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Greenback:
Child would be named by husband's family

Events of the day or time is part of the culture, husband and wife. Except he's not Yoruba.

CaseSensitive:
You've just got to laugh bro. "Jayden Ogunmakinde" gang Like Jayden and Ogunmakinde in the same name composition, like from where to where? Elite names and all that. Anyway...to each their own.

Mehn we are all guilty, these guys did a dirty one on us. In the next few years, you won't be able to know an African name anymore because it's either Arabic or European sounding. Lost identity


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7203429989751049477


For some weird reason I am remembering Sade


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7533359683109784862


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7384833270912961825

Messages were once deleted during YIM and other IM chat rooms. There were no options to even backup. Na you know wetin you de keep.

Edit: I think Seun still asks us for our YIM. Some people go confuse wondering wetin be dat

SIXTEENTH:
Trust our cultural instincts to say Baba has reincarnated

This is why names have a purpose but today people are looking for Jaden, Jayden and nonsense names that don't have any root in our culture or people but for survival as slaves to the West. Who knows? If Chinese dominate the world tomorrow, are we all going to be giving children Zhang, Xu and Lee? 🤡

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7580287102248586519


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7678121220000304397

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The Yoruba people hold a deep philosophical belief in the cyclical nature of life and ancestral reincarnation (Atunwa or Yipada). When a prominent male ancestor-most commonly a paternal grandfather, great-grandfather, or occasionally a father-passes away, the first male child born into the family shortly after is seen as the physical or spiritual return of that patriarch. The child is not viewed as a completely "fresh" beginning, but rather as a continuation of the family's existing lineage and ancestral spirit.

In Yoruba tradition, names are deeply tied to the context of a household at the time of delivery-captured in the famous maxim, "llé là ń wò kí á tó sọ omo l'órúko" ("We consider the state of the household before naming the child". Babatunde falls under the category of situational or historical names. It serves as a living archive, pinpointing exactly when the child was born relative to a major family transition (the loss of an elder).

Naming a child Babatunde is a high form of respect to the deceased elder. It ensures that the patriarch's name, impact, and presence are not forgotten by the household. It is believed that the child will grow up to inherit the wisdom, character, and responsibilities of the ancestor they embody.

What story does your name tell?

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7675346106909265185


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7542918656326372631

Obafemi Hamzat is older than Sanwo-Olu

Babajide Sanwo-Olu is 61 years old. The Governor of Lagos State was born on June 25, 1965.

Femi Hamzat (Deputy Governor of Lagos State) is currently 61 years old. Born September 19, 1964. He will be 62 next month.

In 1999, Bola Tinubu was reported to be 47 years old when he assumed office as the Governor of Lagos State. His deputy at the time, Kofoworola Bucknor-Akerele was 60 years old. Today, Kofoworola Bucknor-Akerele is 87 years old, and Bola Tinubu is 74 years old.

Prince Abiodun Ogunleye who was appointed to fill the deputy vacancy at the tail end of Tinubu's administration in May 2007 was born in 1940. Ogunleye was 67 years old while Governor Bola Tinubu was 55 years old at the time.

Princess Sarah Adebisi Sosan served as the Deputy Governor of Lagos State under Babatunde Fashola from 2007 to 2011. Born on February 11, 1956, she was 51 years old when they took office. Governor Fashola, born August 16, 1963, was only 43 years old, making his deputy 8 years his senior.

Leave Lagos.

Dr. Abdullahi Umar Ganduje served as the Deputy Governor of Kano State under Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso for two separate tenures (1999-2003 and 2011- 2015).

Ganduje's Birth Date: December 25, 1949.

Kwankwaso's Birth Date: October 21, 1956.

Ganduje is 7 years older than his political principal, Kwankwaso, despite serving as his second-in-command for 8 years.

Moses Ekpo is older than Udom Emmanuel of Akwa Ibom by 24 years.

Prof. Ivara is older than Ben Ayade by 21 years.

Let no one make you feel lesser than you are in earning legitimate income.

I've noticed that religious leaders are now giving family advice because FAMILY HAS FAILED in their role of bringing up their sons and daughters. I don't need an outsider to tell me how to live but for some reason today, there are many children who have parents that are alive but walking dead

For some reason I thought about Ogunlewe who was once a Minister. Adeseye Ogunlewe
Kingsley Adeseye Ogunlewe is a Nigerian politician who served as the Minister of Works from 2003 to 2006. I remember him because I remembered yesterday's post on Obanikoro heading the APC Lagos campaign

SixSeven:
The joke of the pictures here is seeing Obanikoro there 🤡

Politicians who often appear to lack principles do so because they prioritize winning power, party loyalty, or personal gain over public service.


Our politicians are opportunist without ideology

Our politics here is come and chop politics. Because it is devoid of principles, the defenders will think it's hate but na hunger o. This is why they all don't trust themselves because they are all interested in power, just power.

You had the opportunity to make impact but wasted it. Ironically, Ogunlewe is now with the APC, once again emphasizing the fact that are politicians lack ideology.

ElevationD:
Infact, the minister simply showed his incompetence. That’s absolute incompetence, total negligence.

When they award such contracts, there are terms and within those terms are specific timelines. It is the responsibility of the minister to supervise the job. There absolutely was no oversight, otherwise there would be no need for arresting anyone.

They awarded the contract and failed to follow up with the project. They failed to monitor and supervise. In the end, the job would be shoddy.

Now he’s trying play to the gallery.

If people were not stranded for days and cried to the highest heaven, the boasting minister would remain in his office, claiming “I am an Engineer”.

The NASS members who job is oversight at the ministry and its projects also totally failed. That’s not the only failed road in the entire nation.

That particular corridor has been completely messed up since APC assumed power in 2015. Those roads were not in that horrible state before 2015. It was smooth driving from Benin bypass to Onitsha, Benin to Lokoja and Benin to Sapele before 2015. When the roads started damaging, citizens shouted, but APC turned it political.

How many citizens ply the coastal road? When will that road be completed? Even when it is completed, will you abandon Shagamu to Benin or Benin to Onitsha. The idea of the coastal road is acceptable, but fix the existing roads and make them easily usable for citizens. Fix Benin - Okene completely. Fix Okene - Lokoja - Abuja completely and let that Lokoja road connect with Wike’s effort in Abuja. That’s all we ask.

Rather than face the reality, the minister is being heady and demanding a debate with someone far bigger than he is.

This is a very brilliant comment especially when you mentioned the NASS oversight. Many of our institutions have failed and these politicians don't know what's coming for them next year. They have taken the joke too far. What is more interesting is that I am happy with the way things have gone so far. They have pushed it to our face and shown us who can dare them in the past 4 years. Let's see who will respond first? The people or their power?

Have you seen this? 👇


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7526140771347533078

Or this


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7418967850033073411

There's a always a backdoor in human design and there's not so much we can do compared to how unique our Creator did for each one of us. Na then you go understand say God na BABA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8-yupM-6Oc

anonimi:
Atiku needs to reign in everyone on his team to be on the same page with him on an important policy like this one, which was in place when he was VP for eight years of laying the deregulation and privatisation fundamentals for prosperity, peace and security enjoyed until 2015 when Tinubu begged Buhari to make Jonathan a one term president after they invited terrorists to destroy Nigeria.

I saw your video. That should be a front page post in response to this topic.

Jahwinaboy:
Times have changed but you cannot question Tinubu or Shettima for not showing up. If this same subsidy issue is what you're still hanging on to, people have already moved on. With or without NBA conference, Tinubu is hell bent on rigging. That should be your concern Mr judge

jamafa:
Nah NBA conference go decide who go rule Nigeria??

We no even see Sheyi Makinde at the NBA conference. He's Also a presidential candidate.

About this👇

SixSeven:
2023 NBA Conference in Abuja
President Tinubu physically declared open the 63rd Annual General Conference at the Moshood Abiola Stadium in Abuja.

Why President Tinubu Opened 2023 Edition Of NBA Annual General Conference

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KnRbGU7Kgqk

2024 NBA Conference in Lagos
President Tinubu was represented at the opening ceremony by Vice President Kashim Shettima.

NBA Kicks Off 2024 Annual General Conference In Lagos State

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qa7dpmVLU4s

2025 NBA Conference in Enugu
President Tinubu was represented at the opening ceremony by Vice President Kashim Shettima.
Vice President Shettima delivered the executive address on behalf of the administration, standing in for the President to communicate the federal government's policy updates to the legal community.

2025 NBA Conference: Lawyers, Leaders and Malema Debate on Nigeria’s Economic Crisis

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3SW5KGW5_v0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MISGJKJw838

2026 NBA Conference in Port Harcourt
President Tinubu was represented at the opening ceremony by Vice President Kashim Shettima.
2026 NBA Conference (Port Harcourt). President Tinubu was represented by Vice President Kashim Shettima. Although the President was listed on the national program to declare the event open, he skipped direct attendance. Vice President Shettima delivered the presidential address at the opening ceremony, while the host Governor, Siminalayi Fubara of Rivers State, officially welcomed the legal delegates.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWbBlhnsKjY

Let's not forget that the 2025 NBA Conference was to be hosted by Rivers State but the President had declared a state of emergency and there was this discussion of whether Fubara could spend the state's money for this conference. But Rivers is hosting today in 2026.

₦300m gift: Go To Court, We'll Meet There, NBA Will Not Refund - Okutepa To Ibas
https://www.nairaland.com/8401397/300m-gift-go-court-well#135027025

SmartPolician:
Nothing has changed

You think so?

Dogalmighty17: this is what I wrote that the bot banned me for

One of the people in his teamship who will speak for him is in prison

President Bola Ahmed Tinubu's "teamship" statement refers to a highly publicized doctrine he declared during his December 2022 speech at the Chatham House (the Royal Institute of International Affairs) in London. When asked direct questions regarding his plans for Nigeria's future, Tinubu declined to answer them himself. Instead, he introduced his philosophy of an "unbreakable team" which he termed teamship and assigned the questions to members of his delegation to answer on his behalf.

The People He Assigned to Answer Questions (Foolish Nigerians, are all these people answering the questions now?)

When Tinubu delegated the questions to demonstrate his "teamship" approach, he called upon the following individuals from his team:

1. Dele Alake (Assigned to answer questions on media, branding, and foreign policy)

2. Nasir El-Rufai (Former Governor of Kaduna State; assigned to answer questions on national security)

3. Ben Ayade (Former Governor of Cross River State)

4.Wale Edun (Assigned to answer questions concerning the economy and poverty alleviation)

5. Femi Gbajabiamila (Then Speaker of the House of Representatives, assigned to answer questions regarding defense pacts)

6. Dr. Betta Edu (Then APC National Women Leader, assigned to speak on healthcare and social issues)


The strategy sparked debate across Nigeria. Supporters defended the move as a brilliant showcase of collaborative governance and mentorship, arguing it proved Tinubu would build a competent, decentralized cabinet. Conversely, political opponents and critics heavily ridiculed the "teamship" defense, arguing it was a tactic to shield the candidate from direct scrutiny and avoid debating crucial national issues.

Rinse and repeat. If he didn't speak to you before he got there, he owes you no middle finger to give you now. The oracle does not speak to the masses, his disciples speak on his behalf. Una mumu never reach. They say show me your friends, even him french friend no show am the way, na him be master strategist.

Drama. Women are attracted to drama so you are part of the movie.

Don't you know why they act films with their toys and dolls as girls

Which one do you like?
Romance
Action
Comedy
Thriller
Horror
Adult
Kids
Family

CHOOSE your own

Buccalcavity2:
Mr Itanforiti! I didnt ask for epistles. Did baba kékeré construct 2 rail lines? Sanwoolu did. This is to adress your lopsided comparison.
No governor/subnationals in Nigeria constructed 2 rail lines in one tenure. Not one!

You are not worthy of the exchange. Enjoy your conclusion. Thank you for your attention to this matter.

I don't want anyone, whether na aide, commentator or spokesman to speak on behalf of anyone else. Let who wants to serve us come and explain to us the how and why.

Let the man speak for himself. I no longer believe any aide or spokesman. Very dangerous. APC promised $1 to 1 Naira. Later, Femi Adesina denied it. Make una wise up. We are supposed to be having 1 debate per month before January but our media are very very very complicit in this nonsense by indulging these candidates and letting them send aides to speak to you. Don't you see how foolish it is Nigerian media? If they won't come and speak for themselves now, they will never honor you when they get to office? Buhari already showed that.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShC6vIll1-U



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0HfwDLpav0s

Now you want to tell us the benefit of what the person who wants our votes has not told us himself. E be like say una never get sense for this country. I'm not wasting my time on any analysis whether it's from Atiku, Tinubu, Sowore or Obi. Let them all come and defend themselves, sell to us and we buy. Stop encouraging them to be lazy.

Shellsploit:
What China cannot do does not exist
Make I dey manage my pop 4 tecno

What I see is that one country is the consumption country < Nigeria

Another country is the production country > China

Atiku is not the one talking, it's Phrank Shaibu. Atiku is not ready. You had opportunity to represent yourself at the NBA conference, you sent Amaechi. Continue your big man politics, you don't know times have changed.

SixSeven:
The major problem that I think will work against Atiku and Tinubu is not speaking to the people themsleves. It will affect them.

They are still using the old playbook in a time where the youth have access to the internet and social media and want to hear from you directly. Whether it is Onanuga, Bwala, Kenneth or Momodu, one thing you will observe is that they draw attention away from their principal and start talking about things that will make people hate their principal. I posted it once here before how Trump talks more to Americans than our President, the Trump that is fighting war o. I just finished watching Chude's interview and heard them mentioning Modi of India. Now I will quote the comment I made in March and you can see that it's true. You can never be too busy for your people, talk down at them or behave like you are a god.

Regarding the spokesperson, I have written it before. There is no need repeating myself.

gracias124:
he wasn't wise at all no wonder he studied Chinese

Nairaland eh una no go kee person

As a man do not eat where you shit. Sorry, do not shit where you eat. That one will help you if you cannot control yourself.

SixSeven:
Self control is man's greatest weapon and women hate a man like this. If their plans fail, they will find a way to bring him down. Women can't take rejection the way men take it. I know because I've been through it. If a man can control his JT even if he really wants that thing she has, he has control over any woman. She cannot manipulate you with her tricks. God gave them that bottom power and that's man's greatest weakness. Once he is aware of his weakness and does not allow her to take advantage of him, he's the master in the game. Women fear men that can control themselves and ironically, this kind of man has unlimited opportunities. You will see these women come beg you themselves
Olioxx

I can't easily judge men because men love that thing there but it is not a man's world as you think. Women know how to play the manipulative game if you give them the chance so na you as man make you no lose guard as OP wrote. There is a reason why they said hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn. These women we love to hate are still the ones that we fall for. Women bottom power can affect any man, even the strongest of men👇

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7644699735466544397

Dear men, play your game away even if you have to because in one second, all you have worked for can crumble because you didn't know how to think with your head, you let your third leg play the penalty... VAR 📺

God protect you from making yourself vulnerable

Didijiji:
U na be mui mui ooooo

Hardship disguised as reforms

By the time Tinubu is through with his tenure, many won’t recognise Nigeria again — Akpabio


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsWl-GF3Qqs?

The people really love the President and his reforms. They cannot afford to hate him.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2-J5CVl-Fx0

Build the house first. In our hierarchy of needs, we need shelter.

Tooreda:
These guys are now afraid. They know their days are numbered.


Akpabio carelessly announced prayer, that is, money to senators bank accounts. That money was taken from the same economy that was in shambles. Akpabio. O o ni ku re.

I remember when he said that by the time Tinubu is done with us, we won't recognize it anymore. It's either a prayer or a curse

By the time Tinubu is through with his tenure, many won’t recognise Nigeria again — Akpabio

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsWl-GF3Qqs?

Hahaha this one too has played into the hands of Morka

SixSeven:
I was watching the interview on Arise this morning and I found it funny that he did not know that he admitted that APC ruined the economy with his own mouth. I will quote him


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-27l0XaIyM?

He said this when Vimbai asked the first question 👇

Vimbai you know, when you deal with or tackle a problem that was allowed to fester over generations of leaders. There's no romantic way to deal with it. There's no romantic way to remove the fuel subsidy. You see all of this talk and second guessing and you know I mean overanalyzing of how huge subsidy was removed you know they're doing that because they they were not in the chair they were not sitting there, they were not in the shoes of the president, when you confronted with the levels of you know real sheer madness that the economy had become when this president was inaugurated there's no nice way to do it when want to dismantle a system of dependence built over generations. There's no romantic way to do it. You know, it's like taking somebody into your home rentfree for 20 years. The day you tell them they have to leave your home to go rent an apartment of their own, pay money out of their pocket. Listen, there's no smiling, you know, I mean, way to greet you to say thank you for, you know, I mean, kicking me out of your home.


This is Morka in 2024 👇
1. On Buhari's Economy: "The Buhari administration did nothing in eight years but to clean and mop up the mess made by the PDP".

2. On the Phantom Economy: "What Nigerians don't realise is that the PDP operated a phantom economy, where billions of naira and dollars were awarded and thrown around for declared national projects. Projects that were never done as such".

3. On the Transition: "Buhari was a stopgap president who came to keep the country from tipping over the precipice of sixteen years of horrific maladministration of the PDP government".

So from blaming PDP throughout Buhari's 8 years to now blaming the government you took over from that you said was cleaning the mess, this your mess eh, the smell no good

There is no PDP to blame anymore

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2-J5CVl-Fx0

The people are giving their verdicts but you can tell them their reality is false

teeteepeejay:
Actually this topic seems targetted at a gender.

IMO, anybody no suppose send any other person papa. All humans are terrible. Pity nobody

Regarding the topic, let me post something from the research studies 👇

A lack of maternal care, often studied in psychology as maternal deprivation or emotional neglect profoundly alters human development across biological, psychological, and social conditions. Because human infants are entirely dependent on caregivers, a lack of consistent, responsive, and warm maternal care stunts brain growth, disrupts basic physiological systems, and damages the lifetime ability to form secure relationships. A lack of maternal care does not typically cause an adult to not care about women in general, but it severely fractures how they form emotional connections with them.

Because a mother is usually a child's first blueprint for a female figure, early maternal deprivation alters adult attachment styles, romantic dynamics, and friendships. This damage manifests differently depending on gender and adult behavioral adaptations. The maternal bond serves as the mirror for their own womanhood and self-esteem.

Women who lacked maternal care often report profound difficulty forming healthy female friendships. They may project their mother's emotional unavailability or criticism onto peers, viewing other women with inherent suspicion, jealousy, or a sense of bitter competition. They may constantly overcompensate in relationships with women, fearing that if they are not flawless, they will be rejected or judged.

In adult men you can see the effect in romantic partnerships. Men who experienced maternal neglect or abandonment rarely become indifferent to women instead, they often experience intense, conflicted emotional patterns known colloquially as "mommy issues". They may become hyper-focused on women, developing an intense fear of rejection. They often suppress their own needs, obsessively trying to fix or save partners to ensure they aren't abandoned again. Alternatively, intimacy may feel inherently dangerous to them. They may date women but emotionally detach or pull away the moment a deep bond starts forming to protect themselves from anticipated pain. Some men subconsciously divide women into unrealistic categories, they either view them as flawless, saint-like figures (seeking the perfect mother they never had) or devalue them entirely out of deep-seated resentment toward the maternal figure.

As adults, people often project the pain caused by that one specific woman onto all women or all men. It is a subconscious way of trying to protect themselves from ever being hurt like that again.

The child's brain thinks, "the first woman I ever knew rejected me. Therefore, all women are inherently untrustworthy, cold, or manipulative." To prevent a woman from ever having the power to hurt them again, an adult may adopt misogynistic views. By deciding that women are "inferior" or "evil," they feel a false sense of control and safety.
In romantic relationships, a man might subconsciously treat his female partner poorly, effectively punishing her for the sins of his mother.

Psychologists call this splitting. Because it is too painful for a child to accept that their own mother didn't love them properly (which makes the child feel worthless), the adult brain externalizes the problem. It is much easier for the ego to hate an entire group of people ("Women are the problem" or "Men are the problem" than it is to face the agonizing reality of a broken childhood bond. In girls, it is sometimes the absent father syndrome.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hjlsg0Pggv0?si=jexj4qlcPvhrYLVX

Anyway, my friend, before you disturb yourself with people you meet online or your friends irl, find out who their parents were and how their childhood was. You will see a lot of unhealed problems they show in their adult life. Poor child

Thewrath:
A party without vision,created problems since 2015,reversed itself and decided to campaign with the result of the reversal as achievements!!

Hmmm

Let the man speak for himself. I no longer believe any aide or spokesman. Very dangerous. APC promised $1 to 1 Naira. Later, Femi Adesina denied it. Make una wise up. We are supposed to be having 1 debate per month before January but our media are very very very complicit in this nonsense by indulging these candidates and letting them send aides to speak to you. Don't you see how foolish it is Nigerian media? If they won't come and speak for themselves now, they will never honor you when they get to office? Buhari already showed that.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShC6vIll1-U


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0HfwDLpav0s

Oby we know as e de go. They can speak about what they have done. At least in 2023, they brought different people saying "he paid for our school fees", "he helped my father". Okay na, kontinuu. At least many Nigerians can now enjoy the work of the Lagos master planner. The man who built Lagos who is now building Nigeria. The first class Accountant who is not ashamed to show his classmates, certificates and knowledge of world-class economy to Nigerians. Oya na. Na Nigerians suppose de testify from now on. No need to spend money on campaign.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2-J5CVl-Fx0