₦airaland Forum

coolguy4christ:
She loves and trust me, that was why she was comfortable enough to open up to me.

My stand on relationship is sincerity and openness, and I have continually demonstrated this myself in the relationship.

She opened up to me, after our joint Bible study on Sunday. Apparerntly,she was touched by the teaching.

U be last mugu, I swear.

A Lady who didn't fulfill a gentleman's agreement of no sex (well, women don't understand that) is not to be trusted.

coolguy4christ, this your moniker sound like a career simp and I hate it that this whôre of a Christian lady (na coded olosho full churches these days) is about to take advantage of your honesty and ignorance of women.

Believe me, your girlfriend has been having sex with that guy when you were been having disagreements and may have gotten her pregnant before the break up she initiated.

One thing is that no matter how crafty some women are, they let their guards down at the moment, and the reason she told you this truth is that, being a honest and trusting guy, you won't get suspicious when she refuses to produce a baby after marriage. I know this game well.

You may be lucky though, if you marry her but I don't see it going well after you marry this manipulative bîtch.

Sadly, you don't see this. Like most good hearted men who are naive about women, you worried about something else.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

they are trying to remind you that it is that time of the year. Christmas is close by.

Minimum wage na scam (this one na just for mouth and paper. Doesn't translate to reality).

Education na scam ( after all the read your book. Psssh. I for don just play ball ).

Employment na scam ( you have a job and salary that amounts to nothing at the end of the month)

Business na scam ( investment into business that can not be sustainable in this teribble economy).

Entrepreneurship na scam ( story for gods. You go just dey hear motivational speech. They will never show you the way because most way gan no pure).

Marriage na scam ( more problem and responsibilities in this harsh economy. Ladies looking for who to turn slave all in the name of love and toto)

Fuel price na scam ( na every six months or year this one dey increase whereas income stays practically the same).

Even Christmas that use to be the most memorable thing in my life ( full of free rice and chicken) now done dey look like scam.

Cause price of rice no be here ooo. Frozen chicken go soon follow am.

Who did we offend in this country. Aah aah.

U no add Religion na scam (Churches and Mosques just open company for we head)

Well, you tried. Nigeria's problems summarized in witty language.

Simping at its disgusting peak!

It still doesn't change the fact that El Rey silenced you on the pitch!

Edyice:

U well so?

What's funny about this?

All these nairaland lunatics sef

AdujaZik:
What stupid fact??
Kogi people are prepared for the election in anyway Bello wants it.
Kogites are naturally warriors.
If Bello is not careful,his head can go in for the mayhem he has brought upon these p

No dey hype stupid people.

Forget all these "my tribe people are warriors" "we don't take nonsense" bla bla.

Nigerians are generally cowards!!

They will vote in someone stupid, today. Trust me.

Fadomero:
The last time I was in naija via emirate air from Dubai I know the kind of well dressed and sexy looking air roasters not this old looking oo looking like those going for revival at the lord choosing, abeg the dress code is horrible

I'm not Igbo but it makes sense promoting our culture.

You and the 20 idîots who liked your comments need a shrink.

Your inferiority complex is out of this world!

digitaltrades:
Some Nigeria-made zommbies think politicians are small gods that must be worshipped

Not "some" but a lot.

Generally, when it comes to politics, 99 percent of Nigerians are stupid.

pansophist:
They are sponsored by elite men, who have nothing in common with the average joe. They are legally immune from the consequences because they create and understand the tenets of the law. The divorce industry in the US worth over 50 billion dollars. The industry processes over 1 million divorce annually, that's about one divorce every 36 seconds. That's a lot of money that attracts the most immoral creatures in the form of lawyers, who lobby to with other big corporations to financially rape men completely. It is not about your humanity, it is about the money. It is no surprise that divorce men have the highest rate of suicide, and some men are known to commit suicide when their wives ushered them the divorce papers. All these are hidden from the mainstream but visit a divorce court, you will hardly see a man smiling on his way out, but always see women happy, as it is like winning a lottery.

What's going now with feminism is similar to the holocaust, where Hitler successfully brainwashed Germans and make them hate the jews and see them as the enemy, leading to the genocide of over 5 million people. He convinced them through books, media, schools, and every means possible. The same is going on now with feminism. Now, their enemy is the patriarchy, and they are convinced that it is a system of oppression designed by men to willfully oppress women and that all men benefit from its structures while it disadvantaged women. Disregarding all the problem men faces in our so-called privilege patriarchy if it exists.

I agree with you, Pansophist.

Talking about the "Divorce Industry", it's bigger than most people would ever imagine. It's not just lawyers, big corporations and women. In fact, certain elements of organized crime in Israel (with networks in Europe) also earn in this big business by forcing husbands to sign divorce papers where they get a cut from the proceeds and the rest, left to the wife.

The husband is the biggest loser in the end.

Omar09:
If she doesn't want it she can bounce, I can get one who will

I laugh your ignorant ass off.

Be glad that you are in Nigeria where these gynocentric laws have not taken root because of certain factors.

With the line you wrote above, you have already set up yourself to be fûcked by these gynocentric laws, if you were in these rich, western nations.

Being a man, is already a disadvantage as the law would stand for women as the victims, so, the prenup nonsense is fool proof for men. That's what pansophist and the lilbest have been trying to drum into your head.

OP, why "Pick Race"?

All these illiterate bloggers and the dumb " muds"

Well, my condolences to the idîots that will waste their precious time, energy and life to go vote in Kogi and Bayelsa state elections.

None of the parties that win will perform.

Mark my words!

Useless country, foolish citizens!!

For all those clowns screaming Nigeria would win Benin Republic 100 - 0, una see una life now?

Ordinary to broadcast match, you can't get it right. See video quality like video quality worse than 3gp videos on java phones.

Na only to gather here begin abuse unasef over politics, ethnicity, religion, football, Tacha, Bobrisky and other nonsense. Stupid people.

Make una open una big mouth tomorrow to abuse DSTV and South Africa for exploitation and Xenophobia, if Ogun no go kill all of una.

#Spits

mistyebby:
Oga, it means alot. She is a public figure. And the essence of this platform is air ones opinion in private so please! allow me.

You are giving a career idîot attention.

I'll advise that you ignore him for your sanity and self worth

hakym619:
Embrace God .

What have you and your fellow Nigerians made out of the God you have been embracing?

A backward nation filled with the darkest of human hearts.

I'd rather go to hell than embrace God, the Nigerian way!

dazzlingd:
I knew an idiot of your calibre won't be far fetched in this kind of religiously blinded part of the world....religion has turned majority of you to the mother of all mumu..

U have a reason to praise your yeye god. For what! For making them handicapped or not making u handicapped??

These set of selfish idiots you mentioned above is no different from the Gods they serve.

Have you ever wondered why high religiosity in Nigeria is equated with high rates of crime?

Decolonel:
Thalidomide is one of the causes of this disorder

I thought that drug has been banned decades ago?

I'm glad that the fool, Seth Broussard has been identified and dismissed from his work place.

Racism won't end in the US, though

Benin must not be underrated.

Football has become so competitive, developed so far and wide that the line between favourites and under dogs is getting blurred.

Blowhole

Sowore and the rest of the social justice warriors should quit their trip of martyrdom.

Nigerians are better off celebrating ethnic jingoists, political failure, religious criminals, BBN celebrities and other frivolities.

They deserve anyone worse than Buhari!

Useless country with foolish citizens.

boyjo:
Makes sense.

9. Don't leave your date to talk to another Lady for more that 2 minutes (Guys, please don`t ever try this except you don`t like her)

10. Don't buy her too many gifts she may think you're trying to "buy" her .
Gistmeblog you got this wrong. Only this one o . No lady ever thinks you are trying to buy her when yoyu buy her loads of gifts except she doesn`t like you fa. Haba.
Buying gifts for a lady is one of the easiest routes to their hearts except you are just trying to discourage guys from spending.


11. If for any reason someone else needs to be in the car, don't put her in the back seat. Yes guys, even if it`s your Mum (Except if your Mum was already seated in front when you picked her up). Well, except of course say you no like the girl

14. After the first sex always call as a courtesy (whether the sex was good or bad). Yeah but kindly get married before sex

20. Don't ask her for money. Chai! Don`t ever try this except say you no just like yourself

Wussy!

That's how they simp our men from young age turning them to wussies

This one go marry now begin disturb us for romance section, with "What do I do?"

Geoffrey was right, though.

However, you do get shamed for a certain defect in your body, to a point where you become immune to the criticism and mockery.

Shaking my head for the donkeys up there who have decided to turn this thread into their stupid political battle zone.

All their yeye political fights wey never yield any benefits for them and Nigeria.

Igbo-born Muslims, though a quiet minority, have a decent population in Enugu and Imo States.

I met quite a few of them, including this Imam in Owerri. I think he was the imam of the mosque at the Police barracks near the Government house.

Believe Nigeria's moralists at your own peril.

Forget all these hypocritical motherfuckers yapping about the girl for expressing herself when they would still go to her DM begging for sex.

Knowing the Nigerian nature for hypocrisy, her worst critics would be in her DM begging for sex.

Not like the so-called "decent" girls her better. The ones on scarves in church today, forming holy have a pussy mileage higher than a dangote truck.

Only Isoko boy, who is street smart came in, with the best caption: My Industry Girl

Ariza:
I bet you are assuming the Pim.p position You better go and make good impact in life and leave pussy talk.

Hustle make you no go borrow money buy condom to fucck!

Your last paragraph is getting stale, abeg!

I'm yet to see any Dangote among many of you Nigerian clowns, yelling "Hustle ooo"!

FOH

ubunja:
What makes women tick at the most basic level.

FRIENDSHIP.
Let's say two Laws are passed: one banning sex between men and women; And another banning friendship between men and women. What will happen?

Riots and mayhem that's what.

Men and women will riot and burn the country. But it is important to understand which gender will riot against which law.

Women will riot against the banning of FRIENDSHIP between men and women. Men will riot against the banning of SEX.

Men can not live without Sex, Women can not live without Friendship with men.

Friendship with a man is the only relationship that a woman can have with a man that allows her to get money and stuff from him WITHOUT giving him sex. That's a secret hidden from men.

For women, a man's friendship is more important than a man's love. And more important than a man's dick. Because with male friends, a woman can get ANYTHING without giving back ANYTHING.

A woman's guy friends don't mind helping her move, checking her car, fixing her place, helping her out with money, keeping her safe etc - for FREE. If the woman gets all that from a BF she has to PAY with sex. But with guy friends it's free.

ATTENTION AND VALIDATION.
If all the men in Nigeria ignore all the women, and instead focus on 1 woman - every man adoring and worshiping her - that woman, receiving that infinite attention, will feel her need to have sex diminish to almost zero

There's a level of Attention and Validation that if a woman gets from men it cancels out her need for Sex. The female sex drive differs from the male sex drive in this aspect. While the male sex drive is a physical hunger like the hunger for food or the thirst for water, The female sex drive is VALIDATIONAL in nature.

The more important you make a woman feel the less she needs to impress you. (You're impressed already) And the less she needs to sleep with you to feel important (she's important already to you)

The more valued a woman feels the weaker her sex drive is because the less she has to use her sexuality to get Validation. And in the opposite way, the less valued a woman feels the stronger her sex drive is because the more she has to use her sexuality to get Validation. Or to feel valued.

A man can date a woman who seems to enjoy sex, But as soon as he marries her, give her comfort, security and peace of mind her pussy turn dry. Too many men are confused why the happier they make their women the less their women want sex. It's because these women are content and secure. And that has a chilling effect on their sex drive. It slows it down. To reignite the passion the men have to subtract the things that are making the women content and secure.

If your woman has lost interest in sex, bring in drama, uncertainty and confusion. Start acting funny. Have suspicious phone calls. Have female friends visit etc - Make your woman think she's about to be replaced. She'll stress, process a lot mentally and question her value to you, and in the process her legs will snap open. And pussy juices will flow.

THE SOURCE CODE.
Here are the codes to female sexuality:

When a woman gives the least amount of sex for the most amount of money It's about money

When a woman gives the most amount of sex for the least amount of money it's about Validation

Women who participate in 3sums and gangbangs don't speak too much about enjoying multiple dick but speak more about enjoying being THE CENTRE OF ATTENTION. Because it is about seeking Validation not seeking Pleasure. A woman can pleasure herself better than any man can and no man can pleasure a woman better than a intimacy gadget can. Strictly speaking a woman doesn't NEED a man for pleasure. So when a woman chases men for sex it has more to do with Validation than pleasure. She feels valuable when she's valuable to men.

Most girls who do gang bangs do them free. And the most hardened sluts will be offended if you offered them money for sex. I once related the story of a Bleep addicted slut who, after we offered her money, told us she can do it free if we go hardcore enough on her. I had told her we were about 7 guys. Shît is crazy.

SELF-ESTEEM.
A woman's sex drive is opposite her self-esteem.

The reason treating a woman like trash pays in sex is because it erodes a woman's self-esteem that she then seeks to replenish by opening her legs. The more worthless a woman feels on the inside the more she seeks worth through sex. The sex compensates for the inadequacies. It's the reason disrespectful men get a lot of sex from women. It's the same with men and money. The more worthless a man feels on the inside the more he seeks worth through money. The money compensates for the inadequacies. And a man with zero self-esteem will pay the most amount of money for the least amount of sex. Even paying for NO sex. And still feel good. A man's spending habits with women are opposite his self-esteem.

In women, things like sex addiction are more a symptom of deeper underlying issues than mere love of dick:
Let's say a boy and a girl are going through problems at home. They will both act out. But in different ways. The boy will turn to petty crime. While the girl will turn to sexual promiscuity.
Sex is how women deal with issues. Antisocial behavior is how men deal with issues. That's why in Society's eyes a man at his worst is a criminal. And a woman at her worst a whôré. And both whôré and criminal live side by side on the street because where there are prostitutes, criminals will be there. They understand each other because they're going through the same shît but expressing it differently.

The weaker a woman's self esteem is, the easier she becomes a slut. And Pîmps know low self-esteem women make the best prostitutes. While sexologists know the first step in treating female sexual addiction is raising the woman's self-esteem. Meanwhile to get the best sex from a woman you destroy her self-esteem. Everything with female sexuality hinges on Self-esteem. Everything with male spending habits on women hinges on Self-esteem.

When a woman loses her self-esteem - when she feels worthless on the inside - her Inner Self seeks to regenerate the lost Worth the quickest way it knows how: BY MAKING THE WOMAN OPEN HER LEGS. Because what's between her legs is the most wanted thing in the World guaranteed to generate the attention she needs to feel like a somebody.

The woman's Inner Self points to men's lust for the woman and says to her: "See, all these men want to fvck you. And you make them cum nicely. You're not totally worthless!"

As a young boy I remember two prostitutes from the neighborhood pub fighting and one shouting in vernacular, "ayisikho uthanda amadoda" (that's why you love men), and I remember the other throwing her ass in the air and defiantly shouting back, "Bayangithanda ngoba ngimnandi" (They love me because I'm sweet).
Everyone burst out laughing at the shamlessness of the reply. I never forgot that incident.

She loved men because men loved how sweet her pussy was.

CHASING VALIDATION.
Ever noticed this on Social Media?
A girl posts a picture, and she gets a hundred nice comments. Then an asshole of a guy comes online disses the picture calling the girl fat and ugly.
Then the magic happens: The girl ignores the 100 sweet comments and fixates on the 1 bitter comment. She engages the hater while the supporters look on feeling neglected.

It's a natural law.

We all fear rejection and a even 1 hater in a sea of supporters gets our Attention. We chase the Hater's approval wishing for him to be AGREEABLE. And as long as we're chasing the Hater's approval he has power over us.

If a woman meets 99 guys who compliment her but 1 guy spits in disgust, What will stress the woman that night?

The 99 compliments or the 1 spit?

That 1 spit of course:
"Why did that guy spit? Am I not pretty enough in his eyes? I will show him". Then over the following weeks the girl will dress and act TO IMPRESS THAT 1 GUY WHO SPIT. She then LIVES FOR HIS VALIDATION. And once the girl does that, as far as that guy is concerned, with that guy, the girl is dealing from a position of weakness. She's chasing that validation. And as long as she's chasing, that guy has tremendous power over her. Power even to fvck her.

There is no sweeter girl than a girl that's chasing your Approval and Validation. Its how you deal with women from a position of Power.

DEALING WITH WOMEN FROM A POSITION OF POWER.
A woman can size you up by your choice of words. There's a superior way of talking to women. And there's an inferior way of talking to women. Learn the difference:

Nice Guy: I know how to fvck.
Bad Boy: Do you know how to fvck?

Nice Guy: I feel so lucky to have you.
Bad Boy: You should feel lucky to have me.

See the difference?

Back in my 2go days (about 9 yrs ago), I had a very different approach to getting girls than most dudes. In the chatrooms most guys would post: "I want a girl who wants me to lick her and I'll do everything she wants".
But because I always opposed everyone, just for the hell of it, I would post: "I want a girl to suck me and do everything I want her to do".

I made everything about ME.

While just 1 or 2 girls responded, It was interesting dealing with those girls. They came to me with the mindset of PROVING themselves to me. The same mindset the majority of men came to women with. It was a power trip having a girl try to convince me of her sex skills all the while I'm trying hard to hide my thirst.

When you present yourself to a woman as someone ready to serve you lessen your value. You're chasing her validation. But when you present yourself as someone ready to be served you increase your value and have the woman chasing YOUR validation. It's a fun ride. The sex the woman will give you is sex to prove herself. The best sex a woman can give a man.

And it's not even that hard to set a woman on that road.

It's as simple as chatting with a 19 yr old girl and in an unimpressed tone, remark, "You're too young. What do you know!". And boom!!!! She wanna prove herself to you and show you she's grown.

It's as simple as chatting with an older woman in her 30s or 40s and remarking, "Is that pussy still good or you just saying these things?". And boom!!! She's telling herself, "I'll show this motherfvcker!"

Just like that you have women chase your Validation. Eager to PROVE something to you. While other men compete to prove themselves to women promising to fvck their brains out and lying about Dick sizes and the rounds of sex they can go, you have women doing the same to YOU.

The key here is to play on women's fears, envies and jealousies.

A younger woman envies the older woman for her Sex Skills and her greatest fear is never being taken seriously. The older woman envies the younger woman for her fresh body and her greatest fear is that she's past her time. A line that has delivered for me with teenage girls is: "I promise to fvck you like a grown woman!". Delivered in raw vernacular. It works wonders.

MAKE A GIRL WANT TO IMPRESS YOU.
Girls start having sex earlier than boys and go on to have sex with more people than boys ever will. You can benefit from this extensive experience if you approach the situation right.

Like this: Next time, instead of boasting of your own sexual abilities to a girl, boast about how you're so hard to impress that even women with amazing sexual abilities have a hard time pleasing you. Make it about YOU. Come across as someone very hard to please. Bring the girl to a position where SHE is the one boasting of her sexual abilities. Where SHE is the one making promises to blow your mind. Even then, raise the stakes by remarking how women who boast about their sexual prowess turn out to be so-so when the time for sex comes.

That's how the fun begins for you. For when she comes to you, that girl is bringing along her entire sexual repertoire and may God have mercy on your sceptical soul.

#TheRedPill
#MGTOW

Ubunja, you are a sublime blend of PUA, Red Pilling, Black pilling, MGTOWING rolled into perfection.

You went hard with this comeback. PUAs can't match this artistry.

Well, I already kept my copy with the mention, in case the "system" tries to delete it.

Mwari Vakukomborere

Ariza:
Funny enough, both would be great fools if they do not have anything to their names than pussy and pricks to be feeling like a PRIZE. The world has gone beyond this prick and pussy prize. The world seeks great potentials and not dick and holes fighters.



Well maybe the world I live in though.!

You should be in the business section scheming on out to make money as a simp for the ladies that'll be fücked by us.

It's a good job for the brotherhood

NACE13:
Jesus! Bro, are you new here? You didn't have to quote the whole page just to comment or pass a message.

I don't think he is new. I've been seeing his comments on Ubunja's posts.

Some guys quote the original posts as Ubunja's truths often get deleted by the mods sometimes.

Maybe it's a way of keeping his own copy. Lol