot of money to keep it up. If you get to know your natural hair and you love your natural hair and you also see the beauty of it and in it, there are many things, wonderful things you can do to your hair. People especially white people, they area always asking to touch my hair. I have been told that my hair is so soft. I love my hair I must say.


Here is my pic, you better hurry to come see it.

The Senegalese and the Egyptians wore their hair in locks.

@Ynot

I thought you had forgotten, please by all means, take your time. This topic is way more important.

Well, Well, Well, This is interesting, coming from this cancerous sista who has continously considered ALL whites the same, in other words generalized. Sista is such a hypocrite!

Typical white people tactic to turn things around.

I can't be a hypocrite, I don't tell people they should not tell their believed truth about another race of people and then turn around and tell my truth believed truth about Indians.

However, when you love white people more than you love your self, you can always accept the truth being told about all races of people including your own race but you better not talk the truth about white people because all of that telling the truth would be considered of a racist nature.

I don't fall into that category, however, you and your bad talk about Muslims and your friend with her bad talk about Indians, you two do fall into the hypocrite category, when you talk your talk and then tell me I can't talk my talk, hence you coin me as a racist.

We are all racist in one way or another but when we have been calling that to someone like we hate that individual for being a racist, it is hard for us to see the racist in us because we are in denial and have been in denial for a long time. Come out of your denial and accept your self, that is all I am saying. Maybe then you would be the racist you really are anyway, but at least you would not be a hypocrite.

@ynot

Still waiting to hear about that (manifest destiny) over in the "black and white we are one" thread.