Romance › Re: Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Earns N30k? by sladimeji(m): 5:18pm On Dec 30, 2019 |
arinzos: A Man on a 30k Salary can Marry but it all depends on what the Man Wants. You cut your coat According to your Cloth. But on a Serious Note,30k Salary is Just Nonsense Except Maybe the Man Has Accumulated it over the Years. To Me,i Can't Allow my Sister to go into that kind of Marriage. I can't Cage another person's Sister in that Kind of Marriage too. it's your sister's choice...may be unlike you, she sees more than what is in front of her |
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Health › Re: Mosquito Repellent Company Discover Man Whose Fart Can Kill Mosquitoes by sladimeji(m): 3:28pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
His smile alone self can kill mosquitoes |
Celebrities › Re: Femi Otedola Proclaims Comedian Broda Shaggi His Son-in-law by sladimeji(m): 3:27pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Set awon to n ta epo |
Crime › Re: Very Graphic Photo: Severed Parts Of A Young Lady Dump In A Gutter In Abuja by sladimeji(m): 3:25pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
He/she apparently dismembered the victim for convenient disposal of the body... |
Politics › Re: Dictator & Muhammadu Buhari Arrives In Egypt- Signal Newspaper by sladimeji(m): 3:22pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Away president  |
Education › Re: Mass Communication Student's Project On Ganduje Bribery Video by sladimeji(m): 3:20pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Local man want to move from school to prison |
Education › Re: Please Fam, Can I Still Meet Up With This CGPA At The End Of 400lv by sladimeji(m): 3:19pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
If you write 4. In both semester you should be able to write your speculated cgpa |
Education › Re: Please Advise Me Concerning My Education. I Am Lost by sladimeji(m): 3:07pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
I will advice you to choose a federal university... I graduated from futminna, tuition fee and standard of living is not too high there...school fees is less than 25k for returning students.. You cannot continue doing these shitty jobs forever |
Career › Re: I Need Help Deciding What To Do Before NYSC by sladimeji(m): 2:50pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
I am also in your shoes...I got back from school last month and found a job at the beginning of this month even though it's a shitty type of work..if you don't have to hustle for cash to prepare for the camp like me I would advice you to acquire any digital skills |
Celebrities › Re: American Rapper Juice Wrld Has Died At The Age Of 21 After Suffering A Seizure by sladimeji(m): 6:03pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
i still see shadows in my dreams  if there is any peace after life i hope he finds it |
Celebrities › Re: Peju Johnson: Men Send Their Manhood Photos To Me Because Of My Boobs by sladimeji(m): 9:20am On Dec 08, 2019 |
BlackIP: Make I no talk ...
How to avoid hate speech in Nigeria�
Free mood will not allow sowore & others to see this�.
This trailer want to spoil the beauty of federal road  |
Music/Radio › Re: South African Girl Says This About Nigerian Music See Reactions by sladimeji(m): 10:14am On Dec 01, 2019 |
lol..the best artist in SA is burnaboy ... |
Career › Re: Help.. Depression Is Real by sladimeji(m): 9:41am On Dec 01, 2019 |
There is nothing like its too late...you can take control of your life at any stage. I will advise you to never give up on yourself and take everything that comes your way seriously henceforth and also don't let peer pressure get to you, don't compare your life with those you see online or around you.. most of them are lies. your own better days are coming |
Career › Re: What's The Next Step For A Biochemistry Graduate (2.1)??????? by sladimeji(m): 9:58pm On Nov 30, 2019 |
I am in your shoes... I just concluded my B. tech programme. I finished with second class upper in Agricultural economics and extension.. now I feel totally useless , I just sit around all day doing nothing.. I even tried to find a job to make little cash to prepare for nysc but my effort has been fruitless..I was only offered 12k for an 8-6 job... I don't know what else to do |
Education › Re: What Was Your First GPA &now Your Current CGPA by sladimeji(m): 12:22am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Hannania: 100L = CGPA 3.52...presently in 300l = CGPA 4.31....#Telecommunication Engineering @FUTMinna... #Grace Leads nice ...I am among Futmx 2019 set |
Celebrities › Re: Toyin Abraham Shares Loved-up Photo With Husband, Kolawole Ajeyemi by sladimeji(m): 11:24pm On Nov 24, 2019 |
the hubby must be under that dress I guess |
Health › Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by sladimeji(m): 1:52pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
Get married sooner and dont keep this from your spouse...Most importantly dont stop praying about it |
Romance › Re: Man Shares 10 Things About His Wife-To-Be, Gets Blasted by sladimeji(m): 12:20am On Jul 10, 2019 |
placeofallure: Why are they all calling the man out? What those bit*ches don't know is that it is humbling for a man to admit all of these, men are naturally egoistic but for him, he's willing to shed that cloak all for her. It could only mean one thing: he's profoundly appreciative and willing to go all the way for her. From his tweet, even though he didn't say it, he's in love and unashamedly so. In discourse analysis, there's what is called: implied meaning. You draw inference from the text, not everything could be said. Those girls are pained because they are the exact opposite of the kind hearted lady. There's really nothing wrong in helping your man out if you have the means. I did that and never regretted it. God bless you.. |
Education › Re: Covenant University Alumni Buys Multimillion Property In Maryland Lagos by sladimeji(m): 6:06pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Eni nla lon shoun nla |
Crime › Re: Photos of Diezani’s $40m jewelry, gold iPhone forfeited to FG by sladimeji(m): 5:57pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
40million dollars.... Hmmmm Her conscience is dead |
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Causes A Scene At A Restaurant Her Guy Dumped Her After 5 Years by sladimeji(m): 5:54pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Five years too much na |
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Romance › Re: Pre-wedding Photo Of Chelsea Fan And His Fiancee Who Is Man United Fan by sladimeji(m): 5:50pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Epl family |
Celebrities › Re: Small Children Dance To Naira Marley’s “Soapy” (Photos) by sladimeji(m): 5:15pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
nairalanduseles: It's just a dance ... Emancupate yourselves from being judgemental It does not promote violence like hard core rap Or u seen people dance metal music There is nothing to it A beautiful hilarious harmless dance |
Crime › Re: Man Jailed For Sending Pornographic Pictures To His 'victims' by sladimeji(m): 3:54pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
farmspark: It pays to be law abiding citizen. How much per month? |
Celebrities › Re: COZA Rape: Busola Dakolo Files Complaint Against Biodun Fatoyinbo by sladimeji(m): 12:06am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Something you should have done 20 years ago... I hope all the truth is uncovered |
Celebrities › Re: Fantana: My Man Must Cook And Clean Because I Don't Know How To by sladimeji(m): 12:01am On Jul 05, 2019 |
Happy finding |
Romance › Re: I Masturbate With COZA Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo's Pictures - Nigerian Lady by sladimeji(m): 11:56pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
Confused human being |
Family › Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by sladimeji(m): 11:47pm On Jul 04, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: I am writing this based on some of the comments I read on this forum by males as regards female issues.
The African society focuses on training females more than males. They teach girls how to be good wives and mothers and they forget to train our boys on how to be good husbands and fathers.
I believe the average Nigerian man (some) are insecure, have low self esteem and lack self confidence hence why they derive pleasure in insulting women. Sometimes I wonder who raised these boys that they believe their manhood is validated by a woman subjecting herself to him and allowing him be the alpha and omega of her life. That is why a lot of them are obsessed with the word "submission", "captain" and "head of the house title".
A man with confidence, high self esteem would not be obsessed in wanting to control a full grown woman in 2019 who basically has the same rights as he does. It is insecurity, lack of self esteem and self confidence that makes a man feel intimidated by a sucessful and independent woman.It is due to lack of self esteem that they want to feel on top or over a woman. They believe their gender or sex makes them lord over every woman. They are obsessed with authority, power and do not know how to be leaders.
They feel it is okay to slut shame sucessful women call ladies despicable names and you wonder if these men have sisters or mothers.
They feel it is okay to lord over a full grown adult and that such adult(women) cannot be a partner but a subordinate. I believe some of these men raised in Nigeria have personal issues that they need to deal with on their own before bringing an unfortunate woman to share in such misery and clean up their mess.
I blame society's double standard that fails to hold men accountable as much as women are held accountable maybe then this self entitlement mentality, the view of women as commodities and superiority complex would be a thing of the past. Our men need exposure and enlightenment. I hope we raise better boys to become good men in the future and not just women alone. Firstly, It's not only about the male, most Nigerian females have inferiority complex, they don't believe they can equal or superior to there male peers and secondly about insecurities about female being more successful, it's like an inbuilt thing, we are all insecure to some certain level.. We all want to see ourselves doing better than others...so most people you see acting insecure that a female is doing better than them will act the same way if it were a male doing better than them.. Sometimes I feel somehow when I see people doing better than I do its just natural.... |
Sports › Re: Little Mascots Excited On Seeing Messi With Them In Dressing Room by sladimeji(m): 11:31am On Jul 03, 2019 |
Digital101: Cristiano Ronaldo is considered as the greatest ever footballer for his country, Portugal. Messi on the other hand is considered as the greatest ever footballer for Barcelona.
Ronaldo has much better leadership skills and knows how to carry his team and inspire them to victories under crucial circumstances. Messi on the other hand has shown again and again that he gives up under pressure and become totally silent on the field.
Ronaldo is a better sportsman and knows how to face defeat. Messi on the other hand has been seen taking retirements after facing embarrassing defeats. And then taking back those retirements. I hope he finally retired this time around because he has been a total failure for his country. He is only good at club level.
Ronaldo has time and again stepped up when it has mattered the most and shown the world what he is capable of.
Despite enduring his lowest goalscoring campaign in the last 10 years, Ronaldo has still managed to win three trophies this season for Juventus and Portugal combined, outnumbering Messi’s two accolades with Barcelona. In contrast, Messi only managed to win two trophies this campaign, namely, La Liga and the Supercopa de Espana.
Ronaldo has also managed to win two individual accolades by winning the Serie A's Most Valuable Player award in his first ever season in Italy, and becoming the top goalscorer of UEFA Nations League, thanks to his hat-trick against Switzerland.
Ronaldo is the greatest ever player for Real Madrid after Di Stefano, consider to be the second best Argentine player ever, even better than Lionel Messi.
Argentina always produced great players from Maradona, Di Stefano, Messi etc and I can guarantee you that another great player will still come out from Argentina but Portugal has only one great player and when he retire it will be hard to replace. The only man that has score more international goals than any player in Europe.
Ronaldo is considered a legend at Manchester United, Real Madrid and Juventus.
For all those Messi fans blaming Argentina teammates. In the 2010 World cup , Messi didn't score a single goal but yet they got to the quarter finals. Also In 2014 World cup, Messi didn't score a single goal in the knock out stages ... Only had one assist and they still got to the final. Messi has score only one goal in this Copa America and they got to the Semi finals and assuming they won this match, Messi fans will be busy praising Messi like is only Messi that perform in the team. must you compare the two  � please learn to enjoy and embrace success without comparing your success with others' |
Celebrities › Re: Rapper Olamide And Wife, Bukunmi Aisha Suleiman Welcome Their 2nd Child by sladimeji(m): 11:52am On Jul 02, 2019 |
why would u do this kind thing on top small pikin head if not madness |