₦airaland Forum

meccuno:
The Igbos have Innosson,The Yorubas have Proforce. Both from the South. What exactly does the north bring to the table apart from terrorism?

you won't see them talk on this because it's a united south voice. Wait to see Igbos and Yorubas fighting, that is when you will hear the voice of Northerners

lilwetdick:
when you start calculating your age and the age your children will be, i think it is a recipe for disaster, that is desperation.

i think a man need to prepare himself financially, mentally and emotionally and also select a good woman to have a good marriage instead of calculating his age and future kids age. nothing bad if as a man you get married at 50 years, if you take care of yourself, you will see the prime of your
future children.

This what they don't know.

I laugh when people do this. I am not birthing more than 2 kids, max 3. I don't care about gender.

lilwetdick:
but what is maturity of a man according to a woman?

i often hear how this word is thrown anyhow by women, you will hear woman say that man is matured maybe because he dresses in a certain way or does something in a certain way, to a guy that is just being him behaving like that at that moment.

maturity to them is when the mess up and you keep quiet without challenging, sometimes they do something stupid, belittle and expect you not to react. If you react, you are immature.

Queentee214:
Hi everyone,
Am really confused on what to do right now and I need advice.

I and my ex broke up six months ago...I broke up with him cuz we are always having misunderstandings...not just that..he can't control himself when angry , he always end up insulting me and calling me names but apologize when he is calm.

The last one that led to our break up was when we went to his friend's birthday party..on getting there,,i met an old time friend(a guy) and we talked for few mins .i went back inside where the party was holding and I met my bf angry already,,we end up quarreling there and he called me a prostitute in front of everyone(that wasn't the first time he would embarrass me in public)...

I was hurt and left there...i started ignoring him and the relationship wasn't going well anymore...i broke up with him afterwards ..i love him but I can't accept his flaws ..we tried to get back together but end up blaming each other for everything.

Six months later, I'm in a relationship with another guy..he has his flaws too but not bad...
Now the problem is I still love my ex and we still talk and chat almost everyday...

He is the first person I call when I need advice and vice versa..my ex family thinks we are still together and always call to check up on me....this is causing problems in my new relationship....

I decided to cut contact with my ex but he is isn't ready to let me go and neither am i..

Just last week my bf broke up with me and told me to call him when am ready to cut off contact with my ex...

Am really confused and I don't know how to do what he asked me...pls anyone with advice on how to forget someone should help me

I need to forget and move on from my ex
....pls advice... Thanks

Pls no one should come here and start telling me I met a good guy and toying with his feelings..

My ex is also a good guy, he just has his flaws...I just need advice...

Thanks

How old are you?

J2381:
actually I make my money by providing a service to people.

Yimu...

Okay.

oz4real83:
you are right. Unfortunately, APC will never take the step to change it. PDP laid the evil foundation, APC consolidated on the bad foundation. I have always told people that there is nothing APC is doing today that PDP has never done before. They are even taking it to higher level. May God rescue this country from these same group of people masquerading under different political parties.

They have learned their lessons the hard way... Let's just bear this APC regime till they collapse, which is inevitable.

Ijaya123:
PMB and cohorts also asked him impose N65 charge on ATM withdrawals under GEJ government?

65 was under PMB please.

oz4real83:
Politics is too lucrative and people are willing to do anything to get political offices. Treat political positions the same way civil servants are treated, all these do or die politics will disappear. May she find rest.

PDP had the chance to do it but they didn't because they were benefiting. Here we are now.

bizzibodi:
Why #50 stamp duty why not 10kobo stamp duty??

10kobo is useless

Ijaya123:
Emeifele brought back the N65 charge on withdrawal from other banks ATM when GEJ appointed him.

Now he charging N50 on POS transaction.

Where is the Buhari directive in it?

and I am telling you he does nothing without directive from PMB and his cohorts.

sainttwist1:
there is nothing like misplaced priority, we all have different way of thinking.

You don't even know the OP before you make assumptions

The OP is talking about our morals not all the things you list (feeding, rent, fatherhood, transportation etc) according to you age is just a number, it does affect our thinking.....

See there is a girl I ended things with recently. Someone like her can easily trap the OP due to his way of reasoning. I will follow this thread until am I ready to spill the bean on here with my other handle.

She couldn't trap cos I know what's up. The OP is not so exposed in terms of women he is still holding on to biblical ways to judge people.

A young chap served with a girl who is forking homely, she is pretty, not promiscuous but hasn't married yet. She would easily pass as promiscuous based in what the OP stated.

His write-up is too flawed and shallow.

Ijaya123:
That is falsehood and fake news else you provide the directive from Buhari to that effect?

Assuming that to be true, Godwin Emeifele must be daft to comply to it.

supreme court must be daft, DSS must be daft.. The list goes on.

Bros, just chill make the man do him 4 years and go.

Ijaya123:
CBN Governor is a confused and wicked human being. He brought back the N65 charge on withdrawal from other bank’s ATM and now this nonsense N50 on POS.

He ought to be fired.

it's not the CBN. It's a directive from president Buhari and his cohorts.

The way there are charging everything, I began to suspect Tinubu has hand it based on the way he rules Lagos and few months ago, someone nairaland buttress it unknowingly THAT Tinubu has hand in it.

I thanked him for revealing what I have always had in mind and he demanded for a reason but I didn't reply beyond that.

APC came for revenge

nototribalist:
APC government is a cursed to this country. Every good thing must be destroyed, Why?

Now they want to shut down Uber in Abuja . They've shut down Keke in FCT with no alternative for the masses and they're now disturbing Uber drivers too.

When they claim they will create 100m jobs I wonder how

What shocked me is that don't these people have someone that can talk to them?

How I wish there Is world body that can invade country and kick the president out if the president is making lives unbearable for people.

J2381:
still doesn't the change the fact he makes his money from the gullibility of people like you.

how do you make your own money? from the wisdom of people abi?

trilobite:
I used to be like the op. Equating sexual experience to marital happiness, till I spent time with a couple that is not happily married and realized there are more important partner qualities than how many sexual partners your partner had.

Retired oloshos can Bond and love their husbands provided he can teach them to love again. Unhappy marriages are built on pretence, with either man or woman not willing to move on from past hurt.

Oloshos or players who can heal from their psychological scars can make awesome partners in my opinion.

In any case (experienced or inexperienced) the best quality is an ability to love, and a capacity for love. That is what will take you till your later years, when sex is no longer important.
The focus on sex has led and will continue to lead people to their Doom, learn to remove it from your marital equation.

OP, do like me, go on a psychological experiment and spend time with couples not happy in their marriages. The lessons will help your maturity.

I used to be like him too lol. It's why I can almost deduce his age.

sainttwist1:
because life is complicated does not mean we should not talk about some things

We cant base everything we do around money etc.....What about our morals?...….the op is just trying to discuss what is happening in the society that we all refuse to talk about......and we are all entitled to our own opinions....
And you are in a country with more than 170million people

Being entitled to your opinion does not mean you should speak as one with misplaced priorities.

Someone who still has bills to pay such as rent, feeding, taking care of his family (siblings if not yet married) will not have time for what the OP wrote or bother his brain with such.

It is very clear to see he is still under the roof of another.

People are called adults for a reason, which means it none of your business what they choose to do with their life.

The OP and his supporters are shallow.

When I was in school and while on phone with my sister, my elder sister said "I love you" and I respond "I love you too". My roommate heard it and queried me, asking whom I was telling "I love you" and I told him it was my sister, he tried to rebook me and sounded like I was immoral, as in over Righteousness was written all over his disposition that day.

When we finished that phase of life before he could return to further his education, same room mater impregnated a girl, and became a father fare earlier than we expected while me whom he was scolding didn't impregnate a girl within that same period.

Someone like the OP can easily be fooled and his writeup shows he is not exposed.

I asked him how old is he and is he still in school or out, he has not quoted me since then.

That says a lot.

Ibaka Seaport in Akwa Ibom needs the $800M as it is bigger than what delta state can give in them of depth.

sainttwist1:
most of the comments i think are from the age bracket you mentioned....what you are saying in most cases is the truth but according to the popular saying "the truth is bitter".......and try not to be aggressive to your reader, please

I have met a guy on this forum who is 23 and if I mention him here, he will laugh at the OP. Going through the 23 year Olds post on nairaland, you will think he is 45.


Life is more than these things you guys are disturbing your brain with.

We are at time when if care is not taken, you might be homeless in next 72 hours but you are not bothered about that, except for what others chose to make off their own life?

The kind of people I share a country with though.

Fisher007:
The truth hurts. Welcome to the rage mode, you will pass it over time and learn to accept the truth.

It has nothing to do with over population. Dont deviate from the subject matter. Embrace the truth and reality. Simple.

How old are you? Are you still in school or out of school?

Nobody who knows the reality of life will wake up and put that nonsense you have there.

Your reasoning is as small as pea.

Fisher007:
You also have reading.comprehension Mr white Knight in.shinning garment.

I never said all. I said MOST, but it seems your wife's case seems to be confusing you. You married at 30 as a Virgin. Was your wife one too?

Cause if she was not a virgin like you, she saw you as a male provider, after all her own experience with various men. I can purely see she has you under her control with the number one manipulation tool of men ( Toto). You can not just beleive the pure truth.

She took you at the beginning of your prime years all in the name of love and marriage. While her prime years were over. She gave you her emotional trauma's and garbage which you must have been noticing silently at home. But you are here claiming Captain save a hoe.

Well done Sir, your case too might have been an exception indeed

You are just stupid but you don't know it. When you are grown, you will understand the world is beyond marriage.

Dumb forks like you is why the country is so fvked up with overpopulation.

seanfer:
Calm down and read what you wrote. Ask yourself if truly you want to have a president that is part of the mess we find ourselves as a nation. Don’t let your hatred for PMB turn you to unreasonable fellow.

I hope you become a victim of all the ills currently plaguing every thing in this country since your BELOVED PMB took over...

can I hear an Amen from you?

plaindealer:
Are the people in the North not Nigerians or helping now depends on where you live and come from?

See backward, evil, tribalistic and bigoted mentality?

When your own rich men and even governors refused to help dying Christian Chukwu, the same Otedola paid for his foreign medical treatment without asking where he came from or if he was Yoruba, Hausa or Ibo.

Hope and pray that when in need, people don't brush you aside because of your name or the region you call home.

When your own brothers were dying in South Africa, an Igbo man rescued them.

Kennyswagz2:
who will vote for obi? Certainly not northerners

That is your cup of tea. If Nigeria good, e go reach everybody. If Nigeria bad, e go reach everybody. Obi is doing well for himself, with or without being in government, which you who is laughing at him is no where near 1/4 of his networth.

Suck on that.

Basic123:
Your mind work like a slave to PDP simple!

you are not rational voters like the Westerners and northerners!

yes. But when I supported APC in 2015, I was a rational voter kwa?

Instead of APC to look for someone that will bring development in industry and business and also unite the whole region, you are here talking rubbish.

BlackCrainte:
PDP cant be that foolish

But its possible. same foolishness is playing in Bayelsa presently.

Presenting a political nobody for governorship election.

PDP presenting Obi will be their final burial.

Final burial because he is hated for being igbo or because he is incompetent?

There is no way I won't leave this country for you idiots soon.

mamaafrik:
but he is not a man you can say it clean of corruption.
Another Babangida that will do and undo.

So it's Buhari that is clean?

Bellotelli:
Bros must your likes see everything from the regional nd ethnic perspective? People that gives, see beyond all these. Pls be a giver.

I am a giver. But let's be realistic... Even a giver gets tired at a point. Love should be 50-50 and not one sided.

The south Sacrifices a lot on all fronts for this country.

seanfer:
Atiku will be 76 in 2023.

yes but is not a tribal bigot... He is not a man that divides the country with his utterances, he does not play religious and ethnic politics.

But like I said in my thread...
APC should present Osibanjo and PDP should present Obi so that Nigeria will benefit however it turns.

The last two paragraphs made me laugh. On the basis of that calculation, Soludo should be picked by APC otherwise, no other South East son can defeat Obi.

It will shock you on how the South East mind works.

I don't know why I a laughing at the foolishness of the South.

How many of such donation has Northerners give in the South, apart from Dangote? Dangote own sef, na force dem dey force that one.


I know it's all politics sha... Good luck to otedollars.