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vivaciousvivi:
Bro, even though you have digressed from my point of view...kindly read his write-up again "with an open mind". He clearly took sides with the Male gender biko. Shikena!

lol
Sis, ain't gonna fall for that.
Anyway, I like ur sense of humour. Shikena!

vivaciousvivi:
Ihedinobi2 , I am sorry but I am not very sure where your argument is leading. Are you annoyed that ladies friendzone "nice guys" or are you against friendzoning in general especially if you guys feel it's because the lady in question is falling / has fallen for a typical "bad guy"?
Must every lady a guy is interested in, agree to date you guys by force? If she isn't interested in a romantic relationship but chooses (for whatever reason) to keep a cordial friendship with the guy, is that now wrong?!
Also note that some of us girls prefer full disclosure at the very start and let the guy know that we may like too be friends first and see where it leads thereafter. Whats wrong with that

Pls re-read with open mind to get his drift. He openly expressed his thought on NL most write about topic without taken sides rather doing the needful both for the 'zoner' and the 'zoned'. Shikena.

yhomz093:
How do you guys type lengthy words without getting tired??

When you have lots of ideas flowing, bottling it up will make u sick.

@op, are you sure you had not been slutty towards ur bf's boss enough to have the audacity to approach u? Or have u in anyway showed this to ur said bf that u can't be trusted?

What kind of relationship exists btw both(bf n boss) I find this disturbing for sm1 who professes love.

Am more concerned abt what caused this than what you should do to the bf. Check yourself and if u r clean, then your bf is all for the money. You should stop seeing him.

christopher123:
Dude

Love is not enough for marriage cos there is notin like true love

Compatibility and attributes are the main thing

Wake up

@op, listen to this Word of Wisdom.

iceberylin:
[size=20pt]ţђęşę wђoŗęş ŗęālly āįŋţ loyāl [/size]

Pls, how do u mean?

rokiatu:
cc Dygeasy

Thanks, have corrected myself.

djeezy:
pls vote this way. I vote for kulboy cc dygeasy. Thanks

Thank you. Done

I vote kulboy

Cc dygeasy

Time to vote. Too stingy with vote
Kulboy, u r hot. I vote for you. Cheers

Rest in peace Chaz B. You will fondly be missed.

Thank you aisha2 for being harsh. The lady is just pissing me off. You can imagine hw she speaks of a man who she isn't married to as her husband.

Your reasoning is wack or u r too emotionally intelligent.

Why should your mother care for u and your baby? Is it her right? Wake up lady and find something to do. When you travelled to SA, did u know their system outright? So stop the excuse.

Look around you and start doing what you were doing in SA. If you want respect, don't be an extra burden on your mother n siblings who are also trying to survive.

Not expensive jare. At least you won't spend more than 500k. I have a fren from Ebonyi, her traditional wedding was 500k and the whole tin cost 2m. Make God bless u jor. Igbo girls rock o but na money go do am.

thorpido:
Does your aunty have a spiritual husband too that tells her to take the beating?Does she have to stay there?She should find a way to move out first and have her peace until the man's spiritual wife leaves.

Lol@spiritual husband. Laugh don kill me. Better still,let the wife tell her spirit husband to help chop the beating.

On a serious note, why are u taking panadol for your aunt? Can't she do the needful? The best and only option is to leave.

The truth is men are territorial in nature,even this is seen in animals. This affects the male when they lose their precious asset(in this case the female). It is all about ego.

When you see a lady who exhibits exclusivity, she has the spirit or the male mentality in her in this regard.

The act of SEX is itself a process for a lady which involves lot of cuddling, sweet talking, display n patience; all these considered make the male ego bruised when he learns his partner has cheated.

It seems you are a lady going by your comments. If you are not, then you are not man enough.

He hates u, so what are you still doing with him.
He doesn't pay your school fees, why are you working for him. Money is powerful,since he is not the one giving you, you are free as a bird.

Tell him you need to concentrate on your studies n don't ever ask him for help. God will guide u right. No time for emotional blackmail o,no time. Cheers

It is sad and shameful on their parts. If she ever speaks, the man may forgive her but that child will hurt the man' psyche n remind him of his wife stupidity. Trust will be a problem whenever they disagree again.

In short, it is complex n I can deduce many possible outcomes of spilling the beans.

@op, shame no catch u? The shallowness of some threads has hibernated me for awhile.

I vote for Vivly
;I really love ur definition of what beauty is. Go lady!

Congratulations Vivly. I said it n here u are in the final.
I have never failed abt my choice.
Wishing you all the best. Cheers!

Okay, next

I cast my vote for Vivly. Cheers!

@ Op, your thread is too wack with no strong counter points; can't even stand for a good debate.

He wrote with experience while yours was 'copy and paste'.
God knows I cherish originality.

Anyway, well done for this and I hope people who ain't chicken-hearted will discard killjoy's thread cos is too damaging yet the reality in some cases.
Life is about choice,choose wisely. That is why I am attracted beyond the beauty.

I vote vivly

Tipiflexy:
Hmmmmmm!I wish to c ha write in order to confirm everything u just said.Anyway we sha consider ha in d next round.Sooner or later dummies sha b seperated from classic ones.

Thank you.

Front page o! Damn! You don kill marriage proposals o. Your assertions r bitter truth but pessimistic. This generation of women are evolving o albeit some are cancerous.

Marrying a fren is the best for a long time n beneficial relationship.

iyabodeh:
friend? I don't make friends jor. I'm not a good friend but I can be your gulity conscience though.

Good morning everyone!!!

And smartigo, nice choice. how about cream to that chocolate though. It's a cold cold morning.

#teamjustsaying#

Thank you. Hmmm...... ok

Idowuogbo:
who you rooting for,smart one?

Vivly of course.

Tipiflexy:
Give us some reasonable reasons y u think she deserve d crown

To be honest with you, I don't know her until this contest started and I took the pain to go through all the contestants,imagine that! Lol.

She stood out not only on beauty since others are too, but by her comments, activities and threads. Her political tendency is also rare and only few ladies who are bold, intelligent n humane tread such path.

We want Miss Nairaland to possess these traits and bliv me, I have an eyes for champions.

Idowuogbo:
Lwkmd! Ire ti sign.

I hail idowugbo. I know we always choose the same tin. Bliv me I know. So, dont dilly-dally on it o

Wow, missed out yesterday on the fun. Anyway,hope is still high.
Am too exclusive n right abt my choice.
No one wears the crown than her. Why share her votes.
I root only for Vivly. Use your votes wisely guys.

YungwizzzyPt7:
[size=40pt]Humility!![/size]

How can driving your car = humility? I don't get it. After how many years in office? Abeg, find another thing joor.


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