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Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Regex: 9:55pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
***Takes a deep breath*** ... here we go again. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by ExtremeDot: 9:55pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
wunmi590: Why are women selfish? Na natural follow come characteristics? 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by FutureIsFemale(f): 9:56pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
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Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Kingcalls: 9:56pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
wunmi590: You are wrong...its not broke men that force their wives ... its due to women and their equality agenda... if my wife says I must also cook and bath the baby and also clean the house, then she too will have to take her share of the bills 7 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Forthepeople21(f): 9:57pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Paying bills should NEVER be put on one person or the other. It’s not fair and will lead to resentment and breakup. Just a matter of time. No one is responsible for another full grown, able bodied person. If you want your relationship to last, discuss this before moving in or getting married. If one is out of work suddenly, there needs to be some effort to still contribute. Unless you are just a lazy person. Then your spouse can deal with that. 4 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by juman(m): 9:57pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
OP need to borrow sense. Probably she is a teenager. Everybody no be dangote or adenuga. 4 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by RexTramadol1: 9:58pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Who tell you say Otedola wife no Dey do something? U follow dem reach house? Everybody get e own responsibility, but once you start giving a woman certain privileges, they widen it and that make you look 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by rahztafari(m): 9:58pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Very funny. Anyways like someone mentioned, if I foot the bills that means she will have no say in the union. And that should also mean she won't be allowed to work or pursue her career. What about that? Because I don't understand yall. How can a working woman in a union choose not to contribute to the bills? Why is she working na? Maybe she should stop working and be a full-time house wife then. 10 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Nobody: 9:59pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:See better woman with good OT.. thank God not all Nairaland ladies are the same 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by KingAlabi: 9:59pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
FutureIsFemale:I striked a chord didn't I? Shameless species. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Mikeeytools: 9:59pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
eazzzy1:don't mind them kids everywhere in a situation when this useless economa has turned millions to thousand be up there assuming nonsense. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Mrbenny001: 10:00pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
What kind of backward stupid mentality is this..so if the woman is working or she has a business...she shouldn't contribute to the growth and stability of the family... what should she be using her resources for then? Pls answer me what should be priority and woman responsibility with her income.. whether she has rich husband or not. All these children posting shit up and down 4 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by KingAlabi: 10:01pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
killmods:They are bro, it surely finally comes out. 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by just2endowed: 10:02pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
paulavon: And she will move to the next available man. I Don't know how couple reason in this hard economy. If you like, do King Kong in the family and continue footing 100% of the bill. Na you know |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by MKO200: 10:03pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Marriage is the coming together of a man and woman, by implication; shared responsibility. You guys should start using your big heads and stop being unnecessarily egotistic. If their is love and understanding btw you two (which is suppose to be the bases of any good marriage) then anyone can pay the bills. You guys are only scared that if she's taking responsibility you will not have 100% authority. Their is no constraints to a woman cognitive ability, she too can make even better decision 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by thesolutions(m): 10:03pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
This kind of argument can only be caused by poverty. When a man and a woman are doing well, you won't hear them talking about bills especially when there is love in the relationship. But there is also a transactional relationship where the objective of the Union is mutual. People in this category are mostly self acclaimed feminist who are suffering from personality Disorder. They are neither male nor female. They just want to exercise the authority of a man Just to prove that they are not weak but cannot bear taking the responsibility of the man hence nagging about responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Cyoung4real(m): 10:03pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Werey
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Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by DaSugarBoi(m): 10:03pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Talk is Cheap 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Nonexisting: 10:03pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
They will never want to take responsibilities but they will always want equal rights when it comes to decision making. The other day, an idiot was saying over her dead body would her father in law marry her nanny. That was a man who built an empire for his family and the olosho golddigger who contributed nothing wanted to decide for the entire household. Go to work places today, you will see them claiming weaker sex when it comes to work but on pay day, they will want to get the same pay with men who do the hard works. These days, I don't get angry at them but on simps like this who support them hoping for pussy but at the end of the day, the vaginarians ignore them and respectfully submit their pussies only to men like me who don't give a fucck. Keep on simping and keep on disgracing your fathers and grandfathers. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Slavishbenin: 10:04pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
wunmi590:This is exactly why men are no longer getting married. Taking care of a grown up adult as if the woman is incapacitated. Tueh, I just hope with this you will be submissive like a real slave you are 4 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by BlackPantherxXx: 10:06pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Nonsense. I dont share any bills with any girls... So don't expect me to do any household chore. That's what your hands are for. 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Slavishbenin: 10:06pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
wunmi590:A woman who doesn't support have no say and she's a pure slave no matter how you see it, it further renders them to the slave status 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by toujurs: 10:06pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
You are a fool, a capital foool 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by callmeRichie(m): 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
I found this irritating sha! You still carry this mentality enter marriage? At 40 now u con look like 70 and kpai early(God forbid, just an irony) dem go now dey talk say nah village people not know nah u put yourself on unnecessary pressure! A virtuous woman knows she must have a say in the house by having a sense of responsibility! I don't pray for a kind of woman with this write up a woman that can't do anything if her husband is not around or down! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by litaninja(m): 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
I love how nigerians embrace poverty sha. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Slavishbenin: 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE:The guy is a hypocrite. He shouldn't even allow the wife spend her money what a foolish guy he is |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by neonly: 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
wunmi590: U sound like a 15yrs old boy Sorry no personal grouch 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by uvie66: 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
paulavon:Well said, if my wife leave all the financial responsibilities to me and fold her hands saying I am the head, l will just pack my things and leave the marriage...lass lass marriage is not by force, I didn't come to this world to die for another woman matter. 4 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by robortonia: 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Iyaebe: U neva jam One person go visit hell 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Ayemoso17: 10:08pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
still wondering why you wrote up this article You see .. In this Western world where it is very hard for almost 80 percent of people to make a living. And you are saying someone shouldn't be supportive to others. And you are even comparing so many people that is Very hard for to make a living to the Dangote's and the Otedola' s. Pls. You have to wake up from your slumber. Is your mother not supportive to your father when you are growing up?. 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by uvie66: 10:09pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Forthepeople21:I concur... |
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