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Romance / Re: What Will You Do If You Catch Your Spouse In Bed With Another On Xmas Day Or by sistajay(f): 12:42pm On Dec 28, 2010
@ OP. . . . Stand there and watch till the show is over and then clap. . .clap. . . clap!!
Romance / Re: Online Dating In Nigeria by sistajay(f): 12:38pm On Dec 28, 2010
Dude. . . .just go for it with open mind, you'll never know if you dont try . . . . .good luck!!!
Romance / Re: True Story by sistajay(f): 12:36pm On Dec 28, 2010
You should be celebratin . . . . . . and love her more!!!
Romance / Re: Must You Know All Your Partner's Friends? by sistajay(f): 11:20am On Dec 28, 2010
Yes ooo, I wanna know all bout my partner's friends, male or female! So you know whose who when he uses them as an alibi. . . . . . hehehehehe
Romance / Re: What Physical Features Turn You Off In Women? by sistajay(f): 10:02am On Dec 28, 2010
See ya smellin mouth. . . . . . so you fit hate eh?. . . . . .HATER!!!!
Romance / Re: Why Dont You Want To Get Married Or What Are Makes You Apprehensive About It? by sistajay(f): 9:59am On Dec 28, 2010
Im so ready to get married. . . . .sob. . . . sob. . . . sob . . . Im still here waitin . . . . sob. . . .sob . . . .oh where can he be? . . . . .
Romance / Re: 84-year Old Engaged To A Girl Of 24? by sistajay(f): 9:38am On Dec 28, 2010
Good for him and her, wishin them all the best!!!
Romance / Re: True Life Cases: by sistajay(f): 7:10pm On Dec 27, 2010
Relationships ooo, not as easy as it seems!!!
Romance / Re: Who Longs To Be Loved More? Men Or Women by sistajay(f): 1:53pm On Dec 26, 2010
Women oooo! We love that lovin feelin!!!
Romance / Re: Which Tribe Would You Not Marry From? by sistajay(f): 11:19am On Dec 26, 2010
How many tribes are there?
Travel / Re: Get Canadian Residence In Just Three Months by sistajay(f): 11:16am On Dec 26, 2010
Hmmmm, that easy huh?
Jokes Etc / Re: Yes Or No by sistajay(f): 11:05am On Dec 26, 2010
Yes!
Romance / Re: I Just Got A Heart Break, What Should I Do To Get Over It And Move On? by sistajay(f): 8:20pm On Dec 25, 2010
You have broken up with someone you cared for deeply. What to do? How to get over a broken heart?

First, let's look at what not to do. These strategies will make your situation worse, and will not help you to get over a broken heart,

1. Don't try to get back together. Almost always, break-ups happen for a good reason. Accept that the relationship is over - and move on with your life.

2. Don't look for another relationship right away. Rebound relationships are generally ill-fated. Don't begin another relationship to "prove" something to your ex. Don't get into another relationship because you are feeling lonely and missing your ex. The only valid reason to enter into a relationship with someone is because you find that person to be exceptionally special and compatible - and you won't be in the right frame of mind to make that judgement until you have been out of the old relationship for at least several months.

3. Don't spend a lot of time alone. You may feel that you want to avoid anyone that knew you and your ex as a couple. You may feel that you want to avoid friends that might be judgmental. Nonetheless, it is crucial that you keep up social contacts. Try not to lose the friendships and support network you have built, but if you do find yourself isolated from previous connections, focus all your energy on building new (non-romantic) connections.

4. Don't complain about your ex, and don't listen to your friends' complaints about your ex. Further, don't talk about your ex at all - either favorably or unfavorably.

So what will help you get over a broken heart? Try these tips,

1. Keep busy with enjoyable activities - especially group activities. Continue with those groups and activities you previously enjoyed, and add some new ones. To the extent possible, focus on groups and activities that include members of both genders, but are not dating related. Best of all, find activities that have a physical aspect. Try a book discussion group, a church or community committee, yoga, Qigong, hiking, biking, cooking classes, wine tasting, classes of any sort. Don't limit yourself. Fill your time with many activities - both old and new.

2. Have positive conversations with your friends and family. Talk about anything other than your ex, and keep the conversations positive and focused on the future. If some of your acquaintances persist in bringing up your ex or being negative, spend less time with them and find more positive people to hang with.

3. Be of service to those who are less fortunate than yourself. There is no better way to get over a broken heart - or any situation that causes you to feel sorry for yourself - than being of service. Volunteer at the Red Cross blood bank, the local hospital, the library, your church, The possibilities are unlimited - just do it.

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Romance / Re: Heart Breaker by sistajay(f): 8:12pm On Dec 25, 2010
I guess we'll never know why they do that!!
Romance / Re: Double Wahala by sistajay(f): 8:08pm On Dec 25, 2010
@ OP, What's up? you not happy with what;s goin on with the women of today?
Romance / Re: Proof That Girls Are Evil by sistajay(f): 8:06pm On Dec 25, 2010
See nutty Professor,  first of all money aint the root of all evil its the love of money is the root of evil. Men and women love it! Just because we love spendin it more don't mean you should call us evil!!   You be Dr Evil  grin
Family / Re: Merry Christmas from the Sienas by sistajay(f): 7:37pm On Dec 25, 2010
Merry Christmas. . . . . . . ho. . . . ho. . . . ho!! Sorry o, fish is on the menu!
Family / Re: Does Your Spouse Know Your Nl Username? by sistajay(f): 7:35pm On Dec 25, 2010
Yes!!
Romance / Re: Are Nigerian Man Possessive? by sistajay(f): 7:24pm On Dec 25, 2010
Kai. . . . . . they are way too possessive!!

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Family / Re: Drop A Year End Note For Your Spouse by sistajay(f): 7:03pm On Dec 25, 2010
Im so grateful to you. I respect you, value you and appreciate you!!
Food / Re: Name Something Your Craving ? by sistajay(f): 7:01pm On Dec 25, 2010
Fish pepper soup!!!
Romance / Re: If U Had A Chance To Change Your Spouse. by sistajay(f): 6:25pm On Dec 25, 2010
No point tryin to  change a spouse for your own selfish reasons!!
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Looking For A Comfortable And Successful Woman by sistajay(f): 4:30pm On Dec 24, 2010
Come on Poster, its the man's job to keep those young gurls happy, what else are you good for, really?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Do You Need A Friend by sistajay(f): 3:03pm On Mar 26, 2010
I've already gotta friend, sweet Jesus!

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