₦airaland Forum

elantraceey:
it solely depends on the reasons he gives .

kk.

laplace12:
There have been lots of marriages approved by parents that failed. Lots of them.

How come nobody is talking about them?

Parents approve or disapprove marriages from their own taste, not minding the taste of the child.

That's how my mum wanted my elder bro to marry one ugly chick just because she is good terms with her mum

You are so so right, There are lots of marriages with the consent of our parents that ends up as disgrace too.

Ewuro4:
People , especially cognitive adults should try and be accountable for their mistakes in life. then the world will be balanced. To err is human, pick yourself up and move on if you can't fix it.
Imagine a grown man blaming his dad for ruining his 11 years marriage? Taah

@question, he always had good very reasons so I listened to his counsels. True, love is blind but using one's brain is more profitable in a long run. ( Marriage is a long term commitment).
Parents are more experienced IMHO.

My dear, so it means he should not blame his dad for his marriage failure abi?

Good evening great N Landers. Am sure day is coming on well... Happy post Electing.


Divorced 11Years After Marriage and He Blames His Dad.

11Years ago, he took his bride to be home to introduce her to his parents, his dad said he should not be in a rush, he should hold on so they can pray about it.

Weeks later, his father told him not to marry her, that people from her side of the country don't last long in marriages... they stay with you for a while, after which they leave you back to their father's house, not minding if they have kids with you or not.

Name of the girls place withheld, though from the southern part of Nigeria but the guy is from the eastern part of Nigeria.

Inquiring to know if it was God who spoke, his father made emphatically clear that it's not God but his instincts.

He went head to marry her against his father's wish. 10years after, with 3kids, the marriage crashed and he blames his dad for breaking his marriage... Saying if the dad had not said or pronounced that ultrance, that his marriage wouldn't have gone down the drain.

Was it his dad that actually broke his marriage with the words of his mouth?m Or

Was it his inability to handle his marriage issues that got it crashing?

Or other issues?

What i want to know is "When our Parents speak against our marriage intentions, are they actually right or wrong?

fOFT:
Thanks Dearie.
I learn everyday. You just impacted now.

Thanks dearie, we all learn everyday but so unfortunate, some people maybe don't learn or don't put into practice what they learn.

How are you doing today?

Cutehector:
lol I'd remain cool. I guess I need to gv myself a treat. A boat trip in lag here won't be a bad idea. Would it?

My dear not bad at all. Over gel dey worry that idea. My dear you really have to give yourself that treat abeg, cos it's worth it. Ahh, this life is one, how you treat yourself in this one life journey counts.

For me, i will be going swimming on Sunday.

Cutehector:
am pretty cool. No public holiday for me.

Ehya!!! Kpelle, me too no hol for me. Just stay and remian cool. Thanks

Cutehector:
lol dear, yu hav seen who God has raised for his people .

My dear i no fit shout oh! Let's see what the elect will do for their people. Me for one, i am not after GEJ or GMB all i am after is the well being of the electorate... there should be good jobs, employment, health facilities, social amenities and others. So as GMB don enter so, all i want to see is change.

How are you dear?

Mekzmoney:
Good question my frnd... Dats wat I wntd asking.

In fact, a bottle of alomo 4u.

That was what you wanted to ask... Why? And she does not need any alomo because her comment no make sense and it's indicting and judgy

Don't you have your own? Is it because you have not shared yours?

My dear, if you see things wey dey happen around our society eh! you or anybody won't talk the op down for a mistake she has admitted and decided to share. Because nobody holy pass.

And besides, infected him (the boss) could be with a curable infection and not AIDS because she said she is having "itchy discharge". All she needs is a test and adequate treatment.

jbl007:
i tire ooo...

You tire for wetin? Are you God to judge her? I wonder why some people feel they are holier than others? Does her comment make any sense to you?

You dey tire, you know how many she dey do wey she dey hide? Lets stop being hpocritical and judgy on sites like this; it's not fair.

The op made her mistake, admitted it and shared it here, no one, i mean no one has the right to talk her down. Haven't you done things you are not proud of at some point in your life? So why you dey tire oh?

lampardizik:
This one's judgy.

My dear, her comment is indeed judgy. I mean do you know how many things she has done and can't even share with a close friend not to talk of bringing it here to share with NLanders. But yet she can judge another person. If you check, her own full bucket.

AUSVINS:
For this your question,one Big bottle of Origin fir you.

My dear she does not need any Orijin for God sake. Why should people throw stones at people who have admitted their faults and step up here to share them. Is she holier than the op?

Do you know how many thing she has done and can't even share with a close friend? But she is here indicting the op. I mean i hate all these holier than thou people. Every sin is a sin, whether big or small, whether with a boss or a staff and it is only God that forgives all. So nobody should talk anybody down.

chillian:
you really are funny your comment got me laughing

My dear her question got you laughing, but it triggered anger in me because i hate all these holier than thou kind of people.

Do you know the one she is doing or have done and can't even tell a close friend? Girls can be hypocritical and pretentious you know!

Because someone has done hers, admitted her fault and shared it, she wants to stone her to death. seriously, it's annoying.

Her comment no funny at all, it's indicting.

fOFT:
Very blunt reponse. Chai!!! I salute you

You dey salute her for wetin? Why you dey salute her? you dey salute her sey she dey throw stones on someone wey admit her fault, come share ram for here? Abi sey na she holy pass? Which one?

Do you know the ones she has done and can't even say it to her close friend? Don't forget girls pretend alot and are hypocrates.

Do you know countless number of things other girls do and hide them? why do people always throw stones at people unneccessarly? Odaa Oh!!!

AyamDazey:
you don see am naah!Foolish gal#

Foolish girl wetin? Na because sey she carry her own come out to share? what of the people wey dey do, but dey hide am, are they better than her?

I sure sey you seff go get your own wey you dey hide. It may not be with your boss... who knows maybe with your neighbor or even pastor.

rubey:
Is that how you have been sleeping with everyone "by mistake"

Sometimes, i wonder how certain people reason. Is it fair to say a thing like that to her? It's a question you asked, but it's so annoying.

Do you you know other kinds of things people do that they keep secret? Because you heard of her story, you want to stone her to death with your question... Odaa Oh!!

How sure i am that you are even better than her... Na your type dey turn out to be pregnant virgins.

Please oh, no hard feelings, so Thinking out loud.

My dear how we go do am na? Make we dey use game dey console our tension. As jega sey he no wan call the result now.
Good evening. When i start to play i go tell una, mean while i still dey watch Jega and him people.

wtfCode:
i don't fvck dirty and careless gals...that chic looked clean and sexy,buh when i entered her canoe, tha whole room changed

Allah, you and rukaiyat no get hand work. so funny.

Please oh!!!!!! stop fu****ing with dirty gals. But i understand you shhaaa and i know that feeling... The smell go so kill your moral ehhhh. Kpelle!

When the results was not announced yesterday, my dear na this game keep me together oh.

I have been able to get to level 7. At level 6, i remembered i ran with Scarlet Fox. At level seven i was asked to run with Maria Selva, which i unlocked with about 100,000 coins. it's been so interesting and challenging too.

One interesting thing about the whole game is that at every level, you are exposed to one challenge or the other whether daily or weekly.

Hello people, i sure you are doing great.

Lets take our mind a little bit off election wahala... Trust me almost everyone is tensed and kept in suspense by the Electoral Commission. For me, it was difficult for me to sleep especially when the final result was not announced yesterday, lots of thoughts running through my mind. If i share some, it won't be far fetched from others too. But don't worry, God dey and nothing dey happen.

So lets catch some fun. Here we are talking about the game Temple Run. If you don't know about the games, it's no crime, you can learn. If you Know the game tell us your experience, your difficulty, your level and other helpful tips that may help other people in playing the game. successfully.

dearpreye:
I cant say ooooo

Tor!!! i was only thinking aloud so i decided to ask. But be it as it may, just stay positive and God will see us through. Good morning

doninno:
Guy leave story 4 tortise, I respect men of God oh those day deligently seek d face of God, b4 u csn remove sometin frm someone's eyes clear d one in ur own eyes b4 so u can see clear. He always give prophecy so as a prophet he clame to b he should av gotten a sign frm God joor

Tor! i comment my reserve... not reserving my comment. Good morning.

Cutehector:
well u knw lagos, and dr rioting. I just had to stay indoors. Am just watchin d election results tho. Wah abt u?

It's well oh! I believe god will see us through. I was indoors myself because i no fit run or shout. Also watching the result, hoping to see who God will raise for His people. But seriously i am tensed.

EnlightenedSoul:
A very stu.pid & unnecessary opinion that he could've, and should've kept to himself after having thanked his lucky stars.

Very well, thank you You?

Well that is also your own opinion. Good morning.

Ewuro4:
I don't agree with you. My comment was a reaction to what your relative said about adoption. So yes , it's sheer ignorance. Ciao.

Thanks then but it's totally your opinion. Good morning.

[quote author=dearpreye post=32164803]The matter is complex. I don't really know why men cheat. I don't!


Till date, I couldn't tell what caused. Overconfidence? I don't know. It's that complex.
To make matters worse, we didn't ever get that friendship beyond that point. I just got what I wanted- a quick taste at her. That was all. No emotional connection. No feelings. No attachment. Just PURE LUST! Just SEX. Even the lady in question knew it wont go beyond that.



That event showed me my weakness, and my inability to always believe in my natural strength when Delilahs come calling. Till date, I haven't towed that path again. The guilt that followed was far weightier than the momentary burst of pleasure I enjoyed.


I really salute your courage of sharing your story with us, considering the fact that some NLanders actually weigh what comes out of their minds before they put into writing and I respect you for that.


But can I ask you a question? And please be as frank as you were in your story.

What if this girl you flirted with has some demonic powers that she actually through that act stole or deposited something from you or in you spiritually? Which you can't tell physically.

She may know what she did or took from you. Just like you felt you have gotten what you wanted, what if she got what she wanted spiritually, what will you do?
You will agree with me that lots of demonic transfers happens during sexual Intercourse.

stardragon:
kai!!!!


bad bad ppl full dis thread. tear race commot b4 dem spoil me!!

No be lie jor, bad pple full here like you. If you no bad, how you take understand the msg for the text. And talking about spoiling, abeg please, don't spoil me oh! If not i will tell my mummy for you oh!

True you funny shaa!!! How are you? Hope the election was cool in your area?

voltron:
Please please please let it be TINUBU. He is always comparing himself to Awolowo the Great. please let it be TINUBU

Ah! Ah!! You get hot temper shaa!!! Make Tinubu catch you, body go tell you.

doninno:
You did not see wen your building was about to collapse abi ? Na pple own u fit see hisssssssss

NO na!!! don't sound that way na, it will be unfair. Only God knows all things and He said in His word that "the things He reveals to us, are for us to know, But the ones He did not reveal to us, is for Him alone. As per that collapsed building, i think God knows best. But you funny shaa!

[Even if any death will occur, it will be from the dark house of PDP as a result of all the innocent souls they claimed in the N and NE.

Sai Baba.[/quote]@Prophetess UrennaNkoli, abeg where you dey see your own vision of PDP house. you are funny walahi!!! People dey shaa!

Na APC never share blood before? If baba tell you how many him don kill alone, you fit faint.

But whether or whethern't, if he is what Nigerians need at the moment, Sai baba kenan!

Happy post election.

LoisSanamo:
Mine will be Lilac,Cobalt Blue and Yellow.

Nice colours

joseph1832:
Thanks. Please kindly tell, just how old is the guys mom?.

Ok Mr J. I had enquire about the age of the guy's mum like i promised, and she is in her late 50s.

She is 59 now will be 60 by 2nd week of January.

@Joseph1832, i hope i have fulfilled my promise man?

How was the election in your area and did you vote?