Leaforever:

I think Jude's wife too, but many pple didn't notice dt the business rift started after Jude got married.
Anita and Lola were best of friends before dt and always vacationed together with their kids every summer along wt their husbands. After Jude married, it stopped after a while and the gang up against Lola started.

From the outside looking at their family dynamics what I can see is Peter married his dream biracial woman who happens to be older, rich, executive in an oil company and half Russian. She seems nice but her facial disposition is stoic like Russians and she definitely doesn't kiss ass. She won't laugh if a joke is not funny just to boost Ur ego, for example. She will just be herself. And of course she calls all these guys by their 1st names cos she's Jude's mate &. also raised in America. (Now this marriage he looks like he has an adoration plus a healthy fear of his wife. He wouldn't cheat fragrantly).

Paul married his University girlfriend who is traditional and refers to Jude and Peter with deference. A lot of respect, Like calling Peter and Jude 'uncle' and all those other things in her insta post. You can tell she's what normal Naija pple expect their 'our wife' to be like. Very traditional. (Now in this marriage, this husband kinda walks all over her as we can see wt the disrespectful level of cheating. Anita was also his struggle love - not his dream girl).

Then you have Jude's new wife, a younger ex beauty queen making zero money, wt eyes on the prize, a rich husband, entering this dynamics wt a husband she has wrapped around her finger - who just happens to be in charge of his younger brothers. I see the ways the fireworks started and how Lola became her & Jude's biggest scapegoat. The woman probably wanted reverence for her and her husband like Anita dishes out (women have issues). Peter couldn't take the abuse on his wife whilst they're also eating from him but Paul has bn well mugunized and saw nothing wrong (his subservient muguness to Jude might have contributed to his divorce too).
And did U see Jude's new massive house - unnecessarily way bigger dn Peter and Pauls already big houses. Confirmed everything I needed to know abt dt marriage. Now jude also has a fear of his wife & won't cheat fragrantly. In my opinion she's his lady Macbeth.

I only liked your comment bc of your English and not based on what is written

EmmaJnr1:
Zoo republic

IPOB propaganda

gidgiddy:


Ahhhh. You mean the North with Boko haram in the NE, Killer herdsmen in the NC and ISWAP in the NW, all armed and killing people daily? The same North where the Senate observed one minute silence for 120 people massacred in Sokoto? The same North that is centre of poverty?

Yeah I can see what their many years of having the presidency did for them

Well killings is no more seen as a northern thing. It is more common in the south east now than elsewhere with daily killings by ipob and incessant sit at homes. So the is even worst off in the security angle what a pity
How many have been massacred in imo, Anambra Nd Ebonyi.

gidgiddy:


Others that have produced the president, what good did it do for them?


There are many other things that are more important than the presidency of Nigeria

They have railways
The have the govt and in charge of the oil wealth
The have the political power

Same insecurity in the north is now 100X in the east with people running away, so absolutely they've gained massively

Attached here is a discussion with a female friend of mine in the south east who is burnt out from sit at home. According to her when it started she enjoyed it but now she's getting worn out and even wants to relocate out of the south east.

Ezemust:
my family is 6 in number,4 of us live outside south east.thats the story of the igbos

Your case is different. We're talking about those in the east who don't come out

I mean even if presidency is zoned to the SE how will the election be won since the most populous state in the south east had a total of 230k votes.

Truth is that the igbo tribe is in a deep mess politically, they can't get Biafra and can't rule Nigeria.
It's only South South that can help igbos achieve a country by aligning but the average south south people are more igbophobic than the north

InoGetJoy:

We'll all die some day. It's better to go out in a blaze of glory than to die a cowardly death. At least his people can tell stories of how he died fighting

Since we all will die someday why not kill yourself now and now. That's exactly what that retired soldier did

anbel:
for pope Francis to single handedly appoint, that means nnewi is not a small province

The pope appoints all bishops, its not about Nnewi

I thought he was the self acclaimed oga ndị oga

Faber:
Nke a bụ nke anyị

Anambra is above all states
Anambra should be a country of their own...

Truly the light of the Nation
Proudly Umuchukwu son...though my brother Godwin Maduka lost

How is Anambra above other states exactly, see inferiority complex oo

InoGetJoy:

Not everyone is a coward. He knew he'll die, he didn't want to die like a chicken

He ended up dying like a rat. He who fights and run away lives to fight another day. Wisdom is profitable to direct

tarboshi:
Learning character and knowing how to control your tongue will save you in marriage more than learning Taekuando.

I agree

Iyaebe:
Please suggest a good place in Abuja or Lagos Island where I can learn Taekuando and Karat so that when I get married I can defend myself properly. The men we have these days have given us no choice than to be fully prepared before venturing into marriage with them, I don't want to be caught unawares. Your suggestions are highly welcomed, Thanks.

Zzor you have started showing your lowlife again. Continue

If not APGA PDP would have won. PDP is even loved in Anambra far better than APC, APC is a curse to humankind

viceddy95:

In other words,he kidnapped her,dragged her to his room then raped her and slept off,the story doesn’t make sense ..

Very possible for a drunk rapist

DOTian:
[s] Tax collection is a factor that comes with a given government tax policy! People should be mindful of this fact.
Some states or countries believe in tax and spend. Others allow capitalists within their enclaves to hold more funds in order to plough such back into their businesses and grow more wealth and employment. People need to understand this.

Abia state, Anambra state and Rivers States, are some of the most viable states in the East without oil revenue. So if the state governments decide to place less emphasis on stringent tax collection, one should ask about the motives behind such policy. Rather than running along with the narrative that Abia state is not viable.
Aba alone generates more income for businesses than half of southern states[/s] ..

Anambra and Rivers are billion times better than Abia. Abia is a failure in all aspect and you definitely know this.

They even told him when he would be killed and he still stayed in kaduna not just in Nigeria, Atleast he was warned of what is coming. Why didn't he run away

Iyaebe:
See how uncontrolled erection has brought him and his family shame and agony.But wait ooo this matter should be investigated well because it is men that's supposed to die during sex and not women, let's not believe what he said quickly. RIP to the woman. Very sad

Zzor behave yourself, did your father die ontop of your mother?

funkmrflexx:
I was dating this girl for a while actually wanted to marry her . She has some characters I couldn't live with. I gave her time to change but she didn't so I broke up with her.
So she started raining curses on Me telling me dat I'll suffer and beg for food. (this is a girl I trained in school)
Why are nigerian girls with this mentality that a relationship is a do or die

Women are ungrateful beings, why did you train her in school?

wunmi590:


Go to school you won't, nah to come online to form dey form what is not....

Your problem is some English, this is my last reply to you, because no matter what, you can't learn, because from your response, no woman can live with an aggressive human being like you....

Despite my wife 3 stream of income, I still earn more than her, and I pay my bills as a responsible husband and father....

Not like you who is forcing his wife to share bill to 50:50....


Be responsible as a man for all your actions, stop being call a man, if you are forcing your wife to share bills

Continue crying while other great men are taking charge of their home by taking full charge of their responsibilities

Shows how miserable you are you're the one crying all over the place, coming to advertise for your boss wife since you're her slave so you can say anything to retain your meal ticket. You're the one who needs mental emancipation and education bc you sound like someone with IQ of 4, get over yourself asshole

wunmi590:


I'm sure you lack simple english understanding, if you lack simple comprehension, go back to school...

The heading simply says "husband should stop forcing thier wife's to pay bills", not women who willingly want to help out

Whether forced or not the end result is same. That is the woman contributing and there is no difference with a poor church rat like u who should take care of his wife but instead allows her do the car maintenance and fueling.

cho25bc:


Jay Z is not broke and he's a very responsible family man. In American culture, most couples split the bills. It's normal for them over there. So to him, it's not about being broke (not even in his dictionary) but about gender-equality and companionship.

Please tell the Ignorant op been fed by his wife. Good it is coming from a woman

wunmi590:



I'm not the cause of your present predicament, if you are not capable of being the head of your family by taking charge of your responsibilities, stay single


Stop crying

You're not even capable yourself. First your wife earns more than you and obviously feed you this little fat fooll,. Second, you're practicing against what u preach, u feel good she spends her money when u should be the one doing the spending. You're just a poor man dependent on his wife who earns better income

Justbehave:
Shut up fool. Simps and their stupid way of reasoning. Just like Tegas husband. Most of you simps who are fed by your wife's will always say something so you don't loose your meal ticket. Some people dey suffer sha.

The guy is sick mentally, since he believes the wife shouldn't contribute why is he enjoying the wives Contribution. He should have carried the cross alone

wunmi590:


Point of correction, I'm not a woman, I'm a man with a mall who takes responsibility seriously.....

You're a stupid masquerading woman, get lost bitchh

wunmi590:


My sister, you man will surely come, don't stress it, the man that would love you and adore you will come...

The man that won't force you to split bills will surely locate you

Says a foooll

uvie66:
Well said, if my wife leave all the financial responsibilities to me and fold her hands saying I am the head, l will just pack my things and leave the marriage...lass lass marriage is not by force, I didn't come to this world to die for another woman matter.

Exactly, marriage is not a must, we men have live to also live

JONNYSPUTE:
.......Like you were asked. In such union if the man says Yes,can the woman counter his opinion?

Your wife is sensible enough to understand that it is her obligation to fuel her car and that she is not doing it willingly.

Tell yourself the truth. If your wife stops supporting you,will you ever want to take any decesion in the family and put her on the know?

The guy is a hypocrite. He shouldn't even allow the wife spend her money what a foolish guy he is

wunmi590:


Nobody is saying the woman will not have a say, what we are saying is that husband should stop forcing their wives to split bills, bill is the sole responsibility of the husband....

My wife pay bills, she buy fuel in her car, it was suppose to be my responsibility, because I gave her the car, but she does it at her own will....

A woman who doesn't support have no say and she's a pure slave no matter how you see it, it further renders them to the slave status