ADDer: I don't know how you ladies came up with this vow of silence to never let your feelings be known, because "all guys" prefer you keep mum about it. But that's a very erroneous belief my dear. It's nothing more than a social construct.
The reason why it may seem true is because we keep on perpetuating it despite it's downsides. Behind it is the fear of rejection, something the OP is quite conscious of.
I wonder why you ladies didn't agree to forfeit your aspirations for the position of a housewife. Afterall, wasn't it what ladies were supposed to do many years ago? I wonder why you finally decided to think with your brains, rather than let society dictate for you?
The lesson here is THINGS CHANGE. Society can never fully define who we are, or how we should act. No sensible man who knows his worth would suffer to gain the affection of a woman unless he deems her special, and trust me, that's usually after he's been with many other women. You must be very special indeed. The fact that you ladies enjoy being chased doesn't make you any more special than men. It's just society's(and to a degree, Nature) game, that's all. With that being said, dude is just playing her and she's already falling for him. My advice is that she should snap out of it. Hopefully someone more deserving shows up.
*PS* - I find it a bit mind boggling how after the whole "forming" when a man is trying to get your attention, y'all usually turn out being the ones most invested in the relationship,and most vulnerable. So i always ask myself, why the forming in the first place? Man, whatever
The code of silence is always a game women play to get an upper hand in the terrain of dating and sex. A lot of guys still don't get this.
stormborn28: to be sincere I pity you... Really pity you... The writing is on the wall like that of Nebuchadnezzar... No need for interpretation... To burst your bubble... That guy has plenty girls at his disposal. He picks any and fvck and discharge same is coming for you... Ubunja said it all... Girls always going for the bad guys... The first time I tried understanding girls was when I was in secondary school... I very tough task for me then because of the funny behaviour I noticed then. But here I am with Ubunja's Miseducation that demystify all shades... Nonsense everywhere
Why una dey cast OT like dis? Make the bad boy flex the abundant pûssies way im style don earn am.
Guys dey always worry about ladies and advice them against other men. Despite that, the ladies still treat them like trash. If you carry this your "good boy" mind advise this lady in person, she'll listen to you but will snub if you ask her out. Last last, she go carry her love go give another bad boy.
I'm sure this girl has good guys that really love her but typical of women's stupidity, they'll always go for the bad boys that treat them like rubbish.
Trust me, no matter how you advise girls, they'll never go for those that love them. Only guys who treat them like rubbish. Even, when they do, they only accept them for marriage to pay all her bills.
Dorcas23: There is this guy I just recently started talking to. He's very good looking and intelligent and dresses well. He is my type and we have so many interests in common. I'm already falling in love with him but I haven't told him. I'm still trying to take it slow. I have not had sex with him yet but I want to. He told me he is in love with me and I was so excited to hear it but I hid my excitement because I'm still confused about his intentions.
The problem is that whenever I try to become vulnerable with him like texting him early in the morning to ask how his night was, he will ignore my texts for days and then call me out of the blue as if nothing happened. But other times he will call me multiple times and talk on the phone like we were dating.
Yesterday after ignoring my texts for over 24hrs he called me and said I should come over to his place. I've never been to his place before. I was already on my way when he called me to tell me that a lady visited him and she is spending the night at his place. He apologized and told me not to be offended. I acted all cool and told him some other time. He hasn't texted or called me since. I'm confused. I know we aren't dating but why would he even tell me this?
And e go get one good guy who sincerely loves you and begging for your attention while you snub him.
Well, you are no different from typical ladies who are attracted to bad boys who treat them like crap. Men, learn from this.
Always look at behaviors, study it, interpret it and make sure it tallies with what you want. The world is science (I don't mean to take a jab at those who studied art) you gotta be observant to know what's going on.A lot of men always misinterpret some behaviors to nonsense. I know some fellas that will tell me the behavior of op is just so that she doesn't come off as a cheap girl. That's stupid. Don't fall for that.
Peace.
It's a science and applying this knowledge to tactfully navigate every facet of life is an art.
Someone already said she is confused
I hope sense reach a high number of men over time. Lol
CaveAdullam: Women always proving the postulations present in TRP. The mr "nice guy" was apparently rejected because hypergamy always seek a male that belongs to a higher status---physical, economic, social etc.
Women always seek the sisterhood Uber Alles to verify the potential quality of any male that approaches them. This is what is refered to the herd mentality or group thinking.
Did you read what they told her? He is low standard. That's hypergamy. Because at this point hypergamy wants an alpha male that can titillates her.
Mr "nice guy" was eventually ghosted but was still monitored via whatsapp status maybe until he attains the standards that can satisfy her hypergamy.
Mr "nice guy" came back in a moment of sorrow thinking he can usurp it as an opportunity to achieve his fantasy.......maybe she's is the "one," but he will be disappointed.
Sorry baby, it was just hypergamy at play. Hypergamy always reject the nice guy but give thousands of "f^cks to the alpha male.
The mr nice guy became smart and moved on because he knew there were many girls outside. He overcame the scarcity mentality mindset to an abundance mindset. He knew he is the prize to be won.
What gave this guy such kind of breakthrough? Maybe one way or the other he discovered TRP or something related to it or just mere luck or common sense.
Hypergamy is really a b@st@rd. It is now in full display; Alpha f^cks Beta bucks.
The Alpha male that once thrilled you for a short moment which you enjoyed(ALPHA F^CKS) until situations went south is now poignant. And since you are now in final year, you must quickly at least secure a Beta male that will transport your long term needs(BETA BUCKS). And this young man here, has what it takes to better those needs.
Hahahaha. He's no longer a low standard male.
You really did a nice job carrying out a proper surveillance on this young man. Well done.
After expanding on the TRP specimen you gave us, now to my advice:
Enhance your greenlights, and if your hypergamy senses that he is a dominant man, latch onto him. If you are lucky that he has not become cognizant with TRP, and still in his blue pilled beta state, he "might" commit into a serious relationship with you otherwise, you will definitely become another plate for him to spin.......looooool
If he's not a dominant male, your hypergamy will look for such. It is good for a woman to marry such a man for the sake of her children and the society at large. We don't need another breeds of simps, because they are difficult to deal with and because they have a larger influence than alpha males in our world, their stupidity and their way of governance is second to none.
Your analysis was thorough. Perfect scenario to observe women's brutal hypergamy in play.
I hope this dude knows and appreciate the great miracle the good lord has done to save his life by making this bîtch reject him. He literally dodged a bullet of pain, distraction and destruction.
Truth is, this bîtch and her slutty friends never chose this nice guy in question. The asshole she is presently dating and complaining about, ranks much higher than him in attraction. That's why he delayed his offer, tossing him around till the nice guy got exhausted and moved on.
She only wants him for his future potential and if the future potential fails to materialize into wealth and status that she craves, she'll dump him as quick as possible because she never chose him.
Men, there is a lot to learn from this story. Go where you are wanted and stop forcing yourselves on women who don't give you clear mating signals (green light) or reject you more than once.
rottencorpse: What does it mean when a girl starts operating her phone when she approaches you? Ubunja, Glycolysiss, Skepticus
Lol. Too isolated to make a clear interpretation of it.
If you have never seen nor met her and she faces her phone while approaching you, you are probably invisible to her or she is busy on her own purpose. She has moved on. Move on with your life too. No green light.
If she is one you have known, she might be shy or intimidated by your presence. Moderate sign of attraction.
Skyfornia: You might be right..but having sex in the BBN house won't reduce her hustle..infact it will increase her chances of meeting top men..cause most rich and influential men prefer naughty girls. Ask Tonto Dike and Toke Makinwa
You are right about being on the show to meet top men.
For the two examples you mentioned, which one of them is still in marriage?
tightpussy156: @budlin I don't trust women.i didn't say all girls in the house her decent.but nengi from wat I have seen so far is the most decent girl in the house.she might be decent in the house due to what people will say but loose outside the house.you can't compare her with loose girls like vee,wathoni, Dorothy an cool.hope you understand.
You and Skyfornia already bought into her script of "decency" and it's good, meaning that she has also sold it to other men out there, even, men of great wealth. The body she flaunt regularly is for the highest bidder.
She is looking at the future, and Ozo would be a distraction in landing her that man of great value (wealth and influence) if she is seen having sex on public TV. Who knows? she might be sex freak and a serial cheat. As long as she keeps that facade of decency, Ozo is smitten and under her manipulations, and open her to better options in men outside.
majamajic: Erica seems to have finally believed , she is into billionaire family , so she is doing all her best , I hope Kidd will not disappoint her , I always do feel for her
She (Erica) seem like an easy lay for him (Kidd). I don't think that he would consider her as a prospect for serious relationship. But sure, she could make connections and money being associated with him.
Budline1: Decent you say? None of them in that house is decent. Camera is playing a very huge factor here,she's probably not doing anything naughty because she'll sure be seen outside. It's either her bf is richer than Ozo or she's targetting bigger guys outside and she has to sell the image of decency. That girl ain't no saint, she may do crazy things if it wasn't a live footage, trust women at your own peril bruh.
You are smart.
The more men know that they can't get sex from you easily or you give the "impression" of not being "sexually loose" to other men despite your beauty and attention, they tend to spend more on you and get the sex from other cheap girls. Meanwhile, you may be a notorious sex machine and cheat on a low key.
Classic gold digger move from Nengi. She must be a true follower of Sheraseven1
I had a feeling she was responding to my history on NL not my message. And I was right.
I think that most of them love you for the hateful emotions you stir up in them through the miseducations and all. Women thrive in chaos and disorder but they'll act aggressive to test your frame and deflect their interest in you. They are easy lay. Not as smart as they think they are. You have got her "igolo" tingling with your vibe lol
ubunja: I don't know why she's coming out guns blazing lol.
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You should be used to this. I see ladies attack you unprovoked almost every time. You just got yourself another fan like the rest of the female trolls you know here. That's a woman on her best shit-testing day.
I think that most of them love you for the hateful emotions you stir up in them through the miseducations and all. You have got her "igolo" tingling with your vibe lol
But are you responding to my message or responding to the hated ubunja personality? Because I swear you did not have to be this harsh over an error so small. I actually meant to say "microorganisms". But I said "bacteria" and here we are with you raining curses on me. Lol
In any case all I wanted was to emphasise that Yeast infections are not sexually transmitted diseases, as the guy I responded to seemed to think. Peace.
Ardar: Yeast infection is as a result of bad bacteria? I've always knew you were dumb but not this dumb.
Yeast infection is caused by a population imbalance of the bacteria and fungi found in the vagina.
The two microorganisms need to be in equal quantity for the vagina to be healthy, if there are more fungi organisms than bacteria, then yeast infection comes. That's why women are advised not to use soap down there.
Come on any one who took their biology lessons well with half a brain should know that yeast=fungi.
If dem talk am say u nor get sense now, u go carry ur big head, begin foam for mouth, tag mods here and there.
No wonder almost all of una dey hide una dirty pussies and empty brains under heavy layer of make up. I no understand wetin Nigerian guys dey see for una sef.
Read Ubunja comment. Compare it with yours and ask yourself deeply: "Do I have sense like dis?"
alexistaiwo: Nigerians can't see beyond their noses. There is a wider conspiracy going on and people are slow to catch on. I have been following political trends since 2016
* Elections are suddenly becoming inconclusive prompting reruns which are always won by the incumbent party. * Lop sided political appointments favouring a particular section of the country at the detriment of others. * Laws which take away the liberties of the citizenry are being passed on a daily. * Some government officials are now above the law and they are not afraid to show it. * There is a glaring vacuum of power at the top, the candidate voted for by the citizens is clearly not in charge of the situation. * Government of the day is very averse to criticism. Nigeria and the Chinese government suddenly became best of friends which coincided with the sudden change in government relations with the citizens. * And so many other things time will not permit me to write.
China is teaching Nigerian government how to implement communism. They want the most populous black country on earth to lean away from western styled democracy and become a one party state like China. Nigerian leaders have no issues following Chinese communist-driven directives because if successful, it will only further consolidate the running of the affairs of the nation in the hands of the privileged few at the top of the food chain.
Guess it is time to start learning Chinese.
You better face your own life and be the best to yourself and your loved ones (family, friends associates etc) than wasting your life worrying about this God-forsaken hell hole.
I thought you’d be objective but this is an extremely biased view. . . .
You’ve been quiet for this matter, what you think bro?
@skepticus
I've seen the back and forth about the issue of masturbation here and you'll find same on every fora of red pill discussions. I ignore because i think everyone is entitled to their positions on it.
Among the popular proponents of TRP/MGTOW, there is no general consensus on being pro- or anti- masturbation.
The cons of masturbation are very valid from a health and psychological perspective. For some, the cons reach into the metaphysical (spiritual realm). However, the pros of masturbation bring a conflict, when you consider its benefits to men trying to avoid the distractions and pitfalls that comes with dating women or nutting off with prostitutes.
Personally, I'm against masturbation because of its health effect and prone to being addictive. I'm okay with masturbation when its done in "moderation" (whatever moderation means to you). Just like alcohol, it's advisable to stop or reduce it, when the negative effects begin to outweigh its benefits.
emmaodet: Hmmmmmm There was a lady i tried dating 8 years ago but she gave me a cold shoulder and even her bf then called to threaten and cursed me. Then, she was in school - OOU and unknown to me, staying with the bf has husband and wifey package. I think the guy was into yahoo and making waves then. Only God knows how many abortions she would have done for him. Fast forward to early last year, she flashed my number and i called the number back because i don't know the number she used. She started narrating her ordeal, how she and said guy are no more, his possessiveness and monitoring of her, the constant physical fighting of each other blah blah blah and now she is tired of all these dating rubbish and needs to settle down and marry became time is not on her side anymore for time wasters in the name of relationship. I kukuma told her that am married too and don't need such anymore, i jump and pass abeg
She has hit the wall and looking for the foolish Nigerian guy to come pack the rest of her used trash for marriage.
Sadly, she would find one though it may not fit into her specification of high value male. A high number of guys with low self esteem are out there thirsty and sexually frustrated. They'll put up with her trash.
For the sake of curiosity and observing the red pill, I would have loved to see you flirt and mess around with her head before dropping the bombshell of your non-interest.
Made4naijalove: A video of a man crying by the side of a busy road after a woman turned down his public proposal has gone viral.
In the video, the man is seen going down on one knee to ask the woman to marry him. The woman didn't seem pleased and she walked away.
The man starts crying at this point and goes after the woman then kneels again.
His action caused a scene and made people gather to plead with the girl to say yes. Some even lost patience with the girl when she refused to accept the proposal.
Cars driving past slowed down to observe the spectacle.
ubunja: problem is not the women. Women are hoes and we'll screw them hoes but marry the virgins.
The problem is Simps. These simps can't stand for female nature to be revealed. Once you tell them women are this, this and that, in the simps' minds you're a woman Hater. Why are you not speaking Glowingly of women? Why are you not bending your knee?
In the Red Pill threads it's ALWAYS the men fighting the hardest against the RedPillers. It should tell a lot. They hate the Red Pillers and the RedPillers hate them. Some RedPillers like myself will Bleep a simp's woman any time. Without a second thought. Personally that's how much I hate simps. I will Bleep your wife dear simp. And You'll raise an ubunja baby with your hard-earned money. Until you wake up.
These simps ignore all the truths about women's true sexual nature that are around us. I always laugh when a simp kills himself over women problems. Death will be their wakeup call if they ignore the Red Pill.
pansophist: By equalizing it, which is to thrive in your masculine domain. Have something going for yourself, do things that accentuate your positive sides and pursue becoming an attractive man within the context of the society where you live.
Women by nature are adaptive, that is, they integrate into the lifestyle a man they fancy have built. So play the game of purposefulness and goal chasing, and you will never lack women that will find you irresistible, making the sex that they gatekeep cheapened.
To understand this deeper, one need to look at it from an evolutionary perspective.
Women are more adaptive and conditioned than the male specie for survival from genetic, phenotypic to environmental changes, right from the embryonic stages (about 70% of miscarriages are male babies).
From the environmental part, women will adapt to anything you bring to the table if she chooses you. You get more options in them if you are on your purpose as a man and getting results for it.
Goalnaldo: A Spanish team won the Europa league thrice in a row another Spanish side won the champions league thrice in a row. Don't ever call my league trash again!
I dey tell u.
Make none of this EPL suckers no try meet La Liga team for final, even in their worst form, 90 minutes dey always clear dem.
geedot: Let me share you a short story, I remember when I was in JS2 or JS3 then, I have this bros as neighbour, he is a very hard-working printer and makes money[as per average Naija guy then]. He has a girlfriend he was sponsoring through Polytechnic then[Ede Poly to be precise].
This lady comes from Osun state down to Lagos at least twice every month, and people were always envious of their relationship because they seemed really happy[or at least they were]. Note: This bros was the one playing the role of father[I hope you understand what I mean by this] to the lady.
Now, fast forward to two years, the lady is now done with her OND, we just noticed the lady stopped coming, and the bros on the other hand, started becoming moody. Everyone knew they were having issues, and some of the bros friends tried settling the rancour they had.
Thank God I was present there the day the lady came upon request by the bros friends demanding to see her. One of the bros friends asked the lady why they are having issues, the lady frankly said she was done with the relationship, with no tangible reason whatsoever.
Guess she just needed someone to help her through OND, and once that was achieved, she didn't need the bros anymore. The bros was forced to say 'after everything I did for you', the lady replied instantly, 'have you ever demanded for sex and I refused?'.
Lessons I learnt at that early stage of my life are that: 1. Average Nigerian girlfriend are prostituting indirectly. They equate money to sex you both had. 2. Helping a lady through school with the hope of marrying her most cases end in tears. 3. Ladies are mostly the only one benefitting from relationships, you both enjoy the sex[which most ladies even enjoy more], and still part with your hard earned money. 4. The one more committed in a relationship loves the more and at risk of losing more if the relationship goes south.
All I'm trying to say here is, Women are smarter and brutal than how some men perceive them to be. The only way not to be at the losing end is by being smarter and more brutal. Underneath that fragile look is a monster who doesn't care who gets burnt to achieve her own aim.
To be honest, women mostly lead men to, and teach men red pill truths better than any man can do.
If you want to see how to put yourself first, look at what women do when it comes to their needs.
Romance › Re: A Girl Spent The Night At His Place And I'm Feeling So Bad About It. by Skepticus: 8:08am On Aug 27, 2020
