but you know that most high value people especially in Nigeria was once low value people, so people deserve chance to prove who they really are, "Nigerian factors" has prevented so many people from achieving their aims and purposes in life which resulted in aggravated society we are now.
So many people find themselves doing the opposite of what they have passion for. Take for instance, if I become a billionaire today I won't see myself as a high value person...I will just count myself as a lucky individual living and enjoying the gift of life in abundance and I will try and reach out to so called "low life people" that you purpoted. We really need to change our mindset in this country, not just Nigeria, Africa generally. Just don't look down on people because you are opportuned.
One of the reason why this country can never develop is because the more poor people we have the more the wretchedness will continue spreading and those stingy rich bastards won't help others so that the country can develop, not like giving them(poor) money to eat but money to start good business and expand (strict conditions), I know you might say even if they help them they will want to overtake them (rich people don't like seeing poor people overtaking them), that's just a useless mindset....if I help you today and you tryna overtake me I will congratulate you and even give you a hug which shows I have really elevated someone and he/she will forever remember me...... Sorry for diverting a little from the said topic
Twifemmy: STORY OF MY BESTIEshe's in pains now I have decided to ask everyone here for advice — should I marry a very decent guy if I felt nothing more than respect and friendly feelings to him these days?
The reason I ask is that I’m 28 but I haven’t had any relationship before this. I’ve fallen in love several times before but the guys either turned out to be married, not interested in me, had a very unstable mind, or were irresponsible and let me down…
I would love to listen to my heart but even till today, my heart is used to making the wrong decisions…
Now I met this guy, and he fell in love with me immediately. He is very responsible, caring, perceptive… But I simply don’t feel anything for him…
I’ve told him that already but he asked me to give him a chance and to see if I would change my mind… I’ve given him that chance but I simply don’t feel emotional or physical compatibility… I just can’t imagine having a spousal relationship with him…
Should I give him a straight-up “NO” and continue to wait/search for someone while living my life? Or is there a chance that love will come after marriage? This my last question sounds very funny but what brought up all these is due to the many videos I've watched on YOUTUBE about how to give up in a relationship/how to fall in love.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ The responses I get from Youtube Videos are quite complicated, some seem helpful, but I remain completely ignorant about my present condition.
Ngozi123: Between my short comments and your long epistles, which seems more like a rant?
What is "melon" in Yoruba and what is it in Igbo? Is it a hard question?
it's seem you don't know what you are saying....did you even go to school at all abi you just strolled pass school? ....come of it, this is my last with you...your ignorance is to the extreme .
Ngozi123: Egusi is an Igbo word that means Melon seed. Check it on google translate if you don't believe me. All of this posturing is not necessary as all you need to do is answer these simple questions: what is "melon" in Igbo and what is it in Yoruba?
Why is it so hard to answer this question?
stop messing up woman....
Egusi soup is a kind of soup thickened with the ground seeds and popular in West Africa, with considerable local variation. Besides the seeds, water, and oil, Egusi soup typically contains leaf vegetables, Palm oil, other vegetables, seasonings, and meat. Vegetables leaf typically used for Egusi soup include bitterleaf, pumpkin leaf, celosia and spinach. Typical other vegetables include tomatoes and okra. Typical seasonings include chili peppers, onions, and locust beans. Also commonly used are beef, goat, fish, shrimps, or crayfish.
Are you gonna shut up now....keep ranting it's an Igbo word.
you are contradicting yourself you said it's Igbo delicacy which is not ok....lemme now clue you.. In Nigeria, Egusi is common among the Igbo people of southeastern Nigeria, the Ibibio people and the Efik people (Calabar people) of southern Nigeria, the Hausa of northern Nigeria and the Edo people, Esan people, and Etsakọ people of the south-west of Nigeria. Yoruba people in general and quite notably the people of Ọṣun State – especially the Ijesha people – eat "iyan and egusi", a pounded yam and egusi soup.
So my dear it's a freaking general soup and you adding it with pounded yam shows you are freaking off point cuz it's only Yoruba and Edo people that used to add pounded yam to eat egunsi soup with better bitter leaf and water leaf right from day one except some of Igbos now that are now taking turns on it, you people love akpu.....I stayed in the east for quite a while so don't bring that shit here....if I wanna eat pounded yam it's very expensive and you can only find it in eatery most especially.
And to your question I don't fvcking know...and I guess there is none cuz it's a general seed.
StrikeBack: 5 years from now, you'll regret all this nonsense you've been posting on nairaland.
You have a face to your monicker..
The internet never forgets
I have warned her severally but she won't listen....I think she wanna destroy her future....that's my take on all the rubbish she has been posting since her appear on NL....BRO, just ignore her she will bite her fingers later.
jimyjames: The prisoners should be greatful , there are millions of almejiris out there who dont even have this type of soup to eat, as disgusting as it looks
Arrewa knows better lol
eating soya beans soup?....it's a death sentence bro..they are killing them small small
Gabriel004: Lol, ewedu is eating widely in Yoruba land, Egypt, some North Africa nations and in Brazil. You can ask Kaka and Ronaldo delima. However, can you mention just one nation or other people that that shit you call white soup with you?
Does your nsala has any nutrient without putting fish?
Ngozi123: The guy is saying that his favourite meal is pounded yam and egusi soup, which is an igbo dish and you're saying this.
Just be proud of your people without mentioning Igbos, ok?
what is this one saying now? Pounded yam and egunsi is Igbo delicacy?....are you joking or just trolling.....you better leave that village you staying and come to city.
Esteemval: Good morning everyone, please someone should subscribe for me, let me browse my course outline please, the lecturer didn't complete his lecture and exams is few days away. #1000 will go a long way, thanks and God bless you
Beckysexy: I knew broke ass niggas like you would qoute me to say otherwise. Well, anyways I can't waste my precious time arguing with a kid. Note: When you grow up, You'll find out that money is also important in a relationship. Bye.
did you say broke ok lemme slide on that one....ode oshi.....I really have your time this night, who told you I didn't know money is important in a relationship but you in particular everything about you is money you don't digressing and make more meaning points but no it's the aforementioned.....I have been observing you lately....sick of your shinenigans mehn
XhosaNostra: Whatever you do, don't become a hardened, psychopathic headcase. I doubt people like that have any joy in their lives. Allow yourself a few pleasures in life, one of them being the ability to love. It's a wonderful feeling when reciprocated. However, do learn to master your emotions. Detach when you have to & you should do just fine.
You sound like a desperate wimp if not, you can easily detect if he is a kid or not via facetime before furthering the chat up with the kid.....you loose guard and defence gate crashed on a platter of negotiating relationship with a kid ...it dey pain person sha