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DrSage:
Maybe he never really loved the girl irrespective of her endowment. But if he once did, then I think the guy is under a curse

Toks2008:
That is just the issue.

If an ex acted ina funny way and you meet a new lady and now decides to unleash terror on her as a result of past experience abeg does this make any logical sense?

Yet you can treat the new lady so badly and she may not even do half as bad as the ex and then you begin to regret why you chose to punish her for the past experience.

so in my opinion, the best bet is just to try and be on a clean slate and also get ready mentally for any form of madness the lady may spring up.

It will be a shame for me to catch my lady cheating on me just for her so say shebbi i was also cheating with so so and so.

I had an ex that got fed up of our union for reasons she can't even explain so much that her very own blood brothers and sisters asked me to forget her..can you imagine? Now lets assume i was found wanting in one way or the other,trust a lady to hold on to that but till date, she would just call me just to hear my voice but shame won't let her come back and i just laugh because i know that it is her loss.

So please guys should understand my write up...you can not visit the sin of an ex on a new chic as that is tantamount to being myopic and wicked. Treat every new lady differently and be good to them but also expecting them to bleep up so that if they eventually goof,you will just yimu and move on.

stevecantrell:
Be cool, She had an ectopic pregnancy and then a salpingectomy to save her life. The other tube should be patent and thus she isn't considered barren. Good luck.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Bro,I think you should give her a second chance. At least for the fact that she has been honest with you before marriage.

The God that gives you such a forgiving heart will not forsake you when it's time to have kids.

Trust me. [/color]

eleojo23:
I was also guilty of number 1.
I was always trying to read the minds of my friends and decipher what they were thinking (feeling like a detective). But it usually led me to making wrong assumptions.

I have realised that everyone has a right to think private thoughts the same way I like to have my privacy. If someone is honest with you, he/she will tell you the things you should know. No need to probe too much.

bettercreature:
I'm sure he was deported 20-30years ago

winkmart:
You are a graduate and you cant fully express yourself in pure english Even pidgin, you no sabi write.

No wonder u settled for a 20K job after spending more than 500K in school

tolexy007:
may be one of those Doc forgot dynamite in is stomch

ugonna1054:
Mtchewww

Akosxxx:
Straight to the point.

1. ACCEPT vs. EXCEPT
These two words sound similar but have very different meanings. Accept means to receive something willingly: “His mom accepted his explanation” or “She accepted the gift graciously.” Except signifies exclusion: “I can attend every meeting except the one next week.” To help you remember, note that both except
and exclusion begin with ex .


2. AFFECT VS EFFECT

To make these words even more confusing than they already are, both can be used as either a noun or a verb. Let’s start with the verbs. Affect means to influence something or someone; effect
means to accomplish something. “Your job was
affected by the organizational restructuring” but “These changes will be effected on Monday.” As a noun, an effect is the result of something: “The sunny weather had a huge e ffect on sales.” It’s almost always the right choice because the noun
affect refers to an emotional state and is rarely used outside of psychological circles: “The patient’s affect was flat.”


3. LIE vs. LAY

We’re all pretty clear on the lie that means an untruth. It’s the other usage that trips us up. Lie
also means to recline: “Why don’t you lie down and rest?” Lay requires an object: “ Lay the book on the table.” Lie is something you can do by yourself, but you need an object to lay . It’s more confusing in the past tense. The past tense of lie is—you guessed it— lay : “I lay down for an hour last night.” And the past tense of lay is laid: “I laid the book on the table.”


4. BRING vs. TAKE

Bring and take both describe transporting something or someone from one place to another, but the correct usage depends on the speaker’s point of view. Somebody brings
something to you, but you take it to somewhere else: “ Bring me the mail, then take your shoes to your room.” Just remember, if the movement is toward you, use bring; if the movement is away from you, use take.


5. IRONIC vs. COINCIDENTAL


A lot of people get this wrong. If you break your leg the day before a ski trip, that’s not ironic —it’s coincidental (and bad luck). Ironic has several meanings, all of which include some type of reversal of what was expected. Verbal irony is when a person says one thing but clearly means another. Situational irony is when a result is the opposite of what was expected. O. Henry was a master of situational irony. In his famous short story The Gift of the Magi , Jim sells his watch to buy combs for his wife’s hair, and she sells her hair to buy a chain for Jim’s watch. Each character sold something precious to buy a gift for the other, but those gifts were intended for what the other person sold. That is true irony. If you break your leg the day before a ski trip, that’s coincidental. If you drive up to the mountains to ski, and there was more snow back at your house, that’s ironic.


6. IMPLY vs. INFER


To imply means to suggest something without saying it outright. To infer means to draw a conclusion from what someone else implies. As a general rule, the speaker/writer implies, and the listener/reader infers.


7. NAUSEOUS vs. NAUSEATED


Nauseous has been misused so often that the incorrect usage is accepted in some circles. Still, it’s important to note the difference. Nauseous means causing nausea; nauseated means experiencing nausea. So, if your circle includes ultra-particular grammar sticklers, never say “I’m
nauseous ” unless you want them to be snickering behind your back.


8. COMPRISE vs. COMPOSE


These are two of the most commonly misused words in the English language. Comprise means to include; compose means to make up. It all comes down to parts versus the whole. When you use
comprise , you put the whole first: “A soccer game comprises (includes) two halves.” When you use compose, you put the pieces first: “Fifty states compose (make up) the United States of America.”


9.FARTHER vs. FURTHER


Farther refers to physical distance, while further describes the degree or extent of an action or situation. “I can’t run any farther ,” but “I have nothing further to say.” If you can substitute “more” or “additional,” use further.


10.FEWER vs. LESS


Use fewer when you’re referring to separate items that can be counted; use less when referring to a whole: “You have fewer dollars, but
less money.”
Bringing it all together


English grammar can be tricky, and, a lot of times, the words that sound right are actually wrong. With words such as those listed above , you just have to memorize the rules so that when you are about to use them, you’ll catch yourself in the act and know for certain that you’ve written or said the right one.

daretodiffer:
Ode!

Ifakiland:
keep her, torment her emotions, fvck her and a day to ur wedding, dump her.

uselessgoat:
Open a nairabet account and fund it with 49k. stake it on 3 games this weekend with minimum of 2.20 odds and u will make times 5 of the money without doing anything. no business can fetch u that quick profit thank me later

Integrityfarms:
I sincerely don't wish you death. Come out and defend yourself cost it's only a guilty conscience fears accusation

cutetopsey:

Good!

mascot87:
You are finished bro

emeraldknytt:
its unfortunate that spirits are now being permitted to use visa to travel back to the world of the living. Life is a combination of honey/oyin and bitterleaf/olugbo. MERCY ON YOUR CHILDREN, JAH

fero07:
A little boy said "mom,did you know that Anna is an
angel"? Mom said "you mean the maid, why do you say
that"? The boy said "well because i saw her naked in
your bedroom with her hands on the wall and she was
shouting; oh God i am coming..i am coming...if it wasnt
for dad who was holding her tight from behind she
would have gone up to heaven. * * Mom Fainted*


this is the kind of news i pray i never hear...
to me, it will the whole urge i ever feel.....

this is really bad newz A little boy said "mom,did you know that Anna is an
angel"? Mom said "you mean the maid, why do you say
that"? The boy said "well because i saw her naked in
your bedroom with her hands on the wall and she was
shouting; oh God i am coming..i am coming...if it wasnt
for dad who was holding her tight from behind she
would have gone up to heaven. * * Mom Fainted*


this is the kind of news i pray i never hear...
to me, it will the whole urge i ever feel.....

this is really bad newz

prettythicksme:
Fp tinz this is serious!!Ur sister tho,is she d one dat will marry you?abeg forget about wat u heard&move on!

Hadez:
What is this




He does not call any more. I love him so much. It is not always about money communication counts in a relationship

duullie88:
Diz hoes ain't loyal

CastedDude:
"What A Miracle"; See How This Lady Cheated Death During Christmas Period. PIC

It is as they say "Every disappointment is a blessing in disguise". This lady has narrated her miraculous experience after cheating death/tragedy due to a little disappointment which got her down last year December (2015). Her inspiring testimony was shared on Facebook.. Read below;

What a Christmas! on 24th Dec 2015 at 6 am, I came to a car park, paid my transport fair, kept my big traveling bag close to the bus where others kept theirs, went to fill in my name, came back to put my bag into the bus I was suppose to board.

To my utmost surprise, my box was no where to be found. They searched the whole park for about three hours but all to no avail, I wept bitterly and lamented that God has failed me because all my belongings were in the bag: my international passport containing my USA visa, my expensive weavon, my new cloths, jewelries and so many other things.

I was in agony but I never knew God spared my life, he took all away to secure my life towards 2016. I went back to my sisters house where I came from and of cause the bus left. That day was hell for me, people were happy and jubilating on Christmas eve but I couldn't, I was at home I had no good dress on me.

Lo and behold On 25th evening a news came to me that the bus I was suppose to board had an accident and no one came out alive. God took death away from me, because its only the living that can stand and recover all. I turn to say this Christmas is the best Christmas so far.

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.com/2016/01/what-miracle-see-how-this-lady-cheated.html

zizazizu:
Whatever your decision, you will still feel terrible about the outcome.

Just let them be. You are not God.

prettythicksme:
I am now a mod

Orikinla:
We all know why she married Yobo. Not for love. But for fame and fortune. Like mother, like daughter. With a wife like this, only God can save Yobo's marriage.

Michellla:
get her a new glasses.