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Culture / Re: Are Black People Socially Conditioned To Hate Themselves by skressed1: 4:48am On Oct 04, 2017 |
Yes. And each other hence the silly inter-tribal mentality where tribes dislike each other and pick at such stupid things like that doesn’t change the fact they’re still nigga |
Culture / Re: The Importance Attached To The 2nd Child(orlu) In Igbo Culture. by skressed1: 3:57am On Oct 04, 2017 |
Hmm this explains a lot. Thanks for this post |
Family / Re: A Child’s First Birthday – For The Kids Or The Adults ? by skressed1: 3:30am On Oct 04, 2017 |
It’s for both. For the adults to celebrate the baby, and for the baby to have fun. Babies may not be able to speak but they can understand and see what goes on around them, and they tend to enjoy parties as they get to play, eat cake, have fun as babies do and be around other kids. After all the fun, they get tired and fall asleep |
Family / Re: Thoughts On Abortion! Will You Do It? by skressed1: 3:13am On Oct 04, 2017 |
Abortion is always a very ethical and controversial topic to discuss. Personally, I’m not for it. Children are a blessing, some women are barren and try their best to conceive but they can’t, while others end up conceiving unintentionally. While a woman is in charge of her body, I do think the fetus, something we once all were, still has the right to life and if she doesn’t want the baby, pass it to someone who does. Give the baby up so the child still gets to live and be with parent(s) who want them. Why should they die when they didn’t ask to be born? What if your mother aborted you? What you can’t do, someone else will. Pregnancy is a process, but it doesn’t last forever. The woman should just give the child up so the child still gets a chance. Unless the pregnancy is seriously high risk, but regardless I’m still against it. 1 Like |
Family / Re: What's Your Idea Of A Strong Man? by skressed1: 7:21am On Sep 21, 2017 |
I don't believe in men suppressing their emotions, I want to be able to know how he feels. It reminds me that he's still a normal human. A strong man to be is a man who knows who he is. He is not controlled or influenced by people easily and doesn't fall into the mommas boy category (most mommas boys are extremely submissive and passive when it comes to their mothers and find it hard to draw boundaries), he knows how to control his emotions and is hard working. Basically to sum it up, it's a man who knows what he wants, is confident, isn't easily swayed by influence and is emotionally intelligent, knows God. That's just my definition. Thoniameek: 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by skressed1: 9:22pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Thank you for your kind words. You also Bigsteveg: |
Family / Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by skressed1: 6:28pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Yeah that does make sense. I forgot men are so visual. I agree. The situation is still there, but I don't care because we have all ruled her out of my unborn child's life because of her behavior. She was behaving like that because she thinks I was taking her son away from her because he was really into our relationship then all of a sudden he changed and his father assumes it's his mother's influence. My ex boyfriend's father and his wife have accepted me and the child and have been meeting with my family to ensure the child and I have support. Thank you for asking. Bigsteveg: 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by skressed1: 2:30pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
Lol. You came prepared with stats. I rest my case but can I ask why men like it so much? Bigsteveg: |
Family / Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by skressed1: 8:54am On Sep 19, 2017 |
So you think sex even during pregnancy is good? Bigsteveg: |
Family / Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by skressed1: 8:29am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Yes it depends, however they won't die without it Bigsteveg: |
Family / Re: Between The Husband And The Wife, Who Owns The Child. by skressed1: 6:41am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Both. Without the egg and without the sperm there would be no baby, therefore there is equal share in a child. A woman just has a closer bond because she is the one who went through the pregnancy and felt the movements, bonding with the baby so she is more nurturing towards the child 1 Like |
Family / Re: 50 Cent Disowns His Oldest Son, Marquise On Instagram (PHOTOS) by skressed1: 6:38am On Sep 17, 2017 |
Smh. There's a place in hell for people who disown their children. That son looks like him the most and he's his first born, he needs to stop the pettiness |
Family / Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by skressed1: 5:14pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Hmm this could be it jamesbridget13: |
Family / Re: My New Wife Hates My Family Without Provocation by skressed1: 5:08pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
Some of us have suffered because our spouses family members don't like us for no reason and your wife doesn't like them when they are here telling you to take care of her? She is ungrateful. Why does she feel that way about them? amliftedhigher: |
Family / Re: What's The Weirdest Thing A Guest Has Done In Your House? by skressed1: 10:14am On Sep 16, 2017 |
My friend came over and brought her friend with her who used my bathroom without asking, did a no. 2 and didn't even bother to flush or use spray. Walked into my bathroom later that evening, wanting to use the toilet and saw the disaster she left behind for me 2 Likes |
Family / Re: How Can A Man Cope With Sex If The Wife Is Pregnant? by skressed1: 10:09am On Sep 16, 2017 |
This is hilarious. Some people do not have sex at all during a pregnancy. I'm sure the guy didn't die from abstinence from sex for a couple of months until the wife gave birth and recovered |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 4:03am On Aug 29, 2017 |
It is not for you to buy because you have not lived it lol. There are people who pretend. My own grandmother pretended with my mother too until my father married her, then the true colors came out. I have seen previous threads where people say the same thing. She didn't think our relationship would get as serious as it did, which is where I feel the problem came in and she didn't mind me before because she thought I was just a temporary girlfriend passing by, who would give him 'experience' on how to understand women. I saw signs early in the relationship but not to this extent, but enough for me to be weary of her. I always knew in my spirit one day a big disagreement will occur and surely this situation happened. That is already my focus. Chommieblaq: |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 7:54am On Aug 26, 2017 |
I don't understand that though because my ex's father is not even from the same tribe as her so why does she get to dictate that? I sympathize with your friend. Those kind of old head mother in laws are the worst, there will never be peace. Yes. I don't want someone like that in my life but I appreciate your advice Greystone: |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 5:51am On Aug 24, 2017 |
I don't want her to like me. She is evil. I don't want to be liked by such. I would rather just leave it alone because it's true, these issues are already enough now a marriage would be even worse. She would never stop meddling in it. It's a shame he was born to such a woman Greystone: |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 5:51am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Unfortunately it seems so. I had no clue parents still do this either. She is obviously tribalistic which is very ironic MrRhymes101: |
Family / Re: Why Is The Wedding Ring Put On Fourth Finger Of The Left Hand by skressed1: 4:00am On Aug 23, 2017 |
Thats what I heard too Xtargold: |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 9:31pm On Aug 22, 2017 |
It's strange because I have never disrespected her or done anything wrong to her. But yet she has all these problems. His father doesn't have an issue with me, in fact he has also always been in support of me before this situation and even during and he is Yoruba. And, yes you are right. Greystone: |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 9:27pm On Aug 20, 2017 |
No, he wanted to reconcile with me after he broke up with me after giving it some time, and his mother told him no. He has never passed on any message about that to me. We found all this out through someone else who was telling us what her intentions for him are. ciwi: |
Family / Re: Who Is The First Child In Your Family? Girl Or Boy? by skressed1: 8:03am On Aug 19, 2017 |
My oldest brother. A boy |
Family / Re: Man Sent To Prison For Failing To Marry A Lady He Got Pregnant In Lagos by skressed1: 8:00am On Aug 19, 2017 |
Is this really what happens? If two people have a child out of wedlock they have to marry? |
Family / Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by skressed1: 7:34am On Aug 19, 2017 |
I don't know what it is with women who like tearing other women down. Personally, my mother is Ghanaian and she has a good relationship with my brothers girlfriend. Even told my brother she doesn't mind him marrying her, and yet the girl is Filipino. Mind you, my brother is my mother's only son. Some women are just different. Some will be accepting and create a space where there is respect and the boy can learn to be a man and make his own decisions without his mothers involvement in all of his affairs, and with some they will go out of their way to make sure you get out of their way. Rarely do you hear this issue happening among men. Such women are very closed minded and controlling. Mothers like that have unhealthy relationships with their sons, they might as well marry them because to them they make it about them when it comes to their son. I can testify to that because my ex boyfriends mother is Nigerian and as things got serious, she started having problems with me. Serious problems. You just have to pray and ask God to align you into a good family where the mother/family know God and don't cause or entertain trouble because otherwise that is a set up for a marriage from hell. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 10:35pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
She's a woman scorned I can only think of that as her reason, and she wants to be the one who dictates who and what in her sons life. I was a threat to her. Thank you so much for your advice however, I truly appreciate it. Thats all I wanted to get out of this. Richy4: |
Family / Re: Will You Still Marry A Man Whose Mother Hates You? by skressed1: 9:59pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
No lol. When you marry someone, you are marrying into their family also, so they will be around regardless. begwong: |
Family / Re: Will You Still Marry A Man Whose Mother Hates You? by skressed1: 9:57pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
No. I'm personally going through a situation, where the mother of mine has even gone to the extent of evil just to get rid of me. Unless the man can draw the line between you and his mother, there is no point. You'll just be signing up for a lifetime of misery and a troubled marriage. No one should have to deal with that. |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 9:51pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
She pretended to like me and that is why I feel deceived. She invited me into her home and allowed me to stay with her, she would invite me to family events, she would sit down and talk and make jokes with me, pray with me, she would ask me to give her things instead of being true to herself and just simply expressing she is not happy with whats going on because she wants her son for someone else. Or she doesn't like me. Why go through all that effort and waste time pretending? That is the part I do not understand. A conversation with him may be coming soon seeing as other family members have intervened and are opposing her behavior. When it comes that, most of us in the family including on his side as well have already agreed that the child has to be kept away from her under all circumstances for the sake of their protection. She doesn't want to see the baby come into the world, there is no way I can expose the baby to such. When it comes to that, we won't mention anything about her to the baby ever. All I want the child to know is that she is not around. But they still have grandparents so it shouldn't matter. She's irrelevant and the baby doesn't need to know Richy4: |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 6:41pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
My ex because we are no longer in a relationship Mustiboy: |
Family / Re: Help. My Nigerian Boyfriend's Mother Hates Me Because I'm Not Nigerian? by skressed1: 6:37pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
I appreciate your kind words. Thank you so much, I agree. Ilekokonit: |
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