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@ OP. . . . Stand there and watch till the show is over and then clap. . .clap. . . clap!!

Dude. . . .just go for it with open mind, you'll never know if you dont try . . . . .good luck!!!

You should be celebratin . . . . . . and love her more!!!

Yes ooo, I wanna know all bout my partner's friends, male or female! So you know whose who when he uses them as an alibi. . . . . . hehehehehe

See ya smellin mouth. . . . . . so you fit hate eh?. . . . . .HATER!!!!

Im so ready to get married. . . . .sob. . . . sob. . . . sob . . . Im still here waitin . . . . sob. . . .sob . . . .oh where can he be? . . . . .

Good for him and her, wishin them all the best!!!

Relationships ooo, not as easy as it seems!!!

Women oooo! We love that lovin feelin!!!

How many tribes are there?

Hmmmm, that easy huh?

Yes!

You have broken up with someone you cared for deeply. What to do? How to get over a broken heart?

First, let's look at what not to do. These strategies will make your situation worse, and will not help you to get over a broken heart,

1. Don't try to get back together. Almost always, break-ups happen for a good reason. Accept that the relationship is over - and move on with your life.

2. Don't look for another relationship right away. Rebound relationships are generally ill-fated. Don't begin another relationship to "prove" something to your ex. Don't get into another relationship because you are feeling lonely and missing your ex. The only valid reason to enter into a relationship with someone is because you find that person to be exceptionally special and compatible - and you won't be in the right frame of mind to make that judgement until you have been out of the old relationship for at least several months.

3. Don't spend a lot of time alone. You may feel that you want to avoid anyone that knew you and your ex as a couple. You may feel that you want to avoid friends that might be judgmental. Nonetheless, it is crucial that you keep up social contacts. Try not to lose the friendships and support network you have built, but if you do find yourself isolated from previous connections, focus all your energy on building new (non-romantic) connections.

4. Don't complain about your ex, and don't listen to your friends' complaints about your ex. Further, don't talk about your ex at all - either favorably or unfavorably.

So what will help you get over a broken heart? Try these tips,

1. Keep busy with enjoyable activities - especially group activities. Continue with those groups and activities you previously enjoyed, and add some new ones. To the extent possible, focus on groups and activities that include members of both genders, but are not dating related. Best of all, find activities that have a physical aspect. Try a book discussion group, a church or community committee, yoga, Qigong, hiking, biking, cooking classes, wine tasting, classes of any sort. Don't limit yourself. Fill your time with many activities - both old and new.

2. Have positive conversations with your friends and family. Talk about anything other than your ex, and keep the conversations positive and focused on the future. If some of your acquaintances persist in bringing up your ex or being negative, spend less time with them and find more positive people to hang with.

3. Be of service to those who are less fortunate than yourself. There is no better way to get over a broken heart - or any situation that causes you to feel sorry for yourself - than being of service. Volunteer at the Red Cross blood bank, the local hospital, the library, your church, The possibilities are unlimited - just do it.

I guess we'll never know why they do that!!

@ OP, What's up? you not happy with what;s goin on with the women of today?

See nutty Professor,  first of all money aint the root of all evil its the love of money is the root of evil. Men and women love it! Just because we love spendin it more don't mean you should call us evil!!   You be Dr Evil  

Merry Christmas. . . . . . . ho. . . . ho. . . . ho!! Sorry o, fish is on the menu!

Yes!!

Kai. . . . . . they are way too possessive!!

Im so grateful to you. I respect you, value you and appreciate you!!

Fish pepper soup!!!

No point tryin to  change a spouse for your own selfish reasons!!

Come on Poster, its the man's job to keep those young gurls happy, what else are you good for, really?

I've already gotta friend, sweet Jesus!