₦airaland Forum

SleekyP:
The Ondo State Police Command have arrested four students of Adeyemi College of Education, Ondo, for allegedly gang-raping a female student of the institution.Vanguard gathered that the victim is a girlfriend of one of the suspects.

The suspects, according to a police source, are student in the Department of Business Education in the institution.Police source said the victim, who is on admission in a private hospital, was raped at a residence in Oka area of the town until she became unconscious.

It was gathered that the suspects, who have made confessional statements, were picked up after the report was lodged at the police station in Ondo town.Reports had it that the victim who resides outside the campus, was invited by her girlfriend and together they went to visit another friend.

On getting to the residence of one of the friends, others reportedly pounced on her and took turns raping her.
The victim reportedly regained consciousness and on return home, collapsed again and was rushed to the hospital where she was placed on admission after bleeding profusely from her private part.

LadyX:
Men who do that fall into one of these categories:

1. The lady is older than him, so he feels like he is doing her a favour by dating or marrying her.

2. He doesn't love the lady, but she cares and loves him deeply. So he takes advantage of her love knowing she can't leave.

3. The man is lazy. He knows someone will provide, so there is no need to work (hard).

ramdris:
Her fashion sense is up there.

Emodeee:
What about "how to knw she is a gold digger?"

SleekyP:
Some guys can play it smart and cool at first, till they find out you are emotionally insecure and can pay the bills.

Most ladies, out of frustration condone guys who are out to milk them dry. They think it is love, or that the guy is disadvantaged.

Here are some signs that will help you discover if he is unto you for the cash only.

1. He never pays for anything.

2. He is only after SeX

3. He is always in debt and wants you to bail him out.

4. He gets angry when you do not give him money.

5. Uses your marriage and your love for him, as a bargaining tool.

6. He always comes up with big business ideas that end up failing.

7. He wants to control your finances and know you ATM pin.

8. He wants to know your businesses.

9. He always lives beyond his means.

10. He always begs you for money to entertain his guys.

Teempakguy:

Of course

IYANGBALI:
Her body odour no get rival

MizTyna:
Yes they can

milliemillz:
yes, they can.

MrCork:
...Kaiii...see Yelllow booobsi...I will drink that $*** and re-fill the cup twice...kaiiiii!

SleekyP:
We all agree Naija guys are fine, right? Some are real dream boats; tall, dark and handsome, the stuff many romance novels are made off. And they can be quite generous if they have the means and can get their way. And that's the big but if you're an educated and liberated woman who wants to find someone to love you for you, and to get married. Some husbands can get downright mean when they feel they're not getting the respect the deserve from their wives.

Even non-liberated Nigerian women, who simply are educated and want to "carry shoulder up" a little after marriage are emotionally or physically battered by their men. Some Nigerian husbands, though educated, want to live like their grandfathers when it comes to the culture of how women are expected to act and behave right, in the society in general. And how is this?

There are some great stories, of course. But one refrain stands out which I want to question today. A lot of women who are happily married to Nigerian men often echo each other when they say, "he's not a typical Nigerian man". It is either the man was born and raised abroad, travels outside the country a lot, or he likes marching to his own drum which includes loving his wife and being her friend as opposed to the culturally accepted "the husband is the head" in most Nigerian marriages.

But is this really our culture? What stops a Nigerian man true to his culture from making a good-loving, caring and understanding husband? What is sure is that one thing has to give - either the culture in the man has to make way, or the woman has to become a good submissive.

It appears our men are trying but our ladies are just asking for too much, dumping our culture completely.

A Single Lady's Reaction:
Sorry to see marriages crumbling but to be sincere with you, many young guys out there DO NOT make good husbands. They are good for boyfriend relationships but if they say marriage...my friend PICK RACE O! The sad part is that they spend sooo much on weddings. Money that could have been used to buy 4 or 5 properties somewhere (smh). Marriage is not determined by how much that is spent on the wedding day o. Ladies be warned. I would rather have a "local" wedding as they usually call our weddings and enjoy my marriage, than have wedding in Dubai and be a divorcee in 3 months time.

A Married Woman Reacts:
Many of our Nigerian men make good husbands and I feel that their wives don't share it on blogs as such because they are either not used to talking about their private lives on social media or do not even have access to social media that much. Most of the girls sharing their sad experiences on social media and those who have big-eyes and they just want a slave man like black Americans as husband.

All marriages have turpsy turns but it's how it's handled that matters. Another thing is, many husbands are really good but their wives have taken their husband's goodness for granted hence no need for talking much about it.

But in all, I believe that women and men both have short comings, whereas many men are sticking to the traditional spouse thing, many women decide to think outside the traditional box. This doesn't mean that we should generalize. Men and women handle marital issues as they deem fit even when the odds are against them or in their favour. We must strive to work hard to make our relationships, marriages work. My answer to the question is: Yes a typically Nigerian man can make a good husband.

And young married lady's reaction:
My husband is a typical manly Nigerian guy, I give him his due respect and he is a good husband to me. So yes, with God and prayers it is possible to have a good Nigerian husband. But choose wisely!

Oballer:
that boy will never go hungry in his toddler life!!!!!

SleekyP:
Nollywood actress and mum, Mercy Aigbe stepped out with her cute son rocking the all denim trend.

Mercy matched her denim shirt with distressed denim short skirt while her son rocked a denim jacket over a green shirt with matching denim jean trousers and green ankle boots.

The colour blends are just a part of what makes their outfit perfect apart from how they actually look in their outfits.

They look as cute as a button. Nothing like when a parent knows how to instill fashion sense into their kids.

ruffcoin99:
RIP

Blitz4real:
What a loss

RIP

lalasticlala:
The link u provided didn't show any pic oo.

Tashaamania:
iLike

I can sabi do number 19 though , it helps me get through most times..

SleekyP:
ILORIN--Tragedy struck, Wednesday, in Kwara State as 11 people lost their lives in an auto crash involving a Toyota Hiace bus, which collided with a Turbo branded truck along Ilorin/Mokwa Road, Ilorin at about 2a.m.

Eight others were seriously injured in the accident.

The victims were trapped inside the bus with number plates GA 52 XA, while the truck was marked XA 939 GZA.

Sector Commander of Federal Road Safety Commission, FRSC, in Kwara State, Mary Wakama, who confirmed the accident, blamed night travelling and excessive speed for the tragedy, describing it as avoidable.