₦airaland Forum

starbuck:
Op, I love your threads but hate the fact that you buy these exaggerated years internet keep dishing out

Goalnaldo:
A Spanish team won the Europa league thrice in a row another Spanish side won the champions league thrice in a row. Don't ever call my league trash again!

COOL10:
Any tips on how to become more selfish?

geedot:
Let me share you a short story, I remember when I was in JS2 or JS3 then, I have this bros as neighbour, he is a very hard-working printer and makes money[as per average Naija guy then]. He has a girlfriend he was sponsoring through Polytechnic then[Ede Poly to be precise].

This lady comes from Osun state down to Lagos at least twice every month, and people were always envious of their relationship because they seemed really happy[or at least they were].
Note: This bros was the one playing the role of father[I hope you understand what I mean by this] to the lady.

Now, fast forward to two years, the lady is now done with her OND, we just noticed the lady stopped coming, and the bros on the other hand, started becoming moody.
Everyone knew they were having issues, and some of the bros friends tried settling the rancour they had.

Thank God I was present there the day the lady came upon request by the bros friends demanding to see her.
One of the bros friends asked the lady why they are having issues, the lady frankly said she was done with the relationship, with no tangible reason whatsoever.

Guess she just needed someone to help her through OND, and once that was achieved, she didn't need the bros anymore.
The bros was forced to say 'after everything I did for you', the lady replied instantly, 'have you ever demanded for sex and I refused?'.

Lessons I learnt at that early stage of my life are that:
1. Average Nigerian girlfriend are prostituting indirectly. They equate money to sex you both had.
2. Helping a lady through school with the hope of marrying her most cases end in tears.
3. Ladies are mostly the only one benefitting from relationships, you both enjoy the sex[which most ladies even enjoy more], and still part with your hard earned money.
4. The one more committed in a relationship loves the more and at risk of losing more if the relationship goes south.

All I'm trying to say here is, Women are smarter and brutal than how some men perceive them to be. The only way not to be at the losing end is by being smarter and more brutal.
Underneath that fragile look is a monster who doesn't care who gets burnt to achieve her own aim.

nauttyn:
so I asked this girl out a while back, a slim beautiful Barbie like that.
She told me she can't date me but I can do what I want with her, saying we can romance but she can't be my girlfriend for now, let's be friends.
truth is I don't understand shit, like u can't date me but I can sleep with you?�

Regex:
Na ayes this fool be. But wetin him gain?

Carloslehder:
Going to send this to my wife,cos the way she's mistreating our help might earn her an heavy dose of sniper very soon

Bonatheripper:
Do you know this man

Tell him I'm not a one minute man and he should stop spoiling the moment

jrusky:
Sorry is he a victim or a cultist? If he is victim or wrogly targeted RIP young man and the killer must be fish out and punish "BUT" if he is a cultist then no RIP. I have zero sympathy on Cultist.

Babara1994:
How sure are you? Don't conclude without proofs, especially in cases involving dead people.

What if he was innocent? What if he was mistaken to be someone else? What if he was killed out of sheer envy?

Think carefully before spewing hurtful words in public.

SegFault:
Some people don't read self. They never said the guy was a cultist but awon nairaland criminologists have already closed the case dullards.

Benee1000:
She's my Soul mate, she's the best for me, she's the one for me, she's my one and only, etc are all fallacies, as well as dangerous and limiting to what you can get out there.
There's always someone better or worse.
Females know this. Its hard wired in them.
They're not irrational or illogical beings. They're very logical with their emotions. They're emotional until they get what they want.
Their emotions are not abstract, they're well calculated.

johnkey:
"There's a simp for every hoe".
To the topic:
Very beautiful pictures wish them a happy home in love and unity

Regex:
I was a called a witch to my face because I refused to spare my N200 for a girl to eat and I went ahead to ask for her number.

ubunja:
That's true. Most NL guys are soft/simps
Like this guy here:



Just like someone told you on that thread:

Regex:
True to this. I guess I know how they feel. But I'm not calling them simps. When I mentioned to Ignore the monikers with (f) and (M) simps the bolded, I meant simps that will concur to the rambles them females. I didn't mean those trying to reply them to teach them.

I know how they feel, those who want to lecture them females, in fact twice I was attacked on my emotion in here and I almost stoop to her level. It's very difficult, but at some point we will all come to realize, it's actually not worth it being in arguments but not at the same time. But thanks for the heads up.

Beardedviking:
The hard truth about the so called redpill would be revealed naturally only if you let your beard grow...There are mysteries behind beards people dont know. Practice red pill and dont av a wicked beard to match and see how you will be seen. Money can't buy some knowledge in life some are stored in your beard

wpadmin:
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GLYCOLYSISS:
I just got to be honest with everyone reading these post,I can't continue ANYMORE !
Am done ,guys.
I have paid my dues ,and that's the most important thing right now.
Thanks for your time and attention,I deeply appreciate them,as you all can see ,these thread has being bastardized.
Leaving the thread for them,and life goes on.

Best regards.

Martinez39s:
When I see people still unnecessarily replying Çhii59.

GLYCOLYSISS:
Men ,

Have you wondered why older single women had these animosity toward younger women ?

It stems from competition anxiety.
The younger women now gets all the dominant men they highly crave,the attention and the resources and are at the apogee of their SMV,why the older woman gets little to non of these.
It's a vicious cycle.

ALEX182:
I'm not MGTOW. That applies to men who have been burnt by women and have decided to stay away from women. Nah, nobody is an island. Nature made it that male and female need each other. It's imprinted into your genes. Sorry, you can't help it. So MGTOW I understand you but my natural man is stronger.

Guys, your problem is not lack of confidence. Your problem is lack of resources. Your problem is that you are broke. Your problem is that you are not a high value man. And that is why the you can't get the women you want.

Women are smart. Very smart. They are smarter than you are. And they are great liars and pretenders. That is the way they are engineered. You are engineered differently and that is why they often play men like dummies. But you are a man. Men built civilization. Men built everything you see today. You are a lion. Stop being a sheep or lamb.

As a man, stop chasing useless things that add no value to you. Drop your vices because those vices will ruin you. Be about chasing your dreams and goals. Leave women alone. Chase your dreams. The men that built this world were not women chasers. They were dream chasers.

You don't see Elon Musk, Zukerberg, or Bill Gates chasing instagram thots or making tiktok videos. Even grown men are making tiktok videos (facepalm). Look at the name sef: tiktok

ubunja:
I've never been to Nigeria but the Nigerians I meet here in SA, the way they're so quick to open their wallets wherever a woman is involved is rather worrying. Your culture has tied money and love together so tightly only a deep deep understanding of female nature can enable a man to succeed with women without leading with money. Even girls this side consider Nigerians as an ATM of sorts or people to deal with when they need quick cash. And it's such a shame because Nigerian men have so much to offer besides money.

kazyhm:
When its comes to marriage, I don't subscribe to marrying an immature girl.......its a lot of burden.

Girls should attain some level of training, (includes home and vocational training) emotional maturity and attain some level of responsibility.

Training someone else's daughter all in the name of marriage doesn't make sense to me especially when you claimed to be an alpha male.....an untrained girl is nothing but a liability in marriage.

In essence you can't be running away from burdensome girlfriend and yet be aiming to marry an untrained girls just because you crave for virgin (most probable virgins are teenager)... I don't value virgins to start with because what's the difference after the first entry ? And worst still if the supposed virgin is lacking in character, some basic knowledge and understand.

kazyhm:
The question I asked was what's the chance of marrying a practicing doctor, lawyer, registered engineer, pharmacist, astronaut, Ican certified accountant at age 26?

kazyhm:
Regina was not Ned's first wife (she is nothing but a retirement fish

Regex:
Even after people like CaveAdullam and the op warned us to ignore all monikers with (f) and (M) simps... Yet the didn't listen.

kazyhm:
Absolute truth.......and I was trying to explain this to ubunja on one of the thread sometimes ago...

Vet your woman ruthlessly before you invest your resources...... but he is more concern about teenage girls

Regex:
Can't you resist the urge to shalaye? Please ignore her. You do not owe her this explanation. It makes you a f00l before her.

GLYCOLYSISS:
-- Today’s women don’t believe men are manly enough, and today’s men don’t believe women are womanly enough. Both are correct, androgyny plagues our time.

GLYCOLYSISS:
--Female empowerment ?

It has been basically reduced to nudity,revealing clothing and arrogance.
It's safe to say women understand their strongest asset is their sexuality and beauty ,but then,they turn around and crucify men for thinking the same.

pocohantas:
What other wildlife misconceptions have you gotten to clarify? Do share


Meanwhile, roasted snake for the house.