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I don't like that man...wish him well thou

Your gut feeling was right.

Valverde is a cancer to Barcelona now.

Brodagovernor:
Going by what you narrated here, she ended the relationship at first( even though you didn't tell us the reason). Then you initiated the reconciliation. During the time you were apart, she moved on. Apparently you didn't. I know you know the truth but you have decided to live in denial. But I will tell you. She actually got pregnant to hook down the other guy, only for her to be disappointed. Out of shame, embarrassment, resentment and hatred, she aborted the pregnancy. Then you like a saviour, came back only to ask her hand in marriage. The truth is she has never been into you 100 percent. You her just her plan B if not C. I don't really understand why people are incapable of moving on and never look back. There are millions of ladies out there that can make you love drunk than what you are feeling now. I can forgive all things but definitely not infidelity, let alone one that led to abortion. The ball is your court. Its your call. You will be the one living with her.

God bless you!

jaxxy:
She lied to to yes bt she was the same person that came back uncoerced to tell u the truth cos u wanted to take a big step with her and she felt it was only right to be straight with u.

I don’t know how long this period was inbtwn both confessions cos that may play a part in determining her sincerity.

Sm gals do same things she has done bt never talk about it so u have sm1 sincere or ready to change in that regard.

U can get angry, u can scold her so she knows that was reckless bt u might still need to forgive her and if u love her move ahead with her. It’s ur choice.

Modified: On second thought she broke up with u, u initiated a come back months after and she accepted bt she she dated and not only dat got pregnant and had an abortion when u were separated. That’s all whole lot of drama. Why was she so reckless and is her coming back to u a sincere note? Why didn’t she say the truth at 1st. These are major concerns and I think u should be careful and know exactly the type of gal she is before making any major move.

I'm glad that you corrected your initial nonsensical opinions with the modified paragraph.

cococandy:


Because we are the weaker vessels. Big large vessels to store all the tears these men are shedding every minute.

YorubaPrince, note this reply to your comment.

It seems like a harmless joke and it is.

Underlying it, is a revelation of the jokes played on the naivety and fragility of men.

Use your head, Aburo!!

wiseone28:
Most women are too shy to voice it here

And you know how nairaland guys get bad mouth

It also scares them from bringing it here.

They are not shy. Women are weak but not stupid, generally.

Read about the PUSSY CARTEL. Women would generally ask other women what to do in such situation than ask men (who are usually naive about how women operate). These women would get the best of manipulative ideas. Men on the other hand (being naturally equalistic, would go public with their issues (men ask more questions in romance section of nairaland than women-Go figure) getting answers from other naive men and smart women who mostly deceive them by deflecting or talking some liberal, nice guy nonsense (Reading the comments of pocohantas and some other regular female monikers would prove this).

coolguy4christ:
She loves and trust me, that was why she was comfortable enough to open up to me.

My stand on relationship is sincerity and openness, and I have continually demonstrated this myself in the relationship.

She opened up to me, after our joint Bible study on Sunday. Apparerntly,she was touched by the teaching.

U be last mugu, I swear.

A Lady who didn't fulfill a gentleman's agreement of no sex (well, women don't understand that) is not to be trusted.

coolguy4christ, this your moniker sound like a career simp and I hate it that this whôre of a Christian lady (na coded olosho full churches these days) is about to take advantage of your honesty and ignorance of women.

Believe me, your girlfriend has been having sex with that guy when you were been having disagreements and may have gotten her pregnant before the break up she initiated.

One thing is that no matter how crafty some women are, they let their guards down at the moment, and the reason she told you this truth is that, being a honest and trusting guy, you won't get suspicious when she refuses to produce a baby after marriage. I know this game well.

You may be lucky though, if you marry her but I don't see it going well after you marry this manipulative bîtch.

Sadly, you don't see this. Like most good hearted men who are naive about women, you worried about something else.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

they are trying to remind you that it is that time of the year. Christmas is close by.

Minimum wage na scam (this one na just for mouth and paper. Doesn't translate to reality).

Education na scam ( after all the read your book. Psssh. I for don just play ball ).

Employment na scam ( you have a job and salary that amounts to nothing at the end of the month)

Business na scam ( investment into business that can not be sustainable in this teribble economy).

Entrepreneurship na scam ( story for gods. You go just dey hear motivational speech. They will never show you the way because most way gan no pure).

Marriage na scam ( more problem and responsibilities in this harsh economy. Ladies looking for who to turn slave all in the name of love and toto)

Fuel price na scam ( na every six months or year this one dey increase whereas income stays practically the same).

Even Christmas that use to be the most memorable thing in my life ( full of free rice and chicken) now done dey look like scam.

Cause price of rice no be here ooo. Frozen chicken go soon follow am.

Who did we offend in this country. Aah aah.

U no add Religion na scam (Churches and Mosques just open company for we head)

Well, you tried. Nigeria's problems summarized in witty language.

Simping at its disgusting peak!

It still doesn't change the fact that El Rey silenced you on the pitch!

Edyice:

U well so?

What's funny about this?

All these nairaland lunatics sef

AdujaZik:
What stupid fact??
Kogi people are prepared for the election in anyway Bello wants it.
Kogites are naturally warriors.
If Bello is not careful,his head can go in for the mayhem he has brought upon these p

No dey hype stupid people.

Forget all these "my tribe people are warriors" "we don't take nonsense" bla bla.

Nigerians are generally cowards!!

They will vote in someone stupid, today. Trust me.

Fadomero:
The last time I was in naija via emirate air from Dubai I know the kind of well dressed and sexy looking air roasters not this old looking oo looking like those going for revival at the lord choosing, abeg the dress code is horrible

I'm not Igbo but it makes sense promoting our culture.

You and the 20 idîots who liked your comments need a shrink.

Your inferiority complex is out of this world!

digitaltrades:
Some Nigeria-made zommbies think politicians are small gods that must be worshipped

Not "some" but a lot.

Generally, when it comes to politics, 99 percent of Nigerians are stupid.

pansophist:
They are sponsored by elite men, who have nothing in common with the average joe. They are legally immune from the consequences because they create and understand the tenets of the law. The divorce industry in the US worth over 50 billion dollars. The industry processes over 1 million divorce annually, that's about one divorce every 36 seconds. That's a lot of money that attracts the most immoral creatures in the form of lawyers, who lobby to with other big corporations to financially rape men completely. It is not about your humanity, it is about the money. It is no surprise that divorce men have the highest rate of suicide, and some men are known to commit suicide when their wives ushered them the divorce papers. All these are hidden from the mainstream but visit a divorce court, you will hardly see a man smiling on his way out, but always see women happy, as it is like winning a lottery.

What's going now with feminism is similar to the holocaust, where Hitler successfully brainwashed Germans and make them hate the jews and see them as the enemy, leading to the genocide of over 5 million people. He convinced them through books, media, schools, and every means possible. The same is going on now with feminism. Now, their enemy is the patriarchy, and they are convinced that it is a system of oppression designed by men to willfully oppress women and that all men benefit from its structures while it disadvantaged women. Disregarding all the problem men faces in our so-called privilege patriarchy if it exists.

I agree with you, Pansophist.

Talking about the "Divorce Industry", it's bigger than most people would ever imagine. It's not just lawyers, big corporations and women. In fact, certain elements of organized crime in Israel (with networks in Europe) also earn in this big business by forcing husbands to sign divorce papers where they get a cut from the proceeds and the rest, left to the wife.

The husband is the biggest loser in the end.

Omar09:
If she doesn't want it she can bounce, I can get one who will

I laugh your ignorant ass off.

Be glad that you are in Nigeria where these gynocentric laws have not taken root because of certain factors.

With the line you wrote above, you have already set up yourself to be fûcked by these gynocentric laws, if you were in these rich, western nations.

Being a man, is already a disadvantage as the law would stand for women as the victims, so, the prenup nonsense is fool proof for men. That's what pansophist and the lilbest have been trying to drum into your head.

OP, why "Pick Race"?

All these illiterate bloggers and the dumb " muds"

Well, my condolences to the idîots that will waste their precious time, energy and life to go vote in Kogi and Bayelsa state elections.

None of the parties that win will perform.

Mark my words!

Useless country, foolish citizens!!

For all those clowns screaming Nigeria would win Benin Republic 100 - 0, una see una life now?

Ordinary to broadcast match, you can't get it right. See video quality like video quality worse than 3gp videos on java phones.

Na only to gather here begin abuse unasef over politics, ethnicity, religion, football, Tacha, Bobrisky and other nonsense. Stupid people.

Make una open una big mouth tomorrow to abuse DSTV and South Africa for exploitation and Xenophobia, if Ogun no go kill all of una.

#Spits

mistyebby:
Oga, it means alot. She is a public figure. And the essence of this platform is air ones opinion in private so please! allow me.

You are giving a career idîot attention.

I'll advise that you ignore him for your sanity and self worth

hakym619:
Embrace God .

What have you and your fellow Nigerians made out of the God you have been embracing?

A backward nation filled with the darkest of human hearts.

I'd rather go to hell than embrace God, the Nigerian way!

dazzlingd:
I knew an idiot of your calibre won't be far fetched in this kind of religiously blinded part of the world....religion has turned majority of you to the mother of all mumu..

U have a reason to praise your yeye god. For what! For making them handicapped or not making u handicapped??

These set of selfish idiots you mentioned above is no different from the Gods they serve.

Have you ever wondered why high religiosity in Nigeria is equated with high rates of crime?

Decolonel:
Thalidomide is one of the causes of this disorder

I thought that drug has been banned decades ago?

I'm glad that the fool, Seth Broussard has been identified and dismissed from his work place.

Racism won't end in the US, though

Benin must not be underrated.

Football has become so competitive, developed so far and wide that the line between favourites and under dogs is getting blurred.

Blowhole

Sowore and the rest of the social justice warriors should quit their trip of martyrdom.

Nigerians are better off celebrating ethnic jingoists, political failure, religious criminals, BBN celebrities and other frivolities.

They deserve anyone worse than Buhari!

Useless country with foolish citizens.

boyjo:
Makes sense.

9. Don't leave your date to talk to another Lady for more that 2 minutes (Guys, please don`t ever try this except you don`t like her)

10. Don't buy her too many gifts she may think you're trying to "buy" her .
Gistmeblog you got this wrong. Only this one o . No lady ever thinks you are trying to buy her when yoyu buy her loads of gifts except she doesn`t like you fa. Haba.
Buying gifts for a lady is one of the easiest routes to their hearts except you are just trying to discourage guys from spending.


11. If for any reason someone else needs to be in the car, don't put her in the back seat. Yes guys, even if it`s your Mum (Except if your Mum was already seated in front when you picked her up). Well, except of course say you no like the girl

14. After the first sex always call as a courtesy (whether the sex was good or bad). Yeah but kindly get married before sex

20. Don't ask her for money. Chai! Don`t ever try this except say you no just like yourself

Wussy!

That's how they simp our men from young age turning them to wussies

This one go marry now begin disturb us for romance section, with "What do I do?"

Geoffrey was right, though.

However, you do get shamed for a certain defect in your body, to a point where you become immune to the criticism and mockery.

Shaking my head for the donkeys up there who have decided to turn this thread into their stupid political battle zone.

All their yeye political fights wey never yield any benefits for them and Nigeria.

Igbo-born Muslims, though a quiet minority, have a decent population in Enugu and Imo States.

I met quite a few of them, including this Imam in Owerri. I think he was the imam of the mosque at the Police barracks near the Government house.