Business › Re: Aliko Dangote: 'I Need A Wife, I Am Not Getting Any Younger At 61' by SkyUrch(m): 2:18pm On Jul 11, 2018 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Is It Ok If I Tell The Lady I Intend To Marry How Much I Earn? by SkyUrch(op): 3:37pm On Jul 06, 2018 |
Thanks doubleportion: Then you can now use your instincts after much evaluation. But,meanwhile, the only person you can trust is you, you need to sure that she is committed to the marriage with you ,not selfish in her opinion,decode every act of smartness, marriage is different from relationship. One marriage is also different to another due to different personalities involved. |
Crime › Re: Lady Escapes Being Used For Ritual In Benin, After The Oga Rejected Her by SkyUrch(m): 11:50am On Jul 06, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: President Buhari Meets With Northern CAN Officials (Photos) by SkyUrch(m): 11:48am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Please why the laughter? An important issue that has to do with life was discussed, and these people were shining teeth. Nonsense |
Nairaland General › Re: Is It Ok If I Tell The Lady I Intend To Marry How Much I Earn? by SkyUrch(op): 11:13am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Thanks dear marvelli: If you want to settle down with someone then its only right that you let the lady know what you earn. Its not like things will change between the two of you after all she's been just fine with you all this while. Except you've been borrowing to spend on her sha, that's another problem all together. |
Nairaland General › Re: Is It Ok If I Tell The Lady I Intend To Marry How Much I Earn? by SkyUrch(op): 11:12am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Thanks bro MrBrownJay1: since you have already made it clear to her that you aint a baller, then by all means, tell her so that she doesnt have any foolish expectations on your person.
you certainly shouldnt lie about it (like someone above mentionned) as you want to build a strong respectful and trustworthy r/ship....and starting with lies aint it. |
Nairaland General › Re: Is It Ok If I Tell The Lady I Intend To Marry How Much I Earn? by SkyUrch(op): 11:10am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Nice one... Thanks bro ogayemiolumide: don't tell, wait till she ask. and when she does, tell her u earn 70% of what u really earn.
Reasons : 1) she get to plan on a low budget. (a wise person will make d best out of it (Matthew 25:14-30 )
2) you get to keep 30% . a) make ur own plans b) assist others, (ur in-laws, ur parents, friends, etc) c) beer money d) surprise her from time to time (trust me, it maintains a healthy relationship) |
Romance › Re: 10 Sure Signs She’s Truly In Love With You by SkyUrch(m): 9:29am On Jul 06, 2018 |
I Agree DIYhackers: Some girls are shy and they find it hard to look into the face and it doesn't mean they don't love you, so no 1 is wrong
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Nairaland General › Re: Is It Ok If I Tell The Lady I Intend To Marry How Much I Earn? by SkyUrch(op): 9:03am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Am really serious on settling with her.. I've seen her parents about it. That's why I'm considering telling her. Thanks for your opinion doubleportion: If you are not getting serious about it to point of preparing for marriage I think it's too early. As long as you are yet to discuss about how to sustain the marriage financially you need to hold on and continue to know each other more. |
Nairaland General › Re: Is It Ok If I Tell The Lady I Intend To Marry How Much I Earn? by SkyUrch(op): 8:32am On Jul 06, 2018 |
No I didn't tell her before we started. And No, she's not demanding. I appreciate your opinion Alphafeezay: Depends on the type of girl she is....
did she know how much you earn before agreeing to roll with you?
is she demanding? will she demand more or less knowing how much you earn? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze With Sat Guru Maharaji At Cool FM (Photos) by SkyUrch(m): 8:28am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Now I understand why this Daddy Freeze dude talks like this.. mtchewww! |
Nairaland General › Is It Ok If I Tell The Lady I Intend To Marry How Much I Earn? by SkyUrch(op): 8:17am On Jul 06, 2018 |
Hello Everyone, There's this girl I'm seeing now, and we are really going on fine. I've made my intentions known to her, and even gone to see her folks. I've made her to know that I'm not a 'hot shot' yet, but we can grow together. I feel I should go ahead and let her know how much I earn, so she'll at least have an idea. Will that be a good idea? What do you think guys? Please let me know your views. It will be appreciated. |
Politics › Re: Mallam Adamu Ciroma Is Dead by SkyUrch(m): 3:19pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: Lagosians Curse French President, Macron Over Blocked Roads In Lagos (Video) by SkyUrch(m): 10:12am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Grow up dude Guestlander: Ipobs. Okoro herdsmen and women. |
Romance › Re: 'Women Should Stop Getting Married' - Married Lady Advises Single Ladies by SkyUrch(m): 7:58am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Madam go and hide your face. You no get talk |
Literature › Re: The Hole In The Wall by SkyUrch(m): 7:51am On Jul 05, 2018 |
Please guys, how can I make a post on nairaland? New user here... |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by SkyUrch(m): 9:29am On Jul 04, 2018 |
she's in 100 level, need to get settled first with studies before she can start thinking of having a boyfriend Jamariwolff: so books 247 right? In your uni days, u didn't flex a little? You didn't enter a relationship? Just books? |
Romance › Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by SkyUrch(m): 9:28am On Jul 04, 2018 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Courting by SkyUrch(op): 11:41am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Thanks Heartbender Heartbender: My dear, do what works for you. Study your partner and use wisdom for it is the principal thing. But I'd advice you disclose your pay and any spending you may likely make because women assume an awful lot |
Politics › Re: Pastors Criticizing Buhari’s Government Risking Their Lives - Femi Fani-kayode by SkyUrch(m): 11:30am On Jul 03, 2018 |
The same weed that's affecting you now right? kolaaderin: This Femi fani Kayode smokes too much weeds |
Nairaland General › Courting by SkyUrch(op): 10:38am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Is it proper to disclose your pay to the lady you intend to marry? |
Christianity Etc › Re: David Ibiyeomie Reacts To Killings: The Blood Of Killed Christians Will Cry Out! by SkyUrch(m): 8:10am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Likewise... My papa has spoken Virgohills: i was in this service |
Politics › Re: South-East For Buhari Rally: Happening In Owerri Now - Photos by SkyUrch(m): 8:02am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Are you really well? Mylove55: The jobless lazy idiotic pigs of Biafra are in trouble. |
Romance › Courtship by SkyUrch(op): 7:54am On Jul 03, 2018 |
Is it proper to tell a lady you intend marrying your salary? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Carissa Sharon Oyakhilome Weds Phillip Frimpong In October by SkyUrch(m): 1:40pm On Jul 02, 2018 |
YOU WANNA BREAK IT? Alwaysking: I hope the union would last |
Politics › Re: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala And Buhari Meet At The AU 31st Meeting In Mauritania by SkyUrch(m): 1:35pm On Jul 02, 2018 |
zombieTRACKER: We need to disintegrate this zoo first Nobody will have time for your affairs |
Sports › Re: Odemwingie Still Wants To Play For Nigeria by SkyUrch(m): 1:53pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
 guy u mean o Maxymilliano: Hmm ... After falling down the pecking order with clubs like Crystal Palace courting your attention, you now know you still wanna play for the national team?
Sorry Bro, try Tahiti if possible  |
Romance › Re: Man Grabs His Wife-To-Be Butt In Lovely Pre-wedding Photos by SkyUrch(m): 12:57pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
What's this one again ?  wildcatter23: Feel free and take your pic |
Romance › Re: "I Have Travelled To Asaba, Abuja And Ekiti For Sex" - Male Twitter User by SkyUrch(m): 12:43pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
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Science/Technology › Re: A Hippopotamus Killed At Jebba, Niger State (Photos) by SkyUrch(m): 12:40pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
 olatunyemi: Everything can get killed in this country |
Career › Re: Valentine Ewudo Works With His Mother In The Same US Hospital by SkyUrch(m): 12:16pm On Jun 29, 2018*. Modified: 12:49pm On Jun 29, 2018 |
no be small one I tell u
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Celebrities › Re: Roman Goddess Slays In Massive Cleavage-Baring Outfits by SkyUrch(m): 11:59am On Jun 29, 2018 |
Honestly, instead of being attractive as she would have wanted it to be, it's rather disgusting |