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nkkystel:
Mine was Burgundu & Cream.

Whhhhhhhat!!! That's serious! Which one is burgundu again? Ahh na me look for trouble open this thread. I dey hear colours name eh. No be small. Please can you share me a pic of it? Maybe your deco. Thanks dear. Happy weekend.

prettyJoy22:
What if I chose a color now & my oga @ the top chooses another one? anyway orange and white is perfect!

Ahh my dear i no fit shout oh! Oga's own counts oh!

Your picks are great too.

Happy weekend.

masqot:
Those days full of risky fun, when words like 'caution, modesty, seriousness' were missing in the dictionary.

You can't conclude all those were missing, it depends on the page you are in. Besides, all work, caution, modesty, seriousness and no play makes one a zombie.

At the day's end and all, na God dey help all of us.

AtheistD:
Or she has other reasons for considering the proposal. If he was an okada rider would she still be confused?

If his mother dies and he inherits everything she will be married to a man of financial standing.

That statement above I why she has not yet rejected him.

Kk. You made a point.

Happy weekend.

chidyhels:
If shes over menopause. .yes
No responsibility from raising children

she is not. enjoy your evening.

EggovinMma:
But you said she doesn't love him? What's the essence of this thread?

she wants to hear people's opinion over her case and for other people to learn

StealthIdeals:
Take it or leave it, he wil get marid someday.

Abi oh!! But not to my client.
happy weekend.

MzJackBaueress:
I think the problem here is not about him still living with his mom. The problem is that he is lazy and jobless depending on his mum for his financial needs. If he had a well paid job,I don't think he will still be living with his mother. He would have been on his own.

@Op,she should just move on with her life. The mummy's pet is an unserious fellow. Marrying that type of man,she will not enjoy the marriage despite marrying a man with a rich mother.

Thanks alot dear, i am gratful.

salsera:
She came to you for counselling?
Then you came to us
I suppose the other thread you posted was a counselling session too

Pray tell what type of counsellor are you

You have a point. As a counsellor you are expected to keep your client's case confidential. But sometimes, at the consent of the person involved i can share with other people so lots of people out there can know what is actually happening outside their comfort zones.

If the person says no, you have no right what so ever to do that or you can be sued.

I also run a talk show forum, sometimes debates or interviews and some client demand i air their case out to the public for people's opinion... i can't say no if that is what they want.

for the other thread, it's not a councelling issue. That was more of a family issue. (A friend's sister) we are like family and the consented too before i did.
Hope you are good?
I will also advice, when you go through threads, don't just do to make comments, read them to learn. it will build you positively. Trust me, it has helped me. Sometimes i read and won't comment, trying to pick points and ask myself self-building questions.
I wish you the very best this weekend and always. Happy election in advance.

Richy4:
Some people will just see fire, and they just decide to put their hands on it.

The lady in question knows that she cannot tolerate lazy man, because they are not compatible yet she wants to go into a relationship like that.

Tomorrow she will start nagging day in day out With hope to change him. The freaking thing is that she will be acting as if she did not know what awaits her during the long marriage.

Tell her to let the guy be if she knew she cannot cope with a lazy man. But it she can tolerate him, that is fine.

My dear i tire oh! Her pro blem is that her guy is not ready now, other suitors are not coming. so she is scared that they may not come again and she could get late.

I have been able to discourage her from such thought. because God is never too late in his time.

AtheistD:
If she doesn't love him then everything else is irrelevant.

Thanks dear. If see doesn't love him, it could also lead to infidelity in marriage. But the guy no just wan gree.

Amuga:
Op tell her to marry him because Holy spirit ministered to him. Oniranu

You are not serious, are you?

Holy Spirit ke, that will end in total disgrace and tragedy.

Let that holy spirit minister to her too. Abi how you see am?

Good afternoon dear.

smileysmiles:
At 36 ,
1. lives off mom
2. No job
3. No ambition
4. She doesnt love him
5. Has no sense of responsibility

What advise does the lady need
1.Whats the basis of the relationship?
2. Why is she even considering the guy?
3. What are his good sides /positive attributes

He said he is waiting for Indegine slot of his state to work, after service, he stayed in the house for 3good years till late last year he got a job with ministry of education as a teacher.

For the ambition, he always says, he will be a very wealthy man, that if his dad wins the case with the gov't over land that he will be swiming in money.

XtraSmooth404:
@op, how old is your friend? Is she working?

She is 26 and just finished with youth service. Hopeing to get something doing.

lagmostkuit:
Why did she change her mind so quick? Abi na film una dey act?


Mtchewwwwww

My dear you no go understand. I don't know why she changed her mind but the truth is that she had no option but to change it if not body for tell her.

How are dear? happy weekend and happy election in advance.

Good morning.

yuzjet:
Lol. It's a simple combination nah.

Yeah it is!

masqot:
troublesome beings dey for secondary school o. Life!

Bross you tire for my matter abi? you go fear fear nah.

But trust me, it was real fun, infact i dey always pitty quiet students that time.

EfemenaXY:
Are you Is she pregnant for him? Is that what this is all about?

Oh no, she is not. The guy just dey pest her up and down, she came to me for counselling, i gave gave some advice but want to hear people's view on it.

She doesn't even love him, talk more of allowing him access to her body, or worse still get pregnant for him. Good morning.

Ikology:
T




Definitely, red, royal blue and white

Hmmm!!! That's nice, just like mine.

Adyrin:
Argh!
Its me and you naw!
How will a bride wear asebi again?

Really? I no know oh.

Mine was funny. I was never quiet, 4 always coming late, 13 friendly with teachers because i was the social prefect.

Adding to you list...

I and a friend like me will]b] always construct or manufacture nick names for teachers,[/b] before you know it, it is every where and other students dare not mention our names as the originators and guess what, the name dey reign well well.

Looking for other students love letters and diaries and reading out to our classmates so everybody makes jest of the writers but you will never see our own. we know what we do to others, so we don't allow them see ours. we dey hide am ehh so they feel we don't write love letters.

We raise false alarms... like Principal is coming, then you will see everybody adjusting themselves. Infact, myself and my friend came into our class one day and said principal said there is holiday tomorrow and we had informed other classes. The next day came, 40% of day students in my class did not come to school and they blamed it on us. if you see flogg that day wey Principal flogg me and my friend ehhn! body tell us.


...laffff

She is my client and this is the story.

He is 36years of age, still lives with his mum, feels very lazy and scared to do anything for himself to generate income, depends on his mum for virtually everything because she is rich, had never taken any form of responsibility what so ever, yet he wants to marry her.

Can he make a good husband and father considering the fact that he is so so lazy?

Can he give anything whether love, money, take responsibility, just name it considering the fact that he has been on the receiving side from childhood till now?

Can he be romantic enough and be good on bed, considering the fact that he forms to be so churchy and righteous...He spends all his time in the church and other religious gatherings.

More so she does not love him or even have an atom of feeling for him, but he said "The Holy Spirit Ministered to him, that she is his wife"

What should she do?

For references, feed backs and supervisory purpose, please follow this account, before or after your contribution. Thanks people.

Such a great day, people!

My friend's sis is actually, changed her mind over the whole thing, and the man in question has calmed down.

I think things are falling into shape now. thanks for your contributions people, both the bad ones too.

HrtBrkSteve:
Not bad at all, guess u too?

Yea!!! Sure am doing great.

vfactor:
No wahala. Thanks. We go fix u somewhere. Make I first find wife, then we can talk business.

Laff wan kill me. oh, so you never even get wife, na em we dey kill our head for nothing, ah! you funny shaaa!!!!

Thanks all the same.

NinoBrown888:
*smiles* including bachelor's night eve.

You no get shaking.

Jossyroyal1:
color riot

Laffs!!! you are not serious walahi. so funny.

casket:
Our traditional wedding was Royal blue and white while Church own was Aqua mint green with sunflower yellow...

Wow, those colours sound brilliant but make i no lie oh, i no know which one be aqua mint and green sunflower.

Ahh! na me look for trouble oh go open this thread, if you hear the kind of colours wey i dey hear for here, you go just dey wonder whether na God create all these colours abi na human being just name them.

Thanks madam for your comment. nice day ahead ma'am

vfactor:
That will look and sound more suspicious o. She'll say I am paying in kind, not cash. cos nothing goes for nothing ooo.

In that case, i rest my matters here, make i no come put sunder for your marriage abeg oh

yuzjet:
Well, if u insist about doing Asoebi for me. My combination will surely be white with a slight pink pattern.


How do u see that?


Enjoy ur Friday too!

Ahhhh!!! That combo gel die. i will look so colourful on that day not to talk of you, you will look take home.

ochland:
Yea. Mayb u gonna be on ur white also dt day holdin my and walkin towards d alter

I comment my reserve no be reserve my comment.

NinoBrown888:
Mhm will leave that to My Event planner (intend to marry a Whitelady)

Are you serious!!! that's nice oh! Abeg contract me for your make up na and that of your wife, We offer one of the best services you can think of.
Wedding planer thing is also a great idea.