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Yesterday,Mustapha's wife took to twitter to defend her husband,calling the girl an obsessed liar who was not raped but was in a relationship with her husband .She also claims the lady in question got angry after she was dumped.
To butress her point, she released screenshots of emails sent by Sugarbelly to her husband,back in 2007.
In response,Sugarbelly now admits that she isn't denying she loved Mustapha and was in a relationship with him.However,she claims he and his friends took advantage of that love ,engaging her in orgies,assaulting her and forcing her to have perverse sex acts..
Twitter is now divided with some calling the lady involved a blackmailer and others calling for the prosecution of Mustapha and friends for abusing an underage girl despite her consent ...Read below

Former Governor of Central Bank of Nigeria, Chukwuma Soludo has explained the rationale behind his decision to support President Muhammadu Buhari over former President, Goodluck Jonathan.

At the last presidential election, Soludo had chosen to pitch his tent with Buhari ahead of the incumbent president.


Speaking at the third anniversary lecture of the RealNews magazine, Soludo said Jonathan had the worst economic management team in history of Nigeria.

He then proceeded to state the 3 reasons why he backed Buhari’s election:

1. “First, I supported President Muhammadu Buhari (PMB) over Jonathan not because I was convinced about the credibility of the APC manifesto (and I said so in my article in January this year) but for three reasons. I was convinced that the last economic team was bankrupting the economy and had no clue as to how to fix it.”

We must support them to succeed by contributing when we can, and criticising when we must — tough love! I am enjoying my status as ‘an independent’ (I don’t belong to APC or PDP) and I therefore have the liberty to say it as I see it from the balcony! “As at 1999 when PDP came to power, Nigeria was largely a pariah state still lucky to have survived as one indivisible sovereign, especially in the context of the struggle by NADECO and restiveness in many parts of the country. On corruption, Transparency International scored it 1.6 out of 10 and ranked 98 out of 99 countries in 1999.”

 

2. “PMB is the first president of Nigeria under a democracy to have seriously desired the job and struggled for it for over 12 years. To me therefore, he must have a few points to prove, and I was willing to bet on a man who purposefully wanted the job than otherwise.”

 

3. “I was convinced that it would be in the enlightened self-interest of the APC, once in power, to do their utmost to keep power by delivering on the economy unlike the PDP which had taken power for granted. I am still confident that PMB can deliver change (although as I had indicated in my article in January, I didn’t believe that any of the two parties could deliver on their manifesto) but he and his team now need to run at the speed of a 1000 km per hour.”

“After 16 years, several challenges remain and some have even worsened (especially insecurity). Although President Jonathan’s regime had the worst economic management relative to the resources at its disposal, it must be stressed that tremendous progress was made in the aggregate 16 years of PDP government.”

“For the better part of this year, the external shocks to the economy have been complicated or accentuated by a gamut of the ‘tried and failed’ command and control policy regime: de facto fixed exchange rate, largely fixed CBN monetary policy rate, crude capital controls, veiled form of import bans through a long list of ‘ineligible for foreign exchange’, de facto scrapping of domiciliary account established by law, etc.”

Source: http://insidearewa..com/2015/11/3-reasons-why-i-supported-buhari-over.html?spref=tw

It seems that every three months or so we learn of another celebrity caught cheating on his or her spouse. To say adultery is an epidemic in our current culture is an understatement. And it doesn’t seem to be a respecter of position. Regardless of what we do for a living, (Politicians, Pastors, teachers, athletes, actors, musicians, etc.) cheaters are in our midst. It seems to be so prevalent today that the question isn’t who is cheating but rather – who isn’t?t
Too many treat their most important relationships casually and their commitments to them as optional. Our microwave society mentality (quick and easy) has infiltrated our most sacred institution, marriage. Many cheaters try to justify their reasons for infidelity. To a cheater, their reasons make sense. Perfect sense. To those who have never strayed they just don’t understand why.
Our thirst for affairs has become so accepted and normal in our culture that most shows on television mention an infidelity reference somewhere throughout the episode. Not to be outdone, we even have a reality show (called “Cheaters”) that is designed to reveal an indiscretion and exploit the humiliation on national television. Honestly, I’m not sure which is worse – the immoral action of the cheater or the people who produce the show. The fact that the series is in its 12th season is an indictment against us. I’m not sure which is more devastating – discovering your lover’s unfaithfulness or discovering the crushing news at the same time as the train-wreck watching public. We live in a very sad day and age.
I have seen first-hand the destruction of adultery. Cheating devastates relationships and shatters dreams. If you have entertained the idea of cheating on your spouse or significant other, let this serve as your official warning. Your handsome boss, cute office secretary or sultry neighbor down the street comes with a price tag that you cannot afford. Before you cheat here are 14 things you really need to know.’
1. You will become a liar
It’s bad enough to bear the title of “Cheater,” but if you cheat, you will also wear the hat of “Liar.” Cheating cannot occur without deceit on some level and normally the white lies in the beginning become full-fledged lies at the end. “I’m working late at the office tonight” may be a half-truth but you’ll need to redefine the word “working” to silence your compromised conscience. Cheating and lying go hand in hand. (For more about the lies that cheaters tell, click here.)
2. You will get caught
It may not be today. It may not be tomorrow. But eventually, your affair will come to light. Your world will come crashing down on you. If you are fortunate, the story of your indiscretion may avoid the evening news or the front page of your local paper, but your circle of friends will know your deeds. And everyone likes to share juicy news. Your poor decision will become as public as a billboard. It’s not a matter of if but when. As Pastor Rick Warren tweeted recently, “If the Director of the CIA can’t hide and cover up an affair, no one can.” As the Chinese proverb goes, “If you don’t want anyone to know it, don’t do it.”
3. You will disappoint everyone
Everyone. Your spouse. Your friends. Your co-workers. Your God. Your parents. Your nephew. Your children. Yourself. The disappointment you cause will be like the stench of skunks and it will take a long time to remove the smell.
4. You will be a bad example
Everyone is either a good example or a bad example in all things that we do. Cheating is not only a very bad example in relationships but brings with it a cloud of doubt that hovers over you in other areas of your life. If you cheated in one area, would you cheat in another? Cheating communicates to everyone that you took the easy road. It tells others that you were willing to cut corners in your most primary relationship. It reveals that you were not willing to do the hard work and get the help you needed. No one ever admires a cheater. No one looks up to an adulterer. Even if you did a lifetime of good, this one bad deed can erase it all.
5. You will lose your moral authority
It’s hard to tell your children (or others) to do the right thing when they know you didn’t. Saying “Do as I say, not as I do” is the fastest way to lose the respect of others. Not only will you lose their respect, you’ll lose yours. Every moral judgment you make in the future will be weighed against your adulterous action of the past. It doesn’t mean you can’t speak the truth in the future, it just means that few will listen to you.
6. You will create trust issues for your spouse
Forever. You will single-handedly damage the precious self-esteem of the one you promised to love. Every relationship they have after you will be one that they struggle to trust. If that were not enough, you will rock the world of children and cause them to question the stability of every meaningful relationship they have. For children, their parents’ relationship is their anchor and cheating cuts the line.
7. You will lose your standard of living
Depending on what you do for a living, you may lose your job. Many lose their home. Most end up with enormous court fees since cheating is usually the precursor to divorce. Betrayed spouses have a way of making you pay and that payment is always expensive. Every check you write is a constant reminder of your foolishness.
8. You will spend years trying to rebuild your life
Literally years. Even if you somehow weathered the storm financially, you will find it takes years for you to recover emotionally. It takes years for you to restore certain friendships, if you even do. It takes years for you to rebuild your character. It takes years to rebuild trust. It takes years to truly forgive yourself.
9. You will lose relationships
You will lose a LOT of relationships. Lifelong friends will walk away. Close friends that you have helped countless times will not be around to help you. Even some family members who are supposed to love you no matter what will vanish. A cheater can end up living a very lonely life. It’s hard for many people who used to call you friend to get past that skunk smell of disappointment.
10. You will increase your chances of getting an STD
Sexually transmitted diseases run rampant among promiscuous people. But your paramour is “clean,” right? After all, they told you so. And if there is one thing we all know – we can trust a cheater and their word. As the saying goes, “There is honor among thieves.” One helpful thought may be to assume that everyone but your spouse has an STD. That should curb your appetite for destruction.
11. The grass is not greener on the other side
The “grass is greener” idea is a common misconception. Because we have never been on that grass, we assume it must be better than where we currently stand. It’s not. In fact, though it may look greener from a distance – once you get there and make yourself comfortable, something interesting happens – the grass changes color. This usually happens soon after you get caught. You will then see that patch of land differently. You will also have a strange desire for the green grass you left … except now it is burned and won’t let you back. The best way to enjoy green grass is to water your own yard.
12. Would you want this done to you?
Thieves like to steal wallets but hate when it’s done to them. If we all lived by the Golden Rule (“Treat others the way you want to be treated.”) most of life’s problems would be solved overnight. Think about this action as if it were being done to you. The problem is that it requires thought and thinking is often the last thing a cheater has on his/her mind.
13. You will eventually regret this decision
In the heat of the moment, cheating appears to make sense. It feels good and sometimes even feels right. Feelings are deceitful. Soon afterward, your eyes will be opened and you will regret that you ever partook of the forbidden fruit. Don’t we all have enough regrets in our lives? Why add another one – particularly one that can only destroy everything you have worked so hard to build? Your home may not be perfect but it sure beats living in a tent.
14. The pain outweighs the gain
No one ever says from their deathbed, I wish I would have had an affair. No one ever leaves their lawyer’s office with a smile on their face – grateful for the experience. No one loses dear friends and is glad they have one less Christmas card to receive this year. The loss is immeasurable. The pain can be unbearable. Entire kingdoms can be lost for a few minutes of pleasure. It is just not worth it.
Source: http://insidearewa..com/2015/11/before-you-cheat-here-are-14-things-you.html?spref=tw

Gumsunin the cream coloured scarf is one of the daughters of late military Head of State, Sani Abacha.She is married to Bayero Fadil, a billionaire businessman from Cameroon...She shared photos with her very beautiful sisters in law

source: http://insidearewa..com.ng/2015/11/breathtaking-beauties-gumsu-abacha-her.html

Minister of Power, Works and Housing in his office in Abuja..

source http://insidearewa..com.ng/2015/11/fashola-pictured-in-his-office.html

A rose was placed in a bullet hole in a restaurant window with a note reading: "In the name of what?"(Reuters) An open call on Facebook asking people not to blame Muslims for the Paris terror attacks has gone viral with over 28 thousand likes, 10,000 comments and 26,000 shares .
Leigh Matthews, from Cardiff, posted his feelings about anti-Muslim sentiments on his Facebook page earlier today..It reads
Can I just take this opportunity to remind you all that Mr Mohammed from your local shop wasn't involved in last nights attacks on Paris. Neither was Mrs Azeer from Lloyds Bank or her family. Kamal from down the road has never been to Paris, and his brother Abdul, the taxi driver, was watching the news in horror along with everyone else.
The people behind last night's attacks weren't Muslims, they were extremists using religion as vindication for their cowardice.
Please, I urge each and everyone of you, do not lay blame at the doors of the innocent just because of what they believe. They are no more to blame for Paris than you are.
We are one world and one family. Treat each other as such, because what happened last night should bring us closer together, not make us lash out against our neighbours for a perceived religion affiliation
Source: http://insidearewa..com/2015/11/dont-blame-muslims-for-paris-attacks.html?spref=tw

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Former Minister of Aviation and spokesperson of the Goodluck Jonathan 2015 Presidential Campaign, Olufemi Fani-Kayode, has warned spokesman of the APC, Alhaji Lai Mohammed to desist from insulting the PDP or get spanked....


source: http://insidearewa..com.ng/2015/11/stop-insulting-pdp-or-lll-spank-you.html

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IN the unfolding narrative of Muhammadu Buhari’s second coming to power, one point is remarkably under-acknowledged for now: that he is the first elected (and sworn-in) head of government who truly aspired, long-suffered for and patiently waited to be leader of Nigeria! Surprised? Well, here are the facts: He ran for the office four times, winning the fourth time. Before him, other Nigerian presidents were either led by hand, nudged by circumstance or stumbled their way into the office!

Alhaji (Sir) Tafawa Balewa, Nigeria’s first Prime Minister, was reportedly a proxy of the powerful Sarduana of Sokoto, Alhaji Ahmadu Bello. In the murky politics of the late 1950s when the NPC won elections to form Nigeria’s Post-Independence government, Bello who was leader of the party chose to “stay home” as Premier of the North and nominated Balewa to proceed to Lagos to represent the region. The calculation then was simple. The regions at the time had more real powers and clout than the central government; it was not expedient to give up the tangible grassroots influence at the region for the uncertainties of an evolving national arrangement. And should things go wrong in Lagos, the North was safer under the watchful eyes of the Sarduana. Balewa subsequently became Prime Minister.

Aliyu Shehu Shagari was a school teacher who only wanted to be a senator. That was until he was approached by party stalwarts and other power brokers to go for the top job. He subsequently spent over four years as president and Commander-in-Chief. MKO Abiola would have been different. A highly connected multi-millionaire, he strolled the corridors of power and soon developed an appetite for the inner chambers of power. When his chance came, he ran for and won the 1993 elections but was never sworn in as president. He died in detention.

Olusegun Obasanjo was cooling his feet in prison and contemplating life in the hereafter when he was rescued by a coalition of military politicians. Following mass discontent about the fate that befell Abiola, the retired general was fished out of jail, cleaned up and presented for the presidency as compensation to the South West region. He spent the next eight years as president. Umaru Yar’Adua was happy to be governor of Katsina State. He was packing his bags to go home, get some rest and nurse his ailing health when President Obasanjo by-passed several enthusiastic candidates to hand-pick him for the job. Goodluck Jonathan was similarly “chosen” to be Yar’Adua’s running mate. In two years, Yar’Adua was dead and Jonathan had taken over.

By contrast, Muhammadu Buhari first shot his way to power in late 1983. He subsequently ran for presidency in 2003, 2007 and 2011. After failing in the latter bid, he tearfully announced he was done with the quest. But the itch was too much. In 2015 he ran again and won this time. That makes him Nigeria’s equivalent of Abraham Lincoln who lost eight elections before eventually becoming president.

Muhammadu Buhari at 72 plus, holds another record as the oldest democratically elected first-time president of Nigeria. Buhari is the most prepared for the role – mentally, emotionally at least. Few things, if any, prime a man for success like passion and waiting.

More than any other Nigeria leader before him, Buhari was expected to hit the ground running. For a 72 year old, this is somewhat of a paradox. Why would such athleticism be expected of a man at that age? Well, Buhari’s handlers said he was the special one. And Nigeria needs a special one to do a special job. With Boko Haram slaughtering people like cattle every day, global oil prices at its lowest in decades, the national economy on its knees and unemployment at its highest, Nigerians know that they need either a magician or a miracle worker to turn things around.

The retired army general is also the first Nigerian to run a government without the full complement of ministers for close to five months! Although this was reportedly to allow for a thorough search for fresh, clean talents, it has had the unintended consequence of demonstrating that “ministers” may actually be a luxury in governance; that the process of governance could even be simpler and less cumbersome without their constant jostle for public attention; and that, in any case, a nation does not necessarily grind to a halt without men and women who go by that title. These realizations should make the new set of ministers a little humbler than their predecessors.
• Anazonwu, a communication strategist and public affairs analyst, writes from Lagos.
Source: http://insidearewa..nl/2015/11/buhari-special-one.html?m=1

Before the 2015 general election, the truth is that the Nigerian youth had a passive view on things regarding Nigerian politics and governance, which is evident by the sheer lack of involvement of young persons in the political scene.
But as the elections drew near, both leading political parties – the Peoples Democratic Party and the All Progressives Congress – who were in a titanic battle of outwitting each other, brought their dirty linen to the current-day social media. It is my belief that to the best of their knowledge, it was all part of the politicking process; they just needed to sway the people to their sides. But unknown to them, they were making the youths more aware of stuff that had been hitherto “hidden”.

Soon enough, the elections came and went and the eyes of the youths had opened. They became very interested in what was going on in the corridors of power. In a bid to outdo each other, both sides of the political divide had embarked on mudslinging campaigns, with the APC hinging their propaganda on the basis of high-level corruption alleged to have been rampant in the Goodluck Jonathan administration. They also lampooned Jonathan over his inability to curb the threat of Boko Haram insurgency. On the other hand, the PDP went about reminding Nigerians of the years of Muhammadu Buhari’s days as military dictator, of the alleged corruption of those like Bola Tinubu, Rotimi Amaechi and others, who made his election possible.
This, in my opinion, was the wrong way to introduce politics to the current day Nigerian youth. In order for the leaders of tomorrow (haha, yeah right) to get a healthy idea of what politics should be like, a policy-based campaign would have done a whole world of good to the next generation of leaders (haha, yeah right).
Anyway, the election has produced winners and losers. It’s time for the real business of governance and President Muhammadu Buhari needs to step up to the plate and begin to deliver on the APC campaign promises as it seems to me he does not know the magnitude of expectations Nigerians have for him and his government.
Since I strongly doubt that the president operates his social media accounts by himself, I want to use this medium to inform Zahra Buhari, his most popular daughter what the average youth of this country expects from her father.

The anti-corruption war
After the election, when Buhari and the APC were harping about the corruption in Jonathan’s government, the then president-elect made certain utterances which he has definitely negated on several occasions. One of such utterances came when he said that his anti-corruption crusade would be focused primarily on those who siphon public funds AFTER May 29, when he must have assumed office,but we have since noticed that he has gone against this and is embarking on what may be termed witch-hunting of perceived political foes which is evident from the number of PDP persons and others in the Jonathan government who have been hounded since the aforementioned date.
People like former National Security Adviser, Sambo Dasuki; the former Chief Security Officer to Jonathan, Gordon Obuah; former PDP governors from Jigawa, Bauchi, Akwa Ibom just to mention a few. On the other hand, those in the APC camp who have been serially accused of corruption like Amaechi, Tinubu, Kwakwanso, El-Rufai and a ship-load of others who ought to face the same music are being rewarded with government appointments.
In any case, let it be known that I am not affiliated to any political party and might never be until idealism is entrenched in the country’s political terrain.
That said, Zahra should tell her father that the average Nigerian youth cares less about how much has been stolen in the past. We don’t want to know. We want Buhari to begin the business of governance in earnest. It has been more than 4 months since he assumed office and we are yet to see any policy statement or intent from the new government. The supposed corrupt officials are being tried at more cost when we are looking at ways to cut government expenditure. These litigations would take forever before a verdict is ever reached (if ever verdicts would be reached). Zahra should tell Buhari that we want to see him working, not pretending to work. There’s no need hounding some former governors while others are being made ministers. It makes no sense. It is a mockery of his inauguration statement: I BELONG TO NOBODY. Clearly the President and shown that he belongs to somebody.
Even within the APC, the only person who has been “probed” is the Senate President, Bukola Saraki,
who is being tried over allegations that are about 12 years old! And this came after he dared the party and emerged as Senate President. Am I missing something or did Buhari not say only stuff that happened after May 29. This is called selective justice, which is a far cry from the expectation of the average Nigerian youth, who is beginning to view the whole anti-corruption parade as a charade which is aimed at those who are not in the President/APC good books.
Zahra, please tell Buhari to leave corrupt people to enjoy their loot if he is not willing to probe his former boss, Olusegun Obasanjo, his military successor, Ibrahim Babangida and others who have been widely blamed for the country’s predicament.

Government appointments
When he was campaigning to be President, Buhari promised the youths a lot of things, including involvement in governance. I, for one did not believe a word of this no matter how many times it was repeated.
On December 24, 2014, I was invited to Oriental Hotel where Prof. Yemi Osinbajo, the then vice-presidential hopeful, was to speak to a select audience of influential youth leaders. When quizzed on if the youths would have a part to play in their government if they win the election, the lawyer replied “of course.” He went on to brag that a large number of his staff were young people, adding that as a former university lecturer, he is in tune with what the youths can bring to the table as regards governance .
Months down the line and the President’s ministerial list has emerged with the youngest person being a 48-year-old. The ever active social media sought to know why no youth was considered in the selection, to which Osinbajo replied that the youths need to sit up as no worthy youth was found capable of filling any portfolio.
Bloody Christ, there are an estimated 68 million youths in the country and no one was found worthy? How nice! But we should not forget that the youths gave the APC a bulk of the votes during the election. Let it be known that a very large number of social media activists were employed by the APC to help with their campaign propaganda; I do not want to mention names. It should not be forgotten that these people, and not the old men that are not so far from their graves that made the APC campaign successful. It should also be noted that none of these individuals has even been considered for a Special Adviser role.
This, in my unsolicited opinion, is an insult to the youths of this country.
Again I will like Zahra to remind Buhari that the youths have their eyes and ears on the ground and are watching what he is up to. She should tell him that the earlier he begins to see us as the leaders of tomorrow (haha, yeah right) the better for him as the social media, as it is today is capable of pushing forward a strong narrative against his non-involvement of young intellectuals to help his government.
Like I said before, I did not believe more than 90% of the campaign promises I heard, including ALL promises made to the youths. My apprehension was confirmed when the Buhari instituted his transition committee, where there was nobody below 45 years old. I asked my friends: When will young people know what transition committees are about and how they are run? 2019? 2023? Two thousand and never?
Hell! Augu Ogbeh, even Lai Mohammed is going to be a minister and there are no worthy youths to be made minister. That is a joke I will forever laugh at.
Zahra should tell Buhari that the youths would like to have a feel of how the government is being run. We demand at least 40% participation. That is how things are done. Canada’s new Prime Minister is 43 years old. Barrack Obama was 44 when he became President of USA.
Please Zahra, tell him we are the leaders of tomorrow (haha, yeah right) and can start learning today (haha, yeah right)

Employment
When I met Osinbajo, he handed me a copy of the APC manifesto, and I took out time to study it word for word.
In a part of the manifesto, the APC promised that it would “Within the first year, employ 740,000 (20,000 per state + FCT) young graduates in immediate employment and empowerment scheme.” Zahra, please tell your father that he has just over six months to manufacture 740,000 jobs. The youths, which make up the working class, have nothing to do. To be honest, this is the reason why nefarious activities seem to be the only option for the youth. Many people my age have tried and tried to get legitimate jobs to no avail. Little wonder they pursue a “career” in internet fraud, which gives them the required funds to pay back their parents and help support the family and perhaps start a family of their own.
Asides fraud, the entertainment sector has been the other solace of the young Nigerian, for years without end, the youths of the country have sought out ways to fend for themselves in this sector without help from the government (not until Goodluck Jonathan helped out with the multibillion naira intervention fund for Nollywood). These two (crime and entertainment) are the two largest “employers” of youths, and it needs to change (for crime) and improve (for entertainment).
Zahra, your father may not know these things, but I have a feeling he listens to you. So please, talk to the man.

Infrastructure and social amenities
To be honest, the average Nigerian youth does not even care if Buhari gives those jobs. They don’t even believe in the concept of creating jobs especially as they have been promised and failed several times in the past.
So what does the youth want from Buhari? Social welfare!
We want qualitative education. I, for one have seen countless number of my friends leave the shores of this country in order to acquire an education. And when they are done studying, they never want to return to the country. Why? They have seen a working society and do not see the need to return to one that is far from working.
Buhari and the APC promised to target up to 20% of the annual budget for education. Zahra, remind him because the youths are watching and waiting, not for him to perform, but for him to fail. Tell him to
prove us wrong.
Asides this, your father also promised a lot of other things in the APC manifesto, but I would like to remind him of the following, as they will go a long way to reduce the everyday hustle of the less priviledged youth:
– Create an additional middle class of at least 4 million new home owners by 2019
– Ban medical trips for government officials
– In different phases over 4 years, APC will make monthly direct cash transfer of N5, 000 to the 25 million poorest citizens, if they immunize children and enroll them in school.
– Embark on a National Infrastructural Development Programme as a Public Private Partnership that will (a) ensure 5,000 km of Superhighway including service trunks and (b) building of up to 6,800 km of modern railway completed by 2019. (this last part about railways needs to be made a top priority in the transportation sector as it will greatly reduce the hellish traffic usually faced by commuters, especially in Lagos, where the youth population can never be over exaggerated).
Zahra, your father has been abroad a number if times, he knows what the rail system can do.

Security
Dear Zahra, I know your father is a retired military general. And I remember that he and the APC condemned Jonathan for failing to curtail Boko Haram. He promised to rout the insurgents in 2 months. We knew it was just campaign gist, but hey! Its 5 months and the terrorists are becoming more brazen and frequent in their attacks. I love travelling and would have extended my nationwide tour to the North, but as you can see, it’s not looking like a wise idea.
Zahra, your dad wants to “sit” on the petroleum ministry. He has sat on the petroleum industry on more than one occasion: first as Obasanjo’s Federal Commissioner (minister) for Petroleum in 1976 and as head of the Petroleum Trust Fund under the late Sani Abacha.
My dear, we the youths do not understand the rationale behind him sitting on a sector he has headed before. If he failed to sanitize it then, why should we believe that he will sanitize it now? Why doesn’t he want to sit on the defence ministry, given his military background and the level of insurgency currently being suffered by the country?
Zahra, please tell Buhari that the youths expect him to take this Boko Haram matter more seriously. He needs to be aware of this. We believe he is not as serious about the fight against insurgency as he is about the fight against alleged corrupt political enemies. Talk to the man, our patience has started growing… very thin.

Diversifying the economy
I will not spend much time talking about this subject. The youths have little or no stake in the petroleum sector, which drives most of the country’s economy. During the campaign period, Osinbajo was at an interactive session which had some entertainers in attendance. There was Olamide, 9ice, some actors and actresses and from their discussion, it was evident that old people like him and Buhari knew nothing about the problems the youths face in the entertainment sector. That is because they have their eyes on only the petroleum and maybe the banking/fiscal sectors.
Zahra, I know you are social media savvy and must know what is up in the entertainment sector. Asides that, the country is manufacturing close to no product. This is poor regarding we have a population of close to 200 million people. No functioning tourism sector. These things are means of diversifying the economy and create jobs for millions of youths.
Abeg I no wan shout, Zahra, please tell your father to sit up.
In case he doesn’t know, the youths do not give a hoot about APC or PDP. We just want a working Nigeria. If he cannot give us that, we are willing and able to run a “parallel government” for only young people, since they have forgotten that we are the leaders of tomorrow. (haha, yeah right).
. Ephraim Adiele is the Associate Editor of The Trent Online.
Source: http://insidearewa..nl/2015/10/dear-zahra-buhari-help-youths-deliver.html?m=1

President Muhammadu Buhari on Friday said not all the 36 nominees would be ministers as some of them would only sit in the cabinet in order to meet the constitutional provision of a cabinet having 36...He also revealed there is no money to pay all the ministers because Nigeria is broke,,
Buhari made his stance known interview he granted the Nigerian Television Authority and Channels TV shortly before he left India..

Buhari said,
 “There was no reduction (of ministers) to 36. What the constitution says, and we cannot work outside the constitution, is that there must be a cabinet representative from each state.Yes, there used to be 42 ministers, I think we will be lucky if we can have half of that now because we cannot afford it.Others may not be substantive ministers but they will sit in the cabinet because that is what the constitution says and we cannot operate outside the constitution.”
When asked whether he will reduce the number of ministers, Buhari said, 
“Of course! Unless you can volunteer to be paying them (ministers).”
On the criteria used in compiling his ministerial nominees, the President explained
“I have just talked about Nigerians, especially the elite, sitting and reflecting on serious national issues.“How many times did I attempt to be the President of Nigeria? How many times did I end up in the Supreme Court? Does is it mean every time, I don’t know people in this country?I know people who we were going together but fell by the wayside because it was too tough. You know I contested in 2003, 2007, 2011. I think Nigerians should stop taking things for granted as far as we are concerned,” he said.
When the President was asked to react to the claim that his administration is slow in the development of infrastructure, Buhari said
 “Where is the money? You must have known that the Federal Government had to help 27 of the 36 states to pay salaries.
“Nigeria cannot pay salaries. The Federal Government itself had to summon the governor of the Central Bank to see how it would pay salaries not to talk of the agreements we signed with foreign countries, counterpart funding and so on.
“This country was materially vandalised and morally so and you are in a position to know even more than myself unless you are testing my knowledge whether I know it or not.”
When asked to be categorical on whether the country is broke, Buhari replied, 
“Of course, Nigeria is broke.”
Source http://insidearewa..nl/2015/10/nigeria-is-brokewe-cant-afford-to-pay.html?m=1

The Nigerian Air Force Hospital which was established in Dalori IDPs camp in Maiduguri has commenced operation. The Hospital would not only cater for the healthcare needs of the IDPs, but also alleviate the sufferings of victims of terrorism in North Eastern Nigeria.

The 50 bed hospital by United Nations (UN) standard has an Operating Theater, a Radio Diagnostic Unit, Dental unit, Laboratory, Accident and Emergency Units, Out-Patient and In-Patient facilities for at least 36 patients and a pediatric section

The full fledged NAF Hospital in Dalori IDPs camp is also equipped with facilities for in-patient catering, information and records, central sterile supply unit, maternity section and a pharmaceutical section.

Source http://insidearewa..com.ng/2015/10/naf-hospital-for-boko-haram-victims.html

Good Day
My system HP 625 keeps giving me problem when ever I shut it down and try to ON it, when I press the ON button it fail to ON it will only show light on the ON button and the screen will be black without showing anything, and the Fan will be rotating, at times when I remove the Ba3 for some minutes and insert it back and ON again it will show but this morning its still showing black screen when I ON it. Just BLACK SCREEN no HP sign showing b4 the Black screen only black screen. Thanks

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My name is Malam Musa Halilu, I am 28 years old and a businessman. I would like to share my divorce diaries with you. I was married to my ex wife Murja Halilu for a year and 10 months, this is my story.I met Murja at a fish farming workshop. We became quick friends. She was funny and engaging and full of life. She was a happy person, like those people you know who are constantly bouncy and chatty there was never a dull moment with her.

We became quite close and because she was just 3 years younger than me we had similar experiences and interests. I never thought of marrying Murja. I just liked her as a friend at first. But it was hard to remain her friend as we became closer. We became very close confidants. Soon we were spending a lot of time together. Once I close from work, I spent all my free time with her. At the time I started developing feelings for Murja, she had one silly chewing gum boyfriend like that. He was always up to no good. Gaddafi was his name. She always told me of her love for him and the endless drama he made her endure. I was becoming uncomfortable because I had feelings for her and she was busy entertaining a fool.
For a year I stayed in the friend zone consoling her and hoping she would notice my love. It wasn’t easy my people. That was a long year. But as the old adage goes, the patient dog gets the fattest bone. Soon Murja started calling me sweetheart, she started giving me compliments and praising me. I was slowly creeping out of the friend zone. Success at last! One day we were having lunch at tulip and she asked me if I had thought of being someone’s husband. I was puzzled by the question. I thought about marriage but it wasn’t a priority for me at that point in time. It was something I wanted to do in my late 30s. She seemed hurt by my answer and I felt bad. Murja remained quiet for the rest of the afternoon, so the next day, a Sunday she asked me if I would be a husband to a girl like her.
I said yes, It seemed to lift her spirits. I took her demeanor as a signal that Gaddafi was gone from our lives and she would soon be mine all mine. We started dating, 6 months later she told me she wanted us to get married. I couldn’t say no. And we had an elaborate wedding Masha Allah. You can’t imagine how elated I felt. From friend zone to husband,I felt like I had won gold medals at the Olympics. Little did I know my life was about to turn completely upside down!
Very early on Murja and I started fighting. She had a problem with everything I did. The way I brushed my teeth to the way I watched TV. Things got really bad when she wouldn’t stop talking to her friends on the phone. Starving me of her attention and care. She would be on the phone as soon I got back home from work and continue ignoring me till dawn. I was frustrated.When I found out that it was Gaddafi she had been talking to on the phone and not her friends, I was livid. I was so angry I lost control and slapped her,something I immediately regretted. I started to explain but she ran out of the house. I knew she was going to report me to either my parents or hers. I drove straight to my father’s house,I had to do damage control.
Murja was the only daughter and the apple of her father’s eye. If she went to him first then I was in hot soup! My heart was racing, I went to my father’s house and thankfully Murja was there. Wailing in my mother’s room. I said Salam and entered… My mother answered me coldly. She hissed and gave me a look that made me instantly want to just die. She said: “Ashe Dama kai mutumin banza me ban sani ba. How can you hit your pregnant wife? “And with that a hot slap landed on my face. I was dazed and ashamed of myself at the same time. Dazed because I did not know my wife was pregnant,ashamed for disappointing my mum.My mother proceeded to give me an earful after which she said she wouldn’t allow Murja come home until I convinced her I was stable.I hung around the house hoping that my father would take my side and release my wife to me. But alas he agreed with my mother. So, for 4 days my parents pampered Murja while I languished in guilt and agony. I had learnt my lesson well. I went to beg them. I promised myself never to lose my temper with Murja again. I would do my best to take care of her and the baby and I forgave all.
So my wife and baby were released to me and I doubled my efforts to be a good husband. Maybe that would make her forget Gaddafi,I was dead wrong. Murja not only continued her phone calls, she became belligerent. I calmly tolerate all her behavior because of the baby. I didn’t want to give in to her hormonal impulses. The last straw that broke the camel’s back came when in the last trimester of the pregnancy, Gaddafi called me. He told me to go and ask my wife who the father of her child was. I started insulting him and I was shocked to my bone marrow when he said: “I have been sleeping with her, I slept with her even a day before your wedding Fatiha so you can’t tell me anything. You are the loser here Malam””As a fellow Muslim I just want to tell you now because I am ready to keep fighting you till you divorce Murja to me,ka gane go?” So I had been a fool. Murja just used me and took advantage of my love for her. All I could say was WOW!!. Oh Allah what sort of mess had I gotten myself into? what was I going to do? I called Murja to tell her what happened between Gaddafi and I and to my surprise she laughed. She actually laughed at me.
She told me that I was using cheap tricks to blackmail her into leaving the marriage. I was confused! How was this my fault? By the time I got home, Murja was gone. I refused to follow her and do biko. I needed some time to think clearly. After a week, my father and I went to meet her parents. We were received like a ton of cowdung, with disdain. I am still not sure to this day what Murja told her parents, but they insisted on me writing a divorce there and then. My father reminded them of Gaddafi’s allegations and also that we were there don a yi sulhu, not to fight. This fell on deaf ears. To make matters worse, her mother came to the living room and started shouting and yelling for her daughter to be divorced. The two months before Murja gave birth was like 50 years. I resolved to do a DNA test as soon as she gave birth. Can you imagine? No one bothered to even tell me Murja had given birth! I heard on the day of the suna. It was a girl. They named her Farida without me! It took me another 6 months to get them to release the baby for the DNA test. And Alhamdulillah Farida turned out to be mine. I issued her one divorce with so much pain, anger and bitterness in my heart. I see my daughter twice a month now, she’s one and she just started walking! I’m a proud father. .I still struggle to sometimes believe that Farida is mine. I am contemplating doing another DNA test when she turns three. As for Murja, she has moved to Kano and left Farida with her mother. I hear Gaddafi is still her man. I won’t say I wish them well. As for me, I doubt if I will ever be close to a woman again or even remarry. I will never forgive Murja. Allah will judge. Thank you for sharing my #DivorceDiaries. I hope you will learn a few lessons from my experience. http://insidearewa..com.ng/2015/10/divorcediaries-episode-7saturday-17th.html

Hajiya Gambo Muhammad, a senior driver in Dangote Cement Transport Obajana, has a high popularity rate among her officers at the transport department within the company. She was 18 years when she started driving a truck.
Tell us about your up-bringing
I was born in Jajimaji, Karasuwa, Yobe State. I am 35 years old. I completed my primary school and then got married, though we later separated. I even inherited driving from my father who was a driver for a decade. Also, my brothers were drivers and I am the only female among them, that is why I joined the line of driving.
Where Did You Learn How To Drive A Truck In Particular?
I learnt how to drive through my husband. At first I usually observed how he drove and I made up my mind that one day I would also learn. Later, I began to ask him to teach me driving. The first time he disagreed on my proposal, but eventually, he agreed because he thought I would not be able to cope because it is not easy. Not every male driver can drive a truck talk more of me being a female. I insisted that I was ready to learn, so he gave the directive to his partner to teach me and that was how I began to learn.
How Many Years Have You Spent As A Driver?
I started driving since I was a teenager. I started by driving up and down the main road till I eventually became a perfect and guaranteed driver. So when my husband and I got separated, I obtained a driving license and identification card from Dangote cement Transport, Obajana. Now I have spent 12 years working with the company. We are working together with my former husband in the same company.
Usually, I prefer driving overnight. I drive around 1:30 to 3:00am in the night to everywhere I am going across the country.
How Did You Become A Part Of This Business As A Driver?
Yes, I believed that driving is a very good business and that anyone can be a part of it, so I decided on choosing it as my best option. That is the reason I am in it, even though I am a female.
What Is Your Ambition In This Business?
I thank Almighty Allah, who created me, and decide to make me a truck driver. Obviously, I obtained so many things through this business, they are uncountable. I have established a lot of businesses including transportation as well. Now as I am discussing with you, I own my personal truck which I gave to someone else to do the driving, I thank him (Almighty Allah).
I really appreciate the fact that the chairman of the company, Aliko Dangote used to offer me direct access to any one of his managers including himself. I am specially treated, better than all my colleagues everywhere we gather at any given station, whether on queue of fueling, loading or off-loading, as a result of my gender.
What Is Your Message To All Females?
Being a female by sex should not disqualify you from being a driver. I am not the only woman doing it. We are many, I am from Yobe State and Hajiya Rafi’atu is from Katsina State. We are all from the North. I see nothing difficult in it, all you need is just determination, simple.
Are You Considering Marriage?
Yes, I am considering marriage and I am ready for it. Once I get a good proposal, I will go for it.
Do You Have Children With Your Former Husband?
No, I have no child with him.

http://insidearewa..nl/2015/10/meet-hajia-gambo-female-truck-driver-at.html?m=1

On this occasion, its a chance for us to begin a new life with complete ISLAM by obeying ALLAH’s orders by following Habeeb Rasool Muhammad(sa) like Sahaba(ra). Before that we have to do ‘Tauba-Isthigfar’ on each of our sins, which committed till this second. Thus our sins will not remain in our ‘A’maal Nama Kithab’(INSHA ALLAH), then we can start a new life with out much more errors, INSHA ALLAH…
Come on Every One, let us ask forgiveness and his mercy from ALLAH, surely HE will grant what we need, INSHA ALLAH.
May Allah bring an end to this terrorist attack on our country Nigeria and expose those behind it ameen
Do some Good Niyyah that we will never do anymore sins as I am aware that ALLAH is all seeing and HE will ask me about my each and every deeds.
I will try to follow, my Rasool Muhammad(sa) in every aspects of life like Sahaba(ra) had done. Thus in the day of Judgement, Rasool(sa) become much more proud with me than any other else.
Some Important Niyyah every muslim should make..
I will not delay any of my Salaah(Prayers), I will perform it on its very time, INSHA ALLAH… Will try my best to perform it with Imaam Jamath on my near by Masjid, INSHA ALLAH…
I will recite at least a 2 papers from the HOLY QUR’AAN, and also I will try my best to understand the meaning of each words in the Qur’an, INSHA ALLAH…
I will try to find some time to do Dhik’r-Tasbeehath(Remembering ALLAH) on every morning and evening(ie After Fajr and after As’r), INSHA ALLAH…
I will try my best to find some time to think about my deeds everyday to diagnose myself to make sure that ‘I am a TRUE MUSLIM’, INSHA ALLAH…
Source http://insidearewa..nl/2015/10/insidearewa-team-wishes-happy-islamic.html?m=1

How loose is loose? Vaginal tone or strength is just like the firmness of our skin or body size. Some women are born with firm, well toned skin whereas some are more flabby. As for body size, some of us have bigger build than others. I think the same holds true for the vagina. Some women are naturally looser or bigger than others.
Pointers includes:
When you have trouble holding your urine. – Many women with stretched vagina have a problem with urine leakage. This happens especially when they laugh, cough or sneeze.
When you find that you need to insert bigger objects larger than your fingers into the vagina for masturbatory stimulation and arousal it could be a sign that you have a looser vagina.
When you can insert three or more fingers simultaneously into your vagina without significant resistance of your vaginal walls, chances are that you have a loose vagina. Insert your index finger into your vagina and try to grip it with your vaginal walls by contracting your vaginal muscles. If you have difficulties to do this it is one more sign that you might have a loose vagina.
When your can see the vaginal orifice when you take a vagina selfie without spreading out the labia.
When you have difficulty to achieve an orgasm unlike before.
Taking in air during sex or the increase likelihood of air getting into the vagina – known as ‘fanny farting’
When your hubby seems not into sex like before and you have difficulties turning him on and satisfy him as before or when he suddenly begins to find it hard to climax or retain his erection after hours of sex.
When hubby demands that you close your legs tight during intercourse.
Now there are dynamics that needs to be explained properly.
You can determine vaginal looseness by doing the finger check or the kegel ball test. For the finger check test you need to slide your index finger into the vagina and see if you can feel it. Then two fingers (index and middle) to gauge tightness as compared to 1 finger. If you can slide in three fingers (middle, index and ring finger hold together) and can’t feel much, than most probably the vagina is a bit loose.
Ben Wa ball test is done by holding the ball with your vagina. The longer the better. A tight vagina can hold the ball even you are squatting. Your vaginal tone is good if you can stand with legs wide apart without the ball dropping out. The vagina is slack or loose if the ball drops out even if you are standing with your legs closed.
I don’t think any of us would want to be at the last stage of the above two tests before we do something about vaginal relaxation or loose vagina, right? As we embark on our journey to womanhood – from puberty, virgin, sexually active adult, marriage, motherhood and menopause, the vagina will undergo changes.
In my vaginal looseness myths, I have mentioned that childbirth and being sexually active will not loosen the vagina. BUT it will definitely be stretched. That’s inevitable.
Prevention is better than cure. Don’t wait until it is loose to do something about it. When the vagina is tight, maintain that tightness with herbal supplements. And use herbal supplements to gradually restore slack vaginal tone.
I am sure we have heard lots of vaginal looseness myths, so it is time to address this issue and separate the myths from the truths.
Myth 1 : Vaginal looseness is an indication that you are a good time girl.
Truth : The vagina being a muscular tube will expand and stretch to accommodate whatever is inside it. When it is empty, the vagina walls touch each other. In fact, having regular sex increases the muscle tone of the vagina and not decrease it. Sex is a form of exercise. You can make love everyday for a year and it won’t make your vagina looser than it was before. On the other hand abstaining from sex for a long time would not make your vagina any tighter.
Myth 2 : All Men Prefer a Tight Vagina
Truth : We assume that all men like a tight vagina. This is one of those vaginal looseness myths we have been conditioned to believe. Fact is, in reality, some men prefer a slightly loose vagina for easier penetration and harder and faster thrusting. Case in point is my friend whose vagina is not as tight as before child birth. Her husband is much happier with her slightly loose vagina now and they have a much satisfying love life.
The men also play a part in relation to the tightness of the vagina. If his penis size is below average, then it is hard to feel the friction and pleasure during your intimate moments. So ladies, don’t think that it is always your fault.
Myth 3 : It Is Always Good to Be Tight Than Loose
Truth : Far from it. It isn’t always a good thing for the woman. A tight vagina indicates that she is not sufficiently aroused yet. When your desire is ignited, the vagina should naturally loosen, vaginal lubrication flows and the cervix opens up for easier penetration. This means that your vagina should be looser and lubricated during penetration and not tight and dry. If it is, then your partner might take it that you are not ready or do not want to make love.
Myth 4 : Smaller Girls have Tighter Vagina than Taller, Bigger Girls
Truth : As mentioned above, our female Instruments is elastic, stretchable and expandable, sometimes to two times it’s size during sexual intercourse. Body size is irrelevant. Smaller, thinner girls have smaller pelvic structure but is not an indication that they have smaller internal organs. Regardless of size, some women are a little tight because they have a thicker hymen or their muscles contract with more force.
Myth 5 : Penetration and Childbirth Causes Vaginal Looseness
Truth : Our reproductive organ changes its size to embrace the object inside it, then it returns to its previous state after penetration. Since penis size is nowhere near the size of a full-term baby, penetration doesn’t make the vagina loose.
Similarly, child birth results in little changes. However, slight changes might occur when an incision is made through the perineum to enlarge the vagina to ease the delivery of the baby. The changes will be noticeable if you have given birth to a large brood.
With the common vaginal looseness myths debunked, the problem of a loose vagina is more a state of our mind. If you are having a satisfying love life, then vaginal looseness should not be a cause for low self-esteem, depression or embarrassment.
But, just as we exercise, take supplements and use facial products to stay youthful, why not do the same for our intimate area?
Regardless of whether there are any truths in the vaginal looseness myths, it is always beneficial to do Kegel exercises, use Ben Wa balls and supplements with loose vagina remedies for heightened sensations for both partners. Source http://insidearewa..nl/2015/10/how-to-know-if-you-have-loose-vagina.html?m=1

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