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Congrats chanbaby

BritneyStacy, I think i understand ur concerns about ur son watching u two fight. I remember fragments of this growing up and it still hurts me till today that my parents never had that happiness and blissful marriage they so desired for themselves until death did them part. So be strong my sister, it is a woman's duty to keep her home no matter what, dont leave, try to mend that which has bin broken starting from that little issue that caused the first fight, because its these little negligible issues that accumulate to form big problems. You are pregnant again because God wants you to stay and mend the bond, weda you are at fault or not, start by going on ur knees and begging your dh for forgiveness and peace then lets see if hes so inhuman not to melt for that humble gesture. And please seal out all third party interference after your reconciliation weda it works or not, pray, confess the positive in ur marriage and God will help you.

jazzyjazz:
I de fine o
How baby Sterling?

He's fyn o. Just eating sleeping.

I tire o. Jazzyjazz how far.

Roseey0:
Funny how these nurses all believe it's you pushing. But in reality, it's the thing pushing you.

Congrats Sixx

Giddyperson:
Congrats @Omoloulah, God bless you and your little one.

Sixx, nice birth story, thank God everything went fine, baby finally came out 3.0kg after all the extra .75 they were dashing you.

Yes o, I even 4got to add that.

My BS

My edd at 20 weeks was 25th January. At my 39th week ANC, still no show, my gynae refered me for scan. Monday 23rd, went 4 the scan me and hubby, all was well and baby had engaged but for one problem...lo was now weighing 3.75 kg as against the 2.25 in my 34th week and the sonographer was saying with this, it has to be CS #hospital policy and that he knows my gynaecologist very well he will definitely recommend CS. My eyes welled with tears, I begin cry, DH both comforted and blamed me for eating too much Christmas food! I cried the more. We decided to go see gynae on Wednesday ANC in the evening to kukuma talk plans 4 d CS. When we kpekused dat night, I noticed a huge blob of mucus in my jajaina wen I went to wash but I wondered if this was the mucus plug or not.

24th my mum came, still no show yet. We prayed that night for a sign and smooth delivery. By 5:22 am I woke up n noticed I was cramping, went to the loo only 4 me to see blood n mucus fall out. I was overjoyed n woke DH to tell him, we decided to go to hospital that morning instead of evening.

In the hospital that morning, I was told matron n other experienced nurses would come in the afternoon bcoz of the evening clinic thingi. The nurse on duty did VE for me, 2cm dilated. She called a female doctor (my gynae's PA) but they insisted I go home bcoz I was just 2cm n according to them if I was in labour, I would know! I was disappointed but I insisted on waiting for evening ANC mainly because deep inside me, I did not trust the doc or the nurse either, who struggles to check ordinary bp.I prefered waiting for matron or my gynae. I told my mum this and she agreed.

When the matron came, I told her I had seen show, she did VE n said sure enough, I was still 2cm but they have to keep me for monitoring. To me though, I was satisfied, n I felt no need to even see doctor again that day so I decided to go but she insisted . I stubbornly refused cos I don taya since 8am fa... She said OK but come back when contraction increases. So I phoned hubby to come pick us. Note that all the while nobody looked at the baby's weight on d result n me kuku no wan talk as I had faith I will deliver naturally.

Hubby came and insisted on seeing matron himself, n by the time he returned, she had refered us for another scan outside. According to her, my bump and weight gain doesn't reflect the foetal weight and adding up-to 1.5kg foetal weight in a month is unrealistic 4 my case. I was scared but we did the scan n to our greatest surprise, the baby's weight was amazingly 3.0kg as against 3.75 earlier scan which we did in the hospital's own lab by their so-called consultant sonographer!

My gynae had arrived when we returned by 6pm. He looked at the two results n noted the difference, also according to scan, my water had broken and my lo was being suffocated so he ordered that I be induced immediately. I was handed over by matron to those on night duty and by 8pm one mighty doctor with fat fingers came into the ward, flipped my dress and inserted pitocin 2 tabs into my vjay, so painful.

I was hving contractions alright but b4 I could say Jack Robinson, I was screaming down the entire hospital, chai! I have neva had such manner of pain my entire life! DH was there fanning me n holding my leg at the same time; I wanted my back massaged but anytime he tries to do it I shout "don't touch me oo" lol. He kept on, the caution blood he was supposed to donate long 4gotten, he shut his eyes so tight...he didn't want to look down at his labouring wife, my mum couldn't stand being there atall, she went outside praying. None of us had eaten since breakfast so the nurses forced me to take an unpalatable bottle of malt. I kept calling on Jesus to help me. As time went on, both hubby n mum kept disturbing the nurses to come n check but they didn't believe that I was ready as per ftm things until blood started squirting out of my vjay n I peed on the bed there 4 them. I was changed into wrapper n taken to labour room...didnt even tie d wrapper well n hubby was trying to cover me bcoz there were other people around.. I no send o, I almost ran there b4 d next contraction will hit me.

I got onto the bed but gosh, the nurses were too slow, they searched for my vein for up-to 30 mins. By this time I was shouting "I want to poo o, it's pushing me" they said I shouldn't. Finally in what seemed like forever, about 3 of them put their fingers into my vjay n asked me to push on the next contraction. I did but they said am not doing, dat I will break my baby's neck o...When I heard that eh! See me pushing.. Two times and my baby came out at around 12:05am screaming away n sucking! Lol. I started thanking God as I touched him n they took him away.
It was another 1 hour b4 I came out bcoz I was bleeding seriously as baby gave me serious tear. My mighty doctor was called to stitch me up. But b4 he could start, I started getting weak n cold, like I was dying n I screamed again n again "am getting weak o!" they started running around while I called on God n spoke life to myself thru his word that I wanted to raise my child and almost at once I started feeling my strength return b4 they fixed a drip, I continued quoting the word throughout. I was stitched n bleeding stopped. I even remember passing out when I got down from the bed but God took over. Then I was wheeled back to the ward were DH n mum were waiting happily. He was so emotional and kept telling me how sorry he felt for me amidst lots of promises, Lol. I just thank God for taking control over all situations and fulfilling his covenant of a supernatural conception and delivery in my life.

Congrats omoloulah and other mama's who have put to bed. Sharp sharp delivery to the rest of Feb mamas.

Roseey0 sorry 4 your loss, God will comfort you and family. It is well.

omoloulah:
I'm already cramping and I take it as a gud sign but then, I'm lying in bed and can't say if d mucus plug is already falling off or not. guess baby is ready to show afterall it's been 38weeks and 4days and my first baby was born at 38weeks and 5days.

You will he a smooth delivery. Congrats in advance.

nneejima:
Happy anniversary dearie, may God continue to bless ur home with many more goodies. Baby sterling z so cute, kisses to him biko

Will do, thanks desire.

nicoleswizzi:
Congrats capo sixx ... And happy wedding anniversary

Callola hope u are fine...

Thnks dear.

Naomi14:
Happy wedding anniversary and your baby is fine. Cute fingers

Thnks mam, I guess he took my fingers. Lol

jazzyjazz:
Congratulations and happy wedding anniversary. Sterling is a very cute baby. May God continually bless your family

Amen and thnks 4 that tip shield info, have already told hubby to get it 4 me, no time.

enque:
He is soooo cute
Happy wedding anniversary

Thnk you. How is baby Zara?

forzarush:
Congratulations SiXx for all your blessings, may they continue to multiply. Amen.

Amen o. Thanks love.

mummykyrti:
sixx happy wedding anniversary, your baby is so cute!!! wow!!! may God continue to bless your home.

Thnks love and Amen.

Giddyperson:
I have not sabi anything but its obvious these signs are cuz the D-day is drawing closer, sorry about your restlessness but I can't wait to read bs.

Speaking of birth stories, they are now so scarce on this thread. The cappos are handing over without nagging their teamies into dropping bs. Please mamas that have born recently should write their bs when they get the chance biko kwanu, I know vigilante is not easy but i want to read

Congrats Sixx on your anniversary, God bless your home and your cute baby.

Thnk you my sister, and wetin you go talk 4 people to drop bs. Sometimes you talk tire, na who want go write. You made me feel guilty though as I Neva drop my bs too. Coming soon

omoloulah:
happy wedding anniversary sixx. may the sweetness in ur home never go sour. so u b February bride like me, aww!!! many more beautiful years ahead. ur baby is super cute, God bless him.

Thnk you. February rocks!

Today is my Wedding Anniversary, help me thank God, for the man I married, he's the best man in the world! And for blessing our marriage with a precious kid exactly 2 yrs later. He's a little media shy though, I would have uploaded pics. But here is baby Sterling @ 4 days.

jazzyjazz:
May almighty God bless the person that invented ni.pple shields mehn that thing is bae
Before now my ds will suck and suck and suck till my ni.pples will be sore and cracked and bruised and he will still cry for more but mehn today I used the ni.pple shield and he sucked and sucked and sucked and sucked and I was just there pressing phone and watching tv

Pls babe, e be like say, I go need dat tin o. My boy n ur boy na twins? My nipple hurts already as I breastfeed almost hourly. Please how much did u get it?

cheeketo:
team Feb hw una dey, vigilante mama, una well-done o, vigilante is nt easy at all.
abeg sabi mamas that had their baby through c section
pls is this pain normal? nxt check up will be on Wednesday or should I go to d hospital before then? ppl are saying it's d site healing from inside
pls no jump pass o, d pain no allow me sleep self.

I don't know my sister, av neva had cs but other Dani mamas will come answer u.

Take heart Chizeal, God will surely restore what was lost 100 fold. You shall come back here to testify soon.

queensnow:
Please who knows how to make kunu..

I do but you might not understand, I will advice u to just buy. Soak unpeeled rice (called Siro) in water for about 2 to 3 or more days until it begins to sprout. Soak guinea corn for say 2 hours n take both siro n guineacorn to grind separately into pastes. Boil enough water n pour into the guineacorn paste stiring in the siro immediately. Stire, stire, stire, add cold water, stire. Allow to sit n cool, then seive the next day. Enjoy. You may add sugar at this point.

Kittana:
My people...hmmnnnnnnnn...

No be small belle today february 2nd, carry oo. I and DH decided to kpekus at 12a.m of all the oddest hours, just for kpekus sake, na hin one kain "BHicks" contraction start wey I no understand oo. Didn't sleep till this morning. Only for me to visit the hospital to complain, na hin dem kidnap me oo.

Zara Akuchukwu Okom, weighing 3.3kg (yes, scan lied!) de with us since about 11am as I de knack una this gist soo with no episiotomy but 3 tiny tears sha. Now I don't know if there can be a more complete BS to sama for later.
I don hand over the baton for super-supernatural delivery to other february mamas. God bless us all.

@cappo itissettled3, chanbaby, other february mamas, cappo Sixx, jazzyjazz and every mama jare.

wow congrats my runaway team n porting mate, may God bless ur princess. Welcome to motherhood.

Mummies n daddies good morning o, am checking in live from preggy thread. I had my son a week ago and we are all doing fyn (ftm). From the little av experienced, motherhood is sweet but its gonna be a long ride, and I get plenty plenty questions already, hope am welcome? Can see my former teamates, hw far oo..

nifeseun:
Lolz, Abi o. How is our Bobo, hope he is better now.

Yes, he is fyn. Thnk u.

TEAM JANUARY FINAL UPDATES

WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE, HALELUYAH
WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE, HALELUYAH
HEAVEN AND EARTH ADORE HIM
ANGELS BOW BEFORE HIM
WHAT A MIGHTY GOD WE SERVE 2*

Indeed, God is mighty, he has been faithful. What can we say but thank u Lord Jesus, you said yes to Team January mums n today we are joyful mothers of children. There was no loss of any kind, non cast her young not evn a single miscarriage . We all deliverd safely, our babies are all healthy. Even those that are porting to this beautiful month of February have deliverd safely because it is their heritage from team january n it is already written in d spiritual. Thank u Jesus, we love u.

Congrats once again all team January mums that have put to bed. Pls lets do dis again nxt tym., not nxt year o abeg, i be serious family planning advocate o. Lol ... It is well.

This is February and we thank God for bringing us into this wonderful month. This month is very special to me, so it is with joy that i hand over my mantle and my remaining January mamas to Itissettled3, team feb captain, abeg handle dem wit care ooo. May God mke it easy for all team feb, u will all deliver safely like team jan mamas. Happy new month.

Updates

Ported from December

Joyfulmoda, its a GIRL
Iamfruitful04
Mukhcech(jan daddy) 1st, its a BOY (ported from dec)
Mummytee no edd, its a GIRL (ported from dec)
Realsupermum, its a GIRL
Suzy no edd, its a GIRL (ported from dec)

Team January

Sixx 25th, its a BOY
Rukkington 27th, its a GIRL
ConvenantBabies 20th/26th/30th, its a BOY
Flodel 19th, its a BOY
Mzora 27th, its a BOY
Kemesty 7th, its a BOY
Dunni29 13th/15th, its a GIRL
Jazzyjazz 8th/14th/18th, its a BOY
Freshtestimony 2nd/6th/11th, its a BOY (ported to Dec)
Tinutunde 5th, its a BOY
Bulunton no edd
Oomiyale 13th, its a BOY (ported to Dec)
Cheeketo 27th, its a GIRL
Nifeseun no edd, its a BOY (ported to Dec)
Atinuketuna1 1st/3rd/7th
BeeBlossoms 28th, its a BOY
Amypearl 1st/5th/7th, its a BOY (ported to dec)
Marimaar
Ijelex 18th, its a BOY
CharmyBliz 16/18th, its a BOY
Joyurpreh 27th, its a GIRL and a GIRL
Juliao 23rd, its a GIRL (ported to Dec)
Rieme26 22nd, its a GIRL
Mamatweenz 1st, its a GIRL

Ported from February

Whyterose 18th, its a GIRL (ported from feb)
Nneka3000 no edd, its a GIRL (ported from feb)

Handing over to February

Tinutunde
Atinuketuna1
BeeBlossoms
Ijelex
Marimaar
Joyurpreh

I did not include the remaining dec mamas because i know they must have put to bed but i still hv no updates on them.

Cc Itissettled3

Thnks everyone for your support. Happy New Month

davsquared:
Just started lurking on this thread last month though i had my LO in Sept 16.
My first baby had dis eye discharge thingy. It was said to be an infection baby got from the birthcanal on his way out.
In addition to cleaning ur LO's eyes with clean cloth/ cottonwool dipped in saline solution, docs prescribed some eye drops which i cant confidently say worked.
Some mama's however, swear by dropping breastmilk in d baby's eyes, so u can try that since it is natural.

Note that the eye cleaning should be done from the inner corner to outer corner of d eye in one swipe. If u must clean more dan once, please change cottonwool or use another corner of the clean cloth to avoid re-infection. Nothing to worry about though

Ok thnks luv, i used eye drop n he is better 2day.

missmalachi:
It happened with my daughter too,doctor gave us eye drop to use n it went away.

Ok thnks, we did just that.

BeeBlossoms:
I neffa born o, lo is still having send forth parties in there, no be small thing

Wow, it is well. God will make it easy 4 u. Try not to be worked up abt it ok.

CovenantBabies:
BIRTH ALERT !!! BIRTH ALERT!!! BIRTH ALERT!!!

What shall I render to the Lord for all He's done!
I'm now mother to a charming Prince!!!
He arrived via VD weighing 3.5kg.
BS later.


Cc: Sixx, Pweetymii

Congrats porting mate 2, may God bless n keep our prince, i bin tink say u wan port to feb. Pls o dont 4get bs o.

Rukkington:
Birth Alert

Alhamdulilah Robil Alamin
My beautiful princess Maryam made her grand entrance at 8:03pm via vd through induction weighing exactly 3kg on 30th Jan. Mum and baby are doing fine and dad rejoicing
Bs later.

cc cappo sixx

Congratulations my porting mate 1, welcome princess january, may u bring continous joy to ur parents, team jan dropping it hot.

nifeseun:
Hello Mama's, how is our day going?

Make I rant small..
Motherhood no easy o, na so we go 4 2nd immunization yesterday, I no sleep cos I was so anxious, going out 4 the 1st time with my baby, I woke dh more than 4times @ night asking 4 the time the guy go just look me shake head, wen it was 4am, I ask if we should start getting ready cos I wasa told we av to be there early... Hmmm d guy just ask me if na me wan go open gate.
Anyways, we no sleep all tru yesternight, mehn! My cutie was just panting like a woman in labor n running temperature.. thank God we re over that now n I think my complexion is coming back small small , though my neck still black n I still av some marks but it's worth it

Make una see the pix we snap 4 health Centre n yeah! we re going to church on Sunday, how time flies ..

Cappo Sixx n all Jan mama's hope u they enjoy vigilante, all waddling mum safe delivery n all ATC mum, u shall experience vigilante b4 this year ends Ijn n u will come n testify to us how swt motherhood is .

We are o. Mmmm handsome bobo, lol @ his facial expression..."You can snap all u want, i jus want my sleep"