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wunmi590:
I'm writing based on the thread that grace the front page either this week or last, see below for the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6833377/type-relationship-desire

In my own opinion, I feel it is the full responsibilities of every man, to foot every bills in your home, you claim to be the head and as the head you should always be responsible and not shy away from your responsibilities..

It is only broke men that fight their wives to share mans responsibilities, if you are not capable to take up your sole responsibility, please remain single..

You can't see Dangote or Femi Otedola splitting bills at home with their wife..

Your woman can only support you at her own will without being told to do so....

Know this and have peace of mind

This is exactly why men are no longer getting married. Taking care of a grown up adult as if the woman is incapacitated. Tueh, I just hope with this you will be submissive like a real slave you are

Better, the earlier the conclude it the lesser the tension. Wisdom is profitable to direct

ipobarethieves:
Nigerians are their own enemies.Imagine treating ur fellow black man like waste ?.Somebody entered ur hotel from front door and u smuggled him thru back door /dumped him in hospital to go sort himself out.Imagine if he’s poor man

It's a Whitman hotel. U should even know when he asked if they would treat him same if he was white. I have been there.

Techsupport:
Because the man wants a virgin. now that virgin has learned the ways of the world and realized that sex can last more than 2 minutes....
so gents know your priorities and limts.

Lol, it's even worse with ashawos that have tested several diicks, she will go back to the street she belongs

IamWonderful:
I guess so, the same Pandora Peter Obi that couldn't influence election in his state want to contest with Tinubu, what an effrontery, these south east people don't know their place

Yes the obi Pandora will be more better and accepted than the dying bullion van Chicago drug lord who's on his way to meet his maker. Even your own father is even worse than Tinubu

Cashsteady:
Abeg just shut up... You wan wan they mention countries you dey mention Algeria and Morocco... Same Algerians and Moroccans that will risk their life just to get to Spain or France... Don't let pictures deceive you.. there is nothing in Algeria Morocco and even Egypt na only Tunisia still try small..



Morocco and Algeria are doing very bad economically even those countries ain't total safe.



Algerians that are all dying to go to France or Spain same as Morocco

You shut up little uneducated brat, you obviously don't know the difference between Western and Eastern Europe. Algerians and Moroccans are running to the same Western Europe the polish, Hungarians and Belarusians are running to. Idiot. That's my last reply to a demented unintelligent scallywag

tensazangetsu20:
Far ahead with 75 percent unemployment rate . Which European country even has a 30 percent unemployment rate.

Eastern Europe I mentioned. I didn't say entire Europe. As you can even see I picked up few African countries

tensazangetsu20:
They are only migrating cause the money is low. I have polish, Lithuanians and Belarusians on my team. What they call better opportunities isn't the same thing at all for us at all. You cant compare any country in Europe to anywhere in Africa not even South Africa.

Lol, you lied bro, SA is far ahead of most Eastern European countries, name your statistics and let me take you the cleaners. Or even Algeria, Morocco

You de fvck up oo

Olammipresh:
08092778122 add me up

I called this your number and its switched off

LordReed:
So what?

So your foolishness bc u saw 'f'

bukatyne:
If he successfully did number three, the thread would not exist.

That's not the issue, the issue is on the problems associated with your number 1 and 2.i am sure u went back to read it and now found u messed up, yet pride no gree u accept your mistake. Have a nice day

Prevailing:
[s] My is, do you think is a mere belief or a fact. The catholic way to worship God is not in the Bible. Jesus said He is the way, truth and life, no one comes except thro Him John 14:6. The catholics say you go to God thro mary. Is that not idolatry?. They see you as an outcast if you don't belong to the Mary league[/s] .

See this protestant dubious and fake Christian who worships his pastor, Catholic Church is the only church that christ himself established. Satan get lost

Mysticwebb:
I was once in this kind of situation. In my case we dated for 6 good years, then when it got to settling down, babe started talking about my church as if she didn't know all these while. I thought it was just a delay tactics but it was more than that. Long story cut short, I couldn't let go of everything we have shared so far. Since I know her cycle very well, I targeted her fertile days, spoil her with gifts and got her pregnant. After that I warned her against any attempt on abortion, then I reported myself to her father, it was hell initially then everything calmed down, marriage was the only thing on the table. Now we are good, surprisingly we are even attending my church together once in awhile as she has continued with her church. But I have not been to her church even once. We do joke about the past sometimes, on those times she always accuse me of using deceit to marry her. Few months after marriage, one particular morning, after our morning prayer, she thanked me for doing what I did, claiming she was just confused then. She thanked God I didn't leave her. Though I still pretended I didn't know what she was talking about that I did.

Lol, that's women for you, they will always come back to thank you for not allowing them make a foolish decision. Op never too sabi women psyche

Imustnottalk:
I wonder why you will allow church to ruin your relationship must your family or wife attend the church you are going.i like this type of girl she been sincere to you from start not when you guys get marry thats when issue come in

Then she should gettat, its simple

meetme01:
So, respecting your spouse opinion(s) is manipulation? Chai..women don suffer for this world. This is only time (before marriage) when her opinion should be considered mostly because when she gets married, it will be very hard to voice her opinion to people like you. Respect her wish and if you can,find another @ least you all say, there are many fish in the water. Pick another nah..Oshisko

Op already compromised enough by asking her to worship in her church that's the truth

bukatyne:
She wouldn't marry you if you remain catholic;

You are not willing to leave catholic for love....

You have three choices:
1. Leave catholic and marry her
2. Stay in catholic and leave her
3. Convince/confuse her that she is free to worship anywhere as you remain in catholic

Beht, didn't she/you know that catholic is a deal breaker before progressing the relationship?

You didn't read op well, if not he has already done number 3

Olammipresh:
Come and marry me and happy Sunday

Can I marry you? I'm serious

femi4:
[s] She is right, Catholic is not a Bible believing Church.

2. As a family, you should be attending same church to promote common purpose of unity[/s]

All these protestant gay churches sef, imagine

tempex88:
I must applaud the lady. Good she has some standards. However, as a man, if you succumb to this, you will have to succumb to all her other requests in marriage.

You can also try to understand why she doesn't like the Catholic church. Who knows, something bad might have happened to her through the church in the past. Just do more findings

This is crap for me, his denomination his choice. He owes no one any explanation

princepee:
My advice,
if you love her and you also love your church, leave your church marry her get her pregnant.
Then go back to your church.
Win win for you.




Sense wi not kee me �

That's a fake life

BlackyOne:
According to the elders, you must listen to both horse as the tell their story..


Question
Why are you in the Catholic church amongst all sect?


Why does she despise the Catholic church and why does she belong to her current sect?

The elders are waiting for your answer!

This your writeup is senseless. Everyone has a choice of religion

LilMissFavvy:
You have given her the freedom to continue fellowshipping in her church after marriage, so why is she still complaining . If she still refuses to accept that you both attend your different churches, then you better end the relationship.

Seriously, op tried tolerating her to attend her own church yet she's not satisfied. It's too bad

Myer:
Which denomination does she attend.

Usually non-Catholics believe Catholic Church is into idolatry. So I guess that's her fear.

Those non Catholics still emerged from the Catholics, an irony abi

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Don't marry her she will demand more, let her leave her own church

LordReed:
LMFAO!

I like when people admit their vulnerabilities instead of forming holy holy meanwhile na them do pass.

Ride on MadamVanessa! Bwahahahahaha!

That's a guy, use your head

Bigredmachine:
[s] I was born into a Catholic church, and over the years I have seen so many things I don't like about Catholics e.g the worshiping and bowing down to images, which the Bible clearly kicks against... So many other things they do that I begin to doubt if Catholic is a real church...

They will tell us how Catholic was the true and only church founded and approved by Lord Jesus Christ by himself and every other church broke out from Catholic church...

Talking about switching... I have also seen how other churches now rival themselves as being better than the other... You see deeper life members bragging they worship God more than living faith or redeemed... So many competition here and there which I don't like...

Its all these things that has just made me stay put in Catholic and not really because I like their style but going to another church won't even change anything...

Its not about the church u go to, its about the individual person way of live, I can learn the teachings of any church if I feel they are saying the right things and not brag of how this church is better than that one

The truth be say church matter dey tire me and I see all the church out there as business centre[/s]

Stupid ass pentecostal fraudster advertising his church, go to hell devil

Omicron007:
Seconded.

It's pentecostal

chatinent:
You always have a choice.

You are only afraid of what people will say...not even what you think is right.

It's Catholic.

I am not a prophet.

You're wrong, it's pentecostal

nairavsdollars:
The funny thing is, this bros saying one pound is useless in UK may not have been to the airport all his life ooo

He's right, I'm in the UK mits costly to live here

aikyg:
[s] Nwanne, Flavour is an Enugu boy. He has all the rights that an Enugu indigen enjoys[/s] .

The last time Flavour and phyno tried it during endsars they were asked to go back to their state in anambra, so fvck off

aikyg:
Nwanne, Flavour is an Enugu boy. He has all the rights that an Enugu indigen enjoys.

That's lie, they're many Abakaliki and Nsukka people who were also brought up in Onitsha and Nnewi and that doesn't give them the right to claim Anambra, so fvck off