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obiorathesubtle:
*muster




Uuh. I should have some advice in here somewhere..


*searching for advice**



Well, I've had a long term relationship too.. Lasted 3 years.. 2013-2016, iono what kept me going, we didn't have sex often either.. Sex was never the main thing.. Iono how she managed to throw sex out of my agenda, although I cheated a lot, still loved her like jagga..

I guess all I wanted to do was make her happy, make her part of me, just care for her and never stop, make her a top responsibility..

I had eyes on the future, didn't just see it as a boyfriend and girlfriend ish.. But most importantly, I made sure it was more of a friendship between very very good friends than people who want to satisfy their sexual desires..

She was a friend, we talked about everything, when we had misunderstandings, we don't spend even a minute more before telling each other what the other person did to annoy, we apologise and make it up one way or another..

I surprise her sometimes, I did homework on how to be romantic, not the best sex positions..


When you see a relationship as an opportunity to have someone who truly cares for you.. To integrate someone's physiology into yours.. That might keep you going..

It didn't feel like 3 years to me.. I always wanted to go on tho.. I was surprised she had gotten me birthday gifts on 3 occasions.. We did everything together.. Bathe, eat, sleep, read, even pray .. We bonded beyond imagination..


Still beats me till today why we broke up


Anyway.. My advice is, don't love(because it isn't love) for sex(it's usually very short for you because you're attracted to the ass and boobs-Men's instincts).. But Love because you want to make a difference, because you want an extension of yourself or you want to spend the best moments(not necessarily sexual) with that person..


Iono.. Did I spit right?? Shiit aint coming..

Had the same experience, mine was for 5years, she is married now but calls every now and then to tell me whats up... and even if I don't call she would assume am avoiding her (despite she is married). But it was the best romance I ever had

Hope still dey for we na

sugarwiz:
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But nawa for d man oooo....same goes for does fyn fyn guys nowadays. Ladies are usually disappointed. Umh if I start to tok....

Babe no talk, you neva sample some fyn guys(like urs trully)

Take the list to the market(after making a copy without the price) and confirm the unit prices of each item.

[quote author=VampireeM post=47293526][size=11pt][font=georgia][i]I dont judge atheists cause I believe he/she must ve a reason for being one.


I cant marry an atheist cause I believe in God and its important to me I marry someone who doesnt just believe in the existence of God but also God fearing because thats the foundation I want my family to be built on and also we get to encourage each other in our faith esp during travails.

I can smell intelligence on this one.
Follow, may I?

Miriam20:
She was the last passenger to drop from the bus, if I read it correctly

Rip baby, as for the mother my only advice........enter bus with your change next time.

Where or what were the passengers doing when all of this was happening?

dovezeeta:
Hebrew 7:8 ,this verse wld convince u to continue paying your tithes to God n not being worry abt mortal men...

Please read through to 7:13 and understand

craziebone:
so you would like to take the F-16 if you were offered? Don't you think the Sukhois would be better?

It depends on the sukhois , if its su-35 I am ok with it(bad a...ss fighter). but F-16 has got my heart.

when I saw d topic I was excited, thinking we would be getting the F-16. I clicked and saw a private trainer. In this time and age we are still opting for such

d33types:
hotknot file transfer is actually done by wifi hence it's not much different or faster than xender

With what do u think xender uses, mobile network? It would even create /serve as/a hotspot for the receiving phone.

Thank you, but prefer xender

This one don chop well na, see him neck.

Tyra02:
Mine was discarding my ex on the believe SHE was a sex freak, but now my current sees sex as a work something you only do when u're ready now I'm kinda missing my honey-pot ex-girlfriend. Tired sharing this info i read online abt hw benefical sex is to human beings http://www.naijxclusive.com/benefits-of-sx-and-its-importance-you-didnt-know-about/

Guy see how you show yourself your monicker dey read female yet you dey claim bros activities. See ya life

darlenese:
Adam is the head of the house but he couldn't take charge as the man of the house , instead he fell for Eve because of her woman power !
Why didn't Adam, collect the Apple from Eve and throw it in the trash, , God was even angry with him for not keeping his eyes on the woman he gave to him.

Come to think of it! Where was Adam when Satan was busy receiving Eve?
Eve was meant to be a companion to Adam so he shouldn't have left her alone cos she was a weaker vessel !
Remember God himself made adam, but Eve is just a rib from Adam.

So u see why Adam has a bigger portion of the blame

Good point madam, but you forgot that they were both cautioned not to eat of it , but she just had to do it , why na? Besides that, as her eye don tear before Adam own , na with disdain she go call am say "wa je apple ki oju e la"

5minsmadness:
Protect my children from the one who is supposed to protect me? Lol!
If I don't have the love of such a man then there is no need to marry. The man I will marry will love me for who I am and not for my breast.
The problem with us women is that we marry men for what they have, not what they are. I'm not saying ladies should marry beggars but at the end of the day it is the qualities of a man you marry and not his possessions.

Babe you deserve a warm hug. You earned my respect.

If this phone's specs is good I foresee an emerging competition for other popular brands, oya baba Buhari make dollar drop to #1 make I buy am for that babe way day worry me for phone.

Am offering 240k, reside in KD. I called but you didn't pick up

Topics such as this needs to be gracing front page. Amakoro if u have that of Tangale from Gombe please post.

raayah:
Always test drive before buying!

I think your husband has to see a doctor first because there is nothing you can do here. Pre mature ejaculation is the worst because, even a little amount of foreplayy can cause leakage.

If he does not want to take drugs or see a doctor. Then start training him using Start and stop method.

If you are on top , do like 5 rides/strokes and stop. He rests for a few seconds and you continue.
If na oral same thing/, stop every 30 seconds and start again.
It's not the best but he lasts longer.

But the best option is that he visits a doctor.

Professional!!!
I day feel u die

Truckpusher:
How do I recover deleted text messages from a Samsung Galaxy s5? Quick solution needed please

Try Recuva, install on ur pc and connect ur phone via usb, neva tried it but giv it a shot.

I had d same issue with my phone, n fixed the problem, when browsing if u see a gift box pop up on ur screen ignore it, cos dats where my(our) problem started from.

Ubty:
Pls I have this tecno G9 pad that is misbehaving... Problems: WiFi and data comes up on their own, always shows stuffs like 'measure has stopped working, this and that has stopped working',.. All these messages hinders me from doing anything on the screen for good 1 minute. I tried returning the pad to factory settings but that did not work as all my apps were still intact (don't know if I did it well though). So guys I need help. Thanks

Your phone has been infected by a virus that controls ur update.
Download avast antivirus and file explorer, root ur phone wit kingroot. From d avast firewall block dis apps listed- com.android. system. UI, caststudio, coreservice, engriks, measure, mobileocr, monkeytest, proc, settings helper, system update, TGoverseaSDK, Timeservice, HTMLviewer.
From ur explorer delete all files related to download helper or files that holds downloads d virus does.
Go to ur settings -securities and uncheck install from unknown source.
try it u might be ok but d adverts will come but not as often as day used to.

Guilty as charged.

Interesting so them mean say I fit nack someone 5miles away

Did I hear green pill, that's definitely rohypnol. Had some from a lady I met at a club, she just walked up to me and offered . The bottles I take reach to knock out a rhino, the babe wan worsen my matter, I pocket the drugs.

babasade:
lolz..so #500..what if I want to marry them in dozens or half dozen..500*12 =6000..agben please help me look for 24 girls from your local government..I am ready

I pity you, by the time you pay 350k to the brides mother for food, thats when you will know that one wife no be beans

Aleast his beliefs are not skewed

obitee69:
Your idea of responsibility is financial. Anyone can decide to be responsible but can u back it up financially? E.g rent hall for wedding, house rent for a 3 bed, marriage rites, having a kid etc. Can you do all that if you earn only 3million per annum?

bros you day earn 250k/month n you are complaining, anyway if the cost of living is high in the state you work then I understand your plight.

MissNairaland1:
Talking about love, i never heard of one meeting his/her partner on Nairaland...............................But i have this strong feeling i will meet mine someday...somewhere.....somehow

I dey here you still dey search,