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Another White elephant project to produce new set of millionaire and billionaires

Stephanie don buy wahala market!

She, obviously, does not know that Hanty kemi, the psychotic, narcissistic attention-seeker will latch on any thing, even a feeble tree branch just to trend.

Stephanie, na u go leave this mad woman alone las las because you would get no evidence except gibberish ramblings all over the place.

jstbeinhonest:
And Southerners are still playing the blame game.

I will try my best to make sure my children do not end up in Nigeria, they must not be Nigerian citizens.

I'm on the same quest.

May God help us achieve it.

See Herve Renard wey snub Nigeria dat year, even deny us publicly and we have to settle down for this German knock-off

Dis life na pot of beans!

cococandy:
Know someone well before proposing in public like this.

Unlike what some “alfa meils” want you people to believe, husbands are not scarce and not every woman jumps up in joy at the sight of a ring. Don’t embarrass yourself. Know someone who loves you deeply before you propose to her.

Alpha widow.

Where is your fellow widow, Antibrutus?

BLUEJAYY:
This is emasculating, really.

Expect his post on nairaland later asking for how to deal with his wife who is treating him bad.

OP, I've been there and getting out gradually.

Alcohol is pleasurably addictive but harmful to your vital organs and general well-being. After the euphoria, you are back to your previous fûcked up state and even worse, this time, because alcohol is a depressant.

I'll suggest that you start engaging with people who are non alcoholics and find an engaging and psychological activity to replace alcohol when in private. For example, sports.

The fight to drop that bottle of liquor isn't going to be easy but I believe you'll achieve it.

nnanyereugo:
How I wish that the youths of this nation can see the big picture. The elites especially the so called leaders are selfish and do not ve our interest at heart at all. Their children get the best that there is out there while they allow us to suffer and kill ourselves. They won't even make our system to work. Theirs no patriotism in them. Youths pls wake up

Story.

They are all brain-dead.

edo3:
Should we just start the revolution already?

These generation of cowardly youths will never join you.

All they'll do is complain and brag online.

Sad truth is that all the elite's children are coming back to leadership to be served by these cowards.

These are the kind of wealth I respect.

If this madam Esther was an IG personality, I'll famz her like an ass licker.

Not idiots who flaunt designer clothes and cars online and have no record of helping anyone, including the stupid fans who hype them there and here.

9jatriot:
SEx, sex and sex is all Africans think, talk and plan meticulously for.

No mind dem.

Bunch of retrogressive monkeys

Forreellinc:
Ask your father

His father is also stupid!

It runs in their family.

NwaAmaikpe:



It's so sad to see that this boy is already being exploited..

They'd wear him nice clothes, take him to the salon and he'd sing for free.
And at the end of the day, he'd be back on the streets with a bigger tray of oranges.

I know just how these things go.

We know you just got back but e be like say your brain never pick form with the nonsense you wrote above.

Good move by SERAP

There is a open conspiracy by the gerontocratic officials to destroy the lives of the upcoming generation of young people.

Nigeria is gone but it's good that they can salvage a few from what's left.

sammirano:
Are these people normal at all? ICC ko NCC ni

Idîot

Ogun State and its great affinity for skull mining and head hunting.

That rural community of Owode along the idi-iroko road is one filled with diabolic folks!

Who is raising the men of these days to be such whining pusssies?

No wonder women complain of unmarriageable men these days, and become feminists to fill up the space left by emasculated, pussified men.

Back to masternoble, there are many explanations to your experience.

1. The bîtch probably thinks you are of a low sexual value. The term, rare nice guy is a pointer that you will end up last as other nice guys when dealing with a lady at her sexual peak and seeking men who demonstrate higher sexual value than you have. A reason she has "other toasters". Even being richer than bill gates or dangote won't save your weak ass. She'll just use you to pay her bills and step up while giving you few moments of pity fûck for compensation.

2. She could have some form of sexually transmitted disease or infection and she is being discreetly honest in admitting it. I doubt this this, anyway.

3. Lastly, she may have an aversion to sex (finding it painful physically, female circumcision or as a psychological distress from rape) or suffering an emotional hangover from the break up of her last relationship.

Young man, I'll advise you to cut every form of emotional and sexual attraction to this lady who appears to be putting you in a Friend Zone , the most populated country in the world lol.

You need not explain to her. Just keep your quiet distance and seek other ladies.

Never forget though, that your education and your hustle preceeds any love or sexual attraction to woman. These are what defines you.

You weren't born to serve the purpose of women. Women would do comfortably well without you.

Best news of today.

Good to see news of academic and technological achievements make the front page.

Loveworld12:
Everything is news no wonder we are not going anywhere.

Trashland! Lol

emmanbol:
you just said rubbish. from your comments, you are a low lifer, and a coward.

Typical trash from a dysfunctional shît hole.

I just hope you don't birth kids to further pollute the world with your stupidity. Foolish kid.

And they would get not more than 20k as prize money. Maybe with few books, pen etc.

Check out vanity reality shows like BBN, beauty pageant etc cashing out on a high.

See priorities. Looking at the nonsense that constitutes our value system, today, shows us why Nigeria and most of its citizenry, are a mess.

daddytime:
Wetin Nigerians dey react to.

I tire oooo.

People that should cover their eyes on shame being on the back list of innovation and advancement.

They never fail to drop their trashy comments that can only come from a dysfunctional mindset.

Cherez:
Mehn!
You're a disgrace to the Omoluabi nation
The Yoruba tribe is the most educated tribe in Nigeria but you as a person has defiled this.
Wait ooooo!
Did you read the news from punch (Yoruba owned) that the villagers insisted the police should go to the forest where the Herdsmen are?
Bros, do you reason at all?
You are loosing souls in a bid to spite the Igbos?
No one asked that you fight the Fulanis or extrajudicially kill them.
However, how do you look on and watch your own murdered and you do not even ask questions?
Yes, Evans is a demon but he isn't getting defended or being shielded by anyone. Let anyone perpetrating crime face the law regardless of whom they are; THIS IS WHAT YOU SHOULD STAND FOR
Nawaoooooo

I'm really embarrassed about my fellow Yoruba people.

With all of our free education, it has only ended up, producing a young generation of illiterate idîots.

Once you tell them the truth about how the omoluwabi philosophy is collapsing under increasing selfishness and materialism, they go into silly emotional strawman arguments and other ad hominem nonsense.

Just look at the sheer nonsense, that morôn you quoted above, wrote.

There isn't any ethnic group in Nigeria who hasn't felt the menace of the Fulani marauders who have tacit support of the government. Even, their hausa serfs are the worst victims. They don't hide it these days.

The police has also been compromised by the federal hierarchy controlled by the Fulani. Hence, the reason they arrest innocent villagers when they know the real location of these marauders.

I don't know what these stupid Yorubas gain defending this blood thirsty regime of Fulani irredentist when they gain nothing but sorrow, tears and pain.

I've always said it that Nigeria was never great and can never be great.

The news that come out daily is one that is enough to spark a revolution in saner societies.

This report, just like others, would fade off into oblivion while the morôns bearing the brunt would attack each other over irrelevant issues.

They are already doing that in comments above and below mine. Bunch of mad people.

You deserve the animals that rule you!!

scaramucci:
How can you warn them to "disarm or be destroyed" when you know that you don't have the capacity to carry out your threat?

As in ehnnnn...

That typical Nigerian attitude of informally intimidating someone younger.

Dem think say BH na dia pikin for house. I trust those ones. Dem go just dey look dem dey laff.

nicepoker101:
That's just a common cobra. Not black mamba. Black mamba has an inky black mouth. Not the skin color.

It's the West African forest cobra. Its venom is potent and deadly. A grown man may not survive it after 2 hours.

By the way, I don't know where nairalanders get the idea that its is a black mamba. Black members are not black. It's the inside of their mouth that is pitch black and it is rare in western africa. Only the green mamba is found here.

E be like say a lot of nairalanders dey live for jungle where they are in close proximity with dangerous animals. Snake stories too much here

Tunagee:
I like your advice; very blunt and factual. I actually used an autocratic means to run my home so as not to be seen as a sissy, but i guess i did not jave the emotional intelligence to control her.
In fact, I did not manage my home well, I admit.

I like the fact that you admitted your mistakes. A lot of us here, giving advice too, don't probably have perfect relationship and marriages too.

Just pick the vital points from everyone who responded to your post.

I'm not a fan of marriage because of the recent disadvantage it puts against men. Women have never had the sort of liberation and emancipation in history like they have done since the sexual revolution. They have used this freedom to great lengths and abused it massively in the process. The greatest victims are men in the western world and its gradually seeping in here. I have a son though and I have a good relationship with the mother who is married to another man. It's enough for me.

In your next quest with women, avoid women from broken homes or abusive parents. Most (not all) are usually damaged and may be good outside till circumstances bring out the demons in them. Also, make sure you deal with ladies who are actively working or doing business (it doesn't stop you from having casual beddings with younger ladies who are only out for the money. Don't take it further with them).

You probably may not be very comfortable with the advice I gave since I noticed that you are a conscientious Christian. But then, pick your bible and read about the great men and patriarchs in the bible. These men controlled their homes and the "madness" of their women. They were no punk.

Tunagee:
My wife started behaving strangely immediately I lost my job in April 2017. She leaves home to her mum at the slightest disagreement without even communicating or making to express her feelings; and to worsen it, her mum gives her a great welcome with a room and parlour for her to stay, without even calling me to discuss what the problem. Whatever her daughter says is always the final, and she concludes on that.

My wife literarily destroyed my image before my in-laws to such an extent that I can't even visit them again. She tells them i insult her and her parents, and i make negative remarks about them, that i abuse her verbally at the slightest provocation. Several lies against me that I did not allow her travel out, I don't give her money, I told her not to have another kid, that I told her not to work, her mother has decided to keep her with her as I speak without even calling me to discuss, even despite all my appeals. She has been with her mum now for almost ten months(my wife is a fully grown legally married faithful woman of almost 40 years)

All these disrespect, probably cos I lost my job two years ago of which I fulfilled all responsibilities to the home. i don't drink, i don't smoke, don't womanise(even till now) I have never beaten her, I never another child out of my matrimonial home, and never impregnated another woman.

Rather than resolve her marital problem by discussing with her husband, she takes it to her family claiming emotional abuse. Fine, I agree I get provoked cos of her persistent shortcomings, and of course, frustration which leads to unguided vocal utterances towards her, but this could have been resolved easily without having to involve her whole family. Now what she keeps telling my family is that her family said she should still hold on at her mum's place. This is the 10th month since October 2018.

The last time my mum went to her mum's house precisely June last month, she was asked if she was still interested in her marriage, and she said yes, that she does not intend leaving her marriage; but we should give her time. Her mother practically told me to go and do something meaningful, and that there is time to marry, separate, reunite and hustle. Her mum is the one controlling her movements and everything about her for now; not even giving her room to give me audience.

Pls advise on what to do.

We are legally married.

Tunagee, you are just a victim of blue pill trap set for you because of your background from a broken home. You were being the nice gentleman and husband material of 1 million yards fighting for your marriage.

Sadly, women, even the best of them don't play by these rules. I've seen a lot of it in life. As a matter of fact, it's the reason she disrespected and left your sorry ass immediately shît hit the fan because everything you talked about smirks of weak masculinity and being sissy.

You were never really in charge. She and her mother control the marriage, you were just a mere provider.

I'll let you know a thing, you mentioned all these moralistic nonsense of "I don't smoke" , "I don't drink" thinking it would make you seem nicer to her and the society (I'm not advising you to change and do all these, but you can do it once in a while to step up your appearance of control and being in charge). I can assure you that your lady might be presently attracted to a guy with standards far below yours, but who puts himself at peak value of positive masculinity and make the lady strive for it.

That's what women respect in men. Even the worst of hardcore feminist would respect you if you hold your own as a male who owns is shît and not being manipulated or cowed around. Women are not fools. Their social and emotional intelligence is way above average and it's the reason why they control relationships today, and complain about how weak men of today are, spiking up feminism in high numbers. You are one of the reasons, it's happening now.

Back to your marital life, accept it that sometimes, shît can go wrong in a man's life. No one can have it perfect but how you handle these negative circumstances put you as the head of your home and not a whining sissy begging a bîtch.

I'll advise you that you pick yourself up, instead of sucking up and get something to do. No matter the pay, just get busy. I'm glad you have your own house. I'll not ask you to seek for divorce immediately. It still makes you look like a whimp and gives her the control of what she wanted. Open a bank account for your kid's upkeep send him whatever you can muster at any point and keep a record of it (You won't be able to fight for your child's custody in court at his age, unless you can prove that her mother is unfit to train your son). Keeping a record of it would make you be able to have some rep from your son, would make him to share in your experiences and understand how to man up. Remember, he is in the hands of manipulative women who may turn him against you, risking him, turning sissy and suffering the same fate as you, when he becomes a married adult too.

Focus on your hustle and open yourself to meeting more women. It would help you understand the world of women in dating and marriage. I don't advise marriage at this time. You may end up with another bitchy lady. Dress well, look good and try not to call or beg for your wife and her mother's attention. It puts you in control. When she sees you owning your control back, she may consider coming back. At this time, don't fall back into your past behaviour of acting nice and sissy. Make rules and be sure that she follows it.

If she refuses to come back after a while and you have learnt a lot from other women (and bedding them, of course). Divorce her trashy ass, get you a new woman but maintain relationship with your son.

All of you screaming that Reno replied him well are all morôns. No wonder Buhari is your president.

I don't see were he made any sense except subtly mocking its Abrahamaic rival.

Both Christianity and Islam are all packaged myths of middle-eastern goat herders.

AnyoneButAtiku:
They are legion on Nairaland, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and any other portion of the blogosphere that takes their fancy
I hear you Prof!

Nairaland and Twitter are their headquarters.

Too many idiiots holed up in these platforms.

The worse thing is not that they are stupid illiterates, but they have every possible logic-defying ad hominem excuses to defend their stupidity. Some are already doing it now.

princeade86:
I trust saraki, he will never confirm this thing as cjn.

Lies.

If Saraki and Buhari where in good terms, he would confirm him quicker than expected.

All these politicians are the same in all of their dealing. It's their partisanship for selfish gains that makes you think that one is better. Use your head and don't be fooled by their gimmicks

SOFTDRINK:
Na the baztard from benue.