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this guys they make me laugh, let me confess something to ya now, everybody likes gurls so why my own con bi diff case huh i got zero love life take it or leave it i won't tell you the rest,

gigitte:
lol smartsoft did she tell you she didnt like sex?
shes too young to be even be considering that

so yeah just give her time, wait for her, its too much too soon

i didn't bug her for sex in the first place, she was just telling me what she don't want, she said why she likes his EX BF is cos the guy aren't consious of sex and they dated 2years before the guy messed up

She's still a virgin and she told me a sad story how different guys who claims to be good how they pretend about 5 wants to rape her not at the same time ooo, just different guys, which she got has a friend when most of them toast her, she turns them down instead they will insist in raping her cos she turns them down one by one, the last one that was about having his way in couldn't cos of his younger one and she vowed not to go near them again, she told me all this but now she is scared, she don't want same thing to happen to her thats why is playing hard to get and mind you they are christian and all are sister's are pure Virgin,

I'm always happy when i'm with her

Well guys to be closer to him or be spritual to him, you just need to tell God to show you the purpose of your life, why you are created, you know what we are created to recreat our self just talk to God to show you the purpose of your life, why you are created, your gift. i just learnt that whatever you do for God in his vineyard, that is what God will look at and bless thee.

I urge you to read PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE BE WHAT GOD WANTS YOU TO BE belive me after reading BE WHAT GOD WANTS YOU TO BE, i could remember then it was after 12am in the morning and i pray before i slept God show me the purpose of my life,my gift, infact i couldn't belive what i dreamt exactly what i prayed and i discoverd why i was created.

Belive why can't you try it sleep and set your Phone Alarm to wake you up around 12-1am in the morning and pray to God for 20mins to show you the purpose of your life,your gift, be serious and really mean what you praying, you will see what God will do, Expect God is not there on the throne and get back to me and tell me i'm a liar,
send me mail uc_smartsoft@yahoo.com if confirmed,

Now as i'm typing i know why i'm been created, and what i'm here to do on earth.

good question

laughs,

pls guys i need critics to this site pls, before the owner gives me more information to put on those empty links though aren't functioning, http://www.telemaths.com

larger man pls let me have your Yahoo IM plssssssssssssssssssssssss

Nosu:
@seun - thanks for your reply.
@smartsoft - if u really love her u will protect her, cultivate her and wait for her. love is never in a haste to get want she want, she always want to give her assistance and care to others. So take care, and give her time , let her be herself.

Yap ! thats a big word from you, man bravo

i called her today and she was like i miss you badly lol we didn't see for 3days,  but she will be travelling for good 4months,  PH later December she will be coming back i just can't do without her despite the fact we don't talk about sex issues because both of us boned it,  i just discoverd notting like sex,cuddle, or kiss notting like that runs through my mind, because of this i loved her more more more, but how do i save this ?? sometimes i feel like seeing her everyday,beside me,infront of me, to an extent she told me to limit my coming to see her because of her sister's because of much familiarity, Seun can't you see is kind of matured huh ? please you guys should tell me what to do oooooooooooo

Txlonghorn:
@smartsoft,

Abeg leave the girl alone, the girl is only 17 for crying out loud,I don't know what our Nigerian society is turning into, at 17 all she need to be worrying about is going to a good University not some dude who thinks is in love with her. If I be the girl papa if I catch you around my daughter, only God knows what I'll do to you.

nah wah oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Teezy:
U just need to give her a lil space. Make her realize dt she needs u, if she really does feel for u she'll let u know at her own time.

Thanks for your suggestion

Busta:
maybe u're being a little too forward. She's still young anyways, give her time, Let her miss u, don't call her, U'll know if she really loves u if she starts asking after u.

i taught as much oooo

my aim is not sex i don't want her for sex i love her for who she is, beside she is matured ooo forget that thing wey u they talk oooo, you really need to see her talk to you in person serious belive me the way she does her thing is kinda unique.

Hello guys i'm kind of confused about my social life oo because i don tirer now i met someone kind of new lets say she's about 17yrs though and she's the type of girl that when she talks, the way she reason, and the way she feel about life, is something to tell you that this girl is martured despite the age,  met her and we started.


She's someone that don't like sex which is something i don't want to bug her with because relationship is not all about pleasure e.t.c Now i'm falling in love,  i'm been caring to her and nice,  but we not dating ourself, when i confess how i feel to her she says thank you, i know you have feelings for me. i told her i want to go out with her she says know or sometimes keep quite. each time i tell i do love her or care about her,she says she knows that i do and sometimes on the phone she says take care of yourself for me i care about you.

Now i'm i too forward, or what is really going wrong ?? all her sister's knows i'm really intrested in her so what is wrong why is she rejecting me ?? sometimes she tells me to get something for her when coming to see her,  now there is a youth programe they want to do in church, she wants me to get the shirt they ask to buy for the youth convention,  but i ask myself we aren't dating, but she keep asking me to get the shirt for her,

oh before i forget she introduce me to her friends,mum,sisters, as a friend,  i'm confuse i like her, i love her, i'm proud of her, i want her,  what should i do or what is she trying to do,

oh thank God you need help this time, haha my2cents your friend need ya help dis tyme around oooo

awwwwwwwwwwwwww what a pity in one o my post i say timmy the way u talk sometimes will put your ass into trouble, learn to advice someone and not judge the book by it's cover, i don't likw that man, you know will know each other well just try to encourage someone and not condeming the person totally very bad man,

seun are u a software developer ?

well u guys are just mentioning Attraction, Infatuation, love, okay can someone here tell us what infatuation means and what love means, then we can now say which should come first,

well i support ya, you telling us some kinda company needs candidate and you didn't drop the company's name or postal address how would will know this is true or not, pls do back up your claims

doug, read what i wrote what brought the issue of the independent man thanks

timmy:
not impressive, to my personal standars, do somting far much better, that design wont make the site grow beyond the demo stage it is , (just my personal verdict, no hard fellings)

timmy no hard feelings at all, but i will lyke to point out somthing here the way u view your kind of point really sucks for me sometimes,  don't you know the way you talk some times could get someone hurt huh ?

thanks largerman that is a good homepage you got there, and timmy no think anything ooo u no say we be friends, but just got to express ma self 2 ya, sometimes i ask ya how you feel about somethings but this same way you responded above, thats how you do respond to me sometimes, even though aren't web stuff some times

i'm throwing this to my people in nairaland, WEB DEVELOPMENT AND SOFTWARE DEVELOPMENT, which is more lucrative ? because i faced a challenge after visiting METAL HOUSE ogba, where i met a software architect who is old enough to be my father, infact i gained alot from him and he was kind of advicing me to dump Web development because he found that their aren't money in it, so i said i'm going to throw it to the house, because i do really believe that no matter what you doing on IT, and you kind of focus on what you doing, you going to make it, i know why the very man was yarning because he don't really design website or make dynamic website, i know of a man who does website like beginers and he charged his client N300k, that is the lowest he charge.

Why Software you can develop a software that will take 8months or even more than, and at the end of the whole day you woun't get what the company really want the software to do for them,

Why Web Development, you can design a perfect website design in a day or (TWO)2, And a dynamic website that won't take you for a month or so and get paid N500k for "crying out loud" people out there charge 1 million for a website so what do you think guys?

rock, this i have already sir,

awwwwwwwwwwwwwww wao thanks to you lagerman,  i really appreciate this kind of help infact someone who will see yours will be diffinetly convince to do his/her company website,  and mind you my proposal was really prepared well, and well binded but i never included a demo because it was our first time and i really know if the Chairman sees the Proposal that very day, he would have giving me go ahead.

And Mr. Afam, thanks to yours too  what u said is really right, you get jobs from other referrals because people will refer people to you,  the last job was from a referral sha.

Thanks one again.

Lager man please can you give me your Yahoo IM i would like to chat with yah please,  my yahoo Id is "php_guy_uche" thats my ID please,  please,  please,  i want to chat with ya,

And i was thinking my next tyme is to go there with a demo website, and get the graphic designer to get me their hotel pictures,

eniola this is php_guy_uche

i prefer to be my own boss, but u got to learn the techniques on how da business you into works well if not, men 4get it

wetinbe i wanna advertise

Youth development Center own by Winner's itself

thnks bro, well if they do bro, they got question to answer from God if any one copies it, but i don't Naira Members can do such thing sha,

Panache, are we having a deal huh ? if yes mail me to info@smartsoft-ng.com

i want to advertise.!

diyow Are you a website designer

Eniola where ud ey all this while now me i no dey see u online again oooo

onydchic:
@. no offence but
SERIOUSLY. you're tryin to say a PICTURE cost u $70?! when there r so many free stock sites out there? or do u just randomly attach prices to your pictures to give the site more value? and i'm goin to believe you're really just makin an example wit those figures, & u've never charged for 5 hrs to MODIFY a pic.

hahahah you cracking my ribs, sweetie