You should ask God, he created us human beings, so you should ask him why he created the stretch marks and all that... Dumb question, we don't have the answer.

It's perfectly OK for you to like more dark skinned women. They're absolutely beautiful! I still don't understand why you created a thread and why you wonder why.

I'm white and I love black men, they're soooo attractive.

gsalvatore:
nobody is talking about sleeping with random men here. You didn't sleep with random men and things didn't still pan out as you have wanted. Sleeping with nobody before marriage and sleeping with everybody doesn't guarantee anything.

Do you even know she may sleep with one of those men and still be happily married by now.. And how will she even know one of those guys wont marry her? Or are you saying there are no non-virgins getting married Or happily married?

When women dangle virginity as a form of trophy or Bargaining chip like "marry me if you want sex" then something is wrong...it even reeks shallowness and insecurity,hypocrisy.
If a man is ready to marry and see who he wants to settle down with, believe me he knows.. You don't wanna give him those terms..

Most old virgins are myopic all they have is their virginity which guarantees fvck all.

Well... Listen. I don't agree with you, yet I respect your own opinion.

I believe that sleeping with a man or woman has emotional implications, it's not simply physical, it's much more than that. We're not animals, we're human beings with feelings, and we feel at all times. Sleeping with a person is something very intimate.

I wouldn't like to sleep with a man one night, so that tomorrow he forgets about me...

Sex leads to getting pregnant and bringing children to the world, that's its biological purposes and should be done within marriage to procreate.

gsalvatore:
When a woman thinks her whole world is in between her leg.

Then after marriage and loss of virginity to your husband then what?

When he gets tired (he will)of that which you presently think is your/the only strong point (like @skyfullofstars just narrated)nko?

Most women prefer Disneyland to reality...

You think keeping your virginity till marriage determines the outcome of the/any marriage? And the dude you are getting married to kept his virginity too...just to marry you...

How are you even gonna attend to his needs when you are inexperienced... I guess he will get it elsewhere...

How has marrying a virgin stopped a Muslim from marrying another wife? Or couples becoming total strangers after months of marriage...

You must think only virginity is all men want..

Turn away from delusion and self deceit for your long term happiness.

Sorry if my opinions hit some nerves on here.

By the way, if all there's left to do in this world, is sleep with random people, I'd rather not sleep with anyone, because that's not what I want. I'd rather remain single...

gsalvatore:
When a woman thinks her whole world is in between her leg.

Then after marriage and loss of virginity to your husband then what?

When he gets tired (he will)of that which you presently think is your/the only strong point (like @skyfullofstars just narrated)nko?

Most women prefer Disneyland to reality...

You think keeping your virginity till marriage determines the outcome of the/any marriage? And the dude you are getting married to kept his virginity too...just to marry you...

How are you even gonna attend to his needs when you are inexperienced... I guess he will get it elsewhere...

How has marrying a virgin stopped a Muslim from marrying another wife? Or couples becoming total strangers after months of marriage...

You must think only virginity is all men want..

Turn away from delusion and self deceit for your long term happiness.

Sorry if my opinions hit some nerves on here.

You don't get it... I'm not saying that virginity is all that men want. I'm telling her that: don't sleep with just any man, because after you sleep with him, he will leave you for another woman and so on, because he's only looking for "fun", nothing serious at all. And for women, we're not interested in a one night stand, unless the woman wants something such as money. But if the woman is looking for genuine love, one night of "sleeping together" doesn't give you love, at all. Even now that I'm not a virgin anymore, I don't wanna sleep with random men, the satisfaction will last only 10 minutes, and then I will be left empty.

Our bodies also come with a soul, we're not mere bodies/objects.

I could go on and on...

If you wanna discuss something else, quote me again, and I will gladly respond.

Hello my dear sis. I was in your same situation, lost my virginity to a man, then we got serious, or so I thought, I got pregnant (i was happy about it) and now we're not together anymore... The baby is 3 months and a half.

Keep your virginity until you get married. If you date a real Christian, the guy should have the same beliefs as you do. Mmm if you want to, we can talk through whatsapp.

Don't give ur virginity to any stupid guys, i beg you.

joshrare:


My dear op
You are a big fool and a disgrace to womanhood
You kept your virginity till date and yet loose it to a man that is not your husband and your fish brain forgot condoms @#30

Probably u never had a good reason for keeping it anyways...
Sorry ooo

Stop mistreating the lady.

Mistreat instead the men that get women pregnant and don't take care of their children after. I know many of them, it's ridiculous.

Well, I kept it, I'm 23. My baby has already been born, and the father doesn't want to recognize him.

Women who have aborted their babies feel very sad about it and regret it, don't go for it.

Keep your baby and be happy with him/her.

I thought I was going to get married to my bf...

YourMain:


Actually most messaged me on tinder and a couple asked me in person after grabbing my ass.

Well, i would say that Tinder is the wrong "place" to meet people, unless you're looking for a one night-stand. By the way, do you have Tinder in Nigeria.

Tinder is only for sex.

Strahovski:
I don't know why some people just like picking on people. What happened to freedom of speech? I should not comment on nairaland again? How does my comment relate with my life now.

I think you are the one frustrated and pained not me. You quote a guy posting a comment on on a faceless forum trash talking at him about his life.

Hello, wake up.. you need help. Besides your comment didn't remove my comment did it? She is ugly and I said so.. deal with it

God will give you what you deserve, unless you change your heart

mawuqueyan:
ℓ̊ love ds thread....
ℓ̊ av NEVA tot of sucide tho but av bn rily depressed...!
God help me..!

My dear, you can always count on us! I was depressed at the age of 17, now I'm 23. I understand you, we're always here for you!

Things will get better, God is wonderful!

Strahovski:


It is against the will of God

It's also against the will of God to call people ugly.

Durentt:
OP congrats BUT dis ur wife ehn






i reserve my comments BUT i pray dat ur kids loook lik you nd not ur wife if not mehnnnnn wahala dey

And you wonder why Boko Haram exists and carries attacks every week?

Because people like you hate others so much.

War beings with small comments like yours and then gets bigger and bigger.

Strahovski:
Your wife is ugly op

Ok... Let me tell you:

1) God is good, and he wants the best for us.
2) God also expects us to be good to others, to love even our enemies
3) God created us, and I'm sure that he wouldn't wanna hurt us by creating "pretty" and "ugly" people
4) Therefore, superficiality is something created by human beings, and I'm sorry to disappoint you but God is superior than us human beings, and we're all beautiful to him
5) I don't believe that I need to look like a model to be beautiful or that a man has to be tall and have a sixpack to be attractive
6) Strahovski, I feel sorry for you. Your disgusting and wrong comment shows that you're not happy with your life and therefore go around criticizing the life of those who are happy. I wish you the best, hope that you will find happiness in life, and hope that you will stop being superficial and bad towards others.

And to OP. Your wife is really beautiful and you're so handsome, and I hope that deep inside you are nice people who will contribute to make a wonderful world where we can all live in peace, harmony and ENJOY life. Amen

Wish you two the best of luck!! Greetings from Latin America. May God strengthen your love.

Being faithful. That one is tied to loving and caring, cause a man that loves his woman doesn't need to sleep with another one, and cheating on her qould hurt her, and that's not love.

You went to a brothel already, so what's the difference! If you can't respect your wife, divorce her. What you're doing is absolutely disrespectful. Hope your wife is sleeping with another man right now.

DedeNkem:
Cut off the religion sh*it for a moment. Religion has so many Nigerians so dumb.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with m*asturbation. In fact, it's very healthy, and has numerous benefits.

As one Nigerian adage goes, "too much of everything is bad". That's a fact.

Mmm... How funny, I just posted my comment and saw yours, and as a matter of fact I wrote something about religion.
I'm not Nigerian, I'm not African, and I'm still devoted to Christianity.

Religion has made me very happy, has taken me out of depression, and makes me happy everyday. It's amazing how everytime when I'm feeling down, I read a Bible passage and all the pain and insecurities go away.

Jesus and God never leave us alone.

Masturbating makes people guilty, and that's not a good feeling, a feeling of joy. If you feel guilty, that means that something is wrong...

God, religion, spirituality is the answer. I encourage you to Google "masturbation christianity" and read the opinions on the topic. Go to church every Sunday, engage in church activities, and your life will change for good and for ever.

Addicted2Women:


You just said Christ and God ??
Fucck off, you little stinky goat face.

And Christians are the most sad and poor set of people on earth, why don't they ask their God to give them what they want ??

Fucccck off

We do ask God what we want, every single day. I think you're missing the point. Christianity brings love and peace to its believers, and sends anger and hatred away

Addicted2Women:
I did the same thing to my girlfriend.
I impregnated my girlfriend's sister.
She refused to play her role (not of your barrenness).
I will also blame you for what your husband did.
Men are easily tamed, there is only one thing you can do to a man to keep him away from cheating. Just give him the best sex, the juju no go clear for him eye, he go dey after your pusssy like a dog is after bone.

But i know this is a big lie from hell.

I feel sorry for you, you should seek help. I can see you're feeling very down given your comments. If you felt happy, you wouldn't insult others. You have too much hatred inside of you, that's not even good for your very self.
It's a pity you can't see how wonderful Christ and God are, they can give you real happiness.

Demigods:


Baby let love you, let me hold you, show love like you never seen before ;DD
Nigeria men are romantic, loving and caring if you meet the right one and you have the right attitude, carry go!

I thought you just went through abortion with the girl you intend to marry

DeeTus:
Nigerian men are somewhat unromantic but are caring.

And how do they show you that they care?

Demigods:


Baby let love you, let me hold you, show love like you never seen before ;DD
Nigeria men are romantic, loving and caring if you meet the right one and you have the right attitude, carry go!

Mmm... I'm dating a Nigerian and he's not romantic at all, that's why I'm asking for opinions.

Hello everybody. Please, as I'm not Nigerian, I would appreciate some sincere answers from both male and female:

If a man is in a relationship or married with a woman, how does he show his love to her? What does love mean to Nigerian people?

I appreciate mature answers...

Don't marry her

If he's a womanizer, then leave him. That's not love.

I'm against beauty contest. I consider myself to be beautiful, my height is 1.60, so I can ner be considered a model or beautiful. Non sense! Why are only tall people comsidered to be attractive?

Love is not about the looks.

Onlyhandsome:
pls friends I can't create a topic datz y am writing here. but if u can help me to create one. I've dis health challenges now, am currently have a serious itching in my anus and I don't no wat to do. pls I need advice and anybody who has suffered such can help asap. if dot mind help me n make it a topic for discussion as to get full in-house advice. thanks as u help.

Don't worry, it's not something serious. You have to go to the doctor, he will give you some creams to alleviate it. Good luck!

Thank u so much for this wonderful post

So disgusting. Is it necessary to show her breast like that? I actually feel sorry for her, she has such low self esteem, she thinks she's only worthy of attention cause of her boobs. She needs help