Cutehector:
doin great sha. Just makin sure I'm very safe onto ongoin elections. How ur day goin tho?

So how did the election go in your area? Did you go out to vote and who did you vote?

Am doing great thanks.

1freshdude:
When i fail in a venture or lose big money in a business deal, my sex drive goes solo.

That a big point you have there. Because you will lack concentration on the real show. Nice one.

KanwuliaJara:


You wan me to use my money to purchase WORWORITY?
Tufiakwa ooooooooh!

Kaiiii!!! My rips are cracking, na person wey God create you dey describe like that as in " worwority" People dey shaaa oh!!!

Kai please take care.

zeb04:
Adoption isn't a bad idea.
It is a way of helping humanity also I don't believe in superstition although sceientifically,I know many things are inscripted into a child dna through birth but I firmly believe,Nuture trumps Nature.

Will I adopt ....Yes

I also will adopt when the time comes, if not for anything, just to put smile on someone's face. Thanks dear. Great week ahead for you.

EnlightenedSoul:
"adopted kids always bring shame, disgrace and pains to the home go into because they have bad blood running in them"

The man who said that had complete control over the fact that he had [a] fortunate/responsible parent(s), I'm sure.

Well, you can say that was his opinion.

How are you doing today?

Raymie:
Let's not be too harsh on the OP. She's expressing her fears in the light of the circumstance befalling her at the moment. @OP, a bad child is a bad child, adopted or not. So do not (and advise yhur family not to as well) look at the other two boys with too much circumspect, else they may become detached. Its haunting for them as they are already. I'm an advocate for adoption cause IMHO 1adopted child = 1 chance of better living= 1 less burden/menace to society.

Thanks alot e-friend. I will talk to them (my people) later because we are going through a hard time now. thanks dearie.

Nice day for you.

Ewuro4:


OP almost drove me into tears reading those harsh words... Ignorance is an incorrigible mental disability. So not worth fighting over..
It is well.

But you will agree with me that no matter how educated one is, there are situations one finds oneself and you really act in a way, this has nothing to do with been educated, it is a practical fact. so you better put those tears in their place please. Good morning and a nice week ahead.

KanwuliaJara:
Only if it a very UGLY one!

Lol!!! you are not serious. so if it is ugly, you won't adopt it? what if it's fine but gives you hell of problems, what will you do?

You are funny Allah. Good morning.

Daresh:


Look raising kids is a giant gamble. Its God who raises them and we pray everyday that our kids, biological or adopted turn out right. I have 2 biological kids and I pray one day to adopt another one and bring hope into someone else's life. And I'm good thank you. You?

That sounds sweet to hear. i think i should have a better view to adopted kids and who knows i may also pick up one to make impact in someone's life.

Good morning.

dont8:
I so much love this your comment, I've never for one day regretted e-knowing you, all a kid needs sometime is love which is usually absent in their life. Show a child love and see him/her blossom.

Btw, how have you been?

@OP, it's unfortunate your aunt has to pass through all this tragic events, God will console her but I must add, nothing is wrong with adoption, cheers.

Thanks dear, kids whether adopted or biological needs love.

Hope you doing great?

Daresh:


You sound uneducated. Dont our own kids drive us crazy? You must think you are special because you know your parents so you think there is something wrong with adopted kids. Do they have two heads?

Steve Jobs was adopted, Bill Clinton was adopted you were not what special thing have you done?

You have a point and i also know that Bill was adopted too but in cases like this one maybe pushed to have negative thoughts about the whole thing. Hope you are good?

cococandy:
Adoption is a good thing. It helps provide homes for homeless kids.
Any child can misbehave

You are right too dear, i know that, but in cases like, you will be forced to think other wise. thanks dear. how are you doing?

crackhaus:
A child running away has nothing to do with him/her being adopted, some biological children run away too.

Thanks dear, i agree with you that there are biological kids who run away from home too or even do worse things than that. It's just so unfortunate that it ended like this. Thanks dear.



Nice day for you dear.

Cutehector:
a hairy genitals. Not bathing after bein stressed unda a hot day. D d hair traps d sweat and kinda produces an offensiv smell. So its bera to bath if dr is much sweat or bera still, shave d hairs in d genitals off. If u can't shave it, u can ask ur boyfrnd to help u

Kk, i got that too. you are right. How are you doing today?

I got a call from my mum this morning informing of the death of my aunt's adopted son who ran out of the house for one month now.

Many years back, before i was, my aunt's had two biological kids, a boy and a girl. Unfortunately the boy died in his school leaving behind his sisters. That incident affected my aunt that she could no longer bear children which made her resolved to adoption. On the count, they has adopted 3kids all boys.

When they made the first move, family members objected saying no one knows what blood runs in them and all that so the child doesn't grow up and starts giving you headache. The second and the last had been good boys, exception of the fist that has been trouble in one way or the other.

A month ago, the first of 22years of age ran out of the house to an unknown destination, reports has been placed in different police stations and the motherless home where he was adopted just for a team of police investigator to call in two days ago from one of the southern states, saying they found his corpse somewhere there.

The whole thing has badly affected my aunt that she is loosing her mind to a point of insanity.

While lots of people are sympathizing with us, other are in a way blaming us for adopting a children from an orphanage home. A man even said it clearly that "adopted kids always bring shame, disgrace and pains to the home go into because they have bad blood running in them"

Even though i have not had any encounter with anybody adopted because most times they don't know they were adopted, but my experience with one of my adopted cousins is forcing me to believe what that man said.

Secondly, even though the other two are younger now, we fear when they start growing older, they might just cause us another pain... but
God forbid. My hearts is really heavy... What do you think about adopted kids or individuals

Blackett:

Unshaved what? "Bears?" Grizzly Bear or polar Bear?

I mean pubic hairs. As the hairs around the p*n*s or the V*igin*

rokiatu:
so many people on this forum may hunt me down and possibly beat me up. Too many E enemies on here. Can't give out my location.

Kk. get that, i can understand why. One rather gets more careful you know.

Just enjoy yourself, don't let anyone steal your joy or stop you from being you and always know you can the best you want to be.

rokiatu:
hahahhaha you are so funny girl.

My dear, Hmm!!! If you ask me, na who go ask? I no fit shout abeg.

Where do you base? Lagos?

rokiatu:
lol I have seen a bend pen.i .s before. But the one I saw was not so bad. It was actually enjoyable.

Laughing out loud!!! I like you like craz, you are so so realistic. The one i saw, my dear i no fit shout. it was so so so bad. The thing too curve to the right and it was scarey too, that my urge just vanished. i quickly excused myself, na waka be that oh. We saw later shaa but fear no gree me talk wetin my eyes see or ask am wetin him carry.

Treasuredlove:
I am fine dear, just stocking my house with lots of food..lol. And u?

My dear that's a nice one because there might not be any place to get things on that day. Am still at work, hope to get some stuffs later and am doing great.

We pray for a hitch free election. Amen.

rokiatu:
1 bad odour of any sort.

2 1 minute two minutes and three minutes men. They be Cumming, when you just start getting wet.

3 lack of forep.lay. some people don't even know how to romance.

4 selfish lovers. They cum and they are done.

5 been too cold aka not been vocal enough, not been passionate enough. Not been nasty and active enough.

6 a sexual partner that have no clue what they are doing. Omg this is such a mood killer. Some guys be even missing the pu..ssy hole.


7 bad kissers.


8 farting.that shi..t can get awkward.


9 when you are about to cum and the damn penis. .s goes down... nooooooo!!!!!! Pleaseee nooo!!! Actualy that is what i said once,I was begging the peni..s "please noooo dont do this to me pleaseee" This is number one actually it hurts so bad. Instant mood killer.


10 boring partners.

* For me, Unshaved bears around the private part.

* A bents dick. have you ever seen a bent dick before? Trust me, i have. The moment i saw the look, my mood disappear. I start to purge immediately. Oboy! na so my grove end oh

Cutehector:
Havn a smellin genitals!

Yeah! just got you point now. That can be so killing for me eh! But what causes it seff? i know genital infection does, but what else causes it?

Cutehector:
Havn a smellin genitals!

Good day dear. i don't get your point. Can you please throw more light. Thanks.

Nice day ahead.

Have you experienced or heard someone say he or she is gradually loosing interest in S*x? Some marriages experience this lots of the time for one reason or the other. I have been privileged to handle some cases in some marriages and trust me this is one of the issues they have and can be attributed to a number of reasons which when worked on, can be curtailed and improved.

S*x is a sweet experience and should be enjoyed to the fullest when you want to venture into it.

Join me as we learn certain things that can kill our drives or urge for it.

Sex-Drive Killers.

Stress: The body does not react well to stress. Emotional, mental, physical and other stress may affect the physical function of the body, including sexual desire and performance. Realizing what underlying stressors may exist is the first step in treatment. Self-help may work but some people may need to visit a counselor or doctor.

Partners Closeness: Sexual desire requires two to tango, it must be mutual. Both partners need to feel connected and women especially need the feeling of being close. Poor communications, a sense of betrayal, lack of trust, and repeated fighting and criticism may create a relationship that lacks closeness and intimacy. Counseling may be the answer if couples find that the issues are too tough to resolve on their own.
Making love is more than just sex. Intimacy and closeness are important part of a health love life. If sexual desire is waning, it may be time to inject romance back in the relationship. Snuggling, giving each other massages and spending casual time together may help ignite that spark.

Alcohol: Alcohol is usually not the answer to any problem. While alcohol may decrease inhibitions, it also decreases sexual performance and libido. While some people believe that one performs better sexually when they are drunk, your partner may not appreciate a drunken advance and may be turned off by it, Maybe the smell or something. Alcohol is an addictive drug and you may need help to quit.

Too Little Sleep: It's been proven that people who sleep more, are better on bed. As with any physical activity, a rested body increases performance. Lack of sleep, including lack of proper sleep, may be the culprit that decreases sex drive. Sleep apnea is a potential cause for lack of good sleep and lack of libido. Medical help may be needed if you or your partner suspect it.

Having Kids: Being a parent is a full-time job and you need carve out time without a child or baby around. Planning quiet time for intimacy and sexual desire may require some creative thinking, like having sex when the baby naps, or hiring a babysitter so mom and dad can have a play date. Children are gifts by God, blessing and source of joy and happiness to homes but their presence should be managed so they don't kill your s*xual life.

Medication: Side effects of many prescription medications include loss of libido and sex drive. Some examples include:

High blood pressure medications including water pills and beta blockers
Cold medications that contain antihistamines and decongestants
Antidepressants
Birth control pills
Narcotic pain pills
Chemotherapy drugs

If this is the cause, your doctor may be able to suggest a medication alternative that might have fewer side effects.

Poor Body Image: Sexy is as sexy feels. Many people have low self-esteem when it comes to their body shape and this can affect their sex drive and desire. Being happy with yourself is an important first step. A supportive partner always helps. If you are not happy with yourself, i bet you won't be happy with anyone who comes around for it.

Obesity: Obesity affects one-third of our countries population and being overweight can limit desire because of decreased sexual enjoyment, lack of performance, and poor self-esteem. How you feel about yourself goes a long way in affecting how you enjoy s*x. Counseling may be helpful. That does not mean big people are good when it comes to that... Trust me some fat people are machines.

Erection Problems: Erectile dysfunction (ED) can not only affect the ability to have intercourse but also how a man feels about his ability to perform. There are many options available to treat ED and your doctor can help find the option that is best for you and your partner.


Depression: Depression affects all facets of life including s*x drive. Losing pleasure in daily activities often requires treatment including counseling and perhaps medication. Unfortunately, some antidepressants also depress libido. Your doctor and therapist need to know if low sex drive is one of your symptoms of depression.

Menopause: Menopause may cause physical changes that affect intercourse, including vaginal dryness and pain with intercourse (dyspareunia). Treatments are available to enhance s*xual desire and function after menopause.

Abuse: Abuse at any time in one's life that another party abuses you, it daters you from healthy se*xual activeness. Research has it that 80% of people abused and up being so so scared of s*x.

The list goes on, as these are not the only s*x drive killers that exist. You can add to this list as well.
Good day people.

Treasuredlove:
lol...it is not co habitation anymore sir.They are already married

You are right dear, is not cohabiting.They are married, traditionally and legally.

How are you doing and preparing for the election?

joseph1832:
I know the age of all my friends moms, that is the friends am closest to.

I make it my personal business to wish them happy birthday.

Wow that is great and interesting you know?

I love it when i am on N L because i learn everyday. Thanks for teaching me that today.

You know, for me, i don't bother asking, i only wish them happy birthdays when i hear them talk about it. I always feel i should not intrude but i have learnt now, thanks dear. I only pay attention to birthdays of my immediate family members and that of some close friends but not their parents

I promise to ask for his mum's age, and will get you posted. Nice day ahead.

I no fit shout.

Companies making and selling those products that tunes and whitens will stay in business but people patronizing them i think are suffering from low self esteem.

If a slightly fair person buys such product to brighten her complexion, it will be understandable. But when a totally dark person does that my dear, i no fit shout.

joseph1832:
How can I be funny? And what did I do/say that made you say that?.

It's not as though I couldn't have asked but seriously to me it sounds funny. Will you ask for his mother's age if you were me?

The truth is that I did not ask. Or maybe it did not occur to me.

joseph1832:
Thanks. Please kindly tell, just how old is the guys mom?.

Hahaha! I don't know how old she is because I did not ask.

But you can be funny you know!

pbs4real:
wish u same hun.u stay in lag?

No Abuja.

ferdimako:

A person without a job is worried another does not work. Only Nigerian girls do that.

But you will agree with me that every woman whether nigerian or not needs the security and protection of her husband, Even though true protection comes from God.

Please stay good.

shaizegotswag:
Please op how can I contact you for personal issues? Thanks

Follow me here on NL, then i will get back to you.

Happy weekend.