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Richdad50:


The stupid Ubunja retired NwaAmaikpe on NAIRALAND.

Richdad

Ode. U no get sense

foolish dad

Hollusilva28:
I saw this coming. I'm a man, I want to implore ladies to be focus, do not allow men to use you. Erica brought these issue upon herself, 85m is there for her to win, instead she got herself disqualified all because of someone that doesn't have a real genuine love for her. laycon is showing real affection, but she choosen fine body with good money.

please ladies go for something important, don't waste your time on someone that doesn't care for you.

Don't you get the memo?

These women you are advising would never chose you nor any other men that mean well for them.

Most times when they are young and hot, they'll always go for the ones who don't care about them and treat them like trash.

Mystiquefia:
Bro, i dont care about your fucking explanation okay? you're not more knowledgeable than those who chose to be MGTOW'S.
You're Not an authority in the Redpill manosphere.. infact nobody even knows you on nairaland let alone the redpill manosphere. This thread should be about dishing out redpill truths and its in no way supposed to be a bash thread on MGTOW's. You're Not the benchmark for moral rectitude, so stick to doing your thing and let others do what pleases them.
MGTOW is not dumb and if you think otherwise you need psychiatric evaluation ASAP.
THANKS

Mystiqueafia and Caveadullam, please, sheathe your swords. Conflicts within men groups like this is inevitable and we can all disagree to agree.

Mystiqueafia, Cave made a vital point which means that being child-free from evolutionary standpoint is a disadvantage. Your grouse was with his choice of word dumb which may not be the best of words to use in this case. I agree.

In this case we may agree to use the term, Reproductive Success. What Caveadullam means here is that you are an evolutionary/natural "failure" because passing on your genes is what matters to nature but that doesn't mean such men are failures in themselves. Being evolutionary dumb doesn't mean that such men are dumb. As a matter of fact, men like that have contributed more to the advancement of our specie in all spheres.

For those MGTOW purists that have a minor issue with some folks here advocating marriage, you all should all should understand that there are levels to the red pill and what you chose to do after swallowing the red pill. These can be influenced by the economy of the society you live in, the political climate and the effects of their legislations in relations to men's right.

It's understandable that in highly feminized western countries like Canada where the economy is highly advanced (meaning that men are earning more which also raises the standards of women and they crave more rights than necessary), Men Going Their Own Way, are expected to be much (even to extremes) compared with Nigeria whose economy is shît at best (Most men can't even make a decent living making it difficult for women to rise to begin to demand stupid simping laws in their favour). As you swallow the red pill, it's advisable to put its application with its workable frame in your society and discard the rest. The aim of the red pill is to break you from the robot/zombie mentality thrust on you/expected by the society and lead your path as an independent man/mind.

Moneysoldier007:
Let me share my own view. This is like the best thread in my thread reading career.

When you stop taking women seriously, you'll find out they ain't shit. The best thing any man can do out there is to focus on you first, add value and then see these women for who they are.

Love is meant for the weak. Kill your emotions in your dealings with people and then you've solved 99% of your problems cos it means your happiness first before anything else.

During relationships the signs are always there but because you've taken them too serious(Love) you become blind to see these things staring at you in the face. When a woman says I am with a friend, it means she's with a guy but when she says I am with my friend, it means she's with a girl, 100/100 that this has happened to me, it has always been correct, it's an unconscious action. Another unconscious action is when they are lying watch them closely, they look at their left.

That your babe you want to kill yourself on, that's making you not channel all your energy into bettering yourself only shows you messages from guys she doesn't like but the ones you she can replace you with tomorrow, she deletes them, that's why you'll find when partners break up, within few months the babe is getting married.

My brotherrrrrrrrrr when you carry am for head and taking care of all her bills, she's begging another man of value for attention, a man that's already gotten his shit together when you were simply busy chasing her with all your strength and might, those ones she adores and acts like angels to them, you've seen it all with her and she's paid you for it with sex because after looking back the truth is it was all you got(sex and companionship which you mistook for love).

Wisemen, focus on yourself, add value to your life, get yourself in a very comfortable situation, nice crib, a small ride to move around and just keep hunting for the next best thing to do to continue that value adding, I bet you babe go find you come and when you're about to hit that cookie you'll hear "I can't believe I am doing this", my brother she had it all planned from the minute she shaved.

Everyone is born intelligent, it's how we apply it, act based on facts and not emotions.

A man who can control his sexual urge, do his chores, make his food and tame his ego would
ALMOST be 'uncontrollable' and 'un-influenceable'.

Only wise and strong women who have more qualities to offer more than sex are meant to be cherished.

A woman offering you nothing but just sex is a total drag back.

Leave love and chase money, leave the love for the woman, rather choose respect over love.

Even before the knowledge of the red pill, one thing I have never understood is the Chasing Love part. It's sickening to think of.

I have seen those who don't chase money and love, have it easy with women than those who chase love. It's crazy seeing men complain on NL about chasing love and paying these entitled cûnts to be loved

Arsenate:
I'm disappointed that you are disappointed in realising Poco isn't the sharpest tool in the box. For some bizarre reason, nairalanders think she's intelligent. Completely Bizarre.

You can't take people who consider a clownish troll whose puerile comments emanate from the brain of one with single-digit IQ, always starting with "Damn Nigarrr" intelligent as a serious set of people. They'll sure consider that spent cûnt, a genius.

Ishilove:
Take the redpillers serious to your own detriment. Na only online dem sabi make mouth. Last last it is still the same Nigerian women they will end up marrying

The same marriage rate in Nigeria that is falling. Lol.

Not your fault though. The simp thirst and delusion is much around.

Hathor5:
I never hear white men complain about these laws as much as they and their internet sources do. All I see is white men getting married left, right and centre without prenups. Marriage rates are even on the rise again. The only time I hear of these complaints are when they post the contributions of red pillars, a movement which is not even widely known here.

I will ask my white friends and colleagues next week if they have heard of the red pillars next week. I have only heard about it on NL. LMAO

I would be surprised if they knew. The western media does a good job of censoring them and keep them off the attention of the mainstream. You know the reason.

Sex is good and getting your nut off once in a while is therapeutic but having dominant control over your libido is still the best option ever.

If a man could keep his dick and resist the urge to always wanna score, Lol that man would begin to understand what freedom really is.

Stolen from Ayt27

Martinez39s:
Meghan Markle had to subtly drag Prince Harry back to California. Though the misdanry, systemic war against masculinity, gynocentrism, and feminism are wide spread. I agree that Canada is the champion in that aspect.

Meghan Markle also pressured harry into buying an estate in Canada.

Now, you know why!

ubunja:
there's a reason why the Red Pill movement is unofficially headquartered in Canada. Its the strongest there because misandry is the strongest there.

Sandman is Canadian.

Canada is the world's heaven for feminists. For being a woman, you can get away with almost every misdeed.

The US and some other part of Western/Northern Europe have their share of simping but are no match to Canada.

The only part of Europe that seem not to have this simping madness is the Balkans

Hathor5:
If beta males are in charge of this world, that means that they are actually alpha. I don't expect you to understand it because I don't expect much from people who think in two categories.

To be fair, betas actually contribute the greatest to civilization. They are beneficial to you as a woman because they are the willing pawns in your game of manipulations like the betas of the west are doing.

From male perspective, they are actually shit. Now, see where their simping laws have landed them.

The uncomfortable truth.

dairykidd:
She did the right thing.. Stupid guys deserve to suffer everything that comes to them. Una go dey love who no love una... Idiots

Aswear.

I think say na only me notice am.

If you check the foolish guy well, na im sponsor all the marriage 100% and still get dumped like trash.

If e get sense, make e leave marriage and waka im own road.

Zealoy:
Hello guys pls I will like some advice from mature minds here, there's this girl am dating she's very pretty, sexy and hard working, she loves me so much that each day that she didn't hear my voice it will seems to her as if the world is coming to an end

The problem is I didn't love her equally the same way she loves me, initially I only wanted her for sex but she's getting too attached to me, and there's one certain man of God that warmed me to dump the girl am dating, which is her, my problem is how am I going to let her go without actually hurting her feelings cuz I know quite alright that she might hurt herself if I end the relationship between us. She's dangerously in love with me and I fear it will end in tears for her.

Life is easier when you have a girl who loves you more than you love her except she lacks character, promiscuous, medical or other valid reasons.

If you go for the one you love, you'll have to impress her to keep her.

Make life easier. Not tougher

Regex:
Do you read? Send me pm I've got books to straighten you up.

Answering the bolded:

You still see yourself as a chaser. You have not viewed yourself as the price.

Its good you are offering to help but it's deeper than just reading red pill literature. He must have had a background knowledge of the red pill hanging around here. He'll need to do much more than reading to cure the "chaser" mentality. I've seen young men learn about the red pill, a little bit of game. Without frame, still thirsty and desperate, they rush into chasing women till they end up simping and embarrassing themselves before women worse than they did before learning the red pill.

In my opinion, I would suggest it to guys who have the mentality of the bolded, that they go their "own way" for a while to rid themselves of the chaser/thirst/desperate element, improving on other part of their lives, to build confidence, becoming the prize before getting back into the dating/gaming scene. It's quite difficult as you are re-programming your mind. It's like detoxification. I've seen it work.

Regex:
Nope “having my pound of flesh” is the only way I can feel like a man.

Some guys sef... 2mao if that girl term am rapist now him go say she wicked....

Even the girl get every evidence to prove he came to rape her. But guy man wants to “have his pound of flesh”.

The italicized phrase has come to haunt some men in later in life when they approached the last door to their greatness. It's silly male ego pushing the dude and in the dating game, you don't need ego nor emotions. You need to have your head functioning well like the girl did.

In this instance, he just has to cut his loss and move on. He shouldn't bother keeping in contact with the girl because to the girl, he is just another dolt he can milk for cash (as he is needy). Her pant, she nor go see.

For the rest of the guys, you can project your sexual interest to ladies that you love to bed without appearing thirsty and desperate like the brother above. Some ladies use this to great advantage by wearing skimpy clothes or getting flirty just to mess with your head and get you to do stuff for her like buying drinks, paying bills etc, with no intent of having sex with you. Learn to spot it quick and bounce before you project a weak frame to her.

KVN1:
mehn.... too bad

but I'm not really emotionally invested

I just wish to have my pound of flesh

You better move on with your life and stay on purpose before you do something stupid in the name of "having your pound of flesh". You can get accused of rape etc ending in jail, ruining your career and life. You goofed big time by forcing yourself on her. She never chose you and her attitude earlier, was already a red flag. You should have bounced and moved on.

The aim of the red pill is for men to see below the surface and stay on course as a man. Not trifling in life with unserious issues like running after the low-value girls in your neighbourhood etc.

Your effort is better spent on new prospects than wasting your time with women who already see you as a simp.

[quote author=Pimpstar post=93656644][/quote]See that Pokimane ennnhhh. She has made millions of dollars from SIMPs without trying hard.

Her panties dem no see.

All she does is to play video games and stare at her camera like a barbie doll. These fools rush to pay.

I'm scared of having a male child in this generation. It's a SIMPANDEMIC (in the words of Martinez39s lol)

luminouz:
All that story and "I'm fine" is the best reply you can come up with?


Damn, una girls dey taya me sometimes

Dem no suppose taya u, if you have been around this forum for a while, reading and learning from the brilliant minds here.

That slût you quoted committed no crime. She is at the best of her inborn hypergamic nature screening out undesirable, low-value men from her radar.

DeusMagnus:
After this your long story, all she could reply with is I'm fine. My brother, you don f up. no worry.

For those interested in gaming women or just being in your best confident and dominant masculine frame as a man, see how one scenario from Ubunja miseducations play out clearly.

You are low-value trying hard to over-explain (giving excessive nonsexual attention) yourself to women. To make it worse, the fairhearted simpanzee, made his "nice guy" explanations be about the red pill (which women find repulsive on average).

Women are quick to sense your low value from what you say or do in few seconds and it's unsurprising that the slût gave him the dull, terse, dismissive reply that simpanzees get all the time like "k" "I'm fine" etc, or a direct snub. Bobowaja who called the simpanzee out, and exposed the dismissive slût got the better attention from her.

Ass licking females by being unfairly nice to them won't get you respect from them, nor even laid. Kongolo, thanks for the call out.

Deicide:
Hahaha, who knows Bella Daphne? This girl was able to sell her bath water for $10 to thirsty gamers boys and simps and she sold out within 3 days. Bath water o......Simps how far are you willing to go?

It's like there is a medal out there for simping. Kinda like the Olympics. The simping Olympics, because they seem to be outdoing each other with the most ridiculous scenarios of simping.

baralatie:
do you believe in the phrase money for hand back for ground

Too much olosho don dey mess with dis one head.

Better improve yourself and find a girl of pure chastity stock to match. Stop dating hoes.

ZINIBANKS:
How I wish this op was near me have been holding this hockey stick before the rain started
Haven't seen anyone to bang it on

A baseball bat would do it better.

Some of this fools need to have their skulls smashed back into its senses.

OkhaiAsein:
guy becareful of what you say about God o
not everyone that speak aweful about God that comes out alive o
.
check my Signature

One of the fearful cowards that kperogi is talking about.

No worry, dat God will come and save u from Buhari when a litre of fuel turn 500 naira.

SkyFlint:
Last I heard of Mackenzie Scott (Bezos' ex-wife), she's now the Richest Woman in the World.

The divorce settlement she got from Jeff is now worth about $67B.

At the height of his fortune, Dangote only had a networth of around $13B.

Now, a woman who has NO business of her own is wealthier than Dangote who has been running several businesses for decades.

Marriage is the greatest FORTUNE of WOMEN of the Western World and the greatest CALAMITY that can befall the MEN of the Western World.

I hope those haranguing Cristiano Ronaldo to get married and their broke-shaming counterparts, see the deadly mess, this men of great worth, are getting themselves into, in the name of a being a "married/responsible" man. Your wealth would not save you from their manipulations. They own the law.

GoodBoi1:
smh for the "I use solar..." people. You produce everything you use too?

Nor mind d mumu dem

E nor consign me, na im make Jihadist our president today.

lavylilly:
ADVANTAGES OF MARRYING A VIRGIN WOMAN.

1- No STDs

2- Higher chances of faithfulness. One that has defeated fornication, can defeat adultery.

3- You are sure your firstborn is yours. 30% of firstborns in Nigeria belong to other men. Paternity fraud is common with nonvirgins.

4- Unique spiritual bond. There is a unique bond when a husband has sex with his virgin bride, especially if the man is also a virgin. Honeymoon of two virgins(virgin bride + virgin groom) is awesome.

5- A great role model for your kids. Having lived a life of sexual purity, she is in the best position to guide your kids in the right way.

6- Brand-new has a special kind of feeling.

7- You don't want to hear another man launching a single 'I hit her first'.

8- She won't compare you with others. Her only sexual experience is the only one she is having with her husband. Therefore she is contented. Those who are not virgins will compare you with 100 of their exes.

Correct your no 3.

Recent statistics revealed by the owner of a fertility clinic in Nigeria put paternity fraud estimates at 65%.

drunkdad:
hmm, his family is nothing to write home about. my dad is the most stubborn person I ever know and will take everyone's word with a pinch of salt whenever he's still drinking. He only comes to his senses whenever he stops drinking for like a week.

drunkdad you need to understand that your father has passed from being alcohol-dependent to full alcoholism. He can still be managed at this stage because he still manages to take some days off alcohol.

Alcoholism is the worse of addiction because it's legal and accessible.

Also, know that his "stubbornness" is not borne fully out of his will. The addiction has taken over and him having a family history of alcoholism shows that he may have been abusing alcohol for more than the 20 years that you know. It's not an habit that is easy to shake off.

You'll have to do a lot but don't force yourself too much on him nor expect much from him.

Once in a while, when he is sober, make him realize the danger he is putting himself in. Cut off the finance that sponsor his addiction and shame his alcoholic friends.

Regex:
A little bit of if I were your husband, I'd treat you right simp, to go with how do I meet you to save you from the marriage treat.



That woman might be turned on by violence. It might be her fetish. I don't trust the words of people who leak blood every month.

I love how you are quick to spot patterns and understand the deeper meanings that most folks would not notice.

For the second paragraph, it's not a new trend that women are closet masochists. Having a higher pain threshold and lack of father figure in childhood predisposes them to these. The popular serial killers of recent times in the west get overwhelming mating interests from women. The evolutionary background of the females choosing violence and aggression as signs of good genetic quality explains this.

madridguy:
Till the man will kill the woman and put everyone in trouble?

Why the woman no leave the house and not put her own life in danger?

Whiteknighting much?

CuteNerdyDude:
Wait what Is SIMP? I get what OP is saying. But what is a SIMP?

Sucker
Idolizing
Mediocre
Pûssy

ubunja:
NO SIMP SEPTEMBER

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