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CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage’s Scam Alert by SleekyP(op): 7:31pm On May 21, 2015
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CelebritiesTiwa Savage’s Scam Alert by SleekyP(op): 7:30pm On May 21, 2015
SleekyP:
Barely five months after Tiwa Savage’s impostor reportedly duped a politician and Managing Director of a Lagos-based travel agency, the sum of N500,000, to perform at his political declaration party, the heavily pregnant songstress has raised alarm following another fake Twitter account.

Her verified account on Twitter being @TiwaSavage, the Mavin records first lady during the week warned her fans to beware of a fake account with the handle: @Tiwa_Savage1. “Guys, this is a fake handle: @Tiwa_Savage1.”Highlife singer Flavour and Reekado Banks have initially issued scam alerts on accounts impersonating them on social media,”, she tweeted.

RomanceRe: Relationship Tips: 8 Dating Principles Guys Need To Learn From Their Fathers! by SleekyP(op): 7:20pm On May 21, 2015
agarawu23:
can't read a beg

summary?
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RomanceRe: Relationship Tips: 8 Dating Principles Guys Need To Learn From Their Fathers! by SleekyP(op): 7:18pm On May 21, 2015
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RomanceRelationship Tips: 8 Dating Principles Guys Need To Learn From Their Fathers! by SleekyP(op):
SleekyP:
Modern relationships sadly have adopted the "hookup culture" and which has totally defined dating and courtship.

Unlike their fathers, most guys really don't like putting in an effort to get a girl and tend to mock others who try. Relationships are now redefined in a way that no one goes on a real date anymore.

Below are EIGHT principles guys need to learn from their fathers.

1. You actually identify it as a date. This is so basic I don't even want to say it but in today’s day and age, I have to. Meeting up for a drink is not a date. Grabbing coffee is not a date. A last-minute text inviting her to join you out with your group of friends is not a date. Using the actual word and properly inviting a woman on a date is the first step to actually making it one.

2. The man picks the woman up. I will never understand the 'Want to meet me there?’ mindset. If I am going to have enough interest in a woman to invite her on a date, you better damn well believe I am going to drive to her place to pick her up. If you're going to dinner and she is 'out of the way,' either find somewhere within reasonable driving distance of her place or be prepared to do the driving necessary to go to her place, the restaurant, back to her place, and then home again. Note: Some women may not feel comfortable with you picking them up for the first date if you have not developed enough trust with her yet. The important part of this is that you at least offer.

3. There is an actual structure to the evening. You certainly don't need to spend hundreds of dollars, nor do you need to have multiple events planned through the night. The idea here is to actually put some thought into the experience the two of you are going to share. If you're going to dinner, for example, don't just show up at a restaurant and hope to get a table. Find out what type of food she likes, make a reservation, ask for a nice table and do it right. Regardless of what your plan is, there should, in fact, be a plan.

4. You actually put effort into how you look. Taking the time to pull yourself together and put real effort into your appearance shows both respect for yourself and the person you're out with. Saying 'this is who I am, take it or leave it' is a great way to never get a second date. Not to mention, we should want to look good for this person whether it is our first date or 100th date. The second we stop trying for them is the second things start to go south. If you start off that way, it's safe to say you are doomed from the start.

5. The guy picks up the tab. When friends go out, they split the bill. When you are on a date, the man picks up the tab. All of it. There are plenty of ways a woman can reciprocate if she'd like: She can take care of parking, pick up a round of drinks, get the snacks at the show you got tickets for, whatever it may be — but when the tab comes for dinner, don't let her anywhere near it [and do not accept her offer to split it]. If you think paying for the date is about the money, think again.

6. Your phones stay in your pockets. If the person you're out with doesn't keep your attention enough to make you forget all about your Facebook notifications for a couple of hours, then you're out with the wrong person.

7. There is some sort of chivalry involved. Whether it be opening doors, pulling out chairs or any other small acts of kindness that signify romantic interest in a woman, these are small actions that show her you're actually interested in her enough to put in extra effort for her.

8. You make sure she gets home safe. No, she probably doesn't need you to escort her home. Yes, she has lived this long just fine without you by her side. But neither of those things mean that you should just part ways as the night winds down. You picked her up (RIGHT?) and should subsequently make sure she gets home safe as well. One last thing I personally think should happen on a date — but is often contested — is a kiss. If a man intends on pursuing a woman romantically, he needs to make it clear to her so that she doesn't get the wrong idea and think he's uninterested. He should, of course, always be respectful and confident that she's interested in return before making the move. But if the signs are there, make the move. I also don't think you have to wait until the end of the night for a kiss. If things are going great, attraction is there, and the opportunity presents itself — go for it. grin grin
So gentlemen It's time we show the women of the world that we still have it in us to build real, meaningful relationships. That we're willing to put in the effort to do more than just 'hang out.' Put the video games down, man up, suit up, and wine and dine a beautiful woman. cool


FashionRe: 5 Make-up Things Ladies Must Have by SleekyP(op): 7:15pm On May 21, 2015
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CrimeKaduna Police Arrest 31 Robbery Suspects, Recover 8 Vehicles by SleekyP(op): 6:48pm On May 21, 2015
SleekyP:
The Kaduna State Police Command has arrested 31 armed robbery suspects who specialize in snatching of cars, motorcycles and women handbags.

The Commissioner of Police, Kaduna State Command, Umar Shehu, said an AK47 rifle, four bareta pistols, four single barrel short guns, five single barrel long guns, 39 rounds of live ammunition and 92 live cartridges were recovered from them.

The Commissioner also disclosed that the suspects were arrested in Zaria, Kafanchan and Kaduna, the state capital, by operatives of the Special Intelligence Bureau (SIB), during a stop and search operation and cross fire, following a tip-off from members of the public.

During the operation, a total number of 8 vehicles of various kinds including a Prado jeep, 14 motorcycles were also recovered from the robbers.

Mr Shehu noted ed that the arrests were made within this month of May, 2015.

According to the Commissioner, the suspects usually take their stolen vehicles to Niger Republic, where they sell them to their accomplices, adding that the command is working closely with the Interpol in Niger Republic to track down stolen vehicles and their buyers.

Other arrests made by the command include 16 members of a suspected terrorist group known as ‘Sara- Suka in Rigasa, Igabi Local Government Area of the state, where they have been attacking residents and later killed a middle aged man, injuring two others.

Mr Shehu however reiterated that the command would not relent in its fight against criminals and criminality throughout the state, urging car owners to come to the command with their vehicle papers to claim their vehicles.

One of the robbery suspects, Ibrahim Kabir, who is a 20 year old boy and a 200 level Accountancy student of Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria, confessed to the crime.

Kabir narrated how he got involved in the crime and however begged for forgiveness. He also disclosed how they sold the stolen vehicles at giveaway prices.

PoliticsRe: Fuel Crisis : How Much Is A Litre Of Fuel At Your Place? by SleekyP(m): 11:11am On May 21, 2015
there is no FUEL as I'm typing... cry
RomanceRe: Six (6) Things A Woman Should Never Do For A Man When In Love by SleekyP(m): 12:04am On May 20, 2015
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CelebritiesRe: Davido & His Babymama Sophie Momodu (Photos) by SleekyP(m): 9:34am On May 19, 2015
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RomanceRe: Female Student Shws Off Bare B*oobs Jst To Mark Culturalday At Rivers State Uni by SleekyP(m): 5:46pm On May 17, 2015
some real shit!
RomanceRe: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by SleekyP(op): 5:41pm On May 17, 2015
Cruzeiro:
Don't develop British accent all of a sudden angry angry annoying somborrie angry sad
you nailed it!!
RomanceRe: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by SleekyP(op): 5:40pm On May 17, 2015
agarawu23:
I hate list with source undecided

Aggressiveness should be buried totally.
NL rules now grin grin
RomanceRe: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by SleekyP(op): 5:38pm On May 17, 2015
prettyjo:
all these thread sef
*zoom avi* shocked lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by SleekyP(op): 5:37pm On May 17, 2015
Gbaghan:
As the hunter is learning how to shoot without missing, so the birds are learning how to fly without perching. I shall not fall for any trick employed by any woman in attempt to get another man's husband!
If you post below me... You are a goat!
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RomanceRe: Ladies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by SleekyP(op):
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RomanceLadies, 10 Tips On How To Seem More Approachable To Guys by SleekyP(op): 5:27pm On May 17, 2015
SleekyP:
Quite a lot of girls complain that they don’t get noticed when, the truth is, they are being noticed, but guys are being put off from approaching them, because of some of the subtle signals that they are sending out.

Men are not as sure of themselves as you might think, so if you are giving the impression that you are not really interested, or the guys think they are more likely to get a slap around the face than they are a conversation, then they are going to be reluctant to approach you. If you have been wondering why all your efforts to look gorgeous and desirable don’t seem to be attracting the men, then read these ten tips on how to make yourself seem more approachable to guys.

1. Think about your general appearance

We know that looks aren’t all that counts, but we also know that first impressions are important. Not everyone can afford chic clothes and the finest makeup, but you should still make the effort to make sure that you look neat and tidy. You should also be able to show your individuality in how you dress, but bear in mind that extreme fashion and extravagance will put some guys off.

2. Don’t give anyone a hard time grin

Remember that a guy could be watching you out of the corner of his eye, so don’t do anything to make him think twice about approaching you. If you launch into a verbal assault on a bartender, because he forgot to put ice in your drink, you’re going to make yourself look scary to any men who might be looking on.

3. Don’t look too busy to talk undecided

Most people won’t interrupt you if you look too busy, so don’t be so engrossed in your phone, or your iPad that you don’t even notice that a guy is showing some interest in you! Also, if you are out with some friends, then don’t stand around in a huddle sharing the gossip, because that will dissuade a guy from making a move too.

4. Don’t hang out with the boys shocked

There’s nothing at all wrong with having male friends, but if you hang out with them all the time, then other men are going to be cautious about approaching you. You may know that your relationship with these guys is nothing more than a friendship, but another man who is not a part of the group will assume that you are in a relationship with one of your male friends.

5. Think about the body language cool

You can make yourself look unapproachable by the way that you stand or you sit. Don’t fold your arms in front of you, and keep your body facing toward the people that you want to attract. You don’t need to make it look like you are desperate to attract attention, but you do want to send out the signal that it’s OK to approach you.

6. Laugh, smile and have fun kiss

You will appear a lot more approachable if it looks like you are having fun, so smile and laugh and have a good time. The happier you look, the more you will make a man feel like he wants to join you and share in some of the fun.

7. Tell him with your eyes wink

One look can say it all, so use your eyes to draw a man in. Without making it too obvious, try and catch his eye occasionally and then look away again and perhaps, let your eyes linger on him for a little longer than they would usually. Too much eye contact with a stranger will make him feel uncomfortable, but get it right, and it will get his attention and make him want to come over and meet you.

8. Don’t get all tongue-tied when someone does talk to you angry

If a man is talking to you, then don’t get all embarrassed and tongue-tied. If you don’t respond to him, then he’s going to think that you are not interested and leave you on your own. Smile, engage him in conversation and sound interested in what he has to say.

9. Don’t look too aloof undecided

Confidence is attractive, but over-confidence could make men think twice about approaching you. One thing that guys really fear is being rejected outright by a girl and being given the cold shoulder. Don’t let your confidence be mistaken for aloofness and give out the impression that you are too good for anyone in the room.

10. Give him opportunities to talk to you cool

If you have your eye on one guy, then put yourself in a position where he can talk to you. Be there, when he goes up to the bar or, get on the dance floor when he does. Get him away from his buddies and he’s more likely to approach you and, if he sees you often enough, he’s going to be more comfortable about approaching you.
Stay happy!

FashionRe: 5 Make-up Things Ladies Must Have by SleekyP(op): 11:24am On May 17, 2015
importexpert:
you are a male n recommending female make up kit?
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Fashion5 Make-up Things Ladies Must Have by SleekyP(op): 11:09am On May 17, 2015
Do you have an overflowing makeup yet you do not have all or one of these items, then sister consider throwing your purse under the bed. There is no reason why you should miss having one of these essential makeup items, even if you live from a nylon purse.

School yourself on the top 5 most important makeup items below.

1. Kajal –

2. Eye pencil

3. Mascara

4. Nude/ Baby pink lipstick. You should look all shoutie everyday. kiss

5. Brown powder.

As a matter of fact, you can survive and come out brilliant with just these five items. wink
Jobs/VacanciesRe: End Times! Worker Fired For Uninstalling A GPS Tracking App From Her Smartphone by SleekyP(m): 10:56am On May 17, 2015
MissTechy:
This article was gotten from MissTechy .com
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RomanceRe: 7 Things Your Ex-lover Miss About You by SleekyP(m): 10:53am On May 17, 2015
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RomanceRe: 20 Differences Between Overgrown Girls And Grown Women . by SleekyP(m): 10:47am On May 17, 2015
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RomanceRe: She Broke All His Breakables And Parted Away With 50 Liters Of Fuel (pics) by SleekyP(m): 10:40am On May 17, 2015
bakynes:
My ex gf was like this lady, she's got hot temper and have zero tolerance for cheating. It was a long distance rship so there was no way I wasn't going to cheat, man must straff from time to time. One night we just finished making love, I was tired and slept off immediately not knowing she was planning to pick up my fone and read what ve been up to, she saw my chat with another girl and right in the middle of the night she went to my kitchen broke all the plates and pointed a knife @ me I was naked coz I slept off immediately after sex thank God for the Neighbours that rushed in coz we didn't lock the door it was a self con apartment I had to quickly use a pillow to cover my di*ck. Other times she tore my vehicle papers and was throwing stones @ my Car from afar I had to quickly drive off the Car all because she saw a missed Call from my ex of then on my phone, since then ve said to my self "I Will never date hot tempered girls" .
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really?
CelebritiesRe: Davido Welcomes His First Child A Baby Girl by SleekyP(m): 11:55pm On May 16, 2015
Congratulations young daddy Davido!
TV/MoviesRe: If You Watched This Series, You Are Too Older Than You Think by SleekyP(m): 11:44pm On May 16, 2015
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RomanceRe: 12 Things Couples Still Won’t Do In Front Of Each Other (even Afta Years 2geda) by SleekyP(m): 11:16pm On May 16, 2015
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RomanceRe: (photo) Could This Be True?? by SleekyP(m): 4:00pm On May 16, 2015
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BusinessRe: Gtbank Launches Mobile Phone Money Transfer - First Of Its Kind! by SleekyP(op): 3:58pm On May 16, 2015
Greatpooss:
Hope there is no hidden charges attached.
@ all wink

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